Who messages first

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Who do you think should message first

By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

The person who wants to send a message.

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite agree. Assuming it is a decent message and not a cut and paste job sent to everything with a pulse within 50 miles!