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over a year ago
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Hi all, been on the site for a while but had zero success in a meet, how would I be able to get myself noticed? I’m shy but try to be outgoing, is there a certain way I should message people or? Helpppppppp  |
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Fill your profile out a bit more. Look out for organised socials. Go to a club. Be yourself. Talk to people. Keep the conversation light and polite unless it's clear they want to heat it up. Be patient. |
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"By filling my profile out more you mean add more about me I’m assuming? Let people know what I want I guess? "
Let people know who you are. Show your humour. Sell yourself a bit without tipping over into arrogance. At the same time, go easy on the self-deprecation. There is no perfect profile. Again, just be yourself.
You don't want to be too prescriptive about what you want. That's almost of secondary importance. You want people to see your profile and like you enough to investigate further. Good luck. |
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"I know it may seem odd but are any of you able to see and let me know if it’s better now? I’m so bad at this lol "
I’m a fair bit older than you but I can tell you my turn offs based on what you’ve done with your profile. Your photos come across as a little immature. Nothing wrong with showing you’re a laugh but scowling or pulling weird faces when you’re trying to make a first impression would put a lot of people off.
Your age range goes up to a decent level - these mature ladies are unlikely to be interested in “lads” or anyone who comes across as immature.
Also saying you won’t respond if you’re not interested and people shouldn’t be a dick about that….you’re a bloke. You won’t get many messages off women who have initiated contact. You really should reply with a no thank you if you’re not interested.
Having said all this, the fact you’ve asked for help to point you in the right direction can only be a good thing so good luck cx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get yourself some really bright, weird and funky socks and pants. 
Best advice ever  "
Does that catch the eye more? I’m honestly dreadful at this, wanted to see what it was all about |
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