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By *3achyBWoman 3 weeks ago
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Been around since the beginning & there's a definite shift in the mind set of most men who approach my profile, no longer do men want to engage with a no strings social 1st, it's all about what 'I' can offer them in return, if they're giving up their time.
There's more of a focus on immediacy of need, 'I want you now' & then I might get back to you in a year, 2 years etc & I'll ghost you in the meantime.
I used to have several people I'd meet on a regular long term basis, they've drifted on for a variety of personal reasons but it's near impossible to find anyone interested in anything more than a one off nowadays.
That's why I now stick to clubs, I can do the random sex thing on a safe environment & socialise at the same time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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15 years ago . Was awesome. Had childish decks then but more so now and generally single guys are ruining it for the genuine guys. Its gone to the dogs in that sense. |
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It's a controversial subject and one I'm mindful of saying too much about.
We've lost 80% of our interest in the site, but not the activities it offers.
We're finding ourselves more and more sticking to the 'official' activities (socials/club events/festivals) over the private meets.
It has changed. A lot. And to explain that opinion can't be done by words on a screen. It's why we've decided to actively seek other sites for 2027 onward.
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