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What do couples look for in a guy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They need to have read the profile, this should tell them everything, especially if they are suitable. Those that respond with “lets meet” or worse.... simply experience the block button. Then there’s those that simply keep chatting but cant follow through...now that’s a different subject  |
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"They need to have read the profile, this should tell them everything, especially if they are suitable. Those that respond with “lets meet” or worse.... simply experience the block button. Then there’s those that simply keep chatting but cant follow through...now that’s a different subject "
This!!!!!
And the wife’s got to at least fancy them!!!! A bit.
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
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If we was to look for another male we would want them to have read our profile for starters!! Too many times we have had messages completely ignoring the fact we are a couple and not a single female
Second they have to be respectful and not send dick pics and messages like "do you want to fuck this?" |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"Does a big cock help? "
You tell us . . .
Do you have a big cock?
If so does it get you lots of meets?
It's way down on our list as we find those that think it's of great importance usually lack in the personality department - but I'm sure to some others a big cock is more important than personality.
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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago
North Coast |
Non-pushy, not non-stop ‘are you interested?’ ‘You still there?’ ‘Not talking?’ Messages if there’s a lull in messaging.
Messages that start ‘want to meet’, ‘I’m nearby now’ ‘do you have pics’ all are instant no.
Still amazes us that some men think that just because you’re on here means you’ll drop everything and meet them now.
You’ve got to be prepared to play the long game, unless someone is saying that they want to meet ‘now’ |
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"Non-pushy, not non-stop ‘are you interested?’ ‘You still there?’ ‘Not talking?’ Messages if there’s a lull in messaging.
Messages that start ‘want to meet’, ‘I’m nearby now’ ‘do you have pics’ all are instant no.
Still amazes us that some men think that just because you’re on here means you’ll drop everything and meet them now.
You’ve got to be prepared to play the long game, unless someone is saying that they want to meet ‘now’"
This guys forget they are dealing with 2 people they have to connect and appeal too .so takes time and effort. |
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"Does a big cock help? "
Not to us. Women looking for big cocks is a bit of a niche thing. It certainly exists but it is nowhere near as ubiquitous as it is made out to be.
If we ever do meet a man (and we aren't looking to do that) how we get on with him, how respectful and non-pushy he is and how he presents himself is leagues ahead in importance than of the size of his manhood. That doesn't mean we would go for somebody tiny but average would be perfectly acceptable. In fact, anything over 7" would be a no for us. |
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Wife prefers experienced guys who know what they are doing size of cock not important, but she does enjoy a thick one, she prefers rough and ready to suited, good sence of humour goes well, I like the guys that can give her a good hard fucking repeaters and heavy cummers who are not camera shy |
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"They need to have read the profile, this should tell them everything, especially if they are suitable. Those that respond with “lets meet” or worse.... simply experience the block button. Then there’s those that simply keep chatting but cant follow through...now that’s a different subject "
Indeed!! The only things we can add to above is that J (Mrs.) needs warmth, intelligence, a sense of humour, and a desire in the man to seduce her by telling her how much he wants her and why. Oh, he should also be clean, smell nice, and have a decent body and cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we was to look for another male we would want them to have read our profile for starters!! Too many times we have had messages completely ignoring the fact we are a couple and not a single female
Second they have to be respectful and not send dick pics and messages like "do you want to fuck this?" "
THIS THIS THIS ^^^^^ why do guys automatically think he's a replacement or forget that they are a couple and treat her like shes theyre property? Gets the block treatment straight away
And couples are also very very good at sussing out the chancers, liars, fakers and bullshitters no matter how good you think you are |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Hello
Love couple play especially if man bi curious (not anal). What do couples look for in a guy when looking?
Love to know"
As threads have 175(ish) posts and I don't know the exact number of couples on here (bi or straight).. whatever the number is it'll be that number of different opinions ..hope this helps op.  |
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As adding a third is about fantasy rather than just sex we go for the person we are attracted to. Probably makes little difference what they put in a message.
If their pics are of them smiling and maybe out and about rather than dick pics they are more likely to get noticed . I tend to say if you look like beards then you have a good chance of it going further. |
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"Does a big cock help?
Nope big cock usually means big head and big ego in our opinion"
That’s interesting as the guys I have played with who have been above average in size have been really chilled and friendly not arrogant at all but again everyone is different I suppose  |
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Someone that can send a half decent message first and foremost.
Be addressed as a couple.
Line out kinks and what look for.
Of course attraction got to be there.
But turned plenty of good looking guys just because they've acted like complete tools |
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"Someone that can send a half decent message first and foremost.
Be addressed as a couple.
Line out kinks and what look for.
Of course attraction got to be there.
But turned plenty of good looking guys just because they've acted like complete tools"
Like a half decent profile to.
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By *ack n FoxyCouple
over a year ago
Notts/Derby border |
Foxy has to fancy them, they need to have a profile with pics (not necessarily face pics) and send a polite respectful non pushy message with face pics without being asked.
We hate one line messages and faceless profiles....deleted immediately. We make an effort with our profile and pics.... if the guy can't be bothered to then he certainly won't be fucking Foxy |
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Fun, honest personaility.
Cock size is secondary but I do like a good looking cock 
Bi or bi curious preferred due to wanting to try fuckylicky and DVP more.
Unless you're an absolute Quasimodo, looks are not as high on the list as you'd think, neither is body type.
Prefer black but willing to play with others.
That enough info for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non-pushy, not non-stop ‘are you interested?’ ‘You still there?’ ‘Not talking?’ Messages if there’s a lull in messaging.
Messages that start ‘want to meet’, ‘I’m nearby now’ ‘do you have pics’ all are instant no.
Still amazes us that some men think that just because you’re on here means you’ll drop everything and meet them now.
You’ve got to be prepared to play the long game, unless someone is saying that they want to meet ‘now’This guys forget they are dealing with 2 people they have to connect and appeal too .so takes time and effort."
This is so true and a good proportion of single guys just don't seem to understand that. Lost count of the amount of explicit messages that disregard one of us! Nothing could put us off more. What's worse is we specifically say this in our profile lol. So it always ends with little response on our side x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find the only ones who know how to behave in a respectful and tasteful fashion are from couples that play separately. But we must hear it from the wife personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clean shaven
Tall
Muscular build
Girth
Length
Smell nice
Personality
Well groomed below & else where
Respectful
Honest
Nice teeth
Big hands
Nice feet
Green / blue eyes
Smartly dressed
Nice hair
Dark hair
Reliable
Manly voice
That’s all really
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like playing with bi guys I (kitten) love watching two guys together. The amount of guys that message and list as straight is amazing. Also, just because hubby is bi, doesn't mean he's a sissy bottom. Many (if not almost all) don't get that |
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