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By *uckMe12Free OP Man 23 weeks ago
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I once took a lovely lady to a pub quiz for our first proper social meet, and we had a really good laugh. What would you like to do on a first social meet? Or would you prefer to get straight down 'n dirty with someone? For me, getting to know someone and enjoying their company, is just as important as the hanky panky stuff. |
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I dont tend to meet away from socials and clubs because i just find it awkward especially if it's somebody I dont know.
But on the rare occasion, when I was looking to meet, activity meetings such as bowling, pool etc I find make it less awkward |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Ideally in a club, but on the rare occasion I've felt comfy with the conversation,a chat over a coffee works for me. You generally tend to know quite soon if there's the necessary connection. However, an instant turnoff for me, is the looming expectation men have that a bj will follow. I've often been told there's no point having a social if there's no happy finish. Off you fuck then, I'm in it for the long game X |
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By *uckMe12Free OP Man 23 weeks ago
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"Ideally in a club, but on the rare occasion I've felt comfy with the conversation,a chat over a coffee works for me. You generally tend to know quite soon if there's the necessary connection. However, an instant turnoff for me, is the looming expectation men have that a bj will follow. I've often been told there's no point having a social if there's no happy finish. Off you fuck then, I'm in it for the long game X"
Not all guys are like that mind, I've only had 3 sexual experiences on here out of 30+ meets since 2017. I do enjoy getting to know people, establishing some sort of connection then possibly taking things to the next level. |
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I've had my ideal first meet.
We spoke on here for a few weeks. The first time we met he picked me up and took me to my first ever swingers club...we had an amazing time and been together ever since, 3 years and counting 😊 |
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"Ideally in a club, but on the rare occasion I've felt comfy with the conversation,a chat over a coffee works for me. You generally tend to know quite soon if there's the necessary connection. However, an instant turnoff for me, is the looming expectation men have that a bj will follow. I've often been told there's no point having a social if there's no happy finish. Off you fuck then, I'm in it for the long game X
Not all guys are like that mind, I've only had 3 sexual experiences on here out of 30+ meets since 2017. I do enjoy getting to know people, establishing some sort of connection then possibly taking things to the next level. "
Thankfully they're not & the few who haven't been are still my dearest of friends 15+ years later. But there has been a shift since I returned X |
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Thankfully they're not & the few who haven't been are still my dearest of friends 15+ years later. But there has been a shift since I returned X"
Yes i agree with that. Its definitely a different feel since I returned.
Well i think my ideal 1st social would be in a pub with a pool table like has been said further up.
Ive had plenty of 1st socials in coffee shops. But atleast with a pool table, you can have a giggle. |
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By *uckMe12Free OP Man 23 weeks ago
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It seems as though a game of pool is quite popular with the ladies who've answered. The thing is, I'm pretty good at smashing those balls in, so would I have to play a bit worse or continue with my normal style of play? I'm not sure if everyone plays by the same rules, but if you get 7 balled, you've got to run around the table naked. |
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By *3xymamaWoman 23 weeks ago
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"It seems as though a game of pool is quite popular with the ladies who've answered. The thing is, I'm pretty good at smashing those balls in, so would I have to play a bit worse or continue with my normal style of play? I'm not sure if everyone plays by the same rules, but if you get 7 balled, you've got to run around the table naked."
No games of pool for me. Not only because I can't play it, but some would say I would be dangerous with a stick in my hands 🤣🤣🤣 |
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By *uckMe12Free OP Man 23 weeks ago
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"It seems as though a game of pool is quite popular with the ladies who've answered. The thing is, I'm pretty good at smashing those balls in, so would I have to play a bit worse or continue with my normal style of play? I'm not sure if everyone plays by the same rules, but if you get 7 balled, you've got to run around the table naked.
No games of pool for me. Not only because I can't play it, but some would say I would be dangerous with a stick in my hands 🤣🤣🤣"
The cue. Are you talking about it being used as a weapon? Or as a flogging tool? If it's the latter, I'll challenge you to a game of pool 😏. |
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"I once took a lovely lady to a pub quiz for our first proper social meet, and we had a really good laugh. What would you like to do on a first social meet? Or would you prefer to get straight down 'n dirty with someone? For me, getting to know someone and enjoying their company, is just as important as the hanky panky stuff. "
Ideally someone who actually turns up  .
The best 1-1 social I ever had was years ago in a pub with a pool table. We had such a laugh, he won by a smidge ( I still maintain he cheated by distracting me with his cheeky smile).  .
So pool table and a drink would be my ideal social. |
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By *3xymamaWoman 23 weeks ago
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"It seems as though a game of pool is quite popular with the ladies who've answered. The thing is, I'm pretty good at smashing those balls in, so would I have to play a bit worse or continue with my normal style of play? I'm not sure if everyone plays by the same rules, but if you get 7 balled, you've got to run around the table naked.
No games of pool for me. Not only because I can't play it, but some would say I would be dangerous with a stick in my hands 🤣🤣🤣
The cue. Are you talking about it being used as a weapon? Or as a flogging tool? If it's the latter, I'll challenge you to a game of pool 😏."
Used as a weapon 🤣🤣 |
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By *uckMe12Free OP Man 23 weeks ago
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"It seems as though a game of pool is quite popular with the ladies who've answered. The thing is, I'm pretty good at smashing those balls in, so would I have to play a bit worse or continue with my normal style of play? I'm not sure if everyone plays by the same rules, but if you get 7 balled, you've got to run around the table naked.
No games of pool for me. Not only because I can't play it, but some would say I would be dangerous with a stick in my hands 🤣🤣🤣
The cue. Are you talking about it being used as a weapon? Or as a flogging tool? If it's the latter, I'll challenge you to a game of pool 😏.
Used as a weapon 🤣🤣"
Ah, ok. 😬 |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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"I've had my ideal first meet.
We spoke on here for a few weeks. The first time we met he picked me up and took me to my first ever swingers club...we had an amazing time and been together ever since, 3 years and counting 😊"
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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for me its a quiet coffee shop sitting at a table talking openly about anything interesting .
and seeing the female smile with her eyes wide open and bright .that's the beautiful moment you know there's a spark  |
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By *uckMe12Free OP Man 23 weeks ago
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"for me its a quiet coffee shop sitting at a table talking openly about anything interesting .
and seeing the female smile with her eyes wide open and bright .that's the beautiful moment you know there's a spark "
I agree with this statement ⬆️ |
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