Hi,
Just some things that stick out for me.
1. No profile pic
2. Can't accommodate (and no context in your bio)
3. 53 year old man who wants to meet 18 years olds (personally, that's an ick for me)
4. As good as empty bio
5. If you work away, go to socials local to where you are staying
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Ask yourself, would you meet yourself if you had the chance to, looking at your own profile? What makes you stand out from everyone else in your area, to warrant a reply from anyone? What's your USP? |
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"Socials are more often than not advertised a week before the event, I don’t know where I’m going to be on that date as I move around with work."
Most socials are advertised at least a month in advance. For example, the Cardiff social was held on the 30/01 and the next date is the 20/03, so plenty of time to organise to attend. All most socials are generally held on a weekend (well, the ones that involve a fair amount of drinking anyway!) and you’ll get the odd ‘pop up’ socials like bowling mid week.
Search in the forums for an area you’ll be working in and see what’s happening on the dates you’ll be there. But if you can’t attend after you’ve put your name down, you need to tell the organisers as most will then block no shows with no message to let them know from attending future ones, which then significantly limits your options going forward |
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"Ask yourself, would you meet yourself if you had the chance to, looking at your own profile? What makes you stand out from everyone else in your area, to warrant a reply from anyone? What's your USP? "
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Have a think about why should/would a woman/couple etc choose to meet you over everyone else based purely on your profile? |
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