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Couple looking for help dipping a toe
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My wife and I have been discussing the possibility of swinging and threesomes, we are both very interested although a bit nervous and fearful of potential repercussions. We have some relatively young children and a disabled son so we can't be absconding for full nights or travelling great distances. Can anyone offer any advice if we wanted to dip our toes in the water? We're in the Swansea area.
Is there anywhere we can go locally and perhaps watch for awhile before deciding if we want to engage or something? |
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Thanks for your reply.
Photo verified, not from meets. Been trying to scope things out for a long time, we've also been watching documentaries and TV shows about everything but now we're both looking to move forward but would like advice on how other couples got started as well as any advice on things to avoid |
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"Thanks for your reply.
Photo verified, not from meets. Been trying to scope things out for a long time, we've also been watching documentaries and TV shows about everything but now we're both looking to move forward but would like advice on how other couples got started as well as any advice on things to avoid"
You're meet or webcam verified... that's the green circle symbol on your profile |
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We did a webcam chat with someone aaages ago, didn't even realise they had left a verification, it was so long ago they're not on the site anymore, not sure why this has turned into an inquisition. If anyone can give some advice that would be great. |
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Chameleons/Greenhouse in Newport is a nice atmosphere. Same building, just different hosts.
We found it very welcoming.
There's no pressure to play and if you choose to hang out in the social areas for the night and not go to any of the play rooms then it's still a great night.
We've been to Chameleons BBW night once and Greenhouse bi night a good few times. Its known as bi night but it's not just bi people who attend, it's for everyone. |
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If a full on club setting is a bit daunting for your first in person toe dipping then you could get to know another couple who are happy to let you both watch them in your house or theirs . Or even a single guy who would just watch the two of you going for it but would just watch not touch .
At least with those options you both know how you feel watching another couple and being watched |
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Best way would be to put your names down for one of the social events that pop up here in the forum. There will be plenty of people willing to chat and they are usually strictly non playing social events where people in the community gather and get to kmow each other outside of the bedroom, so to speak, in a friendly controlled environment.
We struggle to get away outselves, being in a somewhat similar situation with dependants at home. It is difficult but it is possible.  |
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Yeah, would like to second that getting a proper couples account set up is the very first step.
Then you can start chatting to people and explorong where your comfort levels are and finding others who respect those boundaries. |
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"My wife and I have been discussing the possibility of swinging and threesomes, we are both very interested although a bit nervous and fearful of potential repercussions. We have some relatively young children and a disabled son so we can't be absconding for full nights or travelling great distances. Can anyone offer any advice if we wanted to dip our toes in the water? We're in the Swansea area.
Is there anywhere we can go locally and perhaps watch for awhile before deciding if we want to engage or something? "
Get yourselves to a social |
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I think the same advice goes for anyone looking to experiment or are intrigued. But, as mentioned above get all that information into a couples account and add a few photos of you both (they don't have to be explicit or see your face just show a little of you) there will be plenty of couples in the same boat so organise a little social over a cuppa, drinks or food if you have common ground. Local socials are a great way to meet people with no pressure as theress lots of you and everyone is super friendly! Good luck both! |
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