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How does everyone else deal with people who won't take no for an answer?
I usually politely tell said person they're not my type but wish them all the best on FAB.
Lately I've been getting:
"what if we went for a social first?'
"I don't look like me in the pictures."
All down the line to pretty much begging - not attractive at all. There are so many people on here, I don't understand why when no means no it doesn't stick.
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"Some people simply can't cope with rejection, and the deadly combination of low self esteem, hatred of rejection, and a dash of psychosis produces the stalker. Best to block if it continues? "
Thank you. I feel bad for these people if that is the case but I guess they need to learn with rejection. I just had to block a guy on here and kik who was messaging me earlier in the year and then I was having external stress so not meeting. I asked him to respect that and not contact me. He constantly kept messaging to the point where I thought if he didn't / couldn't even respect that, what would it be like if it somehow got to the bedroom! |
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By *inataur1Man
over a year ago
Rhondda/Bristol |
I don't get it. I've lost count of the amount of messages that I've not had replies to or a no thanks.
Why would you feel the need to convince someone that their wrong about you.
Blocking is a necessary evil at times. It's a shame that it has to be though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block, its a simple, yet effective tool on your profile & who cares if it's seen as harsh it's your profile & you have no intention of meeting these people. We seem to forget most people here are strangers so why give them undue thought? Would you positively acknowledge & consider a stranger in the street who shows his cock or asks 'fuck now' I don't think so  |
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Hi miss B, this is supose to be fun, make freinds of your choice, u owe know one any explaination to y or y not u dont want to meet them just "thanx for asking but no thanx" is quite enough for most single players or cpls for yhat matter, if they cant take that, block them, move on to u find some one u do like and have fun doing it, take care, xxx |
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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago
Blackwood |
My most popular sentence I text is ' sorry not my type but happy fabbing ' and I think I'm good just replying. Add on your profile if you don't reply your not interested then hopefully they'll go beg to someone else  |
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If they don't respond well to a polite No Thank You. Then you certainly don't want to go anywhere near them. The more messages they send is an indication of much trouble they would be if you did actually meet.
Just block and move on, people like that are ones who'd been phoning you at all hours or turning up at your front door without an invertaion. |
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By *handi83Man
over a year ago
Right here |
There’s a great deal of disordered personalities here on Fab and rejection is a bit of a no no for people who suffer with it.
It may be best to block and make yourself aware of the type of personality to avoid.
Happy chrimbo lovely lady! |
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"Some people simply can't cope with rejection, and the deadly combination of low self esteem, hatred of rejection, and a dash of psychosis produces the stalker. Best to block if it continues?
Thank you. I feel bad for these people if that is the case but I guess they need to learn with rejection. I just had to block a guy on here and kik who was messaging me earlier in the year and then I was having external stress so not meeting. I asked him to respect that and not contact me. He constantly kept messaging to the point where I thought if he didn't / couldn't even respect that, what would it be like if it somehow got to the bedroom!"
Yes people's messaging patterns tell you quite a lot. Someone who's pushy in messaging will be just as selfish in real life. Neglectful texters are negligent partners too. |
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"Thanks guys...I guess my mum brought me up proper and I guess I'm too polite sometimes haha.
Blocking it is.
Have a very Merry Christmas everyone  "
I can be very polite, when it's necessary, and I can be very rude too   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know it sounds really rude but if I say no then they ask again I usually block them. You are on here for your pleasure not theirs so don't feel bad about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I literally just had a message from a guy just now asking if I was in Port Talbot.
I said no and not looking for one-offs.
Thought that was that and he just sent me 10 photos haha!"
I think some people are just plain old bonkers and really don't understand that a no isn't an "oh go on then" in disguise lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I literally just had a message from a guy just now asking if I was in Port Talbot.
I said no and not looking for one-offs.
Thought that was that and he just sent me 10 photos haha!"
The problem is a lot of guys are single for a very good reason and genuinely have no clue how to interact with women on any level let alone when it comes to a site like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys...I guess my mum brought me up proper and I guess I'm too polite sometimes haha.
Blocking it is.
Have a very Merry Christmas everyone "
As if blocking isn't 'proper' makes lol everytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys...I guess my mum brought me up proper and I guess I'm too polite sometimes haha.
Blocking it is.
Have a very Merry Christmas everyone "
It isn't rude not to reply or to block  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have had this problem multiple times... Told some people NO and they still keep trying to message, even under other accounts... One local creep even found out where I lived by asking friends and saying he was a friend.. Turned up on my doorstep about 4 times before the cops had to be called... |
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"My most popular sentence I text is ' sorry not my type but happy fabbing ' and I think I'm good just replying. Add on your profile if you don't reply your not interested then hopefully they'll go beg to someone else "
As you did to me lol.x
so the guy needs to get on with it!
If not block and report xx |
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"How does everyone else deal with people who won't take no for an answer?
I usually politely tell said person they're not my type but wish them all the best on FAB.
Lately I've been getting:
"what if we went for a social first?'
"I don't look like me in the pictures."
All down the line to pretty much begging - not attractive at all. There are so many people on here, I don't understand why when no means no it doesn't stick.
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just block them |
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