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"Yes, they air either on the more expensive side or are invite only. We’ve had the pleasure of attending the latter and they are incredible, everyone’s there for the right reason. I believe Killing Kittens do an expensive one that you need to get vetted for but we’ve not been because we’ve heard they are hit and miss." Cool, thanks for the info  | |||
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"Do mansion/elegant house parties actually take place anymore? (Obviously in a COVID-19 free world) Wife’s fantasy is for us to attend one in the hopefully not too distant future. Any contacts/e mail addresses would be greatly appreciated Thanks in advance x"Yes definitely, A lot of these in London. Some amazing ones I've been to. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 06/04/20 16:03:56]" Hi, could you possibly pm us some contacts please, it would be very much appreciated | |||
"We’re really tempted to try and organise something like that....Classy House - With all the drinks included in some way. Wouldnt be stupid money like KK and not aimed at lookers rather than players. Something over a weekend, with hotwives (Inc Sgl m) on Friday....and a more couples focused theme evening on Saturday.... More than happy hearing from anyone interested." We’re definitely interested | |||
"We’re really tempted to try and organise something like that....Classy House - With all the drinks included in some way. Wouldnt be stupid money like KK and not aimed at lookers rather than players. Something over a weekend, with hotwives (Inc Sgl m) on Friday....and a more couples focused theme evening on Saturday.... More than happy hearing from anyone interested." We would be interested in this too | |||
"We’re really tempted to try and organise something like that....Classy House - With all the drinks included in some way. Wouldnt be stupid money like KK and not aimed at lookers rather than players. Something over a weekend, with hotwives (Inc Sgl m) on Friday....and a more couples focused theme evening on Saturday.... More than happy hearing from anyone interested. We would be interested in this too "Ditto | |||
"Do mansion/elegant house parties actually take place anymore? (Obviously in a COVID-19 free world) Wife’s fantasy is for us to attend one in the hopefully not too distant future. Any contacts/e mail addresses would be greatly appreciated Thanks in advance x"I do confess I have been lucky enough to meet three regular guys which have beautiful houses and host regular parties, It's not something that is advertised here due to their professions so is usually found through mutual friends as was in my case. There's no going back, Only problem is no matter how many times I attend I still get lost in those mazes  | |||
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"Hmmm interesting.... we have a very private house in North Wales, also a private villa in Spain, and the idea of hosting an upmarket invitation only weekend in one or the other post Covid is quite appealing. With maybe a saturday night Eyes Wide Shut party. R and S xx" Now that sounds like a plan! x | |||
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"Hmmm interesting.... we have a very private house in North Wales, also a private villa in Spain, and the idea of hosting an upmarket invitation only weekend in one or the other post Covid is quite appealing. With maybe a saturday night Eyes Wide Shut party. R and S xx" Count me in ?? | |||
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"The bi sutton party is marvellous but closed now due to CV." Was just thinking about that same one | |||
"Hmmm interesting.... we have a very private house in North Wales, also a private villa in Spain, and the idea of hosting an upmarket invitation only weekend in one or the other post Covid is quite appealing. With maybe a saturday night Eyes Wide Shut party. R and S xx" We would definitely be very very intetested xx | |||
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"We have been to an invite only swinger party at a private estate near Bath a few years ago. Lost contact with the organisers now as it was on an older profile. Probably about 20 couples, 7/10 single ladies, and roughly 6/8 single men. " And did it live upto expectations? | |||
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"Hmmm interesting.... we have a very private house in North Wales, also a private villa in Spain, and the idea of hosting an upmarket invitation only weekend in one or the other post Covid is quite appealing. With maybe a saturday night Eyes Wide Shut party. R and S xx" Now this sounds like a party we would enjoy, if you decide to to put plans into action please let us know | |||
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"Thinking about it, the problem with our place in Wales is it only has 4 bedrooms.... 7 for villa in Spain. Ideally, you'd have quite a few more.... wouldn't you?" both your venues seem good , love to attend | |||
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"Hmmm interesting.... we have a very private house in North Wales, also a private villa in Spain, and the idea of hosting an upmarket invitation only weekend in one or the other post Covid is quite appealing. With maybe a saturday night Eyes Wide Shut, i posted here in the forum few times but probably nobody took seriously . Hope soon lockdown ends , to start focus in this theme private party of a mistery mansion for those who are atracted to mystery dark and unknow more than luxury I had the same idea in the begginning of the year , but due family events and due to the Coronavirus i put all in hold since January . Is a mansion and the theme was exactly Eyes Shut Down R and S xx" | |||
"As a serious point, thinking about it, it seems as though a lot of the fun would be in sharing the same space with enough couples to make, say, an 'eyes wide shut' evening work. Our place in Spain might be just enough (7 bedrooms and say 7 couples) but Wales at only 4 probably wouldn't. Surely having to decamp to a local hotel would spoil the fun? We did think about a 'back to nature' weekend in Wales as we have plenty of private land here for tents, naked frolics and a campfire. That doesn't rely on availability of bedrooms." I posted about same idea but in theme of a mysterious house with the Eyes Shut Down , for those who feel atracted to the mystery, dark instead of luxury . I posted here in the forum about my party but probably nobody took seriously , due all this lockdown situation the all event is in hold till everything backs to normality and is safe to go ahead with this my event | |||
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"As a serious point, thinking about it, it seems as though a lot of the fun would be in sharing the same space with enough couples to make, say, an 'eyes wide shut' evening work. Our place in Spain might be just enough (7 bedrooms and say 7 couples) but Wales at only 4 probably wouldn't. Surely having to decamp to a local hotel would spoil the fun? We did think about a 'back to nature' weekend in Wales as we have plenty of private land here for tents, naked frolics and a campfire. That doesn't rely on availability of bedrooms." I went to a party with 5 available bedrooms and 40 guests. It wasn't crowded (kitchen people etc) and in fact could have stood a few more, in my opinion. | |||
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"As a serious point, thinking about it, it seems as though a lot of the fun would be in sharing the same space with enough couples to make, say, an 'eyes wide shut' evening work. Our place in Spain might be just enough (7 bedrooms and say 7 couples) but Wales at only 4 probably wouldn't. Surely having to decamp to a local hotel would spoil the fun? We did think about a 'back to nature' weekend in Wales as we have plenty of private land here for tents, naked frolics and a campfire. That doesn't rely on availability of bedrooms. I went to a party with 5 available bedrooms and 40 guests. It wasn't crowded (kitchen people etc) and in fact could have stood a few more, in my opinion." That's more like a regular party I guess... woukd anyone like to describe their ideal upmarket party or weekend? It would help us to understand what would work. | |||
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"As a serious point, thinking about it, it seems as though a lot of the fun would be in sharing the same space with enough couples to make, say, an 'eyes wide shut' evening work. Our place in Spain might be just enough (7 bedrooms and say 7 couples) but Wales at only 4 probably wouldn't. Surely having to decamp to a local hotel would spoil the fun? We did think about a 'back to nature' weekend in Wales as we have plenty of private land here for tents, naked frolics and a campfire. That doesn't rely on availability of bedrooms." Bedroom numbers definitely an issue. We have been to several mansion weekend/3 days parties over the years, most in rented mansions, ground floor used for diner, socialising, dance, a few playrooms in basement and floor, some (limited) bedroom for guest and camping/glamping outside. Usually about 50+ couples / guests. (Some 4-5x that). Lots of entertainment (artists, fire acts, kink,....). Most of the day is spent in recovery from the previous night. Database / guest list is the trickiest bit. You want to keep the party upmarket but you want players not KK posers. Happy to discuss experience and help organising. | |||
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"There was a couple in Halifax that hosted regular parties for about a year. Beautiful house. Stunning rooms. Drinks on arrival. Finger buffet throughout the night. A handful of couples and a couple of guys. I went twice. Great hosts. They even did ice breaker games and BDSM demonstrations. " Ooooo this sounds very exciting and much fun! | |||
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"So the,question is, what form would an ideal party take? Should say we also have 40 acres of private woodland at our place in Wales." We were lucky to be invited to such a party " Eyes wide shut" but it takes loads to organize and also to vet people. All phones had to be handed over no cameras and they had security to make certain But was per invite and remote place , me Mouse got lost in that place ?? | |||
"Interesting that they made it work with a smaller number of couples... I think the idea of a small, intimate and very upmarket party appeals, say with a dinner party... could maybe make the single guys wait at table, serve drinks etc. " For smaller diner parties, there are plenty of those in kink world, either around CMnf or CFnm theme, or simply formal diner parties. | |||
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"We’re really tempted to try and organise something like that....Classy House - With all the drinks included in some way. Wouldnt be stupid money like KK and not aimed at lookers rather than players. Something over a weekend, with hotwives (Inc Sgl m) on Friday....and a more couples focused theme evening on Saturday.... Would Definatly be interested Xxxxx More than happy hearing from anyone interested." | |||
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"I'd definitely be up for a big house party! Keeping my eye on this thread for us... "Oh me too! If anyone is planning on throwing such an event in the South west please let me know! | |||
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"We’ve considered this several times in the last few years. We’ve been lucky to attend some wonderful parties and love to be involved at any level. The houses we’ve been looking at for this are anything from £1500 to £3k each night, so a minimum budget would be £5k to include enough for the food and drink. Homes that could hold 60-80ppl each evening. If there’s enough interest at around £80-£100 per couple then it should break even at 50-70 Couples over 2 nights. The idea would be Singles and Couples for a full play Hotwife night on Friday, something like 20-25 Cpls, plus 20-30 sgl m. The Saturday would be a more themed cpls only with max 40cpls. The question is......would we get enough interest? The problem we see is a simple one, to arrange and invest in this kind of project there has to be a potential return for the organiser - in return for the time and risks taken. BUT if it sells well and is obviously profitable the hosts are accused of benefiting from the community. It’s a catch 22 situation. If it doesn’t break even the host loses, but if it does well they are vilified. Clubs are all prices from £20 (byob) to £55 and alcohol. We’ve been to KK parties in the past, and we really found them ALL SHOW n NO GO! We would want the exact opposite. Players not watchers. Feedback is welcomed, especially if you think £100 for an evening, with free food, free drinks etc at a suitable venue is fair..... " We'd definitely be interested. You can easily spend that just on a decent hotel room, no food/drink or fun. Brf lockdown, we went for a hotel night which cost £125, room only. We think that sort of price would be fair. | |||
"I looked at running an up market house party but after doing the costing, I didn’t think most couples would pay it was roughly £150 per couple extra for the single guys. The house rental was £1250 for the weekend , food , drinks, equipment etc all adds up. We thought of trying it to start an exclusive club . " Same conclusion we came to. You have to secure the property and then you're relying on getting the amount of people you need that are prepared to pay that sort of money for an exclusive party. To do it properly we found it cost prohibitive when you look at some of the posts moaning about the cost of a decent club etc. The potential is to be left holding a big bill and not enough guests to cover it. We had a couple of offers from clubs to have a private event on their premises but it just didnt feel like the type of vibe we wanted to create with the whole luxury mansion party idea. We would love to attend such an event. | |||
"We’ve considered this several times in the last few years. We’ve been lucky to attend some wonderful parties and love to be involved at any level. The houses we’ve been looking at for this are anything from £1500 to £3k each night, so a minimum budget would be £5k to include enough for the food and drink. Homes that could hold 60-80ppl each evening. If there’s enough interest at around £80-£100 per couple then it should break even at 50-70 Couples over 2 nights. The idea would be Singles and Couples for a full play Hotwife night on Friday, something like 20-25 Cpls, plus 20-30 sgl m. The Saturday would be a more themed cpls only with max 40cpls. The question is......would we get enough interest? The problem we see is a simple one, to arrange and invest in this kind of project there has to be a potential return for the organiser - in return for the time and risks taken. BUT if it sells well and is obviously profitable the hosts are accused of benefiting from the community. It’s a catch 22 situation. If it doesn’t break even the host loses, but if it does well they are vilified. Clubs are all prices from £20 (byob) to £55 and alcohol. We’ve been to KK parties in the past, and we really found them ALL SHOW n NO GO! We would want the exact opposite. Players not watchers. Feedback is welcomed, especially if you think £100 for an evening, with free food, free drinks etc at a suitable venue is fair..... " I really liked the smaller intimate gathering of the party I went to. The house made it. It was a WOW! | |||
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"We’ve considered this several times in the last few years. We’ve been lucky to attend some wonderful parties and love to be involved at any level. The houses we’ve been looking at for this are anything from £1500 to £3k each night, so a minimum budget would be £5k to include enough for the food and drink. Homes that could hold 60-80ppl each evening. If there’s enough interest at around £80-£100 per couple then it should break even at 50-70 Couples over 2 nights. The idea would be Singles and Couples for a full play Hotwife night on Friday, something like 20-25 Cpls, plus 20-30 sgl m. The Saturday would be a more themed cpls only with max 40cpls. The question is......would we get enough interest? The problem we see is a simple one, to arrange and invest in this kind of project there has to be a potential return for the organiser - in return for the time and risks taken. BUT if it sells well and is obviously profitable the hosts are accused of benefiting from the community. It’s a catch 22 situation. If it doesn’t break even the host loses, but if it does well they are vilified. Clubs are all prices from £20 (byob) to £55 and alcohol. We’ve been to KK parties in the past, and we really found them ALL SHOW n NO GO! We would want the exact opposite. Players not watchers. Feedback is welcomed, especially if you think £100 for an evening, with free food, free drinks etc at a suitable venue is fair..... " Seems very fair | |||
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"Have any of you guys been to Radlett?" Do you mean the Radlett house with the big covered outdoor swimming pool and with the dungeon in the attic? | |||
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"Yes the reason I asked house parties are there thing, we went twice and enjoyed it, but the amount of time taken to set up was unbelievable, also the damage to their property was substantial especially with chewing gum ! I thought about it last night and did a bit of research, it maybe something we would consider, along these lines. " I don't understand why people cause damage to property like that. If I was at a posh mansion party, I'd be super duper careful! | |||
"Yes the reason I asked house parties are there thing, we went twice and enjoyed it, but the amount of time taken to set up was unbelievable, also the damage to their property was substantial especially with chewing gum ! I thought about it last night and did a bit of research, it maybe something we would consider, along these lines. I don't understand why people cause damage to property like that. If I was at a posh mansion party, I'd be super duper careful! " Because people will think they are owned that right to do as they please. I had my expensive floggers and paddles stolen at my Mayfair party and at the villa mansion party some people were trying to steal artwork/small statues. | |||
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"We’re really tempted to try and organise something like that....Classy House - With all the drinks included in some way. Wouldnt be stupid money like KK and not aimed at lookers rather than players. Something over a weekend, with hotwives (Inc Sgl m) on Friday....and a more couples focused theme evening on Saturday.... More than happy hearing from anyone interested." Definitely interested in this | |||
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"I've hosted a couple in a friend's villa mansion in South London and a friend's townhouse in Mayfair. Max of 70-80 guests to make it intimate enough but a variety of personalities. I always did a bubbly reception and strawberry and a chocolate fountain at one. Did some introductions with couples a bit of match making and showing them the property. I had a burlesque performance at the mayfair party before all the ladies dressed down. Venue is key as is the right mix of guests and how you accommodate your guests so they have nothing to worry about during play. I would do it again if not for the stress and time it takes to organise it all x" Wow, this would be my ultimate fantasy. Sadly Cornwall doesn't have this level of debauchery! | |||
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Would love to know more...can’t beat that tingly excitement when you have an invite!
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"We’ve considered this several times in the last few years. We’ve been lucky to attend some wonderful parties and love to be involved at any level. The houses we’ve been looking at for this are anything from £1500 to £3k each night, so a minimum budget would be £5k to include enough for the food and drink. Homes that could hold 60-80ppl each evening. If there’s enough interest at around £80-£100 per couple then it should break even at 50-70 Couples over 2 nights. The idea would be Singles and Couples for a full play Hotwife night on Friday, something like 20-25 Cpls, plus 20-30 sgl m. The Saturday would be a more themed cpls only with max 40cpls. The question is......would we get enough interest? The problem we see is a simple one, to arrange and invest in this kind of project there has to be a potential return for the organiser - in return for the time and risks taken. BUT if it sells well and is obviously profitable the hosts are accused of benefiting from the community. It’s a catch 22 situation. If it doesn’t break even the host loses, but if it does well they are vilified. Clubs are all prices from £20 (byob) to £55 and alcohol. We’ve been to KK parties in the past, and we really found them ALL SHOW n NO GO! We would want the exact opposite. Players not watchers. Feedback is welcomed, especially if you think £100 for an evening, with free food, free drinks etc at a suitable venue is fair..... Sounds a great idea, how about on the Saturday still allow single Females, a bit Like KK. Looks like our paths may or crossed if you ever attend the Forbidden room parties. Keep us in the loop. A & T xx " | |||
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