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Have you ever meet somebody without a photo
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We feel like the connection has to be a little more than just be attracted to our meets, ideally already having our minds engaged by our potential meets so although we wouldn’t say looks are unimportant but definitely not top of our list x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Back in the day before Fab, it was an add in Loot or Friday Ads, no pics, but always a phone call.
When you met in a Pub, you ended up smiling at a lot of strange people.
Never was disappointed, less time waters Ind a higher hit rate back then, but I was younger too! |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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without face foto yes... it was the womans idea, she didn't want to see my face either, i went around door open and let myself in were she was waiting. she had her face covered i gave her oral and fucked her, was one of my very 1st experiences off here many years ago, but i must admit one of the best too  |
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Yes but in the days before there was no excuse not to have a recent digital photo of yourself ie before everyone had digital cameras and camera phones! I used to be really active on this forum most of the other users were from the US, Canada and Australia. I was only I
UK members and at the time I lived in London and had a pretty open invitation for people to come stay with me. Funnily enough despite the fact hardly anyone had a picture of themselves, on only one occasion was there any really blatant catfishing going in ie someone who told everybody they were famous catwalk model but they looked like they'd just lost a fight with a cat. |
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over a year ago
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Yes, and many calls and personality checks later(around a month), we met and it went well. A second meet was arranged and it was explosive in the sexual variety.
Would I do it again ? ... |
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I’ve met people on a different site where I’ve been undecided on the attraction after a pic swap but been talking into a social anyway. Never again, it’s a jingle in my pants reaction on seeing a face pic or it goes no further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, and many calls and personality checks later(around a month), we met and it went well. A second meet was arranged and it was explosive in the sexual variety.
Would I do it again ? ..."
Maybe not, that was in the days when ASL was was the icebreaker
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No.
But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo 
Rookie mistake! "
Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"
I insist on video calls now.
I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them.... |
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Something exciting about the unknown but only if it turns out well  I love the excitement when you click with somebody new or see a picture and you instantly what more. Obviously I still get this feeling with Jack |
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"No.
But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo
Rookie mistake!
Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"
I insist on video calls now.
I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them...."
I ask for face pictures before meeting, but not immediately. Just because there's no face in the first message doesn't mean they don't send one. (whether they're respecting wishes is another matter) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nooooo not a chance. This is where me and 'Mr A' disagree as he doesn't really mind what someone looks like for fucking however I really need to be attracted to someone to want to fuck them especially if there aren't emotions involved. |
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"Yes met loads of people that I’ve never seen a pic of previous to meeting them when attending socials and club nights
When meeting them in person that way you can safely skip the pic formalities "
We do mainly club meets and this works for us too   |
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Yes!  It was for a social with a couple who lived far enough away that they weren't going to be work mates or neighbours. They didn't want to swap face pics and neither did we at that point. We got on well with them over chat so we knew we clicked. Their body pics looked good too.
They were lovely! And really attractive too. We had a great social and met them a few times in a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No.
But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo
Rookie mistake!
Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"
I insist on video calls now.
I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them...."
Seen a few where you thought"so when was that pic taken?" And one who wasn't the person in the pic, but that just lets you know to make your excuses and leave, quickly! |
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"No.
But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo
Rookie mistake!
Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"
I insist on video calls now.
I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them....
Seen a few where you thought"so when was that pic taken?" And one who wasn't the person in the pic, but that just lets you know to make your excuses and leave, quickly!"
I got a picture within the last month where the fading and fashion placed the image squarely in the 80s |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No.
But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo
Rookie mistake!
Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"
I insist on video calls now.
I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them....
Seen a few where you thought"so when was that pic taken?" And one who wasn't the person in the pic, but that just lets you know to make your excuses and leave, quickly!
I got a picture within the last month where the fading and fashion placed the image squarely in the 80s "
I met a guy off here for a social about 8 years ago. He looked at least 10 years older than his pics. I met him in a coffee shop in town and genuinely had no idea who he was when he came over.
He's still on here with the same pics! It's a shame as he was actually rather lovely. I just didn't like the deception. He claimed his pics were recent  |
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"No.
But I've gone to a couple of socials & not met the person I'd seen in a photo
Rookie mistake!
Yep! I've had this too. Sometimes they've aged 20 years since sending me a "recent pic"
I insist on video calls now.
I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Yet the majority of messages just have dick pics attached. Some are well verified so someone must be meeting them....
Seen a few where you thought"so when was that pic taken?" And one who wasn't the person in the pic, but that just lets you know to make your excuses and leave, quickly!
I got a picture within the last month where the fading and fashion placed the image squarely in the 80s
I met a guy off here for a social about 8 years ago. He looked at least 10 years older than his pics. I met him in a coffee shop in town and genuinely had no idea who he was when he came over.
He's still on here with the same pics! It's a shame as he was actually rather lovely. I just didn't like the deception. He claimed his pics were recent "
Oh definitely. I have a very wide age range, and what many don't get is that I judge by the age they claim to be. So a recent photo is really the best bet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once, and very pleasantly surprised. I kind of had an inkling he'd be gorgeous though. "
Too much email tennis gets you nowhere. In my opinion if sex is what you have in mind.
It was in the 'Hello' when we first spoke on phone.
Strange to say but there was a nice buzz driving to the meeting point and to see she was as pretty as I imagined the feeling of 'Yes' I made the right decision |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once, and very pleasantly surprised. I kind of had an inkling he'd be gorgeous though.
Too much email tennis gets you nowhere. In my opinion if sex is what you have in mind.
It was in the 'Hello' when we first spoke on phone.
Strange to say but there was a nice buzz driving to the meeting point and to see she was as pretty as I imagined the feeling of 'Yes' I made the right decision "
Yes I also spoke to him on the phone first and asked him to describe himself. My gut told me there would be mutual attraction and I was right. That was when I first joined though, I have insisted on a face pic ever since |
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Nope, only had one social tho.
I have sent a few messages to women without any pictures as their profile was interesting and I wanted to hear a little more about them but I would like to see a picture before arranging a social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once, and very pleasantly surprised. I kind of had an inkling he'd be gorgeous though.
Too much email tennis gets you nowhere. In my opinion if sex is what you have in mind.
It was in the 'Hello' when we first spoke on phone.
Strange to say but there was a nice buzz driving to the meeting point and to see she was as pretty as I imagined the feeling of 'Yes' I made the right decision
Yes I also spoke to him on the phone first and asked him to describe himself. My gut told me there would be mutual attraction and I was right. That was when I first joined though, I have insisted on a face pic ever since"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, couple of years ago. Well sort of. It didn't go well at all...
No pics on profile, not much of a profile at all really. She messaged first, and was local. We were both up for an impromptu meet, and we eventually sent a photo during messaging. However, her photo wasn't a recent one.
I ended up not feeling all too well, and the night came to a halt which was fine. Unfortunately, she then began stalking me both on Fab and other social media outlets. Absolute nutter. Must have enjoyed herself too much
So yeah, make sure they have photos and haven't escaped from an asylum chaps and chapettes :D |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
Yes I have quite a few times. Most of the time it's good fun, not having a clue who you are meeting. It definitely adds to the excitement.
I've also had great sex with people I might not have met if I had seen a pic. Only a couple of disasters though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. But it was to fulfill a certain fantasy. I haven't since, nor would I. Though the outcome was rather great with that guy, so we met quite a lot afterwards |
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