Build up a network of people through attending social events. This is a community site and most people talk to people they know from events. Meets is a whole other thing, you have to put in the effort to built trust over time. Attend event and get to know people there is a good start. |
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So from a man's perspective, having read through your profile briefly.....
You have no profile pic at all, so nobody knows who they are talking to. There is nothing telling in your description, and this is where you really sell yourself.
And your preferences (apart from it being literally ANYONE but a man), you have not adjusted the age range you are looking for, which gives the impression that anything with a vagina will do, no matter the age.
And your only pic is a cock pic, which tells nobody anything other than you have one.
Please understand that I mean these comments in a constructive critique way... we all started out somewhere, and its hard for single guys to get noticed in the crowd on here. |
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"Build up a network of people through attending social events. This is a community site and most people talk to people they know from events. Meets is a whole other thing, you have to put in the effort to built trust over time. Attend event and get to know people there is a good start. "
Nailed it.
This x100
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"Also you are straight and your veri is from a man....."
This means nothing. I have left straight women veris from meeting them at socials and from as this gents veri is from another guy when you look it’s from interacting with them on cam!
OP - for me, any message received without a set profile picture would be instantly ignored.
Your lack of profile text also is a no.
For a man to be successful on here as others have said you need to have a very well set out profile. You have to get to socials and with the amount local and at all different days and times there’s no excuse not to attend! |
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Effort stands out.
A picture or two - dick pics don't stand out to me, personally, it's a sea of them on here.
Writing a bio.
Attending a social.
Not expecting someone to meet with you immediately just because they're online the same time as you and replied.
Respect, graft and patience.
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Your message to any woman will be lost, with the amount of messages each woman receives is unreal, so you need to stand out
This is coming from someone with zero success also 🤣 but luckily I can pull in the real world, but yeah you will have to attend socials and try a club, get to know people and go from there
I'm going to try my first social on 3rd of July which will help me get into the scene 🙌 |
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The issue is for a start you have no profile pic, mist mens prifile pic is normally a dick pic and its probably not theirs anyway but the biggest issue that I think you will have as a single man is that there are so many single men out there that have no respect for other people whatsoever. We have blocked single men from our profile because if the lack of respect shown. Mkst single men are so arrogant and up their own ass thet they think they can do and get anything or anyone. They completely disrespect both members of the couple no matter what kind of relationship it is. We have had messages why the man says that he would make me just sit and do things to the wife that are just wrong to start with, kind of things that i would be showing no respect to my wife if i allowed them to do whatever to her. Have spoken to a few single men at social events over the past year since we joined and aked them how they get on and explained to them our reason for blocking single men and everyone one of them understand and respect the reasoning behind it. Good luck though. |
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100% go to socials, if you don't want to attend socials put something in your bio. We are all up for a laugh with people, but it literally says nothing about you. No profile picture means lots will just delete your messages.
Cock pictures don't do anything for a lot of people.
In all honesty your profile looks like you've made no effort at all. If you can't put effort into your profile then its doubtful you will put effort into meets.
Just an opinion. But make the changes and you may notice a difference. |
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