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over a year ago
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Course there is !...but that isn't a bad thing !
Cliques will always be there , whether this was a swingers site or a gardeners site! and to be honest i think its more about friendship than being cliquey.
If people are going to meet socially or to play in the relatively small area that is south wales, then you are bound to meet people that you like to spend time with and some that you find you don't.
Personally i don't feel part of any clique, im my own person with my own mind...yes i have one or two good friends on here...plenty i will happily chat with...and a few that i would play with.
I really believe that the more socials & party's you go to...and the more time you spend in chat , the more you will notice these cliques.
Me i'll talk to anyone...until they piss me off
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"cliques" are just a bunch of friends. Think of a chatroom like a pub, you cant walk into a pub for the first time and expect everyone to fall over each other greeting you.... the more times u go there the more peeps u meet and before u know it u become a regular ... simples!! lol |
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"Course there is !...but that isn't a bad thing !
Cliques will always be there , whether this was a swingers site or a gardeners site! and to be honest i think its more about friendship than being cliquey.
If people are going to meet socially or to play in the relatively small area that is south wales, then you are bound to meet people that you like to spend time with and some that you find you don't.
Personally i don't feel part of any clique, im my own person with my own mind...yes i have one or two good friends on here...plenty i will happily chat with...and a few that i would play with.
I really believe that the more socials & party's you go to...and the more time you spend in chat , the more you will notice these cliques.
Me i'll talk to anyone...until they piss me off
if theres clits goin can i be in yours  x
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""cliques" are just a bunch of friends. Think of a chatroom like a pub, you cant walk into a pub for the first time and expect everyone to fall over each other greeting you.... the more times u go there the more peeps u meet and before u know it u become a regular ... simples!! lol"
they do at pubs i go to cos i is the man with the bag lol |
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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP Couple
over a year ago
We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !! |
we only opened up this thread coz we been earing alot about clicks recently and we just wanted 2 kno others oppinions on it ,we dnt feel excluded in any ways as we are getting enuff lol but if u wanna be in our gang just ask pmslllllllllllllllllllllllll  |
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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago
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"we only opened up this thread coz we been earing alot about clicks recently and we just wanted 2 kno others oppinions on it ,we dnt feel excluded in any ways as we are getting enuff lol but if u wanna be in our gang just ask pmslllllllllllllllllllllllll "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Serious reply. I agree with col along the lines ffs not this again. Yes clicks have been formed within the wales room in the past in the now and no doubt in the future....such is life.
friends fall out and the rest may take sides....or remain mutual. So party invites are sent out to certain but not all ...Personally i try and always stay mutual. Im here for some fun and nothing more. I get enough grief in the real world.
If someone pisses me of fook em if i piss someone of then fook me.
Some cpls blanket block single males some single males block gays and so on so theres clicks there but as ive said such is life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its the person or couple who causes the "click"
Very sad i know but just chat and make friends with who ever... just cause you wanna chat dont mean you wanna shag every one, just nice to be nice and enjoy the whole scene that can be fun and rewarding.
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over a year ago
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it is only a Clique if you are not involved it simple as!
There will always be some that trust/meet/class as friends/socialise in day to day life more than others.
So for example in the room there are some conversations that take place that are relevant to things that have happened that the general room are not involved in - this may make it feel cliquey
I could not care who talks to who - who shags who - who hates who - JUST make the effort yourself and those that chat chat back simples : ) |
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"it is only a Clique if you are not involved it simple as!
There will always be some that trust/meet/class as friends/socialise in day to day life more than others.
So for example in the room there are some conversations that take place that are relevant to things that have happened that the general room are not involved in - this may make it feel cliquey
I could not care who talks to who - who shags who - who hates who - JUST make the effort yourself and those that chat chat back simples : ) "
Sorry Sparkss but I (Ray) could disagree more. If you turn down certain couples on this site because they simply aren't what a couple are looking for then your mail can't either stop or reduce drasticaly.
At the end of the day we all have different tastes and everyone gets turned down but some of here take it that step too far and mail from couples they know or have met suddenly stop.
Many of you won't agree with this but it's a fact and thats why so many people think there's a clique in wales on this site. |
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"it is only a Clique if you are not involved it simple as!
There will always be some that trust/meet/class as friends/socialise in day to day life more than others.
So for example in the room there are some conversations that take place that are relevant to things that have happened that the general room are not involved in - this may make it feel cliquey
I could not care who talks to who - who shags who - who hates who - JUST make the effort yourself and those that chat chat back simples : )
Sorry Sparkss but I (Ray) could disagree more. If you turn down certain couples on this site because they simply aren't what a couple are looking for then your mail can't either stop or reduce drasticaly.
At the end of the day we all have different tastes and everyone gets turned down but some of here take it that step too far and mail from couples they know or have met suddenly stop.
Many of you won't agree with this but it's a fact and thats why so many people think there's a clique in wales on this site. "
Not quite sure what you mean, so I'll hazard a guess that you couldn't agree more with the op, if this is incorrect then I am prepared to stand corrected, then I believe that you infer that a certain Clique does exist, and are responsible for black balling people, hence the lack or suspension of mail. I could never believe that anyone would be so naive to take anothers words of criticism that far to heart especially on a site such as this. Our mail or messages stop too, but we'd probably put it down to our own fault ie not making the effort, anything else would be verging on paranoia don't you think? |
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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP Couple
over a year ago
We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !! |
well ill tell u wat we kno ,yes theres deffo a clique and its been proven by how many times the block button has been used towards us quite recently and certain ppls comments about summing that was put up and taken off which they knew nuffing about but hay hoo who gives a shit we way 2 old 2 be part ov the play ground noncence that goes on in the room we cant help being 2 hot and popular for sum and just an awsome cple 4 others so we just stick wi wat we kno and go with the flow we get plenty any ways and propositioned even more but u cant be freinds with every body all ov the time thats life so lets all say a lil hay a lil hoo so swing high and swing low and happy hunting fellow shagger those who like us and them who dont theres plenty 2 go round us all |
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we agree with sugar and spice we would also say backstabbing people add you as friends chat to you then block you whats that about,we dont have that problem with the english lol  |
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"No smiffy - there's definitely a clique spreadign rumours on this place.
for example somehow a rumour has gone around that I'm some kind of male tart - and we all know that's not true"
The same ppl is saying that you is a decent bloke underneath everyfing, I dont believe the feckers tho m8, I mean how can ya be? with your shite taste in music, fecking Devo I ask u, and ya shoes I mean who else would wear those? feck I is off to join the clique wiv all the happy happy poular people, shave me head bald, and listen to boyzone or heavy metal, tell every fecker that I is gorgeous and me mrs is bi feck it why not, everyfecker else seems to be doing it, you comming wiv me m8? |
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"No smiffy - there's definitely a clique spreadign rumours on this place.
for example somehow a rumour has gone around that I'm some kind of male tart - and we all know that's not true
The same ppl is saying that you is a decent bloke underneath everyfing, I dont believe the feckers tho m8, I mean how can ya be? with your shite taste in music, fecking Devo I ask u, and ya shoes I mean who else would wear those? feck I is off to join the clique wiv all the happy happy poular people, shave me head bald, and listen to boyzone or heavy metal, tell every fecker that I is gorgeous and me mrs is bi feck it why not, everyfecker else seems to be doing it, you comming wiv me m8?"
oo oo can i join? ( i aint shaving me head tho ) |
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"No smiffy - there's definitely a clique spreadign rumours on this place.
for example somehow a rumour has gone around that I'm some kind of male tart - and we all know that's not true
The same ppl is saying that you is a decent bloke underneath everyfing, I dont believe the feckers tho m8, I mean how can ya be? with your shite taste in music, fecking Devo I ask u, and ya shoes I mean who else would wear those? feck I is off to join the clique wiv all the happy happy poular people, shave me head bald, and listen to boyzone or heavy metal, tell every fecker that I is gorgeous and me mrs is bi feck it why not, everyfecker else seems to be doing it, you comming wiv me m8?
oo oo can i join? ( i aint shaving me head tho )"
Ffs 04 u gotta be super goodlooking and have a fan club with millions of members to be in this clique mind, feck course ya can, you more than qualify, and ya dont have to shave ya head, I'll cut a cheap football in half to stick on ya head, no fecker will notice |
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Ffs 04 u gotta be super goodlooking and have a fan club with millions of members to be in this clique mind, feck course ya can, you more than qualify, and ya dont have to shave ya head, I'll cut a cheap football in half to stick on ya head, no fecker will notice"
yaaaaaaay mind u its more of a lynch mob than a fan club these days  |
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Ffs 04 u gotta be super goodlooking and have a fan club with millions of members to be in this clique mind, feck course ya can, you more than qualify, and ya dont have to shave ya head, I'll cut a cheap football in half to stick on ya head, no fecker will notice
yaaaaaaay mind u its more of a lynch mob than a fan club these days "
Keneth Lynch, Mike Lynch, Bet Lynch, Let's lynch the landlord man (bet ya cant tell me who sang that song now can ya eh) I got some rope they can have anyhow feck I aint been lynched in ages, starting to miss the attention I is, does that me me a sad pathetic old fool? |
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Keneth Lynch, Mike Lynch, Bet Lynch, Let's lynch the landlord man (bet ya cant tell me who sang that song now can ya eh) I got some rope they can have anyhow feck I aint been lynched in ages, starting to miss the attention I is, does that me me a sad pathetic old fool?"
if u got the rope i can supply the hang man, aint got a mask tho, i bet that tobe'd have one mind i heard hes a right trollop  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some say he lurks around in toilets
others say that he can eat a whole jar of pickled gherkins without chewing
I have heard it bandied about that his day to day job is as an ambasador for the Ukrain
But if he does still have the mask is te one thing that I am absolutely, positively, totaly unsure off, shall we ask him? |
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dunno dot, some say he eats deep fried bats coated in mars bars wearing the mask, and that on tuesdays he goes by the name of alfreeda, do ya think its safe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I dont rightly know
Some say he is the founder member of the Mavis Riley fan club, and he wrote tie me kangaroo down sport to qualm his sexual desires, so I think we should tread very carefully |
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im not too sure either, as some say he lurks outside old ppls homes dressed as a gnome, and he spends his weekend grooming his boots , all i know is hes called the tobe ......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Omg
Serious now?
I heard that one of his legs is 25.8mm longer than the other, and he keeps a picture of Bamber Gasgoine in his left pocket, and he cant reply in the forum cos he's too busy tarting |
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over a year ago
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Well someone has mentioned that he rides a unicycle to work, and he spends most Saturdays harrasing crossing patrol guards, but I dont believe a word of that, I have however discovered that he has appeared as a centrefold in Ripley's believe it or not magazine |
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Ffs they is all gonna know now mun, the sales of bananas, and purple vibrators will soar, prices will rocket, how is our superhero going to cope with this?
How is he going to feed his ever increasing back up team of Umpa Lumpa's?
Bet ya didn't think about that now did ya? |
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but i cant have told anyone cos i know nuffink and i neva said nuffink not neva to anyone sooooooo the oompa loompas n the dodgy tango laydieeeees is safe for now ..........., not sure about the pineapples tho |
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wouldnt mind a bit of percussion myself....76 trombones cum this way.... mind I usually end up wiv the concussion!!! 8hrs partying and never remember 8minutes of it!!!!!
ok so who got a big trombone for me.... |
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"he uses percussion too i deff aint askin him then"
I have in my possession written statements from several Greek statesman pouring plaudits on his percussion abilities, I have also heard he plays a pretty mean banjo |
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I was finking we could call in an adjudicator to save us worrying about this crucial decision, but I cant decide on what decision we should come to regarding the adjudicator, perhaps we should look for two adjudicators, what ya fink? If you decide that the decision should be decided dy an adjudicator then will you be able to decide what decision the adjudicator should be deciding |
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noo ya daft gimp we need a box of frogs so we can race them to decide whos the maddest, so they can decide if we need an adjudicator or 3 to decide who makes the decision on who gets to decide whos askin ... duuuuuuuuh but u can have a rasta if you really want one |
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Frogs ffs who's gonna ride the frogs?
Do you know any tiny frog jockeys?
Or do you know of any gigantic frogs?
I think we should go down the rastafarianism route and have a look see if it got jam in |
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I dont know wot kind of jam untill one of us looks, and I is jamaphobic so I cant look, and if you is thinking the same as me wiv the birds then i think u better think another thought before thinking anymore |
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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP Couple
over a year ago
We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !! |
But wen we get get blocked by others who we previously chatted 2 coz weve ad a dissagreement wi sum1 else surly that shows that ppl are cliquey ie,if u not freinds wi them then we not wi u,now the only ppl weve blocked are the 1s who end up wasting our time and the odd 1 weve fallen out with ,we would never multi block other folk for being freinds wi sum1 that we are not freinds with no more,we would not have any freinds if we did that ,1 mans meat an all but at the end of the day it is proper childish ,silly, stupid and cliquey now we aint members ov any clique but i put up this thread coz we av noticed it and cleary others have and weve been on ere 3 and a half yrs and only recently bothered wi chat and it is there that weve noticed it ,realy noticed it |
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well mate its just like a social club we all get on some better than others but the nice ones stay nice.
not met anyone i havent liked yet .we all got good and bad points init.
happy shaggin
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"But wen we get get blocked by others who we previously chatted 2 coz weve ad a dissagreement wi sum1 else surly that shows that ppl are cliquey ie,if u not freinds wi them then we not wi u,now the only ppl weve blocked are the 1s who end up wasting our time and the odd 1 weve fallen out with ,we would never multi block other folk for being freinds wi sum1 that we are not freinds with no more,we would not have any freinds if we did that ,1 mans meat an all but at the end of the day it is proper childish ,silly, stupid and cliquey now we aint members ov any clique but i put up this thread coz we av noticed it and cleary others have and weve been on ere 3 and a half yrs and only recently bothered wi chat and it is there that weve noticed it ,realy noticed it "
You can't please everyone mate. If cpls listen to others and block you then they must be stupid sheep who ain't got minds of thier own. We sing your praises to everyone because your both down to earth and such great fun, what you see if what you get and it's been fab.
I wouldn't lose sleep over people blocking you. They may end up being popular with the people they listened to but I bet they don't have half the fun you pair have lol.
It's almost as stupid as cplsblocking you because you've turned them down. |
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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP Couple
over a year ago
We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !! |
Yes i would be inclined 2 agree wi u scud but i just thought id put the point in that there is deffo a clique but hay hoo we aint gonna shag any ov them lol so we leave the munters 2 the munters and we just stick with the minters as we aint going wiout and theres plenty ov fish in this sea wich we are poking our rods into ha ha so happy fishing but weve caught a few already lol |
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i dun do clique things lol take us as u find us or sod off pmsl xxxx
life is too short and everyone should get on as far as i am concerned xx
god i am being gobby today pmsl xxxx
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on all sites theres always someone who dont like someone who doesnt like someone if you get my drift, the only thing you can do realy is what we do and thats keep shtum and make youre own minds up.
some people on this site for instance find us an attractive couple some dont thats the nature of the beast so all you can do is enjoy those that do and respect those that dont. to avoid clicky situations what we do at socials is go around and introduce ourselves to as many as we can and put names to faces we chat to in chat took us 3 socials and a party to finaly meet the huzzis lol and we were both at them all . not everyone is gonna like you and you are not gonna like everyone but if you are all respectful to each other it may all work out .
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i wanna be in ur cliques please....
bubbs cos she makes the bestest cakes
sniff cos he makes me laugh!
profs cos he makes me think!
shandy just makes me mad...so he can sod off....dont wanna be in his clique!!
salyjons cos she got a misrble git like wot i got!!
nessas cos she does fab partys!!
neil peal cos he put up with me messing him about lol!!!
fast n furious cos they is mad as fuck and make the world a happy place!
kandka cos she is booking good times ahead!!
decadent nights sexy aura..cos i loves her to bits and aint seen her for ages!!
how many cliques is that now...how many am i aloud...
ooo toppers cos hes sooo sexy
and mrsjmrj cos theyr amazin an im on a promis lolol
ok so trillions more but youve fallen asleep....
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"i wanna be in ur cliques please....
bubbs cos she makes the bestest cakes
sniff cos he makes me laugh!
profs cos he makes me think!
shandy just makes me mad...so he can sod off....dont wanna be in his clique!!
salyjons cos she got a misrble git like wot i got!!
nessas cos she does fab partys!!
neil peal cos he put up with me messing him about lol!!!
fast n furious cos they is mad as fuck and make the world a happy place!
kandka cos she is booking good times ahead!!
decadent nights sexy aura..cos i loves her to bits and aint seen her for ages!!
how many cliques is that now...how many am i aloud...
ooo toppers cos hes sooo sexy
and mrsjmrj cos theyr amazin an im on a promis lolol
ok so trillions more but youve fallen asleep....
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And I wanna join for all the above reasons plus seeing your lovely lady cracking the whip at the barstaff at the social she is a great addition to the clique ! |
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"i wanna be in ur cliques please....
bubbs cos she makes the bestest cakes
sniff cos he makes me laugh!
profs cos he makes me think!
shandy just makes me mad...so he can sod off....dont wanna be in his clique!!
salyjons cos she got a misrble git like wot i got!!
nessas cos she does fab partys!!
neil peal cos he put up with me messing him about lol!!!
fast n furious cos they is mad as fuck and make the world a happy place!
kandka cos she is booking good times ahead!!
decadent nights sexy aura..cos i loves her to bits and aint seen her for ages!!
how many cliques is that now...how many am i aloud...
ooo toppers cos hes sooo sexy
and mrsjmrj cos theyr amazin an im on a promis lolol
ok so trillions more but youve fallen asleep....
And I wanna join for all the above reasons plus seeing your lovely lady cracking the whip at the barstaff at the social she is a great addition to the clique ! "
Honestly I wouldn't want to be in any "Clique" that would have me as a member. I don't believe there is a "Clique" that excludes people solely on rumour or hearsay to be honest, and to be quite frank I believe that it may be the creation of an extremly paranoid mind or even set of paranoid minds. Somewhere on this thread there is an accusation of "playground behaviour" in my opinion what could be more like "playground behaviour" than to beileve in a fictious "Clique" I wonder if they still believe in Santa. Can we please stop these "look at me I'm right and everyone else is wrong" threads now, lets have a laugh, it's obvious that not everyone gets along on this site, bit like that in life though is it not? Lets just try to get past that and stop insulting, and accusing, it's going to worse if it don't get better soon, I for one have had enough of being called a munter even if it is true |
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over a year ago
We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !! |
nope nor me smiff tbh thats why its just easier 2 cut a football in half and stick it on my head and keep out of chat coz thats where all the cliques start ,plod on and end,so we will just stick wi wat we kno and thats meeting and playing wi sum fine ppl and leave chat to the ppl who like that sort ov thing |
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"nope nor me smiff tbh thats why its just easier 2 cut a football in half and stick it on my head and keep out of chat coz thats where all the cliques start ,plod on and end,so we will just stick wi wat we kno and thats meeting and playing wi sum fine ppl and leave chat to the ppl who like that sort ov thing "
Stealing my original fashion ideas is way out of order, I knew I should of applied for a patent, I wonder if it's too late?
As for not comming in chat that is your perogative, I aint ever seen a "Clique" in there, perhaps you should take some sage advice from me m8 Des, he said "divide each difficulty into as many parts as is feasible and necessary to resolve it" makes sense to me, he also said "perfect numbers are like perfect men, very rare" I is 496 meself |
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