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Am I missing something?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is there anyone who could give some insight into the numerous couples who have “not looking for single guys” on their profile yet post on the meets pages looking for single guys??

Porque?

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

They may be posting to let guys on their friends list know x

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple over a year ago

South East Wales

They may fancy a change. We have ‘not looking for single guys’ on our profile but now and then we want to look for one, but don’t want the endless messages on a daily basis from men.

Sassy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They may not want to be pestered by single guys, and prefer to find a single man for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So I understand the going out and finding a single guy you like with out getting all the goons messaging you, but why post it somewhere every single guy can see it?

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

I wouldn’t worry to much quite a decent profile, put the same effort into sending messages should be fine on here

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"So I understand the going out and finding a single guy you like with out getting all the goons messaging you, but why post it somewhere every single guy can see it?"

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So I understand the going out and finding a single guy you like with out getting all the goons messaging you, but why post it somewhere every single guy can see it?

Why not? "

Just seems like mixed signals to me, saying you're looking for something you also say you're not looking for. But not too deep, just curious about it more than anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They are the hunter, not the hunted...

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"So I understand the going out and finding a single guy you like with out getting all the goons messaging you, but why post it somewhere every single guy can see it?

Why not?

Just seems like mixed signals to me, saying you're looking for something you also say you're not looking for. But not too deep, just curious about it more than anything"

It's just how they want to do things, I wouldn't even bother wondering why

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"So I understand the going out and finding a single guy you like with out getting all the goons messaging you, but why post it somewhere every single guy can see it?"

If you block guys with your filters, it comes up automatically.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So I understand the going out and finding a single guy you like with out getting all the goons messaging you, but why post it somewhere every single guy can see it?

Why not?

Just seems like mixed signals to me, saying you're looking for something you also say you're not looking for. But not too deep, just curious about it more than anything"

But they are looking when they choose to. They dont fancy a single guy all the time. So would prefer to only have those messages when they are looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why not?

Just seems like mixed signals to me, saying you're looking for something you also say you're not looking for. But not too deep, just curious about it more than anything

It's just how they want to do things, I wouldn't even bother wondering why "

Yea no you're totally right, so silly of me for being inquisitive. After all curiosity killed the cat

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By *en and StimpyCouple over a year ago

Northampton

You open up a couples profile, open to single guys, then when you are done beating your head against your desk at the stupidity of 99% of the messages you recieve......... then get back to us, cause you understand the score.

Capisce??

Single guys on here, are mostly dicks.

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By *umKinkwithUsCouple over a year ago

Camberley

"So I understand the going out and finding a single guy you like with out getting all the goons messaging you, but why post it somewhere every single guy can see it?"

They may have message filters on to block messages from single guys so put that on their profile so guys don't get upset if they message and get no reply.

By putting a post on a forum they can scan through the forum replies without getting their inbox full. If they then like a guy who replies in forum they can chose to message that one guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They get swamped with messages so prefer to look for them when they want to meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You open up a couples profile, open to single guys, then when you are done beating your head against your desk at the stupidity of 99% of the messages you recieve......... then get back to us, cause you understand the score.

Capisce??

Single guys on here, are mostly dicks. "

I would never ever try to disagree haha

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Why not?

Just seems like mixed signals to me, saying you're looking for something you also say you're not looking for. But not too deep, just curious about it more than anything

It's just how they want to do things, I wouldn't even bother wondering why

Yea no you're totally right, so silly of me for being inquisitive. After all curiosity killed the cat

I just think there's probably better things you could do with your time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why not?

Just seems like mixed signals to me, saying you're looking for something you also say you're not looking for. But not too deep, just curious about it more than anything

It's just how they want to do things, I wouldn't even bother wondering why

Yea no you're totally right, so silly of me for being inquisitive. After all curiosity killed the cat

I just think there's probably better things you could do with your time."

Any suggestions?

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Why not?

Just seems like mixed signals to me, saying you're looking for something you also say you're not looking for. But not too deep, just curious about it more than anything

It's just how they want to do things, I wouldn't even bother wondering why

Yea no you're totally right, so silly of me for being inquisitive. After all curiosity killed the cat

I just think there's probably better things you could do with your time.

Any suggestions?"

Monopoly? Chess? Masturbating furiously?

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By *en and StimpyCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Why not?

Just seems like mixed signals to me, saying you're looking for something you also say you're not looking for. But not too deep, just curious about it more than anything

It's just how they want to do things, I wouldn't even bother wondering why

Yea no you're totally right, so silly of me for being inquisitive. After all curiosity killed the cat

I just think there's probably better things you could do with your time.

Any suggestions?"

Get to clubs, or Fab socials. If no pub socials in your area, set one up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People don't make the effort to put Not looking for single men. The site adds it automatically when you block single men from messaging. They don't do that for any other kind of profile.

I'm only looking for single men, but as I don't want lots of messages in my inbox I have them blocked for now.

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By *inkycreamCouple over a year ago

manchester

"They are the hunter, not the hunted..."

Yes it’s hunter gatherer in reverse. You’re not down the pub flashing your baby blues. Your the majority were the minority choose and there very picky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why not?

Just seems like mixed signals to me, saying you're looking for something you also say you're not looking for. But not too deep, just curious about it more than anything

It's just how they want to do things, I wouldn't even bother wondering why

Yea no you're totally right, so silly of me for being inquisitive. After all curiosity killed the cat

I just think there's probably better things you could do with your time.

Any suggestions?

Monopoly? Chess? Masturbating furiously? "

so turns out I'm quite shit at chess, who knew

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Why not?

Just seems like mixed signals to me, saying you're looking for something you also say you're not looking for. But not too deep, just curious about it more than anything

It's just how they want to do things, I wouldn't even bother wondering why

Yea no you're totally right, so silly of me for being inquisitive. After all curiosity killed the cat

I just think there's probably better things you could do with your time.

Any suggestions?

Monopoly? Chess? Masturbating furiously?

so turns out I'm quite shit at chess, who knew

Crap, what about cluedo?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I just think there's probably better things you could do with your time.

Any suggestions?

Monopoly? Chess? Masturbating furiously?