These are ranked based on my personal experiences events I’ve attended and private meets to since 2017 from fabs (also on old account):
**1. Nottingham**
(fun and social meets, sensible, low flake rate, organised hosts and the most comfortable I’ve been so far)
**2. Leicester**
(well organised parties, mutual, respectful and accommodating hosts)
**3. Hertfordshire**
(discreet, consistent, logistically easy to travel and meet, good adult-friendly hotels)
**4. London**
(all round access to all sorts of scenes, more options, very easy to travel, cool hosts, great events and clubs, downside - flake rate is high for meets)
**5. Essex**
(fun and easy going meets, frequent contacts, downside - haven’t experienced enough yet to rank higher but overall good)
**6. Birmingham** (great club scene, adult-friendly hotels and affordable, downside - a little sleazy compared to other cities).
**7. Cambridge** ( high flake rate, short-term memory , time wasters, bad communicators, paranoia and too much , which could explain the memory loss. Everyone on my block list is from this city)
Context: I grew up in London and I’ve lived in Hertfordshire, Essex and currently live in Cambridge. I travel around the country and use fabs for the experience.
Cites I’ve also tried outside the UK:
1. Cork, Ireland
2. Kerry, Ireland
3. NYC, America
4. Regina, Canada
5. Toronto, Canada
I plan on having meets in mainland Europe I.e. Switzerland and Germany, this year. Mostly from other swinging platforms. But I’ll leave reviews on here too.  |
