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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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I find when I get to talk to a bi couple it's usually just the male chatting and nothing ever comes of it. Yes could be the fact I'm not suitable for them. Maybe they just changed there minds. To nervous etc.
I have met one or two couples and enjoyed it but been a long time now so hopefully something will change.
Anyone on here getting any luck meeting couples and if so how was your experience???? |
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The only reason we've ever gotten into chatting to a guy then decided it wasn't for us (and we always let them know) is when they start to get pushy pr pressure for a meet.
Some people just prefer to have a connection before they fuck.
Don't get me wrong, sometimes sparks fly and you want to meet quick, or you might be at a club and it just feels right in the moment, but for us, most of the time it feels better to build a foundation of friendship. |
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I don't mind that couples change there minds or just not for them I get that. It's more that you think the chat is going well then nothing and no obvious reason for it. You start to not trust that it's a couple on the other end then |
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Well male chats and arranges meets on our profile mrs reads messages and choose s guy, if guys dont like chatting to the male then it's on them their loss, mrs used to chat but found ,guys just get pervy and think they can talk to mrs dirty thinking that's what she want to read, so that's why male does the chatting, and alot of couples are tge same, yes some couples are fake , most single guys are total timewasters, just get off on it , , get a few good guys |
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"Well male chats and arranges meets on our profile mrs reads messages and choose s guy, if guys dont like chatting to the male then it's on them their loss, mrs used to chat but found ,guys just get pervy and think they can talk to mrs dirty thinking that's what she want to read, so that's why male does the chatting, and alot of couples are tge same, yes some couples are fake , most single guys are total timewasters, just get off on it , , get a few good guys "
Exactly why we blocked some. Guy chats for his wife. Supposedly. And wants to know when he alone can call over to fuck the wife. No pictures no face pics on request and never any thing from the female. Screams fake. We don’t have the time for people like that at all.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 44 weeks ago
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"I do most chatting but he not bi so don't tend to chat to single males it is really hard on here lately I'm our case I think it's cos I'm a big woman put lots of couples off"
I don't think your size would be to much of an issue as everyone has different taste. I think it's down to actually finding the right people as some people mentioned above lots of time wasters and dreamers. Not everyone of course it's just hard to find the right person or people. |
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I love to play with Bi couples. It's the best form of interaction on here.
However having been badly burned by a couple fairly recently, to the point it had a detrimental effect to my mental health, I'm far more careful who I choose to play with.
I find you are very much at the mercy of the guy as a single man, it only takes him getting the wrong end of the stick with a conversation just once and it can lead to all sorts of bad stuff.
In my case 3 months of online bullying and a total indifference to the results of their actions. |
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We both have access to the profile however as I (vixy) am the one who will be the most involved I do the chatting and decide if I'm feeling it or not. Lots of time wasters and spend ages talking to people but they dissappear when we try to arrange a meet. I'm a bbw and think it puts people off meeting  |
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"I love to play with Bi couples. It's the best form of interaction on here.
However having been badly burned by a couple fairly recently, to the point it had a detrimental effect to my mental health, I'm far more careful who I choose to play with.
I find you are very much at the mercy of the guy as a single man, it only takes him getting the wrong end of the stick with a conversation just once and it can lead to all sorts of bad stuff.
In my case 3 months of online bullying and a total indifference to the results of their actions. "
That’s terrible. That should never happen. |
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It can be a plethora of reasons, most of what have been listed by other people above, we have been fortunate enough to meet some lovely
bi-couples that we have spent time with.
But we digress sadly it is a minefield to navigate. |
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We both have access to our couples account, we both chat and flirt, we give out hubby’s contact details if we want to take it further due to single males pushing for female only contact and pics.
We are both here for fun, any genuine couples or single ladies please drop us a message xxxx |
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"The only reason we've ever gotten into chatting to a guy then decided it wasn't for us (and we always let them know) is when they start to get pushy pr pressure for a meet.
Some people just prefer to have a connection before they fuck.
Don't get me wrong, sometimes sparks fly and you want to meet quick, or you might be at a club and it just feels right in the moment, but for us, most of the time it feels better to build a foundation of friendship. "
That’s what I don’t understand about some people. If you are messaging strangers that you don’t know, in the hope that at some undetermined point in the future they may let you into their private life, then male, female, trans, single, couple or whatever, whoever you are messaging/chatting to, surely it’s absolutely obvious from the offset that you need to treat them all respectfully when you message and show politeness and decency? If not, how do they ever expect to impress someone enough to get the invite they are after? |
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I am probably more online than my husband but we have taken a step back from here atm. We have more luck in clubs finding bi men
. I find on here majority of men either just want to talk dirty to me or think my husband is some sort of a cuck which is totally not the case.
People think finding a single bi man on here should be easy but it's really not.
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As with everything on fab,it's a case of preference, good timing,and a slice of luck also helps.
I have been very fortunate to have had my fair share of meets with bi couples,and have stayed friends and in contact with those that are still on here.
I have also had my fair share of liars,timewasters, false profiles,and ghosting.
You have to take it in your stride,and take it for what it is,this site isn't perfect,and neither is the hunan race unfortunately.
Everyone has their own preferences, and reasons for doing what they do,whether it be genuine or false,just don't let your own standards drop.
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