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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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What is with the amount of people arranging meets. At their request !!! Then spend all day bouncing messages then couple of hours before meet. Nothing.
Seriously thinking of giving up here when site support ends |
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There's loads of them but when you get thro them you do find the good ones
Always look at their verifications and alot of couples are single guys , any couples who says shes away only male available stay clear
Fab has its up and downs but theres a lot of genuine people on here |
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Fab can be frustrating and it definitely has more time wasters than maybe 10years ago. However, it’s still fun and sexy and there’s plenty of good people here  just takes a bit of effort to find them! |
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"What is with the amount of people arranging meets. At their request !!! Then spend all day bouncing messages then couple of hours before meet. Nothing.
Seriously thinking of giving up here when site support ends"
Plenty of us will always meet if we commit - we just never arrange anything if we get a glimmer of a red flag or if anyone pushes a spontaneous meet.
The site may be full of fakers, but the diamonds are still in here if you filter hard enough.
Be choosy, be ruthless and keep fabbing x |
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"What is with the amount of people arranging meets. At their request !!! Then spend all day bouncing messages then couple of hours before meet. Nothing.
Seriously thinking of giving up here when site support ends"
you get used to it lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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Honestly the amount of folks we have had say that they'll meet up and not bother turning up or cancelling because the hamsters dead has got out of hand on here now. Can't wait to find ladies that what to team up on my female friend with me and actually turn up. Here's to wishful thinking. |
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"What is with the amount of people arranging meets. At their request !!! Then spend all day bouncing messages then couple of hours before meet. Nothing.
Seriously thinking of giving up here when site support ends"
Then on the other hand there's us that are willing to follow through on meets, and show up on time when we do arrange them, but hardly get the chance or the audience... |
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"There's loads of them but when you get thro them you do find the good ones
Always look at their verifications and alot of couples are single guys , any couples who says shes away only male available stay clear but certain time of month only Jack is free because I can't so can't really go by that x
Fab has its up and downs but theres a lot of genuine people on here "
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We,d say 90% timewasters on fab especially males , couples say they couples like just the guy ,putting pics of his mrs up, without her knowing, pretending their a couple, with no intentions of meeting just power wanking , |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 42 weeks ago
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"We,d say 90% timewasters on fab especially males , couples say they couples like just the guy ,putting pics of his mrs up, without her knowing, pretending their a couple, with no intentions of meeting just power wanking , "
This is something we see a lot of. It’s just so wrong. |
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Yes so many key board warriors who waste good people's time. Shame there is not a way of outings them.
But I have met up with some very nice genuine people on here, Social first then hook up. So don't loose hope. |
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"What is with the amount of people arranging meets. At their request !!! Then spend all day bouncing messages then couple of hours before meet. Nothing.
Seriously thinking of giving up here when site support ends"
Its FAB.
Little secret...
It isn't really a swingers site.
It's a kind of Facebook but with cocks and tits on show and it's here to get as many people to pay a fiver to join.
Nothing wrong with that but don't think its like the old swingers sites that were generally run by swingers for swingers.
FAB has some really good functions like club information, party notifications, holiday swinging information and see who's near which are well worth the cost. But, to trawl through the timewasters, sad, lonely, angst ridden, drama queens and chatters is sole destroying.
I'd always check the verifications, even if just to see if they have ever met or when was the last time.
We have no problem with folks who just want to use forums to chat or rant but do have issues with folks who mess people about especially when our time is precious and haven't the time or inclination to battle through the broken promises.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 41 weeks ago
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"How can a single guy get a couples profile don't the both have to be in the photo when you join fab? I remember I had to take a photo holding a piece of paper with fab swingers on it."
No. Only to be verified. Anyone can open any account. |
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The worst is when we have booked a hotel and traveled 2 hours to meet a couple, they had verifications ect and went silent before saying something had come up.
That could have been the case but still very frustrating. |
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This has happened to us no end of times but have also met some lovely couples. It does get really frustrating. If you've got no intention of meeting why bother going to all the hassle of arranging! If you just want to message and flirt then be honest |
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Whilst I understand the frustration. May I say that there are genuine people on here.. as a previous contributors have said look at a person's verification.
This may not be popular but as a single male I finding it frustrating that yes after reading a persons/ couples profile and trying to write an original bespoke message either with us nit read or just ignored.
Personally ci think it takes nothing just to say " you are not for us"
One can have many gripes about this site, but we all live in hope |
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Becoming extremely tiresome with the amount of liars, no shows (one this eve) and fantasists. Can't even rely on verified, we only meet verified people from other.
The amount we now block is at Geoffrey Boycott levels |
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By (user no longer on site) 31 weeks ago
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I have been on and off the site for many years now and can confirm like others said above that socials are the best way to get a meet these days especially for single males. I have been to the socials in the past and would say they are very welcoming to newbies and good place to get your foot in the door as the saying goes. As for time wasters that has always been a thing yes its got a lot worse in the last 10 years but think that is the way things work these days not many will put the time and effort in. |
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