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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? |
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well as quite a new couple ourselves I would disagree that we don't want to know about single or married men.
For my part I would say your first problem is that you're set up on a single account without a reference to your wife's account if she has one . . perhaps set up a couple account as well so people can verify that your wife knows you play separately.
At the moment we only have your word that your wife is ok with
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? "
Start a couples profile and say you meet separately, offer for women to talk to your wife so they know she exists |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? "
We don't knowingly meet married men
To much potential drama,
And Im sure you can understand not all men are being completely honest on here.
Not judging just saying.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the guy is honest about being married then him being married isn't an issue,it's the lies that are the issue"
Not sure if being honest has helps me at all, usual response is I don’t meet married men, yet there are a load of married women out there doing exactly the same and nobody bats an eyelid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do have a couple page ad well xx
I would reference that couple's profile. It may help people believe you are playing with permission
Holly"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your one guy in 1000's it's a numbers game, usually nothing personal. We also meet seperately as well as together with both singles and a couple profile. My single profile gets the smallest hits then us then the wonderful Mrs. It's just fab. Mr |
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In the same way that many men love playing with married women - and especially those with an unaware husband - there are women and couples who will play with married men...
....they are, however, much fewer in number than those who won't - whilst even rarer are those for whom playing with a married man with an unaware wife is not only not an issue, but actually part of the thrill... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile says no married men - but my fwb is married - but honest. It's the LIES that bother me. And the potential dramatic repercussions. I've had a wife catch her husband out in the past, (according to him she knew!!) resulting in me getting abusive texts and threats. There is a real life off Fab and I don't want it affected by angry wives! |
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Should it make a difference what the other persons marital status is, if there’s an attraction there and you are 2 consenting adults get on with it, verify each other if you’re into that thing and worry about your own morals not theirs.
Not once have I asked a lady if she’s in a relationship on here it’s non of my business, I’m here for the same reasons as everyone else Good Safe Sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I'd get your wife to verify you from either your couples account or her singles account if she has one, stating what the situation is.
That way people are much more in the know, plus you'll have a veri on your profile. Many fab users won't meet those unverified in person, so as such would just dismiss your profile out of hand without seeing one.
Other than that there is the oft-mentioned numbers game of course!
Good luck. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not finding anything for bbwckick. You spelt that correctly, op?"
Maybe a spelling mistake?
I tried .... bbwchick .... that person lives on the other side of the country, is married but partner doesn’t know ...... something not quite making sense in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? "
People like what they like its all about choice and you can't make them want to meet you. Everyone has reasons so respect their reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's always unfairly biased against men who cheat, women who do it seem to get less grief some are even respected lying is a basic problem with cheating, you aren't cheating you are here with your partners permission I don't see the problem for you but playing as a single guy then gives you the problems of the single guy |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Not all of us want to meet married or attached men, permission or not. Nothing in it as far as progression goes for me, I'm totally single with no ties. Why would I want to have to work around someone else's wife and/or kids? |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Sorry its bbw ckick xxx"
That's better.
Definitely getting her to veri you and saying she approves will help your cause, maybe reference the couples profile too. Always best to inform the reader than let them come to their own conclusions which can be to your detriment as you're finding out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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which ever way you look at it the OP will not win everyone over - my FB and I payed as a couple, we had our singles profile names shown on each profiles, we had loads of verifications as a couple and yet we still got lots of hassle - so to that OP, you just have to grin and bear it fella unless that sexy looking wife of yours drops by -  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is a very hypocritical place.Im honest about me cheating.Yet I get messages off people calling me a slut and a disgrace.I also get messages saying they will find where I live and tell my hubby if I don't meet them for sex.Some if those messages and threats have been off married men or men in couples profiles and there wife doesn't know.Who gives a fuck what others get up 2.Stay focused on your own shit before you judge other people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its not cheating if hubby and wife are part of a swinging reletionship and both have each others consent. And both enjoy it. We have no secrets xxxx and its great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not cheating if hubby and wife are part of a swinging reletionship and both have each others consent. And both enjoy it. We have no secrets xxxx and its great. "
As has been said, put the name of your couples/wife's profile in your bio plus get her to verify you saying she knows! Problem solved! Then you are obviously not cheating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok i am not by anymeans desparte my wife does fully no why i am on the site. And just because there arnt any verifations for me doesnt say that i havent had some fun on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence"
Ouch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence
Ouch!"
Very harsh wasnt it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence
Ouch!
Very harsh wasnt it lol"
Its their lives and their drama. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no problems meeting married men... afterall I'm not the one who's made the commitment.
Your profile is badly written and doesn't entice me, so maybe look at other well verified guys on fab to get a few pointers on pictures and profile text.
Also maybe consider going to a club and getting more vertifications.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence"
That's really spiteful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence
That's really spiteful "
I agree, i would be very wary of anyone whos willing to expose people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married men.Like the guy that contacted me on a couples profile and sent a face pic.I recognised him as he drops his wife off at our salon.I told him I know his face a he imeditatly made threats if I told his wife he was on here.I said what your doing is wrong.He then started begging me not to tell her.He still doesn't know who I am as I didn't send a face pic back and I won't say a thing to her but it's wrong what he's doing and it makes it slightly awkward as I do her hair and she's a lovely lady to talk too x |
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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago
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Jesus people, look at the pish your spouting!!!
Does it really matter who does what and where with whom as long as no one is being hurt?
Too many people have too much time on there hands, this is no place for the moral police... or any other racist, homophobic or other twisted feelings. If you don’t agree move on, live and let live, share the good times.
It’s a swingers site, it’s a place for fun!!!!!
So I thought anyway!!!  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Swinging is generally a couples sport, something missing from the table doesn’t help "
How would that work with threesomes without us singles then? Would you borrow someone's wife or husband for the occasion? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence"
If you read his posts, both him and his wife play separately as well. Where did anyone or the OP state he was cheating. That's just plain nasty. I'm assuming you'd be happy for someone to do this with either of you too if either of you ever cheated on each other? Nobody is ever perfect and you could well find yourself in their shoes in the future. Don't hurt yourself falling of that high horse, will you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah...totally agree...why come on here say you will meet men then block all males ???
If you use reply and quote we know who you are replying to. X"
I havent |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence"
And thats why some couples get such a bad reputation.. they spoil it for all the good ones.  |
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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence"
Try reading his posts before you go all self-righteous
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeah...totally agree...why come on here say you will meet men then block all males ???
If you use reply and quote we know who you are replying to. X
I havent "
Not you, I meant this guy, Horny bastard lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not spiteful it's exposing yet another cheat we don't tolerate it at all and yes that's our choice and if you choose to cheat you should be able to accept the consequences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Murderers get exposed thieves get exposed pedophile gets exposed all these affect a family's and destroys family's and so do cheaters so yes they need to be exposed |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Not been aggressive your just reading it aggressively"
No, I'm perfectly calm. Changing the subject completely, how does Mrs get her eyeliner so straight with the winged bits in your pics and which mascara does she use? I need to get a new one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not been aggressive your just reading it aggressively
No, I'm perfectly calm. Changing the subject completely, how does Mrs get her eyeliner so straight with the winged bits in your pics and which mascara does she use? I need to get a new one. "
I think it's snapchat or a filter. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Not been aggressive your just reading it aggressively
No, I'm perfectly calm. Changing the subject completely, how does Mrs get her eyeliner so straight with the winged bits in your pics and which mascara does she use? I need to get a new one.
I think it's snapchat or a filter. "
Ahh, OK beat I keep looking then, thanks. Didn't realise you could get filters to do that, I don't use them unless it's crop or something like b/w. |
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"If the guy is honest about being married then him being married isn't an issue,it's the lies that are the issue"
i was going to say something on the same lines. its a swinging and sex contact site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No it's not we just don't tolerate cheaters end of story i am not a cheater you just dont get it do? OMG "
ps if you read what i oringally said wife nows and supports me !!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No it's not we just don't tolerate cheaters end of story i am not a cheater you just dont get it do? OMG ps if you read what i oringally said wife nows and supports me !!!!"
why do i get the impreesion your coments are amiad at me ?
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"Murderers get exposed thieves get exposed pedophile gets exposed all these affect a family's and destroys family's and so do cheaters so yes they need to be exposed"
There’s many people (not on here obviously) that would put swingers in the same bracket or label them as perverts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never said you cheat I said if you read I said you soon like your moaning about not meeting it sounds desperate I mentioned that men lie constantly to get there dick wet and we said we don't tolerate cheaters if you are that desperate I suggest you get more verifies and do it as a couple considering you have her permission so that women and couples can talk to her and you so it's all legitimate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your back"
whatch this space she will later.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your backwhatch this space she will later. you don’t have to prove anything fella. "
thankyou very much xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And that's why you have been on over a year with one verification we wouldn't touch any men that cheats and if we found out he did lie and cheat we would find your wife and let her know with all the evidence
Ouch!"
double ouch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your backwhatch this space she will later. you don’t have to prove anything fella. thankyou very much xxxx"
you dont have to no but it would substantiate what you've said wouldn't it........ Job done |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? "
The answer is simple. Go to a club.
There are many couples and women like me who get a thrill out of anonymous sex, and when we play in a club we aren't particularly interested in finding out about your private life. As long as you're clean, polite and show respect there will be plenty who are happy and willing to play irrespective of your marital status. |
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun???
The answer is simple. Go to a club.
There are many couples and women like me who get a thrill out of anonymous sex, and when we play in a club we aren't particularly interested in finding out about your private life. As long as you're clean, polite and show respect there will be plenty who are happy and willing to play irrespective of your marital status."
See that’s more constructive. |
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun???
The answer is simple. Go to a club.
There are many couples and women like me who get a thrill out of anonymous sex, and when we play in a club we aren't particularly interested in finding out about your private life. As long as you're clean, polite and show respect there will be plenty who are happy and willing to play irrespective of your marital status."
This is why we like clubs too   |
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun??? "
Ignoring the (inevitable) “we hate cheaters” digression, OP; your profile could do with sprucing up somewhat. It currently reads like English isn’t your first language |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun???
Ignoring the (inevitable) “we hate cheaters” digression, OP; your profile could do with sprucing up somewhat. It currently reads like English isn’t your first language "
I did say about the profile near the top of the thread but turned into a witch hunt of "cheating men" |
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your backwhatch this space she will later. you don’t have to prove anything fella. thankyou very much xxxx"
Tony, couples even if they play apart should talk through a couples profile it shows both can read and there's less chance of secrets there for less chance of others thinking your cheating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging is generally a couples sport, something missing from the table doesn’t help
How would that work with threesomes without us singles then? Would you borrow someone's wife or husband for the occasion? "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Why is it that married like me are on here wanting to find a lady or couple to play with and nobody wants to no. May i add that my wife fully nows and plays her self with other men. Why cant people take me seriosly and just have some nsa fun???
Ignoring the (inevitable) “we hate cheaters” digression, OP; your profile could do with sprucing up somewhat. It currently reads like English isn’t your first language
I did say about the profile near the top of the thread but turned into a witch hunt of "cheating men" "
I felt that was very unfair to the OP. Had nothing to do with his OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Ops not cheating he's part of a couple his wife or partner let's him shag who he wants and visa versa and if your partner is pretty can I perhaps be thought of, I've got your back Op wink wink |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"The Ops not cheating he's part of a couple his wife or partner let's him shag who he wants and visa versa and if your partner is pretty can I perhaps be thought of, I've got your back Op wink wink "
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"Just noticed if your wife knows and is on here here self how come she has not posted in this form to have your backwhatch this space she will later. you don’t have to prove anything fella. thankyou very much xxxx Tony, couples even if they play apart should talk through a couples profile it shows both can read and there's less chance of secrets there for less chance of others thinking your cheating"
That would be a logistical nightmare when both parties are looking for totally different things. It also doesn't prove anything as anyone can set up a couples profile. I personally know a woman who's ex is continuing to use their old couples profile without her. If someone wants to talk to my partner, I'm happy to arrange that. Surely it's also more obvious it's legit to see an active singles profile for the other partner than a couples profile as it would be hell of a lot of effort to create a whole fake partners account with verifications, statuses and pictures posted over time. It would be easier just to pretend to be single if you were that intent on being dishonest. |
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