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By *andm93 OP Couple
over a year ago
st davids |
Hey guys Mr here! Wife is bisexual I am straight... I look at bi curious or bi sexual couples and they look like they are having so much fun! Everyone plays with everyone! My wife thinks if your having fun then do it! If it excites you then do it... She also thinks it's hot! But the point I'm getting to is... I can not bare the thought of sucking a guys cock! I'd more than likely let him suck me or I'd give him one lol! But I don't know... What's your guys thoughts? And has anyone gone from straight to bi? X |
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If you're straight then you're straight. Lol. I have bi tenancies because I enjoy anal play and am just cock curious in general. Though I've yet to put anything into action as I'm very specific n when it comes to what I find attractive in guys  don't worry about being judged, do whatever you want to do |
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By *9alMan
over a year ago
Bridgend |
I am a bi man & enjoy all sorts of fun but was very apprehensive the first time I played with another cock , there is that thought that you will go all camp & start walking funny, I know its silly, I do have a glory hole if anyone wants to be sucked by a man anonymously |
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Being openly bi yes it's fun. At the end of the day its what you want to do or what your wife thinks its hot and a turn on. If it excites you and your only want to do certain things that's a discussion you have with either the individual or cple setting boundaries. If you try it and its not for you no harm done if you like it well welcome to the world of bi lol |
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over a year ago
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Just do what is fun, it doesn’t have to be labelled, if you find the right bi guy to join you and your wife and talk to them. You can have a lovely threesome with no bi fun. Then if you felt the urge to try as you were playing would be an option x |
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"Hey guys Mr here! Wife is bisexual I am straight... I look at bi curious or bi sexual couples and they look like they are having so much fun! Everyone plays with everyone! My wife thinks if your having fun then do it! If it excites you then do it... She also thinks it's hot! But the point I'm getting to is... I can not bare the thought of sucking a guys cock! I'd more than likely let him suck me or I'd give him one lol! But I don't know... What's your guys thoughts? And has anyone gone from straight to bi? X"
I’m in your situation
I got 40 % of bi-curious in me lol
It’s your life you can do what you choose to or follow your mind or soul
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I do think there’s a lot of confusion on this site about what makes someone bi. The fact is, attraction is what makes you bi, not action. OP, if you aren’t attracted to men - never look at a man and think “I fancy him” - you’re probably not bi. That doesn’t mean you can’t play with another man in some way during a threesome, for example, and maybe enjoy it. But that wouldn’t make you bi, just “hete exible” maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're straight then you're straight. Lol. I have bi tenancies because I enjoy anal play and am just cock curious in general. Though I've yet to put anything into action as I'm very specific n when it comes to what I find attractive in guys don't worry about being judged, do whatever you want to do"
This describes me too. |
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"I do think there’s a lot of confusion on this site about what makes someone bi. The fact is, attraction is what makes you bi, not action. OP, if you aren’t attracted to men - never look at a man and think “I fancy him” - you’re probably not bi. That doesn’t mean you can’t play with another man in some way during a threesome, for example, and maybe enjoy it. But that wouldn’t make you bi, just “heteexible” maybe."
amen to that, what a fantastic way to rationalise it , I don't fancy guys in the slightest , I've never looked at a guy and thought wow but when the circumstances and mood is right I love playing with a nice clean cock , I state bi on my profile to let people know I'm open to bi fun but would consider myself straight generally |
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"I do think there’s a lot of confusion on this site about what makes someone bi. The fact is, attraction is what makes you bi, not action. OP, if you aren’t attracted to men - never look at a man and think “I fancy him” - you’re probably not bi. That doesn’t mean you can’t play with another man in some way during a threesome, for example, and maybe enjoy it. But that wouldn’t make you bi, just “heteexible” maybe."
Ugh, I’ve just realised there’s an emoji for some reason - what I tried to say was heter o flexible! |
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Try it in the heat of the moment where you think more on instinct. It can also make it easier if you're both playing with a bi guy as a couple.  Don't worry about what it 'makes' you. If it's enjoyable then give it a try! |
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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago
Cap d’Agde, France |
So difficult to break the conditioning of a lifetime.
It took me until my 50’s to realise that Bi play was just a another form of sexuality.
Playing with a guy is different to being with a woman.
Just as exciting but in an other way, less emotional, more physical. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For many years I found the thought of sucking a cock disgusting, but as I got older it became less disgusting until I reached the point where I wanted to try it just to see what it's like. I can't say it was anything special for me, but it's not something I disliked either so if the situation calls for it and everyone is enjoying themselves then I'd do it again.
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"I do think there’s a lot of confusion on this site about what makes someone bi. The fact is, attraction is what makes you bi, not action. OP, if you aren’t attracted to men - never look at a man and think “I fancy him” - you’re probably not bi. That doesn’t mean you can’t play with another man in some way during a threesome, for example, and maybe enjoy it. But that wouldn’t make you bi, just “heteexible” maybe."
This lady understands. I'm not attracted to men at all. But discovered through meeting a couple that let's say I'm 'curious playful'.
I knew I appreciated looking at a nice girthy cock and that was how it was It seemed.
But with the right couple, and when asked if I wanted to experience some bi playful fun I found myself wanting too and it was amazing for everyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do what you feel is right. I was curious about sucking a few years back. Took the plunge and arranged to meet a guy. Nerves where through the roof but excited also. So I thought I've done the hard part I'm here so give it a go. And tge rest is history. 1 positive I have taken from this site is. Sex is sex. Don't let it define you, do what you think your gonna enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're straight then you're straight. Lol. I have bi tenancies because I enjoy anal play and am just cock curious in general. Though I've yet to put anything into action as I'm very specific n when it comes to what I find attractive in guys don't worry about being judged, do whatever you want to do"
Bang on, describes me to an extent, scared of making that move it would be in the heat of the moment if anything happened at all. I'm not attracted to men in the slightest it's the excitement or naughty play that is intriguing wouldn't mind a gloryhole experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The older I'm getting would certainly like to try things out with a male female couple could never kiss a man but would certainly be interested in sucking cock for sure |
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By *iving Bi a TryMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"If when a meet was in progress, the guy started touching, I'd be fine with that, even sucking, and I'd feel his, would I suck?? Hmmm. "
Well I wish you were meeting single guys then! What you've described sounds great to me. |
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I can’t say I’ve ever had thoughts about sucking another guys cock but I guess it’s all down to the individual situation.. Plus there’s that added stigma of “it’s ok for women to to bi in relationships but men.. oh no”... I’d say just go with the flow and what will be, will be  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confusing times mate. I don't fancy fellas, far from it. But some of the pre op trans girls, now they may be fun. I wish I was bi but I'm fairly sure I am not. You are right that every one seems to have a great time but what can I say. Its a hard thing to work out. C  |
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By *urtleJRCouple
over a year ago
Ystradgynlais |
Can't say I'm all that fussed either way. I'm a little curious but not enough to go out and play with another guy, unless it happens during a couples meet. Wife likes the thought of it more than me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was you. They say you never know until you try.
Have a think about what the Mrs said. If you speak to the right couple in sure they will understand and I'm sure the right one would be willing to tease you a little to see if you wanted to go further |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
I think it’s important not to overthink it, and just acknowledge what you feel.
If there’s a genuine curiosity there, then maybe go with it. Don’t “force yourself” to be curious though.
The other thing is - you’re still young. A lot of people report their feelings about this chamgw over time. If you told me twenty-five years ago I’d be the slighest bit curious, I’d have thought it was nonsense. Now..... |
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"I do think there’s a lot of confusion on this site about what makes someone bi. The fact is, attraction is what makes you bi, not action. OP, if you aren’t attracted to men - never look at a man and think “I fancy him” - you’re probably not bi. That doesn’t mean you can’t play with another man in some way during a threesome, for example, and maybe enjoy it. But that wouldn’t make you bi, just “heteexible” maybe."
at last, been asking this question for a while, great answer, and agree totally  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Straight me, but i do have bi thoughts! Every now and then, don’t see its a bad thing, don’t think i could go straight in man to man but if a female was there showing the way and helping then well maybe, it would seem sort if ok then! |
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"I do think there’s a lot of confusion on this site about what makes someone bi. The fact is, attraction is what makes you bi, not action. OP, if you aren’t attracted to men - never look at a man and think “I fancy him” - you’re probably not bi. That doesn’t mean you can’t play with another man in some way during a threesome, for example, and maybe enjoy it. But that wouldn’t make you bi, just “heteexible” maybe."
I think you are on the wrong site!!
That's the most eminently sensible and concise comment i've read on here for some time
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"I do think there’s a lot of confusion on this site about what makes someone bi. The fact is, attraction is what makes you bi, not action. OP, if you aren’t attracted to men - never look at a man and think “I fancy him” - you’re probably not bi. That doesn’t mean you can’t play with another man in some way during a threesome, for example, and maybe enjoy it. But that wouldn’t make you bi, just “heteexible” maybe.
I think you are on the wrong site!!
That's the most eminently sensible and concise comment i've read on here for some time
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Lol, thanks, it’s possible I might be a bit too interested in sexuality and attraction and how it all works! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys Mr here! Wife is bisexual I am straight... I look at bi curious or bi sexual couples and they look like they are having so much fun! Everyone plays with everyone! My wife thinks if your having fun then do it! If it excites you then do it... She also thinks it's hot! But the point I'm getting to is... I can not bare the thought of sucking a guys cock! I'd more than likely let him suck me or I'd give him one lol! But I don't know... What's your guys thoughts? And has anyone gone from straight to bi? X"
i ll help you go bi fella  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you're straight then you're straight. Lol. I have bi tenancies because I enjoy anal play and am just cock curious in general. Though I've yet to put anything into action as I'm very specific n when it comes to what I find attractive in guys don't worry about being judged, do whatever you want to do
Bang on, describes me to an extent, scared of making that move it would be in the heat of the moment if anything happened at all. I'm not attracted to men in the slightest it's the excitement or naughty play that is intriguing wouldn't mind a gloryhole experience"
i ll happily suck you too  |
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Personally absolutely no interest cock myself, I'll happily play with a woman with another man involved but he's not doing anything with me and I'm not doing anything with him.
It's a bit like marmite I guess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not attracted to men, but I do enjoy playing with a man's cock. I suppose that makes me bi in simple terms. I'll meet a guy on his own, but definitely have a preference meeting a couple where the male is okay with me playing with him. I especially enjoy helping the female half to please the man |
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