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By *RTHURXXL OP Man 12 weeks ago
Carmarthenshire |
Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
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By *3xymamaWoman 12 weeks ago
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"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
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I tried that but didn't work for me.. so I'd rather wait |
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By *RTHURXXL OP Man 12 weeks ago
Carmarthenshire |
"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
I tried that but didn't work for me.. so I'd rather wait "
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"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
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Are you saying a married man is gold standard? |
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By *RTHURXXL OP Man 12 weeks ago
Carmarthenshire |
"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Are you saying a married man is gold standard? "
I said some qualities are Gold..
No some married men are useless  |
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"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
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Sorry can you clarify, is it all married men or the majority that you feel get blocked?
Also, I can't speak for every woman, but I've had it before where a person has spent time with me semi regularly, we've got to know each other and enjoyed each others company, built a friendship and then the 'Holy Grail' comes along and you are dropped like last night's dinner. It's not the nicest feeling to be a place holder until something better comes along. I appreciate it happens, but ideally you shouldn't be making the person feel that way, even if that is the case.
It doesn't sound overly compassionate or kind.
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"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Are you saying a married man is gold standard?
I said some qualities are Gold..
No some married men are useless "
I am surprised married people openly post on here. |
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"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Are you saying a married man is gold standard?
I said some qualities are Gold..
No some married men are useless
I am surprised married people openly post on here. "
I'm married... should I not be posting?
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By *RTHURXXL OP Man 12 weeks ago
Carmarthenshire |
"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Sorry can you clarify, is it all married men or the majority that you feel get blocked?
Also, I can't speak for every woman, but I've had it before where a person has spent time with me semi regularly, we've got to know each other and enjoyed each others company, built a friendship and then the 'Holy Grail' comes along and you are dropped like last night's dinner. It's not the nicest feeling to be a place holder until something better comes along. I appreciate it happens, but ideally you shouldn't be making the person feel that way, even if that is the case.
It doesn't sound overly compassionate or kind.
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I think so...
If you are clear from the start that he was temporary jewellery till you find your Grail, then he should not be upset.
Even if you did not, we should all be mature enough to accept everybody decision with respect and move on. |
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"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Sorry can you clarify, is it all married men or the majority that you feel get blocked?
Also, I can't speak for every woman, but I've had it before where a person has spent time with me semi regularly, we've got to know each other and enjoyed each others company, built a friendship and then the 'Holy Grail' comes along and you are dropped like last night's dinner. It's not the nicest feeling to be a place holder until something better comes along. I appreciate it happens, but ideally you shouldn't be making the person feel that way, even if that is the case.
It doesn't sound overly compassionate or kind.
I think so...
If you are clear from the start that he was temporary jewellery till you find your Grail, then he should not be upset.
Even if you did not, we should all be mature enough to accept everybody decision with respect and move on."
I absolutely agree you should accept with maturity and not hold resentment for that person. I'm not suggesting you guilt trip someone, but feelings are valid whether intentional or not and some people are not robots who can just switch off.
I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm just explaining why I personally, don't engage in what you are describing.
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By *3achyBWoman 12 weeks ago
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Found the holy grail & enjoyed many years doing this together, for some reason the holy grail thought that meant living together as a natural conclusion. He was the holy grail because we were as close as could be without that step & to do so would have spoiled it all. Instantly ghosted & never seen again.
It's my view there's no gold to be found out there anymore, it's all gold leaf from being spread so thinly X |
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"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Are you saying a married man is gold standard?
I said some qualities are Gold..
No some married men are useless
I am surprised married people openly post on here.
I'm married... should I not be posting?
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Apologies.
I meant married cheats. |
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By *3achyBWoman 12 weeks ago
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"It's my view there's no gold to be found out there anymore, it's all gold leaf from being spread so thinly X
It's our view to respectfully disagree as you know all too well about us and ours  . "
Fffs Lord of course I know about you & others, I was speaking from a personal perspective. It exists out there for some but it's more elusive than the unicorn & had become more so in recent years as men's expectations of the site have shifted X fuck it Lord I love me a bit of Lord & Lilia, Trick or Treat, Mr & Mrs Oarsome etc. I just think you all got in there before the shift X |
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By *3achyBWoman 12 weeks ago
Aberpennar |
"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Are you saying a married man is gold standard?
I said some qualities are Gold..
No some married men are useless
I am surprised married people openly post on here.
I'm married... should I not be posting?
Apologies.
I meant married cheats. "
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"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Are you saying a married man is gold standard?
I said some qualities are Gold..
No some married men are useless
I am surprised married people openly post on here.
I'm married... should I not be posting?
Apologies.
I meant married cheats. "
I believe OP has mentioned at the start of the post about morality standards being slightly different to the matter being discussed here. |
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"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Are you saying a married man is gold standard?
I said some qualities are Gold..
No some married men are useless
I am surprised married people openly post on here.
I'm married... should I not be posting?
Apologies.
I meant married cheats.
I believe OP has mentioned at the start of the post about morality standards being slightly different to the matter being discussed here. "
Who is discussing moral standards?
I am simply stating a fact and asking a question.
Are people not bothered by saying in public that they are dishonest? |
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"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Are you saying a married man is gold standard?
I said some qualities are Gold..
No some married men are useless
I am surprised married people openly post on here.
I'm married... should I not be posting?
Apologies.
I meant married cheats.
I believe OP has mentioned at the start of the post about morality standards being slightly different to the matter being discussed here.
Who is discussing moral standards?
I am simply stating a fact and asking a question.
Are people not bothered by saying in public that they are dishonest? "
You are, you're discussing morality standards, bringing up married people being online.
This post is about something different. About why some people prefer not to have something really informal and super casual while still looking for a more solid, compatible fwb, and while others do.
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By *3achyBWoman 12 weeks ago
Aberpennar |
"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Are you saying a married man is gold standard?
I said some qualities are Gold..
No some married men are useless
I am surprised married people openly post on here.
I'm married... should I not be posting?
Apologies.
I meant married cheats.
I believe OP has mentioned at the start of the post about morality standards being slightly different to the matter being discussed here.
Who is discussing moral standards?
I am simply stating a fact and asking a question.
Are people not bothered by saying in public that they are dishonest? "
It's a statement not a question & the op did point out, the morals were for a different thread. Therefore it was a thread open to all, including those you made a judgement about. |
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By *RTHURXXL OP Man 12 weeks ago
Carmarthenshire |
"Most women are looking for the Holy Grail (FWB/long term partner in naughty crime).
That is why all married men -The majority Here- get blocked frequently and many good qualities (Gold) are rejected before being discovered.
Do you think it would be wiser to keep the Gold while you continue your search jurney for the Holy Grail?
P.S: Please lets not talk about Moral Standards here. It is completely different topic to be covered in another post.
Are you saying a married man is gold standard?
I said some qualities are Gold..
No some married men are useless
I am surprised married people openly post on here.
I'm married... should I not be posting?
Apologies.
I meant married cheats.
I believe OP has mentioned at the start of the post about morality standards being slightly different to the matter being discussed here.
Who is discussing moral standards?
I am simply stating a fact and asking a question.
Are people not bothered by saying in public that they are dishonest? "
I think it is complete honesty to say I am married. As I said it clearly in my profile..
But if you mean Not bothered to say I am cheating, it is different subject. I will cover it in another post one day.
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I'm married. And so is my FWB. The situation suits us and our circumstances.
But then he's also my holy grail. When you meet that one person who just gets you, it's a totally different feeling. And it hits you like a freight train.
People have their preferences and if they don't want to engage with someone who is playing away then that's up to them. I suppose if I was single myself and had met my FWB it would be a very different, probably heartbreaking situation. |
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I meant married cheats.
Imagine joining a swingers site and judge people on their own personal lifestyle choices.
Bet you are fun at party's "
Great fun thanks.
Swinging is about being open and honest with each other.
Cheating is the opposite.
Or don't you agree?? |
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I meant married cheats.
Imagine joining a swingers site and judge people on their own personal lifestyle choices.
Bet you are fun at party's
Great fun thanks.
Swinging is about being open and honest with each other.
Cheating is the opposite.
Or don't you agree?? "
🥱 Are we still talking about this on a post that isn't relevant to this subject?
Your opinion is just that, yours.
Should you wish to discuss this at length, I'd suggest starting your own thread.
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