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Most guys are total timewasters
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Guys arrange to meet , get right upto the day before then decide to ignore, especially when you try to get their address, or they say they can't acom unfortunately, even though they say they do , they have no intention of meeting genuine people, just must be wanking , or they want to meet me , wankers |
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I don’t think you can single that out to just men.
There are many single women and couples who will do exactly the same.
Unfortunately it’s a more common theme for the site!
Checking previous verifications may give you some kind of idea of how genuine they may be. But still not a guarantee |
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Unfortunately, you been having problems with guys on here.
There are plenty of genuine,respectful,guys on here,and I count myself as one of those.
As a single guy,I get plenty of liars and timewasters getting in touch,so fully understand where you are coming from,but there are good uns out there,who are truthful,respectful,and genuine...
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Ratio of guys who actually will meet to guys who just message?
1:250 being generous
Ratio of guys who meet when they say they will to those who talk all week and then stand you up on the day or disappear?
I’d say that’s about 1:30 to 1:40 ish
Guys who are good looking, straight up, easy to deal with, meet for social, fuck like a demon and leave a whore happy after plenty of cum?
That feels like one in a million here nowadays! |
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I agree with most of the comments on here so far, a bit harsh to single out the single blokes.
The amount of profiles on here looking for 'rewards' or money for meets is very high too and that can't be blamed on single males |
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I have taken the time to either host or travel to meet others only for them to never turn up or ghost me when asking for their door number. This kind of behaviour seems like sport to some. If a meet is set I always turn up, but seems that others are a complete waste of time. It would be great if the site added a "meet score". In my mind, probably like others, 1 let down, block, unless a genuine reason |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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We post meets on the day we are meeting. And we are very lucky to get a 20% hit ratio of people who message thst want to join the meet and who actually turn up
Pretty much its give address to 5 and 1 will turn up. |
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By *ikesfun1Man 17 weeks ago
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Not all of us are that way unfortunately it’s very hard on here and there are lots of time wasters , I find genuine verified people seem to be the best bet !! Read verifications and go with recommendations |
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By (user no longer on site) 17 weeks ago
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I’ve (male) been on both sides of fence twice as part of couple and twice as single male always I’ve said clubs are best place to go as you know everyone is there for same purpose and not to state obvious they turn up makes females and singles. I also understand the frustration as a genuine single male let down by morons on this site but I’ve been let down by females an couples before , best way to approach is by going to a club lot of guys needed yes and being patient x most important part just be you x |
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I don't understand this. As a single guy you have to work so very hard to get a meet, why then after all that hard work would you not turn up????
I have always turn up to meets if I have arrange one , why wouldn't I? |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"I don't understand this. As a single guy you have to work so very hard to get a meet, why then after all that hard work would you not turn up????"
I think part of the problem is that there are a lot of male accounts on fab that are run by total fantasists.
Pic collectors, people who get off knowing you're local, attached men looking to cheat. Or even just for a cheap buzz of validation. They ruin it for the rest of us of course, but it just means we have to take meets seriously.
If someone can't make a meet, I give them the benefit of the doubt the first time. But after that it can become a pattern |
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"I agree with most of the comments on here so far, a bit harsh to single out the single blokes.
The amount of profiles on here looking for 'rewards' or money for meets is very high too and that can't be blamed on single males"
I had one the other day well up for a meet then got told she wanted rewards its ridiculous, blocked and reported too |
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Sadly ghosting seems to be common.
I have only just rejoined the site, but had quite a few last time. Hard to not take it personally lol
As a single guy, the idea of letting someone down when they agree to meet you is crazy. |
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I think a lot of people on the Internet, use it as a sort of blurred reality... in all its forms.
Once it get "real" it stops.
So i think you just have to connect with people... then make sure your after the same thing.
Annoying / rude / waste of time yes... but thats life.. thats the game.
* I for one planned a social and attended the cardiff social.. incredibly ill *i probably should have cancelled, but sadly I was aware if I did... I might well be lumped in with the above.
** for the record.. very glad I didnt cancel |
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"I don't understand this. As a single guy you have to work so very hard to get a meet, why then after all that hard work would you not turn up????
I have always turn up to meets if I have arrange one , why wouldn't I?"
Exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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I travel all over the country and can hand on heart say its worse in south wales. Everywhere else I go, when someone says they will meet, they will but here, there's about 90% chance they wont or will cancel |
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We occasionally put up for a meet on the day specified and what time we are free,it's amazing how many single men will say there available the next day or hours after our specified time .But we have also had some good meets ,but it is very hard work and frustrating on times .Mrs. |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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A lot of men on here just come on for the fantasy of it all, are attached a lot of the time and it is hard work finding the right people. I’ve also had women and couples let me down last minute when time is precious and it’s then really frustrating. As others have mentioned, clubs and socials are good places to meet people and then can arrange future meets as well. Verifications are a very good way of sifting through people! |
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