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By *oxyred9Couple 22 weeks ago
South Wales (Mr Devon mid-week) |
"Hi guys, is it us or is it impossible to find a Bi lady on fab to join us? … zero luck for quite a while 🤷🏻♂️"
We find most females only want to be chased or when it comes to couples they want to share Mrs but dont want to return the favour. Thats a huge turn off and a shame. |
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By *3xymamaWoman 22 weeks ago
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"As a single bisexual female myself i find it easier at clubs to be honest as I can gauge if the couple are the right fit for me in comparison to one person(usually) messaging me"
Same for me too. Plus it's the safety as a single female aspect also. |
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"As a single bisexual female myself i find it easier at clubs to be honest as I can gauge if the couple are the right fit for me in comparison to one person(usually) messaging me"
Very much this, most couples tend to come with a shopping list of wants, very little thought given to it being a reciprocal arrangement. Plus you're trying to fit into the requirements of 2 people, when 1 person is hard enough to navigate. I also wouldn't consider a one sided profile. There's ways of having pics without identifying yourself, get creative X |
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"As a single bisexual female myself i find it easier at clubs to be honest as I can gauge if the couple are the right fit for me in comparison to one person(usually) messaging me"
That’s a good point tbh…. We both do chat tho and a social in a bar would be first, just to make sure we’re all happy 🙂, we wouldn’t expect anyone just to meet! |
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I've loved the experiences I've had joining couples outside of fab but not been finding the matching vibe on here.
Something about how people come across when messaging/profile.
Maybe it's just me but not been finding myself valued on a human level more like a sex toy
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"I've loved the experiences I've had joining couples outside of fab but not been finding the matching vibe on here.
Something about how people come across when messaging/profile.
Maybe it's just me but not been finding myself valued on a human level more like a sex toy
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No I can see where your coming from, its almost like a takeaway service sometimes lol , we want this/that and as quick as possible plz 😃….. we’re not experienced to all this so face pics first , if there’s an attraction let’s go for a drink and see how we get on🤷🏻♂️ |
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"As a single bisexual female myself i find it easier at clubs to be honest as I can gauge if the couple are the right fit for me in comparison to one person(usually) messaging me"
Absolutely this 👌 |
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By *ed FlameWoman 22 weeks ago
South Gloucestershire |
We are all different.
I personally prefer to meet couple's on here then at a club.
Though I also like being a plaything for a couple.
I know things can take a while or not work out but I wouldn't give up.
I would add some more pictures of the male though. |
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"As a single bisexual female myself i find it easier at clubs to be honest as I can gauge if the couple are the right fit for me in comparison to one person(usually) messaging me
Absolutely this 👌"
Again that’s totally understandable, that’s why we would prefer to go for a drink/social first after a chat on here 🙂….. we msged you previously too 🫣🤣 |
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we been back on here the past month found it a tough crowd back in 2017 not much has changed except for more scammers always stay positive though as you never catch the right fish on the first outing not that we are into fishing at all motorbikes are our scene XD we are hoping to attend some non play socials as we find it so much easier to get a conversation going in person than in messages |
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For a single F it’s hard to get a connection with couples as they’re peas in a pod. I need to feel chemistry between both, I don’t take one for the team.
MFF I had the most fun was with friends and singles M and F. No expectation.
Couples are great when they both respect the single F and her desire too not just their own fantasy and own kinks.
I play at clubs with couples, safe, got the choice during the night and chemistry… never had the chance after a social or even just messages.
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Attending clubs will make it easier to find a single woman/unicorn.
Trying to meet and organise a date outside of a club can be hard work at the best of times.
You can get a better connection meeting in person, and if the vibe is right there’s a possibility it can go further.  |
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"Attending clubs will make it easier to find a single woman/unicorn.
Trying to meet and organise a date outside of a club can be hard work at the best of times.
You can get a better connection meeting in person, and if the vibe is right there’s a possibility it can go further. "
Definitely seems that way tbh….. we’re a laidback,honest and easy couple to get along with, but I also can see ppls worries/issues. It is what it is 🙂 x |
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"I'd get pics of the male and I'd have a better profile"
Not gonna disagree with this.
OP - your profile is poor, especially for a couple regardless of being new here or not.
If you want another female involved then they are going to need to be attracted to the male. Otherwise you’re having a FF and telling him about it later. |
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"For a single F it’s hard to get a connection with couples as they’re peas in a pod. I need to feel chemistry between both, I don’t take one for the team.
MFF I had the most fun was with friends and singles M and F. No expectation.
Couples are great when they both respect the single F and her desire too not just their own fantasy and own kinks.
I play at clubs with couples, safe, got the choice during the night and chemistry… never had the chance after a social or even just messages.
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I took one for the team a few years ago. It was him I wanted but as she was there..... was an enjoyable afternoon and ticked a bit of the bucket list off. |
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"I'd get pics of the male and I'd have a better profile
Not gonna disagree with this.
OP - your profile is poor, especially for a couple regardless of being new here or not.
If you want another female involved then they are going to need to be attracted to the male. Otherwise you’re having a FF and telling him about it later."
Aye and yours is terrific👌….
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"I'd get pics of the male and I'd have a better profile
Not gonna disagree with this.
OP - your profile is poor, especially for a couple regardless of being new here or not.
If you want another female involved then they are going to need to be attracted to the male. Otherwise you’re having a FF and telling him about it later.
Aye and yours is terrific👌….
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I’m not here chasing meets and moaning about not getting what I want in the forums. Been here since 2012 as a single and couple over the years so we’ll aware of the best way to achieve what you’re chasing.
Stand out from the rest of the couples who have profiles consisting of a list of demands/do’s/don’ts/will/won’t/etc and you will have no problems meeting single females.
You asked for criticism as to why you aren’t achieving what you want and then moan when you get pointed what way to go.
Failing that - go to a club where the single females and those from couples who play solo can meet BOTH of you. |
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