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Anyone actually learned anything of value from Fab?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've learned that when people are asked to describe themselves, the reality is rarely the same as the description given.
Also, that people can occasionally be unpleasant in their dealings with others. Sometimes it's not through meaning to be, but its far nicer to be consciously pleasant and thoughtful than be abrupt and abrasive. A simple 'thanks but you're not my type', is an explanation.
Additionally, the reading of profiles is a lost art. |
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I've learnt trust is a dear thing, some it's wasted on others will value it. There are some truly amazing people on here, some truly not. But generally it's a lot like everyday life take it as it comes and you only get what you put in!! |
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I've learned not to eat yellow snow, that getting a "coffee" invite means more than just coffee, and that I'm a sex god.... well, I'm sure thats what they meant, whenever I come into the room they say "Oh god, its him again!"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i googled it cos i nosy lol but was lucky not to see pictures just what the slang term blue waffle means lol just as well cos i off for my brekkie xxxhave a good day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've learnt trust is a dear thing, some it's wasted on others will value it. There are some truly amazing people on here, some truly not. But generally it's a lot like everyday life take it as it comes and you only get what you put in!! "
This for me & move on to the nice ones if you encounter a bad un X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've learned not to eat yellow snow, that getting a "coffee" invite means more than just coffee, and that I'm a sex god.... well, I'm sure thats what they meant, whenever I come into the room they say "Oh god, its him again!" "
I think your a sex god mart !  |
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"I've learned not to eat yellow snow, that getting a "coffee" invite means more than just coffee, and that I'm a sex god.... well, I'm sure thats what they meant, whenever I come into the room they say "Oh god, its him again!" I think your a sex god mart ! "
Mmmm, I've learned that there are some seriously sexy ladies on here, and TQ is one of them! xxxx  |
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On a more serious note....
We have learned that you can swing, make friends and continue to play together, friends that you will have for the rest of your life can also be intimately involved in your playtimes too. |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"I've learnt never to Google when someone suggests to! 
In that case don't google special fried rice or rice crispies either 
xx J xx "
That there isn't much Welsh ladies posting regularly in the other forums  |
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By *obbo44Man
over a year ago
Swansea |
I've learnt when I first came on this site it was purely just to look for sex I had no other reason was just looking for a bit of rebound fun and games , and I guess by the messages I was sending and the people I was sending them to must have seen and known this and they must have smelt of desperation for sex and they probably did and I didn't get absolutely anywhere , and then when I did actually take the site seriously and actually read the profiles and what the people were actually looking for and started to talk to people and get to know them so as they became comfortable with me that is when I got my first meet , I realised that to really enjoy the swinging lifestyle be friendly ,relaxed ,non pushy and willing to be patient as people have their own lives and won't just jump in the car because I was feeling horny and now I have learnt all of these things I find that I can come on here every now and then chat to people for a while and enjoy the site for what it is a place where people share a like and fondness for sex can indulge in certain things where you possibly couldn't with and everyday partner , this site is not my world but for the foreseeable future it certainly will be part of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learnt that politeness goes out the window when sitting at a keyboard. Things some people wouldn't dream of saying in real life get said to people on here, really cutting nasty barbs. And of course as an earlier poster said, the playground gangs behaving like they are ten years old when faced with somebody who has an opinion different to them or makes them feel inadequate  |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
That there are plenty of cliques on here. Names have been mentioned. So it wasn't me just thinking it as I was told before I brought the subject up.
If a bloke posts something they are more likely to get slated than a woman.
All the nice women live in Scotland, Up north or don't post regularly in the forums.
There are members who always criticise and never post anything else.
Forums are addictive.
Those are the ones I have noticed. There are a lot more though.
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"Can you define what a clique is on here ????
Just seems to me we get on better with some people than others as is in vanilla life "
When it's the same few people that agree with each other, compliment each other, they never disagree on anything. Plus no one else gets a look in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Awwh right. Yes that does happen but I like to think most on here arent afraid to voice a different opinion if they dont agree with something. You can discuss things without getting personal |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"Awwh right. Yes that does happen but I like to think most on here arent afraid to voice a different opinion if they dont agree with something. You can discuss things without getting personal "
It's the minority who aren't afraid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you define what a clique is on here ????
Just seems to me we get on better with some people than others as is in vanilla life "
This:
"persons who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting."
But it's best not to use the word here because it causes a weird reaction |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
Carmarthenshire |
"clique, group of people, call it what you want, but not everyone gets on with everyone else, be it on here or in everyday life. "
The "cliques" I have seen in real life never let anyone in their group. This is what others find annoying for a bit and then move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is like any other small community it reflects the same social norms in a microcosm, why people ever think it should be any different I can't fathom x |
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By *otheredWoman
over a year ago
country ville |
I feel there may be a serious case of the need to just pop to the shed approaching- where wood can be located enabling the construction of that bridge building exercise to get under way - allowing peeps to get the fuck over it clickety click click...nearly sounds like the nails and hammer tapping away already there  
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"Can you define what a clique is on here ????
Just seems to me we get on better with some people than others as is in vanilla life
This:
"persons who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting."
But it's best not to use the word here because it causes a weird reaction "
Wibble!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you define what a clique is on here ????
Just seems to me we get on better with some people than others as is in vanilla life
This:
"persons who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting."
But it's best not to use the word here because it causes a weird reaction
Wibble! "
Wobble |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you define what a clique is on here ????
Just seems to me we get on better with some people than others as is in vanilla life
This:
"persons who interact with each other more regularly and intensely than others in the same setting."
But it's best not to use the word here because it causes a weird reaction
Wibble! "
do you have pencils? |
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