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wish had more luck on here!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno wat it is lol, though women liked tidy genuine guys with a decent sized nob lol I dunno hey lol x"
I'll tell you what it is.
That fact you're part of a ratio of 9/1 male to females.
First impressions count - you wouldn't walk into a pub shouting "I've got a big cock' and have women throwing themselves at you - don't expect it here.
We're all here for sex - doesn't make a single one of us a slut/whore, desperate, needy, greedy or easy.
Your profile text is standard and doesn't draw you apart from being just like any other guy here, your photos or lack of them (well done for not plastering your profile with cock pics) again doesn't show a lot apart from your torso.
I guess be a bit more creative and less about 'big cock' and you might have a bit more luck.
That and move from Carmarthen where the population isn't great anyway (ex Carmarthen resident) if you're wanting more local fun  |
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Look at your profile from a female's point of view. She/they get so many mails from loads of guys and a quick summary of your profile is "big", the fact that your age preference is 18-99 and saying age - size not an issue. Hiding the one verification can be a turn off.
Good luck as I see single guys on here well sought after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dunno wat it is lol, though women liked tidy genuine guys with a decent sized nob lol I dunno hey lol x
I'll tell you what it is.
That fact you're part of a ratio of 9/1 male to females.
First impressions count - you wouldn't walk into a pub shouting "I've got a big cock' and have women throwing themselves at you - don't expect it here.
We're all here for sex - doesn't make a single one of us a slut/whore, desperate, needy, greedy or easy.
Your profile text is standard and doesn't draw you apart from being just like any other guy here, your photos or lack of them (well done for not plastering your profile with cock pics) again doesn't show a lot apart from your torso.
I guess be a bit more creative and less about 'big cock' and you might have a bit more luck.
That and move from Carmarthen where the population isn't great anyway (ex Carmarthen resident) if you're wanting more local fun "
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I am afraid most of the males have the same misapprehension of this site thinking it would be easy for them to get laid. The reality is that it isn't. This is just another dating site but with a more open expectation of what everyone wants or is looking for.
As another poster mentioned the ratio of men to women is such that you are just one of many on here coupled with the fact that you live out in the sticks so speak, the probability of getting meets is slim to say the least 
However it is not all doom and gloom. You can always help yourself by :
1. Going to social events with the nearest one to you being Swansea and to get to know other Fabbers. These events are held more or less monthly and are non play events but hey ho if you meet the right person and you both click who knows 
2. Become bi so now you will have 100% of the target audience 
3. Move !
4. Have patience and try to get to know someone rather than expecting to get laid straight away. It just doesn't happen like that in real life 
Good luck ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great advice from all but...
DONT MAKE IT HARDER FOR US !
Lol... Stay in Carmarthen and shout it out loud about your mahusive organ ..
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Do it near a school and you'll be spoiled for choice of.... Well sex hungry men in prison but you might have it more regular than normal |
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By *urrsMan
over a year ago
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I struggle for meets, met about 5/6 people off of fab.
But 2 became regulars and I know and they know that when we meet again, it's going to be a REALLY fun night.
I guess what I'm saying is - be patient and decent. Build trust and you'll reap the rewards. You're never going to get flocks of messages, but that's just the nature of the site.
Anyway I'm rambling, best of luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I struggle for meets, met about 5/6 people off of fab.
But 2 became regulars and I know and they know that when we meet again, it's going to be a REALLY fun night.
I guess what I'm saying is - be patient and decent. Build trust and you'll reap the rewards. You're never going to get flocks of messages, but that's just the nature of the site.
Anyway I'm rambling, best of luck."
I'm surprised you struggle for meets  |
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By *urrsMan
over a year ago
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"I struggle for meets, met about 5/6 people off of fab.
But 2 became regulars and I know and they know that when we meet again, it's going to be a REALLY fun night.
I guess what I'm saying is - be patient and decent. Build trust and you'll reap the rewards. You're never going to get flocks of messages, but that's just the nature of the site.
Anyway I'm rambling, best of luck.
I'm surprised you struggle for meets "
Why's that then?
I'm probably just crap at first messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I struggle for meets, met about 5/6 people off of fab.
But 2 became regulars and I know and they know that when we meet again, it's going to be a REALLY fun night.
I guess what I'm saying is - be patient and decent. Build trust and you'll reap the rewards. You're never going to get flocks of messages, but that's just the nature of the site.
Anyway I'm rambling, best of luck.
I'm surprised you struggle for meets
Why's that then?
I'm probably just crap at first messages "
Because you're hot maybe??
Where the fuck did you sneak in from anyway??  |
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By *urrsMan
over a year ago
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"I struggle for meets, met about 5/6 people off of fab.
But 2 became regulars and I know and they know that when we meet again, it's going to be a REALLY fun night.
I guess what I'm saying is - be patient and decent. Build trust and you'll reap the rewards. You're never going to get flocks of messages, but that's just the nature of the site.
Anyway I'm rambling, best of luck.
I'm surprised you struggle for meets
Why's that then?
I'm probably just crap at first messages
Because you're hot maybe??
Where the fuck did you sneak in from anyway?? "
 back at Ya!
I've been on here for a while. Just never used the forums until recently - they're pretty good.
Funnily enough I'm from Neath originally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I struggle for meets, met about 5/6 people off of fab.
But 2 became regulars and I know and they know that when we meet again, it's going to be a REALLY fun night.
I guess what I'm saying is - be patient and decent. Build trust and you'll reap the rewards. You're never going to get flocks of messages, but that's just the nature of the site.
Anyway I'm rambling, best of luck.
I'm surprised you struggle for meets
Why's that then?
I'm probably just crap at first messages
Because you're hot maybe??
Where the fuck did you sneak in from anyway?? "
What she said |
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By *urrsMan
over a year ago
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"I struggle for meets, met about 5/6 people off of fab.
But 2 became regulars and I know and they know that when we meet again, it's going to be a REALLY fun night.
I guess what I'm saying is - be patient and decent. Build trust and you'll reap the rewards. You're never going to get flocks of messages, but that's just the nature of the site.
Anyway I'm rambling, best of luck.
I'm surprised you struggle for meets
Why's that then?
I'm probably just crap at first messages
Because you're hot maybe??
Where the fuck did you sneak in from anyway??
What she said "
Well thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Near a school, thats sick to even say! No offence but it is really init"
Typical single guy, typically take this site too serious.
Can't handle a laugh and a joke I suggest you avoid the forums.
And just another bit of advice, it's "isn't it" not 'init' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Near a school, thats sick to even say! No offence but it is really init
Typical single guy, typically take this site too serious.
Can't handle a laugh and a joke I suggest you avoid the forums.
And just another bit of advice, it's "isn't it" not 'init'"
Fuck, when did you join the spelling/grammar police and get automatic promotion to Chief Inspector ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Near a school, thats sick to even say! No offence but it is really init
Typical single guy, typically take this site too serious.
Can't handle a laugh and a joke I suggest you avoid the forums.
And just another bit of advice, it's "isn't it" not 'init'
Fuck, when did you join the spelling/grammar police and get automatic promotion to Chief Inspector ?? "
I'm only a jerk when promtped |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Near a school, thats sick to even say! No offence but it is really init
Typical single guy, typically take this site too serious.
Can't handle a laugh and a joke I suggest you avoid the forums.
And just another bit of advice, it's "isn't it" not 'init'
Fuck, when did you join the spelling/grammar police and get automatic promotion to Chief Inspector ??
I'm only a jerk when promtped "
I'm assuming you're being ironic with your spelling of prompted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Near a school, thats sick to even say! No offence but it is really init
Typical single guy, typically take this site too serious.
Can't handle a laugh and a joke I suggest you avoid the forums.
And just another bit of advice, it's "isn't it" not 'init'
Fuck, when did you join the spelling/grammar police and get automatic promotion to Chief Inspector ??
I'm only a jerk when promtped
I'm assuming you're being ironic with your spelling of prompted "
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By *urrsMan
over a year ago
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"Near a school, thats sick to even say! No offence but it is really init
Typical single guy, typically take this site too serious.
Can't handle a laugh and a joke I suggest you avoid the forums.
And just another bit of advice, it's "isn't it" not 'init'
Fuck, when did you join the spelling/grammar police and get automatic promotion to Chief Inspector ??
I'm only a jerk when promtped
I'm assuming you're being ironic with your spelling of prompted
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Burn lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ok... why dont you try putting a face pic up as your pofile pic.... lets be fair there are loads of guys with massive cocks and six packs as their profile page.... i understand privacy but if you have nothing to hide give it a go...
truth of the matter Im a shorty at 5ft7, and although i have a decent sized cock im not yelling it out loud (irony of statement acknowledged lol)... no im trying to connect with people, give it a go, the thing is if you have to be told theres the problem.
but i have a face pic so people know who is messaging from the start.
most importantly dont take yourself so seriously .... the amount of single guys on here is crazy but i do ok ... because im patient, honest pics and respectful...
profile name ...big cock welsh ..sets you up for a fall buddy !
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"ok... why dont you try putting a face pic up as your pofile pic.... lets be fair there are loads of guys with massive cocks and six packs as their profile page.... i understand privacy but if you have nothing to hide give it a go...
truth of the matter Im a shorty at 5ft7, and although i have a decent sized cock im not yelling it out loud (irony of statement acknowledged lol)... no im trying to connect with people, give it a go, the thing is if you have to be told theres the problem.
but i have a face pic so people know who is messaging from the start.
most importantly dont take yourself so seriously .... the amount of single guys on here is crazy but i do ok ... because im patient, honest pics and respectful...
profile name ...big cock welsh ..sets you up for a fall buddy !
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Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok... why dont you try putting a face pic up as your pofile pic.... lets be fair there are loads of guys with massive cocks and six packs as their profile page.... i understand privacy but if you have nothing to hide give it a go...
truth of the matter Im a shorty at 5ft7, and although i have a decent sized cock im not yelling it out loud (irony of statement acknowledged lol)... no im trying to connect with people, give it a go, the thing is if you have to be told theres the problem.
but i have a face pic so people know who is messaging from the start.
most importantly dont take yourself so seriously .... the amount of single guys on here is crazy but i do ok ... because im patient, honest pics and respectful...
profile name ...big cock welsh ..sets you up for a fall buddy !
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Yep, be imaginative with your pictures, and give it time.
slow and steady, wins the race |
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