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Little bit of respect even though it a swinging site
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been here 6 years & there have always been the odd few guys like that about, but the past 6 months the sites changed hugely. Now the genuine guys are few n far between & definitely in the minority. I deleted my single profile because I was getting more n more messages like that & less n less polite ones, wasn't worth the hassle anymore, yeah some of us are looking to fuck but that doesn't mean we don't deserve a respectful approach  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm finding it more and more on here. Their are some great people out there, just puts me off when getting messages like that first.just makes it feel like a meet market and that's not what fab is about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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finding single males a bloody nightmare so rude at times - I don't reply if there not my type where as before I d say nicely sorry not my type . with the abuse you get doing that it's not worth it - I m called shallow and a bitch - wtf x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"finding single males a bloody nightmare so rude at times - I don't reply if there not my type where as before I d say nicely sorry not my type . with the abuse you get doing that it's not worth it - I m called shallow and a bitch - wtf x"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"finding single males a bloody nightmare so rude at times - I don't reply if there not my type where as before I d say nicely sorry not my type . with the abuse you get doing that it's not worth it - I m called shallow and a bitch - wtf x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just ignore messages like that
Or fancy sucking me off
Oh go on then you bugger I've got 5 minutes free
Ffs it makes you wonder why some of them are single.
women must be fighting over the little charmers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Getting to that stage myself I've tried being polite but just comes back with verbal but that's where the block button comes in handy lol. Such a shame when you can meet nice peoplevening and there are loads out there.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just treat it as a simple filter exercise, block them and you won't have to worry about them any more 
Unfortunately you'll probably be blocking at least ten a day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems that a lot of the men on here see it as a site to get an easy lay. We're swingers therefore we must want every cock that's available. And the attitude of any holes a goal becomes very clear when you tell them no no matter how polite you are about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't realise we was allowed to use that word NO
I thought it was banned on here
Ain't we Just meant to lay down open our legs and be grateful we are getting some attention 
But let's be fair now it's not all single guys who behave like this
And some of the women on here are just as rude if not worse so arrogant and up their own arses thinking every man on here wants them
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Block button has been used quite a bit lately but I just can't believe how much men can get so abusive befoemail you have to get to that stage of having to block! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do agree with you there. Some women are up their own arses and give the men a hard time. Like I said puts the nice genuine people to shame who are here for the fun and just enjoy themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't realise we was allowed to use that word NO
I thought it was banned on here
Ain't we Just meant to lay down open our legs and be grateful we are getting some attention
But let's be fair now it's not all single guys who behave like this
And some of the women on here are just as rude if not worse so arrogant and up their own arses thinking every man on here wants them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While I have seen this type of reponses on friends mailboxes and on couple profiles I have been a part of, I have also seen severe rudeness coming from some but not all the fems on the site.
I send respectful messages and I look to make real friends but get rebbuted and ignored/deleted.
If a lady responds and says not for me I am still polite. We can't all be interested in everyone after all.
Just posting to say that's a broad brush you are painting with
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By *roggMan
over a year ago
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"I didn't realise we was allowed to use that word NO
I thought it was banned on here
Ain't we Just meant to lay down open our legs and be grateful we are getting some attention
But let's be fair now it's not all single guys who behave like this
And some of the women on here are just as rude if not worse so arrogant and up their own arses thinking every man on here wants them
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good point from a genuinely friendly person and as someone who has been more successful on the social side on here than the play it is always good to have people that you can communicate with on here with respect to each other whatever the situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I being shallow by not replying to first message saying "I want to eat your pussy" "
Very selfish O.P
I mean you should have jumped at such a superb offer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do agree with you there. Some women are up their own arses and give the men a hard time. Like I said puts the nice genuine people to shame who are here for the fun and just enjoy themselves. "
We all have preferences of who we like to play with . Yes it's a swinging site but we don't just fuck anything . xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been here a few yrs. Sadly it does seem to have gone that way with most single guys, but then also i only ever try to start a conversation with an "hello do you fancy a chat" and not even get so much as a thanks but no thanks. Its usually read then block  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"finding single males a bloody nightmare so rude at times - I don't reply if there not my type where as before I d say nicely sorry not my type . with the abuse you get doing that it's not worth it - I m called shallow and a bitch - wtf x"
this is exactly what happens also |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"finding single males a bloody nightmare so rude at times - I don't reply if there not my type where as before I d say nicely sorry not my type . with the abuse you get doing that it's not worth it - I m called shallow and a bitch - wtf x
this is exactly what happens also "
Sadly there are too many responses like this for ladies. I used to take it to heart when my message was deleted unread andbwinder what was wrong with me but over the years I have come to realise that it's easier for the ladies to do this than to risk the abuse which so clearly comes from rejection. Sad shallow men.
I have never responded to rejection with abuse. Always with a thanks and happy swinging message. We can't all be liked by everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our motto is speak to people how you would introduce yourself on first meeting under any other situation ! A message like that does not deserve a response in our opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many men on here think women are here to drop their knickers because they demand it. So they deem it neccesary to send messages like fancy a f*@k and wonder why the message gets deleted. And guys l not having a go lm sure women can be just as rude as well |
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one reason men are becoming ruder is because people ask for more than 'hello how are you messages'
still wrong though, but more these rude guys take over the site, the more us quieter, polite guys get lost and ignored.
we miss out on good times and ladies also miss out on a good respectul times too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been here 6 years & there have always been the odd few guys like that about, but the past 6 months the sites changed hugely. Now the genuine guys are few n far between & definitely in the minority. I deleted my single profile because I was getting more n more messages like that & less n less polite ones, wasn't worth the hassle anymore, yeah some of us are looking to fuck but that doesn't mean we don't deserve a respectful approach
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Absolutely right, however for a genuine guy now you have to but a really good first message together just to get past other guys rude/non thought out messages!! And if you DARE copy and paste it!!! Well that's as bad as the rude ones!! Ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been here 6 years & there have always been the odd few guys like that about, but the past 6 months the sites changed hugely. Now the genuine guys are few n far between & definitely in the minority. I deleted my single profile because I was getting more n more messages like that & less n less polite ones, wasn't worth the hassle anymore, yeah some of us are looking to fuck but that doesn't mean we don't deserve a respectful approach
Absolutely right, however for a genuine guy now you have to but a really good first message together just to get past other guys rude/non thought out messages!! And if you DARE copy and paste it!!! Well that's as bad as the rude ones!! Ha ha"
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