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Again I dunno, am I just moaning?!? Guess a bad run of comments will do that | |||
No idea what pics you liked as nothing popped. But thank you anyway. | |||
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Again I dunno, am I just moaning?!? Guess a bad run of comments will do that "Yes I find it seems to go in batches, I don't get a shitty message for ages the 6 come along at once. I think it also depends what mood your in, often it doesn't bother me in the slightest but if iv had a shitty day I'm more likely to take it personally. Chin up chicken.  | |||
Straight guys in general tend to be a bit more reserved and talking to them seems to put them off lol | |||
"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit "The message responses you have written aren’t truly horrid. Perfectly acceptable rejection messages, try being grateful for getting one and use it as insight as to why people don’t like you/your profile. Your frustrations might have something to do with your profile stating you’re straight, and by your own admission, your verifications stating otherwise. Just because the label that’s used to describe what you are, doesn’t appeal to you, it is what’s used pretty much globally, and is politically correct (for now anyway) to describe who you are. It doesn’t give you the right to lambast people in a forum who are straight, for calling you out for being bi, when you advertise straight, but admit you’re not and then claim that their perfectly legitimate replies are ‘truly horrid’ because they won’t meet with you because you’re bi’. Not quite sure just who you think you are, but false advertising is false advertising, and no amount of mental pre-conditioning in an attempt to tell yourself your straight, will work. Ps: touching same sex genitalia for sexual pleasure/gratification whilst also giving a nod not to the opposite sex, is bisexual, and not just being ‘a horny fucker as you say’. | |||
"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit
The message responses you have written aren’t truly horrid. Perfectly acceptable rejection messages, try being grateful for getting one and use it as insight as to why people don’t like you/your profile. Your frustrations might have something to do with your profile stating you’re straight, and by your own admission, your verifications stating otherwise. Just because the label that’s used to describe what you are, doesn’t appeal to you, it is what’s used pretty much globally, and is politically correct (for now anyway) to describe who you are. It doesn’t give you the right to lambast people in a forum who are straight, for calling you out for being bi, when you advertise straight, but admit you’re not and then claim that their perfectly legitimate replies are ‘truly horrid’ because they won’t meet with you because you’re bi’. Not quite sure just who you think you are, but false advertising is false advertising, and no amount of mental pre-conditioning in an attempt to tell yourself your straight, will work.
Ps: touching same sex genitalia for sexual pleasure/gratification whilst also giving a nod not to the opposite sex, is bisexual, and not just being ‘a horny fucker as you say’."Wow, that is all rather unnecessary. | |||
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" I found (from past profiles) that "straight" on fab is mostly a lie when it comes to men. At least bi guys are being honest." This is well known. That's why you see people say/ask "Straight or Fab Straight" | |||
"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit "don't tolerate crap delete and block or report, this place has a totally different meaning and usage for everyone that's here, just do what makes you feel good, if people you chat to don't like that, then they are not for you move on. If it's fun do it when it ceases to be get out  | |||
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" I found (from past profiles) that "straight" on fab is mostly a lie when it comes to men. At least bi guys are being honest. This is well known. That's why you see people say/ask "Straight or Fab Straight" "I just put bi anyway even though I much prefer women | |||
"Wow, that is all rather unnecessary. " That’s what we thought too, hence some advice based on facts. Don’t publicly acknowledge he’s wowed you though, you’ll have some folk thinking you’re easily excitable and your phone will melt from an influx of messages. Play it cool. It’s more fun. | |||
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"Abuse = block + report + move on Sexual labels = pigeon holes for the masses = fuck that, have fun!!! " Loving your reply x When are you not a box, when your not in a box. | |||
" I'm not bi at all but found bi guys in general to be a bit more fun because they don't mind chatting with me while fucking my wife lol. Its things like playing with her and looking at me saying she's got lush tits or her pu**ies so wet, or I'm saying to them she's good isn't she, or one of my favourites is make her f**king gag on it
Straight guys in general tend to be a bit more reserved and talking to them seems to put them off lol"This guy gets it! We don't automatically want to fuck your straight husband against his will. We're just not put off by other 'threats to our penis' being in the room. What's more sociable than chatting to a guy about work whilst his wife has her tongue up your bum? (Actually happened to me once). The 'bisexual' label brings with it all kinds of negative connotations but people who think that way just need a few good experiences to know better. | |||
"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit
The message responses you have written aren’t truly horrid. Perfectly acceptable rejection messages, try being grateful for getting one and use it as insight as to why people don’t like you/your profile. Your frustrations might have something to do with your profile stating you’re straight, and by your own admission, your verifications stating otherwise. Just because the label that’s used to describe what you are, doesn’t appeal to you, it is what’s used pretty much globally, and is politically correct (for now anyway) to describe who you are. It doesn’t give you the right to lambast people in a forum who are straight, for calling you out for being bi, when you advertise straight, but admit you’re not and then claim that their perfectly legitimate replies are ‘truly horrid’ because they won’t meet with you because you’re bi’. Not quite sure just who you think you are, but false advertising is false advertising, and no amount of mental pre-conditioning in an attempt to tell yourself your straight, will work.
Ps: touching same sex genitalia for sexual pleasure/gratification whilst also giving a nod not to the opposite sex, is bisexual, and not just being ‘a horny fucker as you say’."Wow He should be grateful he got a reply ?? What’s it like that far up your own arse .. | |||
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"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit
The message responses you have written aren’t truly horrid. Perfectly acceptable rejection messages, try being grateful for getting one and use it as insight as to why people don’t like you/your profile. Your frustrations might have something to do with your profile stating you’re straight, and by your own admission, your verifications stating otherwise. Just because the label that’s used to describe what you are, doesn’t appeal to you, it is what’s used pretty much globally, and is politically correct (for now anyway) to describe who you are. It doesn’t give you the right to lambast people in a forum who are straight, for calling you out for being bi, when you advertise straight, but admit you’re not and then claim that their perfectly legitimate replies are ‘truly horrid’ because they won’t meet with you because you’re bi’. Not quite sure just who you think you are, but false advertising is false advertising, and no amount of mental pre-conditioning in an attempt to tell yourself your straight, will work.
Ps: touching same sex genitalia for sexual pleasure/gratification whilst also giving a nod not to the opposite sex, is bisexual, and not just being ‘a horny fucker as you say’." Like your insight. | |||
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"What’s strange is the amount of traction this post has gotten. I didn’t expect it at all. I’ve had a ton of messages from great people both in this chat and direct to me. Thank you One thing I’ve noticed is that most are from women or couples who are based down south? With zero people from Manchester (My city) Is that because more people down south are on the forum or more people down south have less of an issue? Interesting" I’ve never noticed any problem with bisexuality in the North - in fact people seem to be more open and direct about things | |||
"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit
The message responses you have written aren’t truly horrid. Perfectly acceptable rejection messages, try being grateful for getting one and use it as insight as to why people don’t like you/your profile. Your frustrations might have something to do with your profile stating you’re straight, and by your own admission, your verifications stating otherwise. Just because the label that’s used to describe what you are, doesn’t appeal to you, it is what’s used pretty much globally, and is politically correct (for now anyway) to describe who you are. It doesn’t give you the right to lambast people in a forum who are straight, for calling you out for being bi, when you advertise straight, but admit you’re not and then claim that their perfectly legitimate replies are ‘truly horrid’ because they won’t meet with you because you’re bi’. Not quite sure just who you think you are, but false advertising is false advertising, and no amount of mental pre-conditioning in an attempt to tell yourself your straight, will work.
Ps: touching same sex genitalia for sexual pleasure/gratification whilst also giving a nod not to the opposite sex, is bisexual, and not just being ‘a horny fucker as you say’.
Wow
He should be grateful he got a reply ??
What’s it like that far up your own arse ..
"Wow? Highlight of your day are we lol. It’s pretty good actually, gives us the foresight to expose people like you who claim to be straight and then end up being bi. You’re a time waster that tries to fool people, don’t be ashamed of who you are, just select the Bi option provided by fab. Betting if you published your veris they’d reveal a truth that would be at odds with you claiming your starlight lol | |||
"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit
The message responses you have written aren’t truly horrid. Perfectly acceptable rejection messages, try being grateful for getting one and use it as insight as to why people don’t like you/your profile. Your frustrations might have something to do with your profile stating you’re straight, and by your own admission, your verifications stating otherwise. Just because the label that’s used to describe what you are, doesn’t appeal to you, it is what’s used pretty much globally, and is politically correct (for now anyway) to describe who you are. It doesn’t give you the right to lambast people in a forum who are straight, for calling you out for being bi, when you advertise straight, but admit you’re not and then claim that their perfectly legitimate replies are ‘truly horrid’ because they won’t meet with you because you’re bi’. Not quite sure just who you think you are, but false advertising is false advertising, and no amount of mental pre-conditioning in an attempt to tell yourself your straight, will work.
Ps: touching same sex genitalia for sexual pleasure/gratification whilst also giving a nod not to the opposite sex, is bisexual, and not just being ‘a horny fucker as you say’.
Wow
He should be grateful he got a reply ??
What’s it like that far up your own arse ..
Wow? Highlight of your day are we lol. It’s pretty good actually, gives us the foresight to expose people like you who claim to be straight and then end up being bi. You’re a time waster that tries to fool people, don’t be ashamed of who you are, just select the Bi option provided by fab. Betting if you published your veris they’d reveal a truth that would be at odds with you claiming your starlight lol "Honesty is the best policy | |||
" Wow He should be grateful he got a reply ?? What’s it like that far up your own arse .. Wow? Highlight of your day are we lol. It’s pretty good actually, gives us the foresight to expose people like you who claim to be straight and then end up being bi. You’re a time waster that tries to fool people, don’t be ashamed of who you are, just select the Bi option provided by fab. Betting if you published your veris they’d reveal a truth that would be at odds with you claiming your starlight lol
Honesty is the best policy "It certainly is. Think it’s a case of the idiots on here claiming to be straight when they’re actually Bi, are embarrassed by their true sexuality. Still doesn’t give these fraudsters the right to lie about it. Just be straight with people lol (no pun intended) | |||
"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit
The message responses you have written aren’t truly horrid. Perfectly acceptable rejection messages, try being grateful for getting one and use it as insight as to why people don’t like you/your profile. Your frustrations might have something to do with your profile stating you’re straight, and by your own admission, your verifications stating otherwise. Just because the label that’s used to describe what you are, doesn’t appeal to you, it is what’s used pretty much globally, and is politically correct (for now anyway) to describe who you are. It doesn’t give you the right to lambast people in a forum who are straight, for calling you out for being bi, when you advertise straight, but admit you’re not and then claim that their perfectly legitimate replies are ‘truly horrid’ because they won’t meet with you because you’re bi’. Not quite sure just who you think you are, but false advertising is false advertising, and no amount of mental pre-conditioning in an attempt to tell yourself your straight, will work.
Ps: touching same sex genitalia for sexual pleasure/gratification whilst also giving a nod not to the opposite sex, is bisexual, and not just being ‘a horny fucker as you say’.
Wow
He should be grateful he got a reply ??
What’s it like that far up your own arse ..
Wow? Highlight of your day are we lol. It’s pretty good actually, gives us the foresight to expose people like you who claim to be straight and then end up being bi. You’re a time waster that tries to fool people, don’t be ashamed of who you are, just select the Bi option provided by fab. Betting if you published your veris they’d reveal a truth that would be at odds with you claiming your starlight lol "Everyone else on this thread has managed to have an opinion without being nasty and personal. Maybe you should keep it on topic and not be rude. | |||
this is funny | |||
"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit "Ignore the haters and continue having fun with whoever you want to! | |||
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"Offensive... Delete Rude... Delete Obnoxious... Delete Bi... Delete Straight... Delete Too old/young Delete Too fat/thin Delete No need for paragraphs of self pitying or moaning. One press of a button then move on. "He was asking for people's opinions and experiences. Is that not what the forums are for? I don't get why some people feel the need to be so negative towards others. | |||
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"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit
The message responses you have written aren’t truly horrid. Perfectly acceptable rejection messages, try being grateful for getting one and use it as insight as to why people don’t like you/your profile. Your frustrations might have something to do with your profile stating you’re straight, and by your own admission, your verifications stating otherwise. Just because the label that’s used to describe what you are, doesn’t appeal to you, it is what’s used pretty much globally, and is politically correct (for now anyway) to describe who you are. It doesn’t give you the right to lambast people in a forum who are straight, for calling you out for being bi, when you advertise straight, but admit you’re not and then claim that their perfectly legitimate replies are ‘truly horrid’ because they won’t meet with you because you’re bi’. Not quite sure just who you think you are, but false advertising is false advertising, and no amount of mental pre-conditioning in an attempt to tell yourself your straight, will work.
Ps: touching same sex genitalia for sexual pleasure/gratification whilst also giving a nod not to the opposite sex, is bisexual, and not just being ‘a horny fucker as you say’.
Wow
He should be grateful he got a reply ??
What’s it like that far up your own arse ..
Wow? Highlight of your day are we lol. It’s pretty good actually, gives us the foresight to expose people like you who claim to be straight and then end up being bi. You’re a time waster that tries to fool people, don’t be ashamed of who you are, just select the Bi option provided by fab. Betting if you published your veris they’d reveal a truth that would be at odds with you claiming your starlight lol
Everyone else on this thread has managed to have an opinion without being nasty and personal.
Maybe you should keep it on topic and not be rude. "Errr....it’s very much on topic. If you believe it’s rude because we’ve chosen to express our opinions about people who lie to us, and advise the OP that his replies from people aren’t horrid, then that in itself says a lot about you. First time for everything eh x | |||
"“I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Whats so bad about these kind of messages.. Its like the people that say white or black only, its not abusive or racist just preference" Exactly this. Some people just can’t take rejection. Worrying! | |||
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"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit
The message responses you have written aren’t truly horrid. Perfectly acceptable rejection messages, try being grateful for getting one and use it as insight as to why people don’t like you/your profile. Your frustrations might have something to do with your profile stating you’re straight, and by your own admission, your verifications stating otherwise. Just because the label that’s used to describe what you are, doesn’t appeal to you, it is what’s used pretty much globally, and is politically correct (for now anyway) to describe who you are. It doesn’t give you the right to lambast people in a forum who are straight, for calling you out for being bi, when you advertise straight, but admit you’re not and then claim that their perfectly legitimate replies are ‘truly horrid’ because they won’t meet with you because you’re bi’. Not quite sure just who you think you are, but false advertising is false advertising, and no amount of mental pre-conditioning in an attempt to tell yourself your straight, will work.
Ps: touching same sex genitalia for sexual pleasure/gratification whilst also giving a nod not to the opposite sex, is bisexual, and not just being ‘a horny fucker as you say’.
Wow
He should be grateful he got a reply ??
What’s it like that far up your own arse ..
Wow? Highlight of your day are we lol. It’s pretty good actually, gives us the foresight to expose people like you who claim to be straight and then end up being bi. You’re a time waster that tries to fool people, don’t be ashamed of who you are, just select the Bi option provided by fab. Betting if you published your veris they’d reveal a truth that would be at odds with you claiming your starlight lol
Everyone else on this thread has managed to have an opinion without being nasty and personal.
Maybe you should keep it on topic and not be rude.
Errr....it’s very much on topic. If you believe it’s rude because we’ve chosen to express our opinions about people who lie to us, and advise the OP that his replies from people aren’t horrid, then that in itself says a lot about you. First time for everything eh x"He hasn't lied to anyone! He considers himself straight, which he is entitled to do and has published his veri's that make it clear he has been with men. How is that lieing? | |||
" this is funny"Yes, you’ll see the same users moaning in here all the time, usually the same women (not all the women though) lol, who think if they jump in and support an OPs thread it’ll boost the number of fabs on their pics ffs, because that’s really important to them (you know the ones). Forget being able to read and put forward a balanced argument, that doesn’t count. Probably explains why their single, have no veris, and the ones that do, are either unpublished or the users that left them a veri have hidden their profile lol. Still, they all need love, they need these forums and sprinkling of Jeremy Kyle tv to wind the monotony of their days away lol | |||
" this is funny Yes, you’ll see the same users moaning in here all the time, usually the same women (not all the women though) lol, who think if they jump in and support an OPs thread it’ll boost the number of fabs on their pics ffs, because that’s really important to them (you know the ones). Forget being able to read and put forward a balanced argument, that doesn’t count. Probably explains why their single, have no veris, and the ones that do, are either unpublished or the users that left them a veri have hidden their profile lol.
Still, they all need love, they need these forums and sprinkling of Jeremy Kyle tv to wind the monotony of their days away lol"You are aware there are no women that you describe on this thread! | |||
"Hi Everyone, Please put your popcorn away, I’m not slagging off bi people lol. I wouldn’t truly class myself as bi (more, just a horny fucker) but I believe to most I am seen as a bi guy on fab. This type of label I dunno doesn’t fit great with me. Not being the label bothers me but it seems to bother a lot of people and I’m here for fun and friendship. I was wondering if other people who are seen as bi get negativity on fab recently? I am sure everyone gets crappy messages but recently the messages for me have increased everyone from; Truly Horrid and Abusive messages to “I would have meet you but I don’t like men who meet bi couples and/or TGirls” Sorry if I seem like I’m moaning just well it’s 2019 and we are on a fucking swingers site, if you won’t like sex, why is it ok that I feel like the piece of shit
The message responses you have written aren’t truly horrid. Perfectly acceptable rejection messages, try being grateful for getting one and use it as insight as to why people don’t like you/your profile. Your frustrations might have something to do with your profile stating you’re straight, and by your own admission, your verifications stating otherwise. Just because the label that’s used to describe what you are, doesn’t appeal to you, it is what’s used pretty much globally, and is politically correct (for now anyway) to describe who you are. It doesn’t give you the right to lambast people in a forum who are straight, for calling you out for being bi, when you advertise straight, but admit you’re not and then claim that their perfectly legitimate replies are ‘truly horrid’ because they won’t meet with you because you’re bi’. Not quite sure just who you think you are, but false advertising is false advertising, and no amount of mental pre-conditioning in an attempt to tell yourself your straight, will work.
Ps: touching same sex genitalia for sexual pleasure/gratification whilst also giving a nod not to the opposite sex, is bisexual, and not just being ‘a horny fucker as you say’.
Wow
He should be grateful he got a reply ??
What’s it like that far up your own arse ..
Wow? Highlight of your day are we lol. It’s pretty good actually, gives us the foresight to expose people like you who claim to be straight and then end up being bi. You’re a time waster that tries to fool people, don’t be ashamed of who you are, just select the Bi option provided by fab. Betting if you published your veris they’d reveal a truth that would be at odds with you claiming your starlight lol
Everyone else on this thread has managed to have an opinion without being nasty and personal.
Maybe you should keep it on topic and not be rude.
Errr....it’s very much on topic. If you believe it’s rude because we’ve chosen to express our opinions about people who lie to us, and advise the OP that his replies from people aren’t horrid, then that in itself says a lot about you. First time for everything eh x
He hasn't lied to anyone!
He considers himself straight, which he is entitled to do and has published his veri's that make it clear he has been with men.
How is that lieing?
"Where did we say the OP had lied to us? If you’re going to communicate with us, will you please raise your game and really focus on what we write as opposed to doing whatever it is you are doing...jesus, some peoples kids! | |||
"He hasn't lied to anyone! He considers himself straight, which he is entitled to do and has published his veri's that make it clear he has been with men. How is that lieing? " Agreed, however I'm guessing this is more about not taking rejection very well rather than abusive messages because he's had sex with guys and CD/TV's, maybe he's getting stronger worded messages because he's persisted after being given a polite 'no thanks' I can understand a husband who is straight not wanting to be in an intimate situation with a guy that's been with men. | |||
"He hasn't lied to anyone! He considers himself straight, which he is entitled to do and has published his veri's that make it clear he has been with men. How is that lieing? Agreed, however I'm guessing this is more about not taking rejection very well rather than abusive messages because he's had sex with guys and CD/TV's, maybe he's getting stronger worded messages because he's persisted after being given a polite 'no thanks' I can understand a husband who is straight not wanting to be in an intimate situation with a guy that's been with men." Yep, exactly this. Far too many Bi guys or fab straight that find it hard to take no for an answer and when they get blocked, they naturally tend to vent in the forums. Being Bi or Fab straight doesn’t give them the right to harass straight people who aren’t interested. It’ll end badly one day when they try shit like that in person. | |||
" this is funny Yes, you’ll see the same users moaning in here all the time, usually the same women (not all the women though) lol, who think if they jump in and support an OPs thread it’ll boost the number of fabs on their pics ffs, because that’s really important to them (you know the ones). Forget being able to read and put forward a balanced argument, that doesn’t count. Probably explains why their single, have no veris, and the ones that do, are either unpublished or the users that left them a veri have hidden their profile lol.
Still, they all need love, they need these forums and sprinkling of Jeremy Kyle tv to wind the monotony of their days away lol
You are aware there are no women that you describe on this thread!
"Careful, you’re starting to look guilty! | |||
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