Hey all, so I logged in just to perv a little on the other site and had a message that said my real name.
I know we're all on here for similar reasons and getting outed would out them etc etc.
But does anyone have any good picture ideas that don't show tattoos (two sleeves and my whole back down to my knees).
I thought of doing a few fully suited photos with my head chopped off but it seems a little generic?
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Understand people need discretion, but if your scared of being recognised personally you should try somehwere else,every other app online requires a face photo and if we are honest 90% of people want the same thing, the ladies on here are getting 100s of messages a day and if your face isnt available or attached your pissing against the wind unfortunately, if someone recognises you dont be shamed they are here also. |
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"Hey all, so I logged in just to perv a little on the other site and had a message that said my real name.
I know we're all on here for similar reasons and getting outed would out them etc etc.
But does anyone have any good picture ideas that don't show tattoos (two sleeves and my whole back down to my knees).
I thought of doing a few fully suited photos with my head chopped off but it seems a little generic?
Ideas welcome. "
I'm feeling your pain on this one, I've got tattoos everywhere & try my best to be creative to get some pics up. I've tried bubbles in the bath, food items & emojis to cover up. Try to have fun with it & you'll get some decent, funny pics that'll show your personality X |
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"Understand people need discretion, but if your scared of being recognised personally you should try somehwere else,every other app online requires a face photo and if we are honest 90% of people want the same thing, the ladies on here are getting 100s of messages a day and if your face isnt available or attached your pissing against the wind unfortunately, if someone recognises you dont be shamed they are here also."
You're not wrong, I think I'm coming at things from a slightly different angle though.
It's less being scared of being recognised in the abstract and more being actively first name last named. Just a strange interaction you know? I've always had my photos up fine before for the last 10 years or so so maybe I'm a bit spooked by it 😅 |
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"Hey all, so I logged in just to perv a little on the other site and had a message that said my real name.
I know we're all on here for similar reasons and getting outed would out them etc etc.
But does anyone have any good picture ideas that don't show tattoos (two sleeves and my whole back down to my knees).
I thought of doing a few fully suited photos with my head chopped off but it seems a little generic?
Ideas welcome.
I'm feeling your pain on this one, I've got tattoos everywhere & try my best to be creative to get some pics up. I've tried bubbles in the bath, food items & emojis to cover up. Try to have fun with it & you'll get some decent, funny pics that'll show your personality X"
I'll have a look around for some inspiration and think up some fun photos  |
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I have people regularly message me referring to me by my real name or the village I live in etc. As if they are trying to go for the shock factor or make me sweat etc because they know who I am. I couldn't give any less fucks   |
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You could always wear a bolero or shawl type item! Covers the arms but nothing else! Or long sleeve top half off over the head but still covering your arms! So many things you could play with! Please post a thread here so we can all see your imagination at work |
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A couple of years ago, a guy messaged me and told me what he thought my name was and wouldn't let up when I said I really wasn't that person.
Made me feel sorry for whoever he thought I was, in case he tried outing her to the world. |
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"I have people regularly message me referring to me by my real name or the village I live in etc. As if they are trying to go for the shock factor or make me sweat etc because they know who I am. I couldn't give any less fucks "
I really don't understand the motivation, and just from this short thread it doesn't seem uncommon. Maybe I've collected too many fucks over time and need to dump some  |
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"I have people regularly message me referring to me by my real name or the village I live in etc. As if they are trying to go for the shock factor or make me sweat etc because they know who I am. I couldn't give any less fucks
I really don't understand the motivation, and just from this short thread it doesn't seem uncommon. Maybe I've collected too many fucks over time and need to dump some "
Some people are just plain weird, stupid or nasty. I was having lunch with my adult son once & 2 guys on the next table were nudging each other, saying that's Peachy, she's on Fab. I just ignored & nothing was said by my son & never been said since. But it could have been worse X |
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My ex wife was recognised by a pic with a very distinct piece of jewellery by a work colleague... he pestered her for sex at the risk of exposing her at work... she left her job.
She didn’t tell me until a year later I was fuming... especially as I know the guy and he used to drink in our local pub regularly..
It was so difficult not for me to escalate things.
Some creeps around! |
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