"Tempted but nervous. Never been to a club yet"
Nerves are understandable - but I think most people would agree that once you actually get inside a party, start chatting, flirting, dancing and settle in, you will soon wonder what all the worry was about
I think that its all too easy for us to overthink things and then when we over think, its all too easy to talk ourselves out of new experiences
I appreciate that its easy for me to say this, but I can remember many years ago when I went to my first Swingers Party and the relief that I felt when I realised that there wasn't the usual 'pressure to play' that I felt at hotel meets or home meets
This no pressure policy meant that I actually had fun chatting to other guests without the impending doom of 'taking one for the team'
Obviously clubs aren't for everyone, but once you realise that they are far less intimidating that an intimate gathering, then I am sure you will see it for what it is - just a night out! |
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"What is BMFC like .. is it a friendly atmosphere?"
I suppose I'm biased, but I do like to think that the BMFC Community is one of the friendliest around
Generally our guests are very playful, so we stress that everyone knows the art of conversation - but we also state that conversation is a two way street and that ALL guests must make the effort
We choose venues that have a DJ and dancefloor so there's usually plenty of dancing plus of course flirting
Making an effort, chatting and flirting are always a great starting point! |
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"What is BMFC like .. is it a friendly atmosphere?"
Yes, we've been going for a while now.
We always found it a really good club and a great night out. Hopefully we can make the one at the end of August! |
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