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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey fabbers.
Interested in your opinions.
Someone told me recently that for a girl who's not been on here long, I've met a lot of people. And it's bugging me a little.
I've not met everyone on my verifications and some are socials, but why am I feeling bad about myself? This is a site for non manogamous experiences right?
So does it put people off meeting if the person has a lot of verifications?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey fabbers.
Interested in your opinions.
Someone told me recently that for a girl who's not been on here long, I've met a lot of people. And it's bugging me a little.
I've not met everyone on my verifications and some are socials, but why am I feeling bad about myself? This is a site for non manogamous experiences right?
So does it put people off meeting if the person has a lot of verifications? "
Don't worry what others think, you're here to enjoy yourself
And 12 in 4 months doesn't seem like an excessive amount |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey fabbers.
Interested in your opinions.
Someone told me recently that for a girl who's not been on here long, I've met a lot of people. And it's bugging me a little.
I've not met everyone on my verifications and some are socials, but why am I feeling bad about myself? This is a site for non manogamous experiences right?
So does it put people off meeting if the person has a lot of verifications? "
Hi lovely,
I’ve been here just over 3 months and I’ve got an excessive amount of verifications. Reason being, I attend loads of group socials and I talk to dozens of people each time.
If people read my verifications they will see they are social ones as I tend to hide my play veris or veris that are generic like ...chatted briefly, nice lady. lol
I suppose it could go two ways... 1- people think omg what a fun social butterfly or 2- complete tart lol. Either way I’m completely comfortable with my lifestyle and the opinions of others don’t phase me.
What I’m trying to say is, don’t worry about what others think just be true to yourself and have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There isn't a limit on verifications for me.
You could go to one social meet 40 people and they all verify you or you fuck 40 people and they all verify you. The numbers don't mean much.
I usually look at the split between meet and cam verifications to have idea of what the person likes and will only ready the latest two or three any way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey fabbers.
Interested in your opinions.
Someone told me recently that for a girl who's not been on here long, I've met a lot of people. And it's bugging me a little.
I've not met everyone on my verifications and some are socials, but why am I feeling bad about myself? This is a site for non manogamous experiences right?
So does it put people off meeting if the person has a lot of verifications? "
Your body, your life do what you want, you can always hide verification summary and just display your most recent or favourite varif x
Have fun fk what others think  |
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By *e_SocksWoman
over a year ago
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I have lots of veris but 99% of the are from the social gatherings. I state it on my profile just so people are not put off by it.
Do what's right for you I guess, don't worry about what others think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've a few from 12 months ago. I've had recent meets but I'm no longer inclined to swap veri's. If that's how someone judges me, then they"re not going to be my type anyway.
Like most have said, enjoy it for you ??
Mark |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, Fab is very dated in design and doesn't innovate like other services out there. There could be a simple design improvement to give different forms of verification options to the community.
Example:
Social & Play
Do I care if a gorgeous woman has 50 verifications? Not in the slightest mush.
Nobody should be made to feel unsettled no matter what.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all. Feel a lot better now. And you're all right. It's my body. And I'm probably having a lot less sex than a monogamous couple so I guess if you look at it that way
Variety is the spice of life as they say. Besides, I'm in my prime. If I don't do this now I never will.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks all. Feel a lot better now. And you're all right. It's my body. And I'm probably having a lot less sex than a monogamous couple so I guess if you look at it that way
Variety is the spice of life as they say. Besides, I'm in my prime. If I don't do this now I never will.
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The best way to look at it in my opinion is do you really care what an anonymous stranger on the internet thinks? If someone isn’t happy with how many veri’s you have that is their issue not yours. |
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"I have put in my profile that people can message others on my veris to prove I'm genuine.
Thats what veris are for ?"
We agree...we like to read veris as often gives us an insight to what someone enjoys.
In the end though I really wouldn't worry about what anyone else thinks ...it's a swinging site.
Have fun! |
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