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By *oo7king OP Man 13 weeks ago
wing /nw London |
Hi all, I've just been asked by a couple to get them pregnant. Apparently he cant father a child due to medical reasons but they want a kid. I'm not against the idea. They want to conceive naturally. Has anyone had any experience of this.. |
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Up to you, but if you go ahead I’d suggest you need to get something down legally, what happens if they have the child and then comes after you for paternity?
You might be best of friends and think it would never happen but things change. |
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"Hi all, I've just been asked by a couple to get them pregnant. Apparently he cant father a child due to medical reasons but they want a kid. I'm not against the idea. They want to conceive naturally. Has anyone had any experience of this.."
in theory it sounds ok but i would check as the biological father can they make you pay child maintenance ?? till the child is 18yo i would seek legal advice first,,,
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Go for it if he is married since legally the child will be theirs. Unless the court decides that its in the child's benefit for you to be involved. But if hes married with a stable job then he will be seen as the best choice for the child. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Hi all, I've just been asked by a couple to get them pregnant. Apparently he cant father a child due to medical reasons but they want a kid. I'm not against the idea. They want to conceive naturally. Has anyone had any experience of this.."
Lol
Absolute fantasy clearly.
There are weird fetishes about getting random people pregnant. |
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"Hi all, I've just been asked by a couple to get them pregnant. Apparently he cant father a child due to medical reasons but they want a kid. I'm not against the idea. They want to conceive naturally. Has anyone had any experience of this.."
Kinky fetish for the breeding part.
Already Pregnant? I REALLY like. Just hard to find.
Not long uploaded previous videos to that fact.  |
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By *CExeCouple 13 weeks ago
Hong-Kong/Exeter |
"Hi all, I've just been asked by a couple to get them pregnant. Apparently he cant father a child due to medical reasons but they want a kid. I'm not against the idea. They want to conceive naturally. Has anyone had any experience of this..
Lol
Absolute fantasy clearly.
There are weird fetishes about getting random people pregnant. "
100% this |
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"Up to you, but if you go ahead I’d suggest you need to get something down legally, what happens if they have the child and then comes after you for paternity?
You might be best of friends and think it would never happen but things change."
I agree with Mike it sounds a lovely thing to help a couple out like this you need to ask yourself a few questions are they able to give this child a warm loving home and not relay on others to support them in that upbringing also one side which hasn’t been heard is what about your thoughts when you see this child you might start getting feelings yourself and as Mike said what happens if the marriage breaks up and he disappears not paying a thing your responsibility now be careful |
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By *oelMan 12 weeks ago
Midlands, London, Brussels |
I think you need to be careful as there could be an ongoing cost to you, however if you trust them fully and it helps then I think it's a good thing.
IVF costs between 3k and 5k per time, and there is no guarantee for exactly the same result, if either the egg or sperm is a donation. You are acting as a donar. I find it very odd that people seem to see an issue about doing this for a couple.
The only issue is the risk to you |
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"I think you need to be careful as there could be an ongoing cost to you, however if you trust them fully and it helps then I think it's a good thing.
IVF costs between 3k and 5k per time, and there is no guarantee for exactly the same result, if either the egg or sperm is a donation. You are acting as a donar. I find it very odd that people seem to see an issue about doing this for a couple.
The only issue is the risk to you"
Would the couple ask for a full medical history and any information on inherited health issues? I think the main issue is the risk to any baby |
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"What's interesting is how for a really serious question like this, the place the OP goes for advice is a website for swinging hookups "
What's interesting to me is that most people seem more concerned for the donor than the possible child. |
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"I think you need to be careful as there could be an ongoing cost to you, however if you trust them fully and it helps then I think it's a good thing.
IVF costs between 3k and 5k per time, and there is no guarantee for exactly the same result, if either the egg or sperm is a donation. You are acting as a donar. I find it very odd that people seem to see an issue about doing this for a couple.
The only issue is the risk to you
Would the couple ask for a full medical history and any information on inherited health issues? I think the main issue is the risk to any baby "
How many people in relationships ask for that though? |
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By *oelMan 12 weeks ago
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"I think you need to be careful as there could be an ongoing cost to you, however if you trust them fully and it helps then I think it's a good thing.
IVF costs between 3k and 5k per time, and there is no guarantee for exactly the same result, if either the egg or sperm is a donation. You are acting as a donar. I find it very odd that people seem to see an issue about doing this for a couple.
The only issue is the risk to you
Would the couple ask for a full medical history and any information on inherited health issues? I think the main issue is the risk to any baby "
I think that would be very sensible for the couple to ask |
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"I think you need to be careful as there could be an ongoing cost to you, however if you trust them fully and it helps then I think it's a good thing.
IVF costs between 3k and 5k per time, and there is no guarantee for exactly the same result, if either the egg or sperm is a donation. You are acting as a donar. I find it very odd that people seem to see an issue about doing this for a couple.
The only issue is the risk to you
Would the couple ask for a full medical history and any information on inherited health issues? I think the main issue is the risk to any baby
How many people in relationships ask for that though?"
We knew each others medical history and that neither of us had inherited health issues. Wouldnt most established couples? |
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By *oo7king OP Man 12 weeks ago
wing /nw London |
100% it's a couple I have met with several times over the last year or so. Both fun and socially. They seem really nice, comfortable and I really nice home. So my feeling is they will make great parents. But you are right about how I might feel if I ever bump into them. It's a dilemma |
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By *oo7king OP Man 12 weeks ago
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They have tried if. It didn't work but they found the whole process very clinical and not a nice experience. They want to get pregnant naturally. She's fertile but his sperm count is very low. I get on with them both, theres trust there. |
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By *andydan69Man 12 weeks ago
south west m5 corridor bristol to past exeter |
"They have tried if. It didn't work but they found the whole process very clinical and not a nice experience. They want to get pregnant naturally. She's fertile but his sperm count is very low. I get on with them both, theres trust there. "
trust that chucking ur much up her could cost you a huge chunk of ur wages 4 18years ?????
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"They have tried if. It didn't work but they found the whole process very clinical and not a nice experience. They want to get pregnant naturally. She's fertile but his sperm count is very low. I get on with them both, theres trust there. "
Tap reply+quote under the list you're answering then type your answer. We will know who you're responding to  |
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Personally, I would never want to father a child that I would not have anything to do with.
As stated already, if you did father a child, what's to stop them from claiming financial support, which under the law you would have to pay. Also, what would happen if the couple separated, would you be happy with the woman turning up at your doorstep with your child.
You just don't know what will happen in the future, and it could cause you a whole heap of problems. |
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8k + for a round of ivf 😅
"I think you need to be careful as there could be an ongoing cost to you, however if you trust them fully and it helps then I think it's a good thing.
IVF costs between 3k and 5k per time, and there is no guarantee for exactly the same result, if either the egg or sperm is a donation. You are acting as a donar. I find it very odd that people seem to see an issue about doing this for a couple.
The only issue is the risk to you"
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"It seems some people don't give a moment's thought to the sentient being they're quite casually helping to create.
It's not the badge of honour some people believe it is. "
Best comment on here.
Consent is everything, and the kid cant consent.
I think you are crazy to even consider it.
What happened a few years down the line when the divorce, the guy refuses to pay support and gets a DNA test to prove it's not his, and the DHS come after you to support the kid?
Think it through ffs!
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Answering as a Dad as well as being on here:
- what’s the most amazing thing you can do in this world - bring a child into it. Have you thought about the fact that you will have a child that you can have nothing to do with and what that will do to your head?
- the financial what ifs than others have covered.
- the morals here - odd quoting such on here but you know what I mean
I’d give this a big swerve!! |
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