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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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silly question no. 1.
why does almost every guy (except one) expect me to bring condoms... responsibility should lie on both sides, not just on me... am I wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Because they are morons thinking they can con bareback or a condom halfway down their cock that falls off. Probably rubb into your pussy lips and clit before they cover. Stop fucking little boys. Condoma due to sizing and feel, should be the man's job. |
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"silly question no. 1.
why does almost every guy (except one) expect me to bring condoms... responsibility should lie on both sides, not just on me... am I wrong?"
If he wants to play he needs to be packing |
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No, you're not wrong. If a woman is buying condoms (or not) I won't have any knowledge of it; I always buy my own.
However, usually we've already discussed it over the preceding weeks/months before our date when we've talked about latex allergies, condom preferences etc and, invariably, we know who's buying what. |
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By *3xymamaWoman 10 weeks ago
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I carry condoms, but a guy knows what fits him, size, comfort etc. I've met guys previously who have used the condoms that I carry and then can't perform as it 'doesn't fit' I sometimes think it's just a ploy not to use them |
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"I carry condoms, but a guy knows what fits him, size, comfort etc. I've met guys previously who have used the condoms that I carry and then can't perform as it 'doesn't fit' I sometimes think it's just a ploy not to use them"
To be honest, I'd never bought condoms until about 6 months ago. I had no idea on sizings... I mean, what's regular, large and XL in dunkies? Not a clue. Anyways, I popped into a corner shop and bought a packet of regular sized ones. Later on that night when I tried slipping him on, it was never going to fit. Luckily for me, the lady I was with had XL ones in her bedside cabinet, unluckily for her, they also didn't fit. I've still no idea what size would fit me, there's no try before you buy option (that I'm aware of). |
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"You're absolutely right, condoms are a shared responsibility xx"
Totally agree xxx
P.s. you have blocked messages from mf couples, even though that's who you are looking for. Just in case it was a mistake and you weren't aware xxx |
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Absolutely the man's responsibility to bring them....
I insist on bringing my own as I know for sure they haven't been tampered with, that's not directed at anyone in particular.... but you hear the horror stories and it's just not worth it |
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We carry condoms and femidoms so non of that it dont fit Bullshit. If it aint fitting in the femidom it aint fitting in me. The condoms we do carry yes we have latex free but the ones we carry are for mr size. Ind it aint no king size lmao. If he ever goes and plays on his own he will take the bumbag thats full of what ever he need to have fun. Aint no rooky mistakes here. |
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By *bwBratWoman 10 weeks ago
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"One of the sexiest starts to a play meet, can be when that confident man puts the condoms on the table & you know it's game on & nothing needed to be said X"
Absolutely agree! The relief and reassurance you feel when you know you're in safe(r) hands ... more relaxed = better play  |
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By *3xymamaWoman 10 weeks ago
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"Honestly, the amount of guys who have said, oh I don't have one, does it matter, and then they pout slightly when presented with one is ridiculous 🙄"
This ^^^ they pout, or say they can't sustain an erection or perform if they have to wear a condom.. |
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By *3achyBWoman 10 weeks ago
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I do provide my own btw, I'm latex free plus most men don't even know what size they need. Had a conversation last night with a guy, about our 1st meet over 10 years ago, he brought regular with him & they clearly wouldn't fit. I got him a large, he didn't even realise they came in different sizes  |
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"Honestly, the amount of guys who have said, oh I don't have one, does it matter, and then they pout slightly when presented with one is ridiculous 🙄
This ^^^ they pout, or say they can't sustain an erection or perform if they have to wear a condom.."
It can be a mood killer sometimes when you put one on so the key is to be prepared with condoms you are familiar with, obvs bring them yourself so you know your own kit and know how to put one on, this may mean you practice, don't leave it to others to suit yourself up! |
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