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By *3xymamaWoman 31 weeks ago
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Don't be a dickhead.
Read profiles and message if you are able to offer what is asked
Pictures of your dick from every angle aren't needed, neither are close ups 🤣
Don't ask stupid questions
Don't be abusive if someone declines to meet
If a message is deleted or not replied to, don't keep re-messaging. That's a sure way to p*ss someone off
If I think of anymore I'll add to the thread 🤣🤣🤣 |
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As much as the advice you attend socials is totally valid and certainly helps it’s not that simple… many don’t, wont or can’t attend socials for all sorts of reasons.
I have attended many in the past and have rarely enjoyed any of them. The people were friendly and welcoming but I just don’t enjoy that side of the lifestyle it holds no interest for me and I much prefer to keep this part of my life as private as possible (and no I’m not doing that because of my partner).
So how do you stand out… you can’t in such a crowded space.
So I’ve found engage where possible especially via forums, be polite and respectful, expect nothing so when it does happen it’s a nice surprise and most importantly be yourself. |
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By *uckMe12Free OP Man 31 weeks ago
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"Don't be a dickhead.
Read profiles and message if you are able to offer what is asked
Pictures of your dick from every angle aren't needed, neither are close ups 🤣
Don't ask stupid questions
Don't be abusive if someone declines to meet
If a message is deleted or not replied to, don't keep re-messaging. That's a sure way to p*ss someone off
If I think of anymore I'll add to the thread 🤣🤣🤣"
Thank you. I think I'm quite respectful on the site and in messaging. It's grabbing the attention that seems to be the issue. Great points though, will certainly keep them in mind. 😁 |
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By *uckMe12Free OP Man 31 weeks ago
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"As much as the advice you attend socials is totally valid and certainly helps it’s not that simple… many don’t, wont or can’t attend socials for all sorts of reasons.
I have attended many in the past and have rarely enjoyed any of them. The people were friendly and welcoming but I just don’t enjoy that side of the lifestyle it holds no interest for me and I much prefer to keep this part of my life as private as possible (and no I’m not doing that because of my partner).
So how do you stand out… you can’t in such a crowded space.
So I’ve found engage where possible especially via forums, be polite and respectful, expect nothing so when it does happen it’s a nice surprise and most importantly be yourself. "
Great advice, thank you. And I've got mixed feelings about attending socials. Having only attended one, I felt it was quite intimidating going by myself. I'm going to give another one a go, but will definitely go with someone else next time.
I'm always respectful and polite on here. Obviously my marital status doesn't help matters, but am appreciative of people's opinions on it. |
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