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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've always found it difficult to start an opening message, never really getting a reply. I try to not send the typical do want to fuck messages. So what if any are good openers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There isn't a generic message you can send. Read their profile, and make your message personal and relatable to them, maybe mention interests that you have in common and try to add a bit of humour on there. I could be wrong as fuck but it's probably the way to go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always found it difficult to start an opening message, never really getting a reply. I try to not send the typical do want to fuck messages. So what if any are good openers. "
Never had problems mailing me.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There isn't a generic message you can send. Read their profile, and make your message personal and relatable to them, maybe mention interests that you have in common and try to add a bit of humour on there. I could be wrong as fuck but it's probably the way to go "
Definitely this x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never had problems mailing me..... "
That's because I know you so well prior to mailing 
Sending a message to a profile that sparks an interest, yields little to no result, and some profiles have very little to build an initial message mainly photos. So either I'm not what their looking for, which is fine or my opener is like a baby's nappy (full of shit)
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"There isn't a generic message you can send. Read their profile, and make your message personal and relatable to them, maybe mention interests that you have in common and try to add a bit of humour on there. I could be wrong as fuck but it's probably the way to go "
This is basically my approach. It certainly must cone across as something original and tailored to them and not a copy/paste job. Though most people will firstly view your profile before replying. If it comes across as unappealing, they may not answer, regardless of how well crafted the message might be.
If I really fancy someone, I almost always include a face pic with my first message. Not much point in building things up if they don't find you attractive from the outset. Just my opinion though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There isn't a generic message you can send. Read their profile, and make your message personal and relatable to them, maybe mention interests that you have in common and try to add a bit of humour on there. I could be wrong as fuck but it's probably the way to go
This is basically my approach. It certainly must cone across as something original and tailored to them and not a copy/paste job. Though most people will firstly view your profile before replying. If it comes across as unappealing, they may not answer, regardless of how well crafted the message might be.
If I really fancy someone, I almost always include a face pic with my first message. Not much point in building things up if they don't find you attractive from the outset. Just my opinion though."
You've hit the nail on the head there, as a single on here if the mail interests I'd look at the profile before replying, if that or the pic don't attract me you'd be unlikely to get a response. Generally a sense of humour is what draws me in & I might not find the picture to my liking but the personality might hook me in. I like light & humorous & if I'm interested in a person you can bet I've been tracking their updates & forum posts, these are wonderful tools for ing people out X |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"There isn't a generic message you can send. Read their profile, and make your message personal and relatable to them, maybe mention interests that you have in common and try to add a bit of humour on there. I could be wrong as fuck but it's probably the way to go
This is basically my approach. It certainly must cone across as something original and tailored to them and not a copy/paste job. Though most people will firstly view your profile before replying. If it comes across as unappealing, they may not answer, regardless of how well crafted the message might be.
If I really fancy someone, I almost always include a face pic with my first message. Not much point in building things up if they don't find you attractive from the outset. Just my opinion though.
You've hit the nail on the head there, as a single on here if the mail interests I'd look at the profile before replying, if that or the pic don't attract me you'd be unlikely to get a response. Generally a sense of humour is what draws me in & I might not find the picture to my liking but the personality might hook me in. I like light & humorous & if I'm interested in a person you can bet I've been tracking their updates & forum posts, these are wonderful tools for ing people out X"
Couldn't agree more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Always nice to get others perspectives on this and some good advice for once
I was concentrated on one aspect where it would appear that there are subtle additions that may need improving.
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Always include a dick pic 