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But at what age did you think about swinging and what lead you to exploring the lifestyle I ask this because I myself have been a serial fuck buddy type of bloke for years with the odd break for committed relationships for the reasons I like a lot of sex and very varied (and probably terrified of commitment) but its taken me till my 30s to explore swinging but since I've been involved in the scene I find the average age to be of the more middle aged variety (no offence anyone) which makes me curious as to what made you start at what age or are we all just horny fuckers that can't get enough  |
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"I started swinging 2 years ago as my ex wife had done it before so thought i will give it a go and loved it...still do"
Did you start together or was it after the split in which case was it just nsa sex you were looking for or the lifestyle or none of the above....sorry if I sound nosey but as you probably realise I have a thing for psychology and what drives people to do things |
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over a year ago
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I have never been the settling down type. Have always enjoyed experimenting with my sexuality but very rare to find an outlet in the vanilla world. Took the plunge when I hit 30 got to an age where all my friends are settling down married kids and I still want to go out and play. |
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A few years ago I was widowed and didn't want to get involved with anyone again but still wanted sex.
A friend asked me to go with her to a swing club as her then boyfriend couldn't accompany her.
She hated it I loved it and I have been enjoying it all ever since. |
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All my sexual life ive partaken in what could be described as swinging/swinging life style. Its only about the last 15 years that i put a name to it. Even with my ex husband i didnt put a name to it |
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Hmmm...my first swinging experiencing is a fascinating one. I was 19 and naïve. I went into a relation with a girl couple of years younger than me, in which our first penetrative sex turned into disaster. I convinced myself she was a virgin but she swore she wasn’t, and that she has had penetrative sex with her ex-boyfriend countless of times.
The next day, her Mum came banging on my door yelling me down to leave her daughter alone, as I’ve nearly saw her pussy in half and she bled for hours and recuperating from the injury I inflicted on her with my cock.
Well, the news soon spread around the neighbourhood to the point I was forced to relocate. Too ashamed to face the sneer of being nicknamed different kind of names from largeman to bunchies and all sort hahaha. Funny now when I looked back at that time in my life lol.
To cut a long story short, a former neighbour finally sourced me out and invited me swinging, and advised me to leave small girls my age alone, and that I’m meant for the older birds, as they got many experience in how to handle a thick one like mine.
My first experience swinging caught me off guard because I have never heard of or seen somany people in the same room naked and fucking one another. It took me a long time watching before I could brave the courage to undress myself and finally had sex with my host right there. One of the couple watching us then came round to us and asked me to do his misus. I couldn’t believe it but it was all fun at the end.
I think the thrill of actually having sex with people you’ll never had the slightest chance of pulling on the street for a chat less talk of having sex with them got me hooked in the swinging lifestyle.
But as time goes on, I became more relaxed and open and finally got hooked to the point I don’t see life outside swinging. Its part of my life now and I’m enjoying every minute of it.
And I also think there is a down side to this life-style for single blokes that got in too early like I had done. It could prevent one to actually be serious in settling down and having a committed relationship. And I think I need that now but can’t just help myself really. Swinging is like being addicted to drugs or to smoking or alcohol because no matter how hard I try to stop or relax a bit to give a committed relationship a chance, the harder it became for me not to contact a sex buddy for a quick one now and again….
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We've been talking about it since we met, 11 years ago. Actually started doing it seriously 6 months back and frigging loving it more every week. I love being my husband's Slut for him to share very kindly with others, he really is generous with my body...  |
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We talked about it when we got together and started a year or so after that when we were about 25.
I had thought about the lifestyle when I was 17 as I had been invited by a couple I had been talking to on the old lycos chat to join them for a 3sum. Very tempted, very, but all too scared that I would end up under the patio so I chickened out! I researched it for a bit and got chatting to other people but I just couldn't pluck up the courage x |
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We have been swinging for 2 years. Previous to that I was a monogamous housewife, working woman and mother, all very prim and proper.
I was never sexually promiscuous and never wished to be either.
I've always had a fascination about the perceived seediness of life though, fetish parties, masquerade balls, the weird and the wonderful, burlesque, swinging clubs, exhibitionism etc. It was an interest which was solely voyeuristic. I was drawn to programmes about it, reading books and looking at photographs.
At first I only ever wanted to dress up and watch and play solely with my own partner in front of others and indeed that is what we did for quite a while. After a few months I wanted to explore a little more and we soft swung for a long while.
I do have a fascination for orgies but I will only partake in oral sex in a large group orgy session. I'm not ready for more than that at the minute as sex with two men in a threesome situation still feels incredibly naughty for me. I do like having sex with others around though, the real sounds and vision of others having sex on the same bed as me and my partner is a major turn on for me.
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"Is this an encrypted way of flagging up the fact you think you have a big cock. Just asking  "
haha always someone mingles in with a plug for themselves on the forums  |
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thought about it loads while i was really fat, probs just from watching porn as i never used to see many girls being 25 stone in my 20s. but hooked up with a lass, had a great nights sex she wanted to see me more and was bi and we got talkign about all the things we always wanted to try to thats when i talked about couples and other group stuff and was exacty what i think she was wanting to hear! so just took it from there really |
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I've always had a fascination about the perceived seediness of life though, fetish parties, masquerade balls, the weird and the wonderful, burlesque, swinging clubs, exhibitionism etc. It was an interest which was solely voyeuristic. I was drawn to programmes about it, reading books and looking at photographs."
Along similar lines here. The cerebral fascination sometimes overrides the physical side for me as it's just so absorbing. I also have a liking for the dirtiest most depraved scenes too, and pleasantly find myself 50% voyeur and 50% doer these days
I started out just before my mid 30's. It's been fun, but I have yet to see a zenith - maybe that's because we become accustomed to excess so easily
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I was married and over 30 stones, I split from my husband in 2003 and was celibate for 6 years while I worked hard and lost weight. I started a new relationship in 2009 and after a while if brought up dogging which we tried and I enjoyed. We joined here as a couple.
When we split I had another year of celibacy till I thought bugger it I can do it as a single and rejoined here at new year. |
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"Is this an encrypted way of flagging up the fact you think you have a big cock. Just asking
I wont say i have a big cock because i've seen really well endowed guys that have it bigger than mine. But i could say i have a remarkable FAT one. Get a taperule out and round 7.5inches thick and imagine the effect of that inside you.... "
Do some men continually measure their cock to see if it's getting bigger or god forbid smaller |
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Only been into this kinda thing for few weeks. Have been in many of situ's in my younger years ( yes I know im still young, in some ways lol )but been to nieve to realise at the time or too daft / or didnt think id be that lucky lol. Now just glad to be here and mingle and hope to make new friends & meet new people for whatever may arise, so to speak. |
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Mrs Artful and myself have been together since we were teenagers and got up to all kinds of stuff together and sex has always been a thing we indulged in.
We were dogging before it was known as dogging, had a few fumbles with others for a bit of fun through the years.
We both feel strongly about infidelity and not playing behind peoples backs but were curious about all kinds of sex, group, threesomes, etc.
Something we have always had fun doing was taking cheeky photos and having a giggle filming and photographing what we got up to and when the internet came along we went on a few sites and posted pics and through that we met some good people.
As a natural progression as a sexually curious couple we decided to try out a few of our fantasies and ideas.
We met a couple from one of the sites we posted pics on and had a blast and some really raunchy sessions and are still good friends with them today.
So to sum it up, I suppose we have always indulged in some form of sexual play with others but only those who ticked the right boxes at the right time in the right situations and who we felt comfortable with (quality over quantity every time for us).
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