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Couples and bi fems meet!
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I nicked this from another thread, as it seemed such a great idea.
On another thread there were comments from single females about their experiences/concerns about playing with couples - a lady suggested that it may be useful to have a long running chat thread to help.
It would also help couples too, as some post about finding it hard to get that first meet with a lady.
The idea being that couples looking for single fems - and single fems not averse to meeting couples - chat on this thread, talk shit, get to know each other more naturally and hopefully - hey presto - meet when they’re comfortable/ready and have a great time!
The idea is that people take their time to establish trust/bonds rather than instantly trying to arrange a meet!
So single fems can feel confident to come along and chat without the worry of being bombarded by pm’s from couples - I’d suggest, for that reason - that it should be the single female who should pm the couple in the first instance, or invite them to pm her - when a rapport has been established!
So, over to you lot, play nice now lol!
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I suppose we'd better tell the ladies about us lol.
Jayne is very bi, loves all aspects of lady-on-lady play, fingers, tongues, toys, kissing and caressing. Likes to play sub, but also likes to switch things around sometimes and be a bit of a demanding bitch lol.
Mart is pretty easy going, loves a giggle, doesn't take things too seriously, and loves to be involved.
As a couple we love having a lady join us, and we have no rules about anything being "off limits"... if the lady wants to play with Mart, that's fine, you wont get Jayne saying "hands off", she loves seeing him play.
We just want to make it a genuine 3 way thing, with everyone free to enjoy themselves, we love making friends and having lots of sexy fun, and if the lady wants to experiment with some softer elements of BDSM, tie-n-tease etc then we would be happy to help!
Ladies, form an orderly queue, no pushing now lol!  |
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And...
do some research, think about what you like, and think about what you might like to try with other ladies... erm, I mean get your friend to, well, you know.
Watch lady-on-lady porn, and see what floats your boat, erm, her boat I mean.
Some ladies don't like the idea of going down on another woman, but are ok with getting licked by another lady, others are practically raving lesbians (Jayne lol!) who take to it like the proverbial duck.... uuhhmm, not that I'm saying ducks are gay.... jeez, see what you've started now!  |
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I used to love playing alone with couples I don't any longer because nowadays they seem to make me feel used, like I'm only fulfilling their private fantasy. I now only play with couples in clubs & then only select couples I know & enjoy & whom I know are true swingers who met couples as well.
We are fortunate that as a couple over the years we've built friendships with females so we tend to have females join us rather than the other way, but we like that female to be the focus & receiver of the pleasure. Maybe that's why we don't tend to struggle with single women.
I do think though that most women have an idealised view of the type of female they want to see their man with & that isn't often achievable outside of a club setting & again that's more about fulfilling fantasy than having swinging fun.
Just my thoughts on the matter. Px
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"How would a complete newbie to this sort of play go about finding out what they like or dislike? Surely couples are looking for experience in their extra playmate.
Asking for a friend  "
BTW Lass some of us are givers more than receivers & as such are happy to provide pleasure & teach X |
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Interesting thread. We are a couple looking for a bifemale to join us for some fun but find initial contact difficult.
We are not pushy and will happily chat for as lobg as it takes to establish a connection before moving to anything physical.
If anybody is interested we are happy to chat x thanks for the opportunity to advertise! |
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We have met single females before and with a few it was there first time with a couple and also playing with another female. I ( Mrs) like to talk with them first to make sure there comfortable and feel at ease. Then if they are happy take things further but at there pace. Hubby has been present but has always made sure that myself and the other female have been satisfied before worrying about himself. From my experience of having had a singles profile on here I think the main problem could be that some couples can hound a single female for a meet which in turn puts them off meeting couples  |
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"Interesting thread. We are a couple looking for a bifemale to join us for some fun but find initial contact difficult.
We are not pushy and will happily chat for as lobg as it takes to establish a connection before moving to anything physical.
If anybody is interested we are happy to chat x thanks for the opportunity to advertise!"
Socials are great for this.
Ladies can chat, without the pressure of any expectations that might be present at a party or club.
They can see both of you interacting with others, and each other, in a relaxed environment. |
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"Interesting thread. We are a couple looking for a bifemale to join us for some fun but find initial contact difficult.
We are not pushy and will happily chat for as lobg as it takes to establish a connection before moving to anything physical.
If anybody is interested we are happy to chat x thanks for the opportunity to advertise!
Socials are great for this.
Ladies can chat, without the pressure of any expectations that might be present at a party or club.
They can see both of you interacting with others, and each other, in a relaxed environment. "
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"And...
do some research, think about what you like, and think about what you might like to try with other ladies... erm, I mean get your friend to, well, you know.
Watch lady-on-lady porn, and see what floats your boat, erm, her boat I mean.
Some ladies don't like the idea of going down on another woman, but are ok with getting licked by another lady, others are practically raving lesbians (Jayne lol!) who take to it like the proverbial duck.... uuhhmm, not that I'm saying ducks are gay.... jeez, see what you've started now! "
It can be a bit of a tricky dynamic. Jane identifies as straight. But when we are in comfortable surroundings she enjoys receiving from another lady, but it may be a bit of a one way thing. She has to be very comfortable before it'll happen so tends to be with trusted friends. |
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"And...
do some research, think about what you like, and think about what you might like to try with other ladies... erm, I mean get your friend to, well, you know.
Watch lady-on-lady porn, and see what floats your boat, erm, her boat I mean.
Some ladies don't like the idea of going down on another woman, but are ok with getting licked by another lady, others are practically raving lesbians (Jayne lol!) who take to it like the proverbial duck.... uuhhmm, not that I'm saying ducks are gay.... jeez, see what you've started now!
It can be a bit of a tricky dynamic. Jane identifies as straight. But when we are in comfortable surroundings she enjoys receiving from another lady, but it may be a bit of a one way thing. She has to be very comfortable before it'll happen so tends to be with trusted friends."
Receivers are always my preference, most women aren't rough enough for my tastes, I mean that in the action way lol X |
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Relatively new couple looking for a female to please. We are discrete and sensitive and would like to meet genuine ladies who want to be pleasured. No rush, no pressure and no dramas...please form an orderly queue...lol |
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