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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it me or does anyone else have a problem getting through to and meeting girls on here. Or am I an ugly sod with shit grafting skills haha"
With your body you shouldn't have problems meeting, try going to a social...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or does anyone else have a problem getting through to and meeting girls on here. Or am I an ugly sod with shit grafting skills hahaWith your body you shouldn't have problems meeting, try going to a social..."
I would  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a few socials around which don't require veris
You're in great shape which puts you at an advantage as you are nice to look at
You need to put some effort in though  |
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Look at what you've tucked in your interests this and lack of profile text might be the key. Maybe it's your approach too in your messages. There is some really good advice given to guys who've asked the same/similar questions. Put it in the forum Search. Take from those threads what's helpful and away you go.
Already have a good selection of pics that cover what women want to see so you're already half way there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's definitely a better profile than most. Just keep going. Socials are the way forward though. Just be polite in your messages,that's all I ask. It helps if you read profiles and don't just look at pics too. Most only look at pics.
Last night I had a guy message asking to impregnate me. So as long as you don't go down that route with your messages I'm sure you will get there xxmiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or does anyone else have a problem getting through to and meeting girls on here. Or am I an ugly sod with shit grafting skills haha"
To be fair, if the profile is not great, it doesn't tend to draw much attention. Just saying..... |
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Hard word for guys in here bro. If you ain’t a Channing Tatum lookalike then you have to rely on your personality coming through....but morals ,manners and just being a good guy seem to be left at the door the second we join this site !! But persistence without pressure will also help you meet the genuine women. |
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"Hard word for guys in here bro. If you ain’t a Channing Tatum lookalike then you have to rely on your personality coming through....but morals ,manners and just being a good guy seem to be left at the door the second we join this site !! But persistence without pressure will also help you meet the genuine women. "
Not necessarily. Yes it's hard work but not everyone goes for celebrity looks. Everyone's perception of handsome/beautiful is different.
Patience, politeness and personality is key |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or does anyone else have a problem getting through to and meeting girls on here. Or am I an ugly sod with shit grafting skills haha"
I have the same problem mate. I always take my time over any messages I send & am courteous & respectful in them. I always use correct spelling & grammar...I absolutely despise text speak...unless actually texting family or friends, haha.
I never send cock pics unless asked & have private face pics to swap if asked for them.I am not keen on crowds of people that I don't know very well, so not really sure about big social gatherings.
Guess I'll just have to plod on. Surely the law of averages says sooner or later someone will be willing to meet I HAVE had a few meets with a regular couple, but they have now left the site. And as I was their first meet, we were unable to verify each other !
Oh well... |
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"I can't go on socials as I don't have any verifications haha I'll just keep plodding along but any tips on my profile would be greatly appreciated "
There are smaller socials that don't require veries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just stay positive, it'll happen in time. I've struggled to meet for long intervals at times but always get asked to meet again. It's hard to tell about a person from a quick paragraph or so.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think my profile is better than most I've added some personal information now and I'll see how that goes "
Better than some yes, better than most no.
Arrogance won't work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or does anyone else have a problem getting through to and meeting girls on here. Or am I an ugly sod with shit grafting skills hahaWith your body you shouldn't have problems meeting, try going to a social..."
This is the best way to meet people (my opinion) as people know you are genuine then and want to make an effort with swinging ! Not just a shag site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In what way I'd hate to be a pm pest so if I don't get a reply I just sack it off. Or do I need more effort on my profile "
Seriously, attend a social
You are a good looking bloke and you seem to have a decent s.o.h
If I were still running the Neath daytime social you are the kind of guy the female contingent would have been pleased to see  |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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You sound like a decent guy, mate.
The comment about “hundreds of winks” leapt our at me. I really don’t think sending lots of them, or lots of messages is the way forward.
I honestly think that “less is more” on here. Remember you may be one of 20-50 guys who has contacted that person that day.
Be patient and get known as someone who contributes to forums, goes to socials and “has a bit about them” as a person. This strikes me as the better approach and the rest will flow from there. |
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"In what way I'd hate to be a pm pest so if I don't get a reply I just sack it off. Or do I need more effort on my profile
Seriously, attend a social
You are a good looking bloke and you seem to have a decent s.o.h
If I were still running the Neath daytime social you are the kind of guy the female contingent would have been pleased to see "
There seems to be at least one of these threads active each week. I'm starting to think they're just a way to get traffic to your profile. 
The advice is much the same each time and above is an excellent example.
Sending message to people you haven't already met on here is normally a waste of everyone's time. Since there are so many fake profiles spamming people.
If you do get a 'bite' from your unsolicited message. There's a very good chance it's a fake/time waster who won't meet you.
So as advised above, get your butt to a social and you should see your luck improve.
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If you're here for sex then likely you'll be disappointed. However, if you're here just to chat and make a few online friends then more people talk on fab than any dating app.
Don't forget that m:f is 100:1 . what makes you so special? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not special at all I'm not in it for pen pals but when you look for females around you and there are 3 online and all are blank profiles you know it's a dead end haha |
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"And the see who's near is all men I will graft elsewhere "
This is why men are prepared to travel. I've never found a friend within 40miles of home.
But when you make a good friend it's all worth it. Can take years of looking on here in afraid.
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