Recently noticed that my erection are not as strong or long lasting as used to be. Happened couple of times when having sex Recently and feeling pre embarrassed by the whole thing. I'm stressed and tired depressed and know this doesn't help but and suggestions what I could take to help. Seems lots of things out there but not sure what's safe |
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By *mos79Man 3 weeks ago
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I think you already know the problem. Stressed, tired, depressed. Then the added anxiety of knowing you're struggling with erections will make it more difficult then it becomes a vicious circle. Cut down on the booze, eat healthy, exercise, stop smoking (if you do smoke that is), drink plenty of water, get plenty of sleep if possible. None of that's a magic cure, but will go a long way to helping. |
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Yer think I knew was the answer just embarrassed about it, started to exercise this week in hope that it's sorts my head out a bit. Struggling with life for sum reason at moment and all getting ontop of me. Thanks for advice everybody. |
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No need to be embarrassed about it. Dr's deal with this sort of stuff on a daily basis. After being treated for prostatecancer and its ongoing consequences, I feel like I've had to get my man bits out to everyone in the NHS! There could be another underlying cause for your weak erection, though it may be stress etc,. There are a whole variety of treatments available, which your GP will happily discuss with you. Good luck. |
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"Recently noticed that my erection are not as strong or long lasting as used to be. Happened couple of times when having sex Recently and feeling pre embarrassed by the whole thing. I'm stressed and tired depressed and know this doesn't help but and suggestions what I could take to help. Seems lots of things out there but not sure what's safe "
Comes with swinging I find.. Takes a lot to excite me nowadays.. Especially 1on1 sex I find so boring |
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Cancer and Chemo 3x has made things way less reliable, blue pills are great, but sounds like you need to sort your mind out before you try that. Anxiety builds and becomes the cause of the problem. I’d suggest sorting out your issues before trying the blue pill, if you heads not in it, the little pill won’t work and you’ll be even more anxious.
Sending a woman wild with great oral pleasuring tends to boost my confidence, which relaxes me, banishes the anxiety and makes me rock hard! … and everybody’s happy!
That might work for you too. |
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"Cancer and Chemo 3x has made things way less reliable, blue pills are great, but sounds like you need to sort your mind out before you try that. Anxiety builds and becomes the cause of the problem. I’d suggest sorting out your issues before trying the blue pill, if you heads not in it, the little pill won’t work and you’ll be even more anxious.
Sending a woman wild with great oral pleasuring tends to boost my confidence, which relaxes me, banishes the anxiety and makes me rock hard! … and everybody’s happy!
That might work for you too. "
Had the same after chemo and RT, a lot was in the head too. Eventually things came back to normal  |
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"Recently noticed that my erection are not as strong or long lasting as used to be. Happened couple of times when having sex Recently and feeling pre embarrassed by the whole thing. I'm stressed and tired depressed and know this doesn't help but and suggestions what I could take to help. Seems lots of things out there but not sure what's safe
Comes with swinging I find.. Takes a lot to excite me nowadays.. Especially 1on1 sex I find so boring"
I kind of disagree. It's true a naked body does nothing for me like it did when I was younger but when demands are made I get hard.
I agree some sex is more exciting, but mostly that is about the person I am with.
I suggest you relax, find someone that really turns you on and go back to boring bed hoping later. |
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"I think you already know the problem. Stressed, tired, depressed. Then the added anxiety of knowing you're struggling with erections will make it more difficult then it becomes a vicious circle. Cut down on the booze, eat healthy, exercise, stop smoking (if you do smoke that is), drink plenty of water, get plenty of sleep if possible. None of that's a magic cure, but will go a long way to helping. "
I was coming to say the same
Start with the basics and take it from there
Most men have has times like this, I know I have particularly when stressed.
Beetroot may help as well as Zinc - but this is a “may” and not quite proven. Personally found it beneficial, could be a placebo but eating beetroot is unlikely to cause harm |
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By *oxy jWoman 3 weeks ago
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do not just take a blue pill find out whats causing it first via drs it could be something very simple or it could be something comples ...
viagra and others are not 100% safe ..yes sure for most they are and work well but sometimes even the drs get it wrong my hubs was put on it by his dr back then it was a low dose first 25mg thats one quater of a pill and it had my husband blue lighted to hospital and a 7 week stay ... this pill is not a one pill suits all ...
as with everything there are risk and those who pop them like candy just really dont know deep down what harm will become especially those who dont need them ...
so tho its sage for many its not for all |
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"You don't have to go to the doctors to get the blue pill online docs can like Lloyd's pharmacy will send them by post "
No, No, No.
Don't be tempted to take a blue pill or self medicate before professional advice.
This is what I mentioned previously regarding advice from FAB and social media in general, don't go there.
I'm sure its nothing to worry about but you allude to heart condition on your previous posts so please, please pop along to your GP.
Nothing to be embarrassed about, they have seen and heard it all before a thousand times.
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Right, the rules prevent me from using a certain word - but, Hy*nosis or H*pnosis if you see what I mean. I am qualified in this field.
So, this can happen to anyone at any time, for a variety of reasons. It could be stress at work, or general fatigue. There is no reason why it would happen again, but, because it can be embarrassing, it is easy for the anxiety and fear of it happening again to actually cause it to happen again. Using Hypn*sis will help. If you look up “Hy*nosis Downloads” on the internet, They have a good script to resolve this without the need for blue pills.
Also, this can be a signal of something physical, an early warning. So it is also worth getting a check up - always be safe and get checked. |
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Definitely get your testosterone levels tested before you try the blue pills. If it's low , then that might be why your feeling depressed and struggling with getting a hard on and keeping it hard. |
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Thanks everyone, all good advice. Trying to improve my mental health by eat prop and at the correct times and a bit of exercise. I'm so stressed out and tired as always awake early even though I'm shattered. Letting life get to me and this issue makes me feel ?? will definitely get myself to docs or try this week. |
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"I think you already know the problem. Stressed, tired, depressed. Then the added anxiety of knowing you're struggling with erections will make it more difficult then it becomes a vicious circle. Cut down on the booze, eat healthy, exercise, stop smoking (if you do smoke that is), drink plenty of water, get plenty of sleep if possible. None of that's a magic cure, but will go a long way to helping. "
Absolutely this! I had the same situation a few years ago. Took a proper effort to look after myself and get back to feeling more energised. My performance got back to where it used to be too. |
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"Recently noticed that my erection are not as strong or long lasting as used to be. Happened couple of times when having sex Recently and feeling pre embarrassed by the whole thing. I'm stressed and tired depressed and know this doesn't help but and suggestions what I could take to help. Seems lots of things out there but not sure what's safe "
Happens in about 1 in 4 men over 40. Many cause stress, lacy lack of sleep overweight, drugs or alcohol. Worry, anxiety. But very treatable. I saw a specialist at 63 and it was very worthwhile. I'm diabetic. |
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100% go to the GP mate. Have you checked your BP also? It can effect erection.
Hope whatever has you down subsides too. Exercise, some daily walks and seeing friends & family will help massively with this also. |
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"The penis is like a barometer for male health, if you've noticed it's not the same deffo worth going to the GP to put your mind at ease "
This exactly. When I'm ill or just not 100%, I barely get an erection, not even in the morning. |
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"Recently noticed that my erection are not as strong or long lasting as used to be. Happened couple of times when having sex Recently and feeling pre embarrassed by the whole thing. I'm stressed and tired depressed and know this doesn't help but and suggestions what I could take to help. Seems lots of things out there but not sure what's safe "
Go to any back street gym. Blue pills. Unreal |
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After reading the thread, ignore me pal |
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By *outhwilts63Man 2 weeks ago
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"Thought about that but did have a problem with heart years ago that didn't ever really get to the bottom of so bit worried about just taking it. Thanks for kind words people does mean alot"
If you've had heart problems defo see a Dr before taking the blue pill off any online vendor.
Viagra was originally developed for heart problems, helping with erections was a side effect. But it does elevate your blood pressure and does advise not to take if have heart problems or at risk from a stroke.
Talk to a Dr. |
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hopefully you can figure it out soon 
