Hey all.
I'm working in Cardiff Wednesday 15th for 2 nights in a city centre hotel.
I struggle on here to get any response, mostly due to my profile being basically empty and no pictures of myself. I lack confidence in Huge amounts unfortunately, and this includes being able to accurately describe myself, my likes or even show a picture along public. I'm not ashamed of being on here I just ... I dunno. I struggle with it.
Also, I'm the first to admit.. I'm 'small' in that department, and it doesn't always 'work'.. so I'm not a particularly attractive candidate.. BUT.. I'm still ( I believe ) a nice person, who enjoys sexual experiences, as much as the next person.
.. I guess due to the performance issues, I gravitate towards the weird kinks.
I don't know what I'm trying to say tbh. I hope to be able to have a sexual experience on this trip, even it's someone just letting me be a bit pathetic. Maybe if there's someone that doesn't mind entertaining my weirdness out of sympathy. I'm good (I think ) at things that doesn't involve my 'old chap'.
Any response appreciated. Welcome to chat privately. I don't even get that at moment from anyone. Which is understandable.
Take care all
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Try visiting a club. Clubs are sage, relaxed places and you can get to know people a little first, before taking it anywhere. Or you might have the chance to watch if that's more interesting to you. Check out the club directory. |
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I agree with the above poster’s message mate and try a club out, although I appreciate that may sound extremely daunting after what you wrote.
Just go with the idea that you’re going to a bar - go with absolutely zero expectation of any ‘friskiness’ happening and that you’re just going for a couple of drinks. Have a few drinks for Dutch courage if it helps before and tell yourself you’ll go for an hour to check it out and then leave. You’ll probs chat to some nice people, maybe see a few things, and hopefully build some confidence or relationships that may take things further in future.
The problem with having no photos and a limited profile on here is that there’s little to get into or excited over when it’s just minimal text. You’re more likely to get responses with any kind of photo compared to zero, so just try and put yourself out of your comfort zone and post something. Then you might start to get messages and then your personality can come across through those. |
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