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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx |
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"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx"
It's definitely not just you. |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
merthyr |
"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx
It's definitely not just you. "
Wrong vibes mane on my profile? X |
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"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx"
Your not alone. The constant crude messages get too much. Some People seem to have forgotten how to be sweet.  |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
merthyr |
"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx
Your not alone. The constant crude messages get too much. Some People seem to have forgotten how to be sweet. "
Crude maybe for some I prefer a gentleman/ woman xxxx |
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"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx
It's definitely not just you.
Wrong vibes mane on my profile? X"
Not at all, your profile clearly states what you do want, unfortunately, many people don't engage the brain, they let thier peen type the message |
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"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx
Your not alone. The constant crude messages get too much. Some People seem to have forgotten how to be sweet.
Crude maybe for some I prefer a gentleman/ woman xxxx"
I'm with you on that one  . The gents have gone into hiding lol x |
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"Oh I do love sex too just the art of flirting, being a gentleman, being decent really seems to have been lost xxx"
In my experience it comes from both sides,and not just on here. For a while now I've noticed less effort in a lot of things, the art of conversation seems to be lost. But yes, the tactile part is very important. Im not a robot, I love a kiss and a cuddle and taking rubbish to each other |
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"Oh I do love sex too just the art of flirting, being a gentleman, being decent really seems to have been lost xxx
In my experience it comes from both sides,and not just on here. For a while now I've noticed less effort in a lot of things, the art of conversation seems to be lost. But yes, the tactile part is very important. Im not a robot, I love a kiss and a cuddle and taking rubbish to each other "
Totally agree  |
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I just love a good cwtch and a snog 
I find quick hook ups very disappointing really. Once you know each other well, then a quick can be very satisfying. But much prefer long lingering kisses, strokes and touching |
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"I just love a good cwtch and a snog
But much prefer long lingering kisses, strokes and touching"
Exactly, I genuinely used to pride myself on my kissing, it was one thing I actually thought I did well lol think I've forgotten now lol 
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"I just love a good cwtch and a snog
But much prefer long lingering kisses, strokes and touching
Exactly, I genuinely used to pride myself on my kissing, it was one thing I actually thought I did well lol think I've forgotten now lol
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It's been so long, I think I've forgotten too |
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"I just love a good cwtch and a snog
I find quick hook ups very disappointing really. Once you know each other well, then a quick can be very satisfying. But much prefer long lingering kisses, strokes and touching"
So with you on this one it's not about emptying that load and running. Who doesn't enjoy the slow kissing touching and teasing |
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"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx"
Hey i have to totally agree sexy it is just as imlortant as the sex act itself  |
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"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx"
We find the wanna fuck type of messages so boring.
We personally think since lockdown it's got a whole lot worse so much so we've hid our profile. |
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You are not on your own love, or sending out the wrong vibs. Truth be told, there's a lot more intelligent alpha hetro guys like the closeness, and affection of intimacy than would publicly admit to. I love holding a woman close to me. Although it's not really seen in group fun, mmf meets or gb's, many couples have told me that after wild nights, the following day the closeness they share together is indescribable, and the sex they have together then is out of this world. |
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For me I used to enjoy the thrill of the chase and seducing women when I was younger and far better looking than I am now lol.
For me my ideal is exactly what you say, to have a partner where intimacy, romance etc is the most desirable thing. However I also like a lady who will say Jimmy I love what we have but I really want a good seeing to by someone else lol. Then the build up to that we are all over each other, then she meets him, plays and then comes home to me where we then have passionate sex and intimacy!
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For me the closeness cwtching, kissing even just turning up with a bunch of flowers a cuppa and a cwtch, are all part of it. Otherwise it's all very mechanical, I love the touchy feely being silly and enjoying a good bit of banter and a chat. So it not just you, some of us Males are like that too  |
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By *iltomMan
over a year ago
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"For me the closeness cwtching, kissing even just turning up with a bunch of flowers a cuppa and a cwtch, are all part of it. Otherwise it's all very mechanical, I love the touchy feely being silly and enjoying a good bit of banter and a chat. So it not just you, some of us Males are like that too "
Very same here. Tender and attentive all the way. |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
merthyr |
Thank you all for your replies
I just feel that any idiot can physically make you come these days, however I really don’t feel excited about that, the other things involved in getting someone excited seem to have been lost, sad. Xxxx |
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"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx"
blame porn
if somebody tried to treat me like that they would soon get the rough end of my tongue, and not in a sexy way either.
Yes, the gentle art of being sensual and sensuous is important to us. |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
merthyr |
"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx
blame porn
if somebody tried to treat me like that they would soon get the rough end of my tongue, and not in a sexy way either.
Yes, the gentle art of being sensual and sensuous is important to us."
I block more than answer these days, sad xx |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
merthyr |
"You’re not alone with that thought OP, we are exactly the same. The crass ‘wreck you’ etc messages mean they haven’t read our profile and are definitely not our type either "
Indeed I hate it there is no way on this earth I’d meet those people x |
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"You’re not alone with that thought OP, we are exactly the same. The crass ‘wreck you’ etc messages mean they haven’t read our profile and are definitely not our type either
Indeed I hate it there is no way on this earth I’d meet those people x"
It always makes me wonder if that approach ever works
Id never speak to someone like that in real life so I'd never do it here. I wouldn't be able to keep a straight face if my chat up line was "I wanna wreak your pussy" |
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"Thank you all for your replies
I just feel that any idiot can physically make you come these days, however I really don’t feel excited about that, the other things involved in getting someone excited seem to have been lost, sad. Xxxx"
I hate it being mechanical, getting to know the person first is so important, sex doesnt even need to happen on the first meet. Knowing and appreciating the Lady is more important in my book. |
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"Thank you all for your replies
I just feel that any idiot can physically make you come these days, however I really don’t feel excited about that, the other things involved in getting someone excited seem to have been lost, sad. Xxxx
I hate it being mechanical, getting to know the person first is so important, sex doesnt even need to happen on the first meet. Knowing and appreciating the Lady is more important in my book."
I agree. The better you know the person the better the chemistry the better the sex and as the op has said better the orgasm |
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"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx"
Nope. This is spot on. Sometimes you want it wild and animalistic. Sometimes it needs to be close and erotic. |
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"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx"
The "i will ruin you" are usually the worst lovers. They are more wham, bam than you mam types who are lying to just get pussy. One of my female mates had a few like this and accually they were the ones who tapped out first as she ruined them by burning them out. Those types talk the talk but cannot walk the walk so to speak.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahhh I’m so glad others agree thank you all xxx
It is nice to see others do agree.
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Not all us guys are knobs or think with our knobs. Jenny was glad she found me as she had her fair share of beauts along the way. And same for me also as not all women can be nice either remember. Its not just a male thing being up your own arse and acting like a twat! |
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Sex without some kind of connection is empty and soulless... even one off encounters can be sensual and erotic oddly though they often turn into long things as you find people you like and become friends with |
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The Art of conversation has definitely died here.
We like to get to know people, flirt etc, but that doesn't seem to appeal to anyone else.
Play with the senses first has always been our motto, that way when a meet does happen, the experience is all the more pleasurable |
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"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx"
Thats what I like too, not so much the intimacy but lots of sensuality. Its on my profile, and I let meets know my preferences. |
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"The Art of conversation has definitely died here.
We like to get to know people, flirt etc, but that doesn't seem to appeal to anyone else.
Play with the senses first has always been our motto, that way when a meet does happen, the experience is all the more pleasurable "
I blame a bit on the tinder type sites. Swipe, match, fuck and go. I must be the only person trying to make conversation on tinder pmsl
They're ok tho if you want that sort or non connection meet. |
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"Ahhh I’m so glad others agree thank you all xxx
It is nice to see others do agree.
Not all us guys are knobs or think with our knobs. Jenny was glad she found me as she had her fair share of beauts along the way. And same for me also as not all women can be nice either remember. Its not just a male thing being up your own arse and acting like a twat!"
Couldn't agree with you more on your last comment, there's some absolute bitches out there, I've met some stars over the years with their heads so far up their own backsides, they could have done with a miners lamp to help them see in that dark passage. Funny thing was though that after I began to stack up to whole package material, they soon came down off their high horses, but by then the damage was done, and I got more satisfaction out of bombing them out rather than bedding them. The classic was a piece from Cardiff who sent a photo of me doing a stir fry in a thong, into my company head office for the attention of the MD, and written on the back was, "This is what he is doing when he is supposed to be working," all because I wasn't going to bale her out financially. There's some lovely fantastic people on here though, it's just a case of finding those that we connect with. |
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" Funny thing was though that after I began to stack up to whole package material, they soon came down off their high horses, but by then the damage was done, and I got more satisfaction out of bombing them out rather than bedding them. "
Easy on sunshine, you'll struggle to get that head of yours through the doorway soon. |
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I do a lot of impact stuff, spanking, belting, caning etc. A big part of that is aftercare, and you need a cuddle after to balance it out
Apart from that, I personally love a good cwtch after a good session. I couldn't imagine anything worse than just getting up and going home after sex without that first |
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"I feel your pain gentlemen but I’m sorry men are definitely worse !!! X"
I wont disagree with you there as we see that as a cpl on here. But a female mate of mine who was on here told me of the beauties who messaged her with the i will ruin your pussy and fuck your brains out messages she got every single day. My mrs was on here as a single also and said she had a few beauts message her like that. Only reasons i think they send them is that 1: aint grown up. 2: are a bit head fucked. Why would any normal person abuse another like that otherwise. |
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"See I'm very emotional physically. If that makes sense? I'm rubbish with words, but when you're being intimate like that,the emotions and feelings flow through you. Like I said, if I make sense "
I am the same. I am very sensual and love the intermucy whilst having sex. Always treat the lady right and make her feel special and she will pay it back to you in spades. Most of the time me and jen have intermit and sensual sex, But then sometimes she just asks for a hard fucking. But no matter what she is still my best friend and lover and treat her like the amazing person she is. |
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"I do a lot of impact stuff, spanking, belting, caning etc. A big part of that is aftercare, and you need a cuddle after to balance it out
Apart from that, I personally love a good cwtch after a good session. I couldn't imagine anything worse than just getting up and going home after sex without that first"
Its not just to balance it out. Subs require grounding after hard sessions so cuddles and kisses and being sensual brings them back down from their heightened state. |
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That's what I mean, it'll bring the sub back down to ground. You have no idea how many girls who I've played with in the past whose previous experience has just been abysmal
No safe words
No aftercare
No discussion of limits
And like I said, apart from it being an important part of kink play, I just really enjoy a cuddle. Always have |
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"Is it just me who loves intimacy, closeness, kissing, touching, strokes I’m not keen on the constant ‘I’d ruin you’ ‘I’d wreck you’ ‘you wanna fuck’
Maybe I’m old fashioned or sending wrong vibes!! Xxxx"
I love the kissing and touching. No rush either. Slow and gentle kissing and touching to lead to the sex. Turns me on more |
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By *lease300 OP Woman
over a year ago
merthyr |
"I do a lot of impact stuff, spanking, belting, caning etc. A big part of that is aftercare, and you need a cuddle after to balance it out
Apart from that, I personally love a good cwtch after a good session. I couldn't imagine anything worse than just getting up and going home after sex without that first"
Aftercare is a must xx |
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