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By *melie LAL OP   Woman 5 weeks ago

neverland

There are so many anti-depressants being prescribed.

The thread Sertraline was so popular, and hopefully helpful, it'd be good to continue.

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By *ynamite500Man 5 weeks ago

Angus

Forgive me for saying, (only an opinion) I think anti depressants are being over prescribed. I understand they help people but I can't help think that doctors or other medical professionals just use them as the easy option.🤔

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By *melie LAL OP   Woman 5 weeks ago

neverland

Here's a breakdown of mental health support options:

Samaritans:

Phone: 116 123 (free, 24/7)

Website: Samaritans

NHS Talking Therapies:

For: People in England aged 18 or over

Conditions treated: Depression, anxiety, phobias, OCD, PTSD, etc.

How to access: Speak to your GP or contact the talking therapies service directly

Mind website

Mind Legal Advice:

For: Legal advice related to mental health, mental capacity, community care, human rights, and discrimination/equality

Hub of Hope:

For: Finding local mental health charities

Website: Hub of Hope

National Suicide Prevention Helpline UK:

For: Compassionate and understanding support for those with mental health concerns or thoughts of suicide

Phone: 0800 587 0800

Hours: 6 pm - midnight, every day

111

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By *ynamite500Man 5 weeks ago

Angus


"Here's a breakdown of mental health support options:

Samaritans:

Phone: 116 123 (free, 24/7)

Website: Samaritans

NHS Talking Therapies:

For: People in England aged 18 or over

Conditions treated: Depression, anxiety, phobias, OCD, PTSD, etc.

How to access: Speak to your GP or contact the talking therapies service directly

Mind website

Mind Legal Advice:

For: Legal advice related to mental health, mental capacity, community care, human rights, and discrimination/equality

Hub of Hope:

For: Finding local mental health charities

Website: Hub of Hope

National Suicide Prevention Helpline UK:

For: Compassionate and understanding support for those with mental health concerns or thoughts of suicide

Phone: 0800 587 0800

Hours: 6 pm - midnight, every day

111

"

Good on you for posting this!👏👏👏

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By *melie LAL OP   Woman 5 weeks ago

neverland


"Forgive me for saying, (only an opinion) I think anti depressants are being over prescribed. I understand they help people but I can't help think that doctors or other medical professionals just use them as the easy option.🤔 "

Unfortunately the best (combined) help is therapy. This is either expensive or has a long waiting list.

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By *ynamite500Man 5 weeks ago

Angus


"Forgive me for saying, (only an opinion) I think anti depressants are being over prescribed. I understand they help people but I can't help think that doctors or other medical professionals just use them as the easy option.🤔

Unfortunately the best (combined) help is therapy. This is either expensive or has a long waiting list."

Yeah, I know you're right... It annoys me that the government ( won't mention who) made such huge cut backs in social treatment. The ripple effect is massive and will take years to recover, if it ever does 😔

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By *ries AngelWoman 5 weeks ago

Bournemouth

When I was going through my divorce my gp wanted to put me on it and I took it for over a week but for me I didn’t like the detachment feeling…

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By *ynamite500Man 5 weeks ago

Angus


"When I was going through my divorce my gp wanted to put me on it and I took it for over a week but for me I didn’t like the detachment feeling…"

That's exactly what in talking about...I can understand that given your situation you may have been feeling down and awful (who could possibly blame you) however it's more of an emotional distressed state (situationally) as opposed to a depressed (especially clinically) state. The symptoms are similar however the causes are completely different. I think sometimes doctors miss this and simply just sign a prescription for ease. 🤔

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By *toxyMan 5 weeks ago

bicester

Just been prescribed setraline for depression was on fluoxetine for years started on one a day and last year was put up to 3 a day but things got worse and worse nearly cost me my job and marriage after the fluoxetine I was put on citalepram or however you spell it these didn’t work for me hence now on setraline haven’t had any side effects apart from not sleeping

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By *obbieNWMan 5 weeks ago

Altrincham

I've had diazepam, dothiepin, fluoxitine and now sertraline. I thought sertraline was by far the best but of course this is a very individual thing.

The one thing that trumps the lot is talking over a coffee or beer with my closest friends and sharing our hopes and fears. That is the best therapy of all.

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago

I was prescribed these and took them for a few months they made me suicidle basically i stopped them straight away! Doctors dont care anymore they will give u anything they get paid either way!

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By *ustfulbigboyMan 5 weeks ago

North Wales

I was prescribed setraline at first, didn't feel like they were doing anything, then they switched me to metazipine (my apologies for spelling that completely wrong) they definitely helped me sleep but damn did i feel crap during the day.

I've stopped taking them (my own choice) I definitely don't feel as blah during the day and some days do feel like I'm winning the fight...to be honest I've not talked to anyone about this really as I don't know what to do ,do I go back and ask for something different again or do I go on without anything..I just don't want to be taking them all my life that's one of my worries

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By *melie LAL OP   Woman 5 weeks ago

neverland


"I've had diazepam, dothiepin, fluoxitine and now sertraline. I thought sertraline was by far the best but of course this is a very individual thing.

The one thing that trumps the lot is talking over a coffee or beer with my closest friends and sharing our hopes and fears. That is the best therapy of all. "

Which is why talking therapies are advocated.

As a society many people have lost the social support of family/neighbours/friends compared to decades ago. We are a fractured society.

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By *melie LAL OP   Woman 5 weeks ago

neverland


"I was prescribed these and took them for a few months they made me suicidle basically i stopped them straight away! Doctors dont care anymore they will give u anything they get paid either way! "

I hope you found strategies that work.

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By *melie LAL OP   Woman 5 weeks ago

neverland


"I was prescribed setraline at first, didn't feel like they were doing anything, then they switched me to metazipine (my apologies for spelling that completely wrong) they definitely helped me sleep but damn did i feel crap during the day.

I've stopped taking them (my own choice) I definitely don't feel as blah during the day and some days do feel like I'm winning the fight...to be honest I've not talked to anyone about this really as I don't know what to do ,do I go back and ask for something different again or do I go on without anything..I just don't want to be taking them all my life that's one of my worries "

It will be dependent on the cause(s) of the depression to how long you'll be on them. If you have made headway yourself, acknowledge that.

Must add, don't ever use alcohol as a strategy. It is a depressant.

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By *ongandharderMan 5 weeks ago

Rotherham


"There are so many anti-depressants being prescribed.

The thread Sertraline was so popular, and hopefully helpful, it'd be good to continue."

Great work keeping it going

When I first created the discussion a while ago it struck me as no one was talking about the side effects and I knew if I had something other would to so thought why no start a dialogue

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By *melie LAL OP   Woman 5 weeks ago

neverland


"There are so many anti-depressants being prescribed.

The thread Sertraline was so popular, and hopefully helpful, it'd be good to continue.

Great work keeping it going

When I first created the discussion a while ago it struck me as no one was talking about the side effects and I knew if I had something other would to so thought why no start a dialogue "

The more it is talked about means it loses its stigma.

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By *adi333TV/TS 5 weeks ago

Felixstowe

Thanks for the info I?am on cipramil

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By *orny PTMan 5 weeks ago

Peterborough


"Forgive me for saying, (only an opinion) I think anti depressants are being over prescribed. I understand they help people but I can't help think that doctors or other medical professionals just use them as the easy option.🤔 "

Absolutely, gut health, brain injury and poor breathing techniques all add more sediment to this muddy pool of low moods.

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By *melie LAL OP   Woman 5 weeks ago

neverland


"Thanks for the info I?am on cipramil"

Which is a brand of the generic citalopram.

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By *eggieMarshmallowWoman 5 weeks ago

Cardiff

I ran out last week and I have been too horny to put into words which is saying something because when I'm on them I'm feral enough

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By *upanovaMan 5 weeks ago

Sheffield


"I've had diazepam, dothiepin, fluoxitine and now sertraline. I thought sertraline was by far the best but of course this is a very individual thing.

The one thing that trumps the lot is talking over a coffee or beer with my closest friends and sharing our hopes and fears. That is the best therapy of all. "

I could not agree more

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By *upanovaMan 5 weeks ago

Sheffield


"I've had diazepam, dothiepin, fluoxitine and now sertraline. I thought sertraline was by far the best but of course this is a very individual thing.

The one thing that trumps the lot is talking over a coffee or beer with my closest friends and sharing our hopes and fears. That is the best therapy of all.

Which is why talking therapies are advocated.

As a society many people have lost the social support of family/neighbours/friends compared to decades ago. We are a fractured society."

I agree totally. I feel lonely a lot even when I was in a relationship. Family 200 miles away. Winter is always hardest for be, quite I get SAD, plus all my social life is summer based, cricket, golf etc. I do walking football and they have a good social side too. Lots of blokes in the group struggle with mental health.

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By *melie LAL OP   Woman 5 weeks ago

neverland

Don't forget your vitamin D either through the sun or supplements.

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By *avej500Man 5 weeks ago

Stevenage

Didn’t get on with them in the slightest on different ones now total different Outlook and help me massively and to top it off I’ve just been told I’ve got ADHD so I’ve been on them tablets for the last month

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By *orny PTMan 5 weeks ago

Peterborough


"I've had diazepam, dothiepin, fluoxitine and now sertraline. I thought sertraline was by far the best but of course this is a very individual thing.

The one thing that trumps the lot is talking over a coffee or beer with my closest friends and sharing our hopes and fears. That is the best therapy of all.

I could not agree more"

Therapy also takes place in, pubs cafes, allotments, sheds, riverbanks and even hill climbs.

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By *orny PTMan 5 weeks ago

Peterborough


"Don't forget your vitamin D either through the sun or supplements."

Holidays on prescription?

Take 8 hours a day in the sun for two weeks in Cap D'Agde! Yes please.

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago

I find exercise is the best way for me to cope and clear my head. I'm not much of a talker, just like most men, so going for a run, out for a cycle, or playing football really helps.

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago

I'm sure most people in here would be willing to listen if needed.

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By *akeyousmile30Man 5 weeks ago

greenwich

I have been depressed and was sertaline, for me getting back to normal was finding what made ne depressed and removing it from my life

Hope that helps someone

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago

A great discussion. If anyone ever needs to chat. I've gone through a good bit of stuff. Leaves the body in trauma at times.

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By *ynamite500Man 5 weeks ago

Angus


"I have been depressed and was sertaline, for me getting back to normal was finding what made ne depressed and removing it from my life

Hope that helps someone "

This has to be the ultimate goal... Addressing the cause, won't be easy though!

Well done!👍👏👏

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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago

Meeting a councillor was the best thing I ever did. Not only were they sympathetic to what I was saying, the way they ask you questions lets you discover the answers. Wish I’d done it sooner!

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By *GreyWolf68Man 5 weeks ago

Tonbridge

Perhaps, but for some of us who suffer from neurochemical imbalances, they really are the only option. Either that or accept the fact we'll never feel normal. Mental illnesses aren't things that can be understood by anyone who's never suffered them.

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By *llNatural36FWoman 5 weeks ago

Denbighshire


"Perhaps, but for some of us who suffer from neurochemical imbalances, they really are the only option. Either that or accept the fact we'll never feel normal. Mental illnesses aren't things that can be understood by anyone who's never suffered them.

"

This, completely agree ❤️

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By *rBruce101Man 5 weeks ago

Leicester

Recently I have come off sertraline. Have been on it for several years and although slowly the dose had to be increased it kept me steady. Things started to go wrong again last year with the loss of my job and then the sudden loss of my girlfriend of 18 years. Xmas was a particularly horrible time. I was maxed out on sertraline. So they have swapped me. Now on venlafaxine. Early days.

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By *melie LAL OP   Woman 5 weeks ago

neverland


"Recently I have come off sertraline. Have been on it for several years and although slowly the dose had to be increased it kept me steady. Things started to go wrong again last year with the loss of my job and then the sudden loss of my girlfriend of 18 years. Xmas was a particularly horrible time. I was maxed out on sertraline. So they have swapped me. Now on venlafaxine. Early days."

This medication can increase blood pressure, so do allow the GP to keep an eye on it.

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By *espectful FabberMan 5 weeks ago

The Fylde Coast


"Here's a breakdown of mental health support options:

Samaritans:

Phone: 116 123 (free, 24/7)

Website: Samaritans

NHS Talking Therapies:

For: People in England aged 18 or over

Conditions treated: Depression, anxiety, phobias, OCD, PTSD, etc.

How to access: Speak to your GP or contact the talking therapies service directly

Mind website

Mind Legal Advice:

For: Legal advice related to mental health, mental capacity, community care, human rights, and discrimination/equality

Hub of Hope:

For: Finding local mental health charities

Website: Hub of Hope

National Suicide Prevention Helpline UK:

For: Compassionate and understanding support for those with mental health concerns or thoughts of suicide

Phone: 0800 587 0800

Hours: 6 pm - midnight, every day

111

"

Brilliant 👏👏

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By *antassack889Man 5 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Been on others the last 8 months finally realised what they were doing to me and made the decision to come off them!

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By *otsossieMan 3 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Finally off everything completely.

Hopefully I’ll be able to sleep soon. Averaging 3.5hrs a night this week.

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By *issandSub77Couple 2 weeks ago

wakefield

I've recently, 6months ago, been prescribed sertraline and for me they have helped 100%. Well maybe not 100% as I do have the odd bad day.

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By *roxibear70Man 2 weeks ago

Cheshire

I've been on sertraline for 5yrs I'm on 200mg

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By *heknobbyoneMan 2 weeks ago

gateshead

Thing is not everything can be fixed with talking, it helps definitely but when the life problems behind Anxiety/Stress/Depression are very real, then help is as far as it goes.

In my case I have a wife with MS and in a wheelchair and my son is autistic and I was working shifts in a high pressure manufacturing industry.

Talking couldn’t fix any of those things but it did help but not enough.

In the end the only real improvement I could do was take early retirement so I can care for them.

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By *abulous guyMan 2 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Well said my friend. Depression and other mental illnesses are "real" illnesses just like physical health illnesses. If you're a diabetic, wouldn't you take your diabetic medication to have some quality of life? And yes, most medicines do come with side effects, but you weigh up the cost and benefits, like most things in life. Unfortunately because of the stigma still attached to mental illness and it's treatment, it still remains a misunderstood taboo subject

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By *abulous guyMan 2 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"Perhaps, but for some of us who suffer from neurochemical imbalances, they really are the only option. Either that or accept the fact we'll never feel normal. Mental illnesses aren't things that can be understood by anyone who's never suffered them.

"

I was referring to this comment

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By *otsossieMan 2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I haven’t slept a wink since coming off these crappy pills. It’s been weeks.

Nerve pain (plus wired) but don’t want to take yet more pills for it.

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By *leanshaveMan 2 weeks ago

Golborne

I've been on sertraline for years for stress and anxiety

I also get panic attacks, suddenly and for no reason

My sleeping is shit

My libido is shit

When I met my wife sex was awesome

Now we hardly have it and when I do get aroused usually end up a limp dick after a short while

This has taken a toll on our marriage

My wife is on them as well

I tried to come off them once,as advised by my gp but started being ill again

This year I've been slowly cutting down each month

This month, trying 50mg see what happens

I hope my sex life improves

Miss it

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By *entlemanrogueMan 2 weeks ago

Motherwell

Fresh air, being out in the daylight, excercise, watching/listening to something that makes me laugh.

These are all the natural methods I use to combat depression

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By *heknobbyoneMan 2 weeks ago

gateshead


"I've been on sertraline for years for stress and anxiety

I also get panic attacks, suddenly and for no reason

My sleeping is shit

My libido is shit

When I met my wife sex was awesome

Now we hardly have it and when I do get aroused usually end up a limp dick after a short while

This has taken a toll on our marriage

My wife is on them as well

I tried to come off them once,as advised by my gp but started being ill again

This year I've been slowly cutting down each month

This month, trying 50mg see what happens

I hope my sex life improves

Miss it"

I’m doing the same, been taking half a tablet for 5 weeks now with the option to take a full one if I have a jittery day. Going ok so far and libedo is definitely up.

Good luck, hope it goes well for you

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan 2 weeks ago

All over the place

It didn't agree with me at all, gave me terrible headaches

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By *lydebuilt69Man 2 weeks ago

East Kilbride

Citalopram made sex impossible, I just couldn't cum. Even doing it myself was a struggle to get over the line.

Mirtazpine just made me eat. I put on about 2 stone so had to stop.

Been on Fluoxetine for a while now, it seems to work best for me with mininal side effects.

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By *erewego!!Man 2 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Was on sertraline it was aeful it killed the sex life couldnt maintain erection couldnt cum went citalopram lower dose resulting worse effects for sexlife i struggle to wank

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By *erewego!!Man 2 weeks ago

wolverhampton

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By *untime40Man 2 weeks ago

blackheath


"Just been prescribed setraline for depression was on fluoxetine for years started on one a day and last year was put up to 3 a day but things got worse and worse nearly cost me my job and marriage after the fluoxetine I was put on citalepram or however you spell it these didn’t work for me hence now on setraline haven’t had any side effects apart from not sleeping "

If you can’t sleep take them in the morning

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By *untime40Man 2 weeks ago

blackheath


"Was on sertraline it was aeful it killed the sex life couldnt maintain erection couldnt cum went citalopram lower dose resulting worse effects for sexlife i struggle to wank "

I feel your pain I’ve not cum in weeks but I randomly get hard a lot now and it stays for ages can get embarrassing when out shopping ect

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By *inceIlkestonMan 2 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"Forgive me for saying, (only an opinion) I think anti depressants are being over prescribed. I understand they help people but I can't help think that doctors or other medical professionals just use them as the easy option.🤔 "
I think you have much to learn

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By *entlemanJim28Man 2 weeks ago

the Shires


"I've had diazepam, dothiepin, fluoxitine and now sertraline. I thought sertraline was by far the best but of course this is a very individual thing.

The one thing that trumps the lot is talking over a coffee or beer with my closest friends and sharing our hopes and fears. That is the best therapy of all. "

Definitely this - I’m on Citalopram - was diagnosed with CPTSD about 16 months ago - doseage has been up and down over the years. Have to agree a good support network has always worked better than meds

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS 2 weeks ago

The Lake District

i collected a prescribed box of this today %0mg,just unsure about taking it,for medical health reasons,as ive now had 2 autoimmume conditions in 2 years and worried whats going on with me so following this thread

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By *otsossieMan 1 week ago

Chesterfield

Low dose is probably fine.

I get the impression it’s the one they try first, but ramping up the dose actually made me worse.

So give it a few weeks and if it’s no good then go back.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan 1 week ago

Hatfield

My experience with setraline is 💯 negative.. I wish I had not started on it and glad I got off .. but as some wiser heads have said .. it effects different people in different ways and may work for you but the side effects as well as the not helping my condition means I give of double thumbs down and can’t recommend or say anything good about the drug

Good luck to who ever is on this or you’re anti depressants … get well soon

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By *heelz69Man 1 week ago

Manchester

I've been on a medium amount for about 2yrs with no issues, I must be the odd one out

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By *perimentWoman 1 week ago

Wakefield

I’m on day 3 of Mirtazipine. I am so drowsy it’s untrue. I spoke the pharmacist and am going to try and take it at 1830 to see if that helps me wake up less groggy. I’ve been having daytime naps (most unlike me) the vivid dreams are unreal… I’m having it alongside therapy but bloody hell it’s hard going. I’m only in 15mg too. It is helping me sleep though!x

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By *VANDYMan 1 week ago

Dawlish


"I have been depressed and was sertaline, for me getting back to normal was finding what made ne depressed and removing it from my life

Hope that helps someone "

Excellent advice, for years I thought I knew my causes, from my childhood mainly, but all the time the real causes were all around me. My job, but incredibly, my wife, her kids and family. I walked away from the lot and 3 years later I have a new job and home in a new town but unfortunately I will never trust a woman in a relationship again. No offence intended, this is my story. I’m still depressed because the divorce was horrific not to mention expensive, lost my mum suddenly at Xmas, 2023/24 was a bad time. Sertralin screwed with my memory then had venlafaxine but couldn’t take enough so now on Vencarm which is the slow release version of the above. I still get shit days when I don’t get out of bed, and I mean not even to pee or eat.

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By *VANDYMan 1 week ago

Dawlish


"Perhaps, but for some of us who suffer from neurochemical imbalances, they really are the only option. Either that or accept the fact we'll never feel normal. Mental illnesses aren't things that can be understood by anyone who's never suffered them.

This, completely agree ❤️"

Ditto.

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By *effdelightMan 1 week ago

Grimsby

They send me haywire when I miss them. Luckily I maintain the ability to have sex but it does vary, especially regarding reaching climax. They've never affected me enough to stop things being fun.

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By *VANDYMan 1 week ago

Dawlish


"I've been on sertraline for years for stress and anxiety

I also get panic attacks, suddenly and for no reason

My sleeping is shit

My libido is shit

When I met my wife sex was awesome

Now we hardly have it and when I do get aroused usually end up a limp dick after a short while

This has taken a toll on our marriage

My wife is on them as well

I tried to come off them once,as advised by my gp but started being ill again

This year I've been slowly cutting down each month

This month, trying 50mg see what happens

I hope my sex life improves

Miss it"

Exactly the same here with the sex. Solid as a rock and pumping away and then it just disappears. I can’t cum anymore. And the worst thing is, you have to explain this to the person that you’re just about to try and fuck rather than go limp and suffer the embarrassment.

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By *VANDYMan 1 week ago

Dawlish


"Fresh air, being out in the daylight, excercise, watching/listening to something that makes me laugh.

These are all the natural methods I use to combat depression"

You’re very fortunate

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By *VANDYMan 1 week ago

Dawlish


"Was on sertraline it was aeful it killed the sex life couldnt maintain erection couldnt cum went citalopram lower dose resulting worse effects for sexlife i struggle to wank "

I’m with you mate. If I thought it would work I would try and come off but I worry I’m not yet strong enough. Also I’ve read that the sex problems may be permanent even if you come off.

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By *elix85Man 1 week ago

Peterborough

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By *elix85Man 1 week ago

Peterborough


"I've been on sertraline for years for stress and anxiety

I also get panic attacks, suddenly and for no reason

My sleeping is shit

My libido is shit

When I met my wife sex was awesome

Now we hardly have it and when I do get aroused usually end up a limp dick after a short while

This has taken a toll on our marriage

My wife is on them as well

I tried to come off them once,as advised by my gp but started being ill again

This year I've been slowly cutting down each month

This month, trying 50mg see what happens

I hope my sex life improves

Miss it

Exactly the same here with the sex. Solid as a rock and pumping away and then it just disappears. I can’t cum anymore. And the worst thing is, you have to explain this to the person that you’re just about to try and fuck rather than go limp and suffer the embarrassment. "

I also have had libido problems (and night sweats and insomnia) with sertraline— so much so I’ve reduced my dosage from 150mg a day to 100mg. I want to reduce it further to 50mg but the GP was clear that the dose has to be lowered incrementally.

In terms of other ways to counteract the side effects on sex, as well as viagra/cialis before intercourse, try taking 30mg of zinc and a vitamin B6 supplement each day. I’ve been doing so for two weeks now and I’ve already noticed a firmer, more engorged erection. Can get harder more quickly too.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan 1 week ago

Hatfield

I’ve heard zinc is good for helping keep erections

Setraline virtually destroyed my libido.. I weaned off asap .. awful drug

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By *orny PTMan 1 week ago

Peterborough


"I’ve heard zinc is good for helping keep erections

Setraline virtually destroyed my libido.. I weaned off asap .. awful drug "

Terrible drug.

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By *orny PTMan 1 week ago

Peterborough

Stomach and gut health also need to be looked at.

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By *otsossieMan 1 week ago

Chesterfield


"You’re very fortunate "

And also probably not suffering from severe clinical depression

Isn’t it great when people aren’t the same but think they know best?

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By *orny PTMan 1 week ago

Peterborough


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Mirtazpine just made me eat. I put on about 2 stone so had to stop.

"

Could that help boost the appetites of anorexics?

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By *elix85Man 1 week ago

Peterborough


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Mirtazpine just made me eat. I put on about 2 stone so had to stop.

Could that help boost the appetites of anorexics?"

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By *urreyloverMan 1 week ago

Guildford

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By *orny PTMan 1 week ago

Peterborough


"

Mirtazpine just made me eat. I put on about 2 stone so had to stop.

Could that help boost the appetites of anorexics?

"

That was a serious question. Viagra is a heart medication first and an ED treatment second, as that was one the side effects.

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By *orny PTMan 1 week ago

Peterborough


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Well done you, having a supportive boss is the gamechanger, that you can't get on prescription.

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By *tockingsstephTV/TS 1 week ago

northampton

I’m in recovery from combat ptsd thirty years later I’m no on sertraline I only take it at night, it only gives me strange dreams but I have gotten used to that, also makes me really dry so I keep a lot of water next to my bed

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By *haron1701ETV/TS 1 week ago

Southport

Tried mirtazapine and sertraline, both had unbearable side effects

Now on citalopram which isn't any better. Very low libido, no appetite, insomnia, when I do sleep I have bloody awful and confusing dreams - usually involving things going extremely wrong in a big way

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By *upanovaMan 1 week ago

Sheffield


"Tried mirtazapine and sertraline, both had unbearable side effects

Now on citalopram which isn't any better. Very low libido, no appetite, insomnia, when I do sleep I have bloody awful and confusing dreams - usually involving things going extremely wrong in a big way "

I would hope all this should ease. I am now 6 weeks on sertraline and libido has returned, I am cumming quicker, but can still go over an hour! Weird dreams have eased, but I have always had weird dreams. Keep fighting you will get there.

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By *aturecpl15Couple 1 week ago

Chester


"I find exercise is the best way for me to cope and clear my head. I'm not much of a talker, just like most men, so going for a run, out for a cycle, or playing football really helps."

Totally agree. Exercise is greatly underestimated as far as I can see.

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By *anniteMan 1 week ago

North Somerset

I’m on those had a problem with getting an erection

Went to Doc now have a similar pill to Viagra that works well .

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By *haron1701ETV/TS 1 week ago

Southport


"Tried mirtazapine and sertraline, both had unbearable side effects

Now on citalopram which isn't any better. Very low libido, no appetite, insomnia, when I do sleep I have bloody awful and confusing dreams - usually involving things going extremely wrong in a big way

I would hope all this should ease. I am now 6 weeks on sertraline and libido has returned, I am cumming quicker, but can still go over an hour! Weird dreams have eased, but I have always had weird dreams. Keep fighting you will get there. "

Thanks.

I was fine until coming back from Ukraine on last stint as a frontline aid volunteer (wife was fine with me going there btw, and with BBC coming to house to film me packing med gear a few hours before I left on first trip March 2022).

Since then I've found out my son isn't mine, she became extremely hostile and narcissistic - projecting everything onto me, deprived (I've nicked) me of my share of a substantial (£400k+) inheritance, turned my friends and family against me and made homeless with the clothes on my back and £6 in my pocket. Maybe, just maybe, that's why I became sui.ci.dal and extremely depressed?

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By *haron1701ETV/TS 1 week ago

Southport


"Tried mirtazapine and sertraline, both had unbearable side effects

Now on citalopram which isn't any better. Very low libido, no appetite, insomnia, when I do sleep I have bloody awful and confusing dreams - usually involving things going extremely wrong in a big way

I would hope all this should ease. I am now 6 weeks on sertraline and libido has returned, I am cumming quicker, but can still go over an hour! Weird dreams have eased, but I have always had weird dreams. Keep fighting you will get there.

Thanks.

I was fine until coming back from Ukraine on last stint as a frontline aid volunteer (wife was fine with me going there btw, and with BBC coming to house to film me packing med gear a few hours before I left on first trip March 2022).

Since then I've found out my son isn't mine, she became extremely hostile and narcissistic - projecting everything onto me, deprived (I've nicked) me of my share of a substantial (£400k+) inheritance, turned my friends and family against me and made homeless with the clothes on my back and £6 in my pocket. Maybe, just maybe, that's why I became sui.ci.dal and extremely depressed? "

ie knicked, not I've knicked

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By *elix85Man 7 days ago

Peterborough


"I find exercise is the best way for me to cope and clear my head. I'm not much of a talker, just like most men, so going for a run, out for a cycle, or playing football really helps.

Totally agree. Exercise is greatly underestimated as far as I can see."

Yes, helps gets those endorphins flowing. Does help. Even just walking can be of benefit.

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By (user no longer on site) 7 days ago

Depression is hugely underrated underdressed thing in my opinion I had two heart attacks my then girlfriend fucking my best friend behind my back and I was prescribed sertraline it has literally saved my life things got to the point I either was on the verge of crying or fighting nothing went smoothly for a good few years but since I've been on sertraline my head is in a good place. I'll be honest with every one of u though you need someone to talk to i have a couple of close friends who helped me as well

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By *emo and DoryCouple 7 days ago

stoke on Trent

I was prescribed Sertraline for about 2 years and moved onto Escitilopram and have been on that for about 1 year. Side effects have been varied some minor and some pretty awful but they leveled out.

It's amazing how calm life is nowadays; give it time and things get better xx

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By *untimebennieMan 6 days ago

Barnet

Don't mean to be a conspiracy head. But you should look into the pharmaceutical trade and companies like Pfizer before taking any prescribed drugs you might change your mind the pharmaceutical trade is the biggest money earner for the powers that be so the more people on drugs more money they earn

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By *loydyMan 6 days ago

British


"Here's a breakdown of mental health support options:

Samaritans:

Phone: 116 123 (free, 24/7)

Website: Samaritans

NHS Talking Therapies:

For: People in England aged 18 or over

Conditions treated: Depression, anxiety, phobias, OCD, PTSD, etc.

How to access: Speak to your GP or contact the talking therapies service directly

Mind website

Mind Legal Advice:

For: Legal advice related to mental health, mental capacity, community care, human rights, and discrimination/equality

Hub of Hope:

For: Finding local mental health charities

Website: Hub of Hope

National Suicide Prevention Helpline UK:

For: Compassionate and understanding support for those with mental health concerns or thoughts of suicide

Phone: 0800 587 0800

Hours: 6 pm - midnight, every day

111

"

if anyone is in need of an ear to listen I'm hear

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By *ecret voyeurMan 6 days ago

Cheltenham

I have been taking sertraline for a year now, looking to change the ringing in my ears is getting louder by the day! Driving me barmy. Also notice a lot of apathy, so time to change, although do enjoy not giving a fuck haha

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By *elix85Man 6 days ago

Peterborough

Yes, one of the reasons why I’m decreasing my dose is because I feel too ‘flat’, emotionally. I mean, that’s its job— to level things out— but it’s just too much and clouds my ability to be appropriately empathetic.

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By *ecret voyeurMan 6 days ago

Cheltenham

Yes! Exactly, been effecting my performance at work, I'm a manager and find it really hard to be at an empathic level with my team. Very noticeable apparently! Haha

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By *smith87Man 6 days ago

totton

Sertraline made me feel like a zombie, always feeling meh still and sweaty. Venlafaxine now isn't much better. Wanna come off as I've been told it's ADHD and autism not depression. Lots are similar

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By *j NorthMan 6 days ago

Wakey

Sertraline . Interesting side effects. No problems getting a hard on, or keeping it.

But Without tearing the skin off it to try an unload on my ex mrs tits face arse etc . I could not cum.

Did what I needed at the time . Calmed my head down. Glad to be off that shit tho

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By *abmale7979Man 6 days ago

Treorchy

I have been on sertraline for about three months now after being on escitalopram for two months but the side effects were horrible so was put on sertraline instead, the side effects are not as bad as escitalopram but I’m finding it really difficult to get a hard on and then when I do it takes me ages to orgasm.

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