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I have 2 years on this app....and i try to meet couples or single womens but not have tha chance here only in other coutry ,i think this app is only fir couple and you need to be lucky if a couple want to meet you ,is because is so many singke men here is that right? |
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And what can i do i can be a trust person?is nobody want to social or anithink....i invite a lot people or couple for social first...,many of them are teling me i need 50 verification to meet them(one couple told me that ) |
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"And what can i do i can be a trust person?is nobody want to social or anithink....i invite a lot people or couple for social first...,many of them are teling me i need 50 verification to meet them(one couple told me that )"
Get yourself to a club or an organised social, talk to people, and you should easily get a few veris that way. |
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I try this 100 times trust me ,maybe to club but here 0 ,i try to social invite them for dinner or a drink anithink,very hard in this coutry to social ,from where i coming i meet a lot people but here i think the people don t like to have fun so much to be honest ,for my experience here i think is raining a lot and people are depressed this is what told me a guy here ... if is that this is very sad to hear that. |
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"And what can i do i can be a trust person?is nobody want to social or anithink....i invite a lot people or couple for social first...,many of them are teling me i need 50 verification to meet them(one couple told me that )"
Yeah that’s a little extreme! |
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People will meet those without verifications. And you can get them from socials or clubs, as well as on camera.
Remember, most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. It won't be due to verifications in those instances, just that it's the way people are |
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Try going to an organised social. NOT you inviting to meet for a social; two different things.
They are advertised on the forum from time to time. Get yourself along to one of those and meet people in person. If you get on then you should be to ask them to verify you and then take things from there.
PS: A forum search for "Social" should give you a good place to start.
Good luck OP |
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"Try going to an organised social. NOT you inviting to meet for a social; two different things.
They are advertised on the forum from time to time. Get yourself along to one of those and meet people in person. If you get on then you should be to ask them to verify you and then take things from there.
PS: A forum search for "Social" should give you a good place to start.
Good luck OP"
Exactly this is what I meant. Not just a 1:1 social that men often believe would lead to more, despite being clearly told otherwise. |
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"Try going to an organised social. NOT you inviting to meet for a social; two different things.
They are advertised on the forum from time to time. Get yourself along to one of those and meet people in person. If you get on then you should be to ask them to verify you and then take things from there.
PS: A forum search for "Social" should give you a good place to start.
Good luck OP"
,must to be somebody for me same ,i know is people here who like to do social same before,think is sometime they pick up wrong guy and after think all we are the same ... |
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We all start somewhere and get a verification from somebody. As a single I was able to get the ball rolling without a verification and I never chased them. People understand what it's like as a single guy, they expect none or few. They also understand that different types of verifications hold different weight. Such as verification from a successful meet is more valid than loads of standard he attended our club/party or webcam verifications. Verifications are only a small part of the picture that people create to see if they want to meet you or not. More important is your profile, pictures and what you have to say for yourself.
So don't worry about verifications or chasing loads of low value ones. Just concentrate on refining your profile and your game.
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"Why nobody don t want to meet with people without verification ?how you can start if you don t have any chance?"
How many organised social (munch) events have you been on
How many newbie events or general events in clubs have you been on
How many times have you engaged in the chat/cam rooms
There ways to get verification without 121 meetings where the other party is potentially already traumatized by multiple no shows
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"We all start somewhere and get a verification from somebody. As a single I was able to get the ball rolling without a verification and I never chased them. People understand what it's like as a single guy, they expect none or few. They also understand that different types of verifications hold different weight. Such as verification from a successful meet is more valid than loads of standard he attended our club/party or webcam verifications. Verifications are only a small part of the picture that people create to see if they want to meet you or not. More important is your profile, pictures and what you have to say for yourself.
So don't worry about verifications or chasing loads of low value ones. Just concentrate on refining your profile and your game.
Mr"
thanks you so much but unfortunately many people told i need verification for example one couple told me i need 20 verification to meet them....i very hard to be honest... |
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"Why nobody don t want to meet with people without verification ?how you can start if you don t have any chance?
How many organised social (munch) events have you been on
Iask about social here i post one time but nobody doing in tilbury...and no have time to club because my job but happy to social ,invite for a drink ,but people here for example one couple told me i need 20 verifiction to meet them ,for you is easy because you are women but for single men is a nightmare
How many newbie events or general events in clubs have you been on
How many times have you engaged in the chat/cam rooms
There ways to get verification without 121 meetings where the other party is potentially already traumatized by multiple no shows
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"Go to a club on afternoon, swap with a couple, do an mmmf or similar, or at least talk to a couple & get a veri. It’s as simple as that. "
I know is simple this way but i don t have car to go to club and my job is shit i work lorry driver and no posible to stop near a club not depend of me and ,i know sound crazy but is very complicated for club ...is ky dream to go there... |
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"Get yourself to a club or an organised social and get yourself a verification. Simple!"
You only meet in club?i wish to have time to go there but my job is for weekends night sometimes when clubs are open ,but we can social for a drink or anithink like that,if you think is that simple why not try to aocial or meet with me and maybe after i can have a verification? |
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I make worry about verification because i meet a lot couples who told me i need 20 verification at least....is not that simple for a single guy ,for a couple or single women you can have anithink you want trust me,but this is only in this country i coming from europa and i have alot meets without verification and without clubs meets or social organisation ,all my pictures is not from here unfortunately there people are more confident and i don t know here is very sad and people are very cold to be honest ,usually i like to make new friends but here in this coutry people are not open |
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By *itter78Couple 30 weeks ago
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"Why nobody don t want to meet with people without verification ?how you can start if you don t have any chance?"
You have a verification, so I don't understand this question or other people's replies |
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"Why nobody don t want to meet with people without verification ?how you can start if you don t have any chance?
You have a verification, so I don't understand this question or other people's replies"
I tlak with so many couple one of them told i need 20 verification...to meet him another couple same think but not so many i don t know why is so important this verification here special for a single guy ,from where i coming (europe)spain is not about verification ,there i meet a lot people but here is very hard , |
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"Try going to an organised social. NOT you inviting to meet for a social; two different things.
They are advertised on the forum from time to time. Get yourself along to one of those and meet people in person. If you get on then you should be to ask them to verify you and then take things from there.
PS: A forum search for "Social" should give you a good place to start.
Good luck OP
Exactly this is what I meant. Not just a 1:1 social that men often believe would lead to more, despite being clearly told otherwise. "
you want to meet me for social or anithink? |
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Hi there somebody know any site like this, but where is more chance to meet single women or couples?because this one is more for couple who want to meet only couples and gay who is looking for men,this site have low chance for single straight guys . |
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"Hi there somebody know any site like this, but where is more chance to meet single women or couples?because this one is more for couple who want to meet only couples and gay who is looking for men,this site have low chance for single straight guys ."
We cannot discuss other sites on here, but after being on at least a couple, Fab is much easier to navigate, and it has Forum. You don't have to pay to be able to message others on here, and you don't have to constantly post on the main feed to get noticed (the sites/apps I was on had a very "naughty Instagram" feel to them). The chances of meeting aren't any higher elsewhere. |
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"Hi there somebody know any site like this, but where is more chance to meet single women or couples?because this one is more for couple who want to meet only couples and gay who is looking for men,this site have low chance for single straight guys .
We cannot discuss other sites on here, but after being on at least a couple, Fab is much easier to navigate, and it has Forum. You don't have to pay to be able to message others on here, and you don't have to constantly post on the main feed to get noticed (the sites/apps I was on had a very "naughty Instagram" feel to them). The chances of meeting aren't any higher elsewhere. "
i talk with many single guys strainght and they told me same think like i am thinking we are to many single men here and very less women here ,i understand for you is easy but for us no...thanks so much for your response, apreciate |
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"I make worry about verification because i meet a lot couples who told me i need 20 verification at least....
That's just not true is it? "
It is yes i try to talk with them if is any posibility to have a social or anithink they like because i like them and this is what they told me ,i don t know why is so important for some of them this verification....we make our life complicated ,we should to be more simple and make our life more easy ,this is stupid rulls i don t know who are they made it... |
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"I meet verified and unverified, I was unverified once, just like everyone was at some point.
Obviously only if they meet what I'm seeking."
Well a guy if is meeting a women like you is lucky ,not so many like you here |
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"Hi there somebody know any site like this, but where is more chance to meet single women or couples?because this one is more for couple who want to meet only couples and gay who is looking for men,this site have low chance for single straight guys .
We cannot discuss other sites on here, but after being on at least a couple, Fab is much easier to navigate, and it has Forum. You don't have to pay to be able to message others on here, and you don't have to constantly post on the main feed to get noticed (the sites/apps I was on had a very "naughty Instagram" feel to them). The chances of meeting aren't any higher elsewhere. i talk with many single guys strainght and they told me same think like i am thinking we are to many single men here and very less women here ,i understand for you is easy but for us no...thanks so much for your response, apreciate "
Yes, there are too many single men on here and not enough women. However, the ratio is not as much of a problem as the entitlement and complete disregard of what the other person is looking for that comes from way too many single men on here. And if you seriously think single ladies have it "easy" on here, you are very much mistaken. |
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"I make worry about verification because i meet a lot couples who told me i need 20 verification at least....
That's just not true is it?
It is yes i try to talk with them if is any posibility to have a social or anithink they like because i like them and this is what they told me ,i don t know why is so important for some of them this verification....we make our life complicated ,we should to be more simple and make our life more easy ,this is stupid rulls i don t know who are they made it..."
Sorry I just don't believe that a LOT of people have told you this.
Maybe one couple did, it just meant they didn't want to meet you. |
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"Why nobody don t want to meet with people without verification ?how you can start if you don t have any chance?
How many organised social (munch) events have you been on
How many newbie events or general events in clubs have you been on
How many times have you engaged in the chat/cam rooms
There ways to get verification without 121 meetings where the other party is potentially already traumatized by multiple no shows
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So many time trust me i ask in tilbury ,grays,basildon,i ask in forum i post same ,but nothink ...usually i go every month back in europa (spain,france ,roumania)and i have fun here ,i think only club is working ,think is club i don t have so much free time i work hard.... |
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Who wrote your profile, as reading your replies, it was not you.
A few too many contradictions, photos showing you in the drivers seat of expensive cars, you cannot accommodate but the profile text says you can |
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"Who wrote your profile, as reading your replies, it was not you.
A few too many contradictions, photos showing you in the drivers seat of expensive cars, you cannot accommodate but the profile text says you can"
expensive cars???6500£ is expensive car? Yes now i can t accomodate ,and do you know timer foto on your phone?.... |
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"Who wrote your profile, as reading your replies, it was not you.
A few too many contradictions, photos showing you in the drivers seat of expensive cars, you cannot accommodate but the profile text says you can"
I just text you in private to show you what is my job ,what i am doing and who i am ,i am more transparent like water and sorry yes google help to translate my text because my english is not so good my lady and if you are interesting to social or anithink you like let me know  |
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"Do not send me any more private messages "
You say you don t trust in my profile ,i send you all about me,now i hope you change your mind before talkind about other person without know him better,just stop reply ,anyway your profile is look like zero confidence |
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We was happy to meet unverified men for a social with L (more if there is a connection) but unfortunately we had 8 no shows or let downs on the trott and now we seek a minimum of 2 verifications. This protects us and keeps us safe and means we only meet with real swingers and not men here cheating on wives etc. since we have made that rule it has worked very well.
Advise to men - if your serious about swinging get to a swinger club or social and talk to people. you have to put some work in.
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"We was happy to meet unverified men for a social with L (more if there is a connection) but unfortunately we had 8 no shows or let downs on the trott and now we seek a minimum of 2 verifications. This protects us and keeps us safe and means we only meet with real swingers and not men here cheating on wives etc. since we have made that rule it has worked very well.
Advise to men - if your serious about swinging get to a swinger club or social and talk to people. you have to put some work in.
Yes i understand is a lot men who is cheating here ,i am not agree with that same ,yes i shoukd to go to club but my job is ugly i work a lot hours and when i work clubs are close
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"We was happy to meet unverified men for a social with L (more if there is a connection) but unfortunately we had 8 no shows or let downs on the trott and now we seek a minimum of 2 verifications. This protects us and keeps us safe and means we only meet with real swingers and not men here cheating on wives etc. since we have made that rule it has worked very well.
Advise to men - if your serious about swinging get to a swinger club or social and talk to people. you have to put some work in.
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Well iam sure 1000% i will not let you done like other you say ,but to be honest how can i have meet somebody if nobody don t want to meet because i don t have verification,ussualy i meet on tinder or i travel in other country ,anyway i am from europa ,here people are to scary to meet somebody ,need month to know for a meet ,people here very close in them ,shame i never had the chance to meeet somebody and after i will have a verification and people will trust more because here i see this is how is working...from where i coming is not rules like here ,just i am invited by a women or a couple ,nobody care about verification just be normal here is another life with rules..and i don t have time for clubs i think is another sexlife putside de clubs...i like more private ... |
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To be honest you are coming across as very argumentative and stubborn.
People have taken time to give you help and advice but you aren't listening.
If you've been on here for two years and not met anyone maybe YOU need to change?
Or maybe fab is not the right place for you? Best stick to tinder if you've had so much success on there? |
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"To be honest you are coming across as very argumentative and stubborn.
People have taken time to give you help and advice but you aren't listening.
If you've been on here for two years and not met anyone maybe YOU need to change?
Or maybe fab is not the right place for you? Best stick to tinder if you've had so much success on there?"
Nah, of course it's not the OP that's the problem here, it's all us "frigid" women who don't open our legs for everyone that asks, who care too much about our safety and prefer to meet in a club and who want to chat first to establish connection instead of jumping in head first. |
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Nah, of course it's not the OP that's the problem here, it's all us "frigid" women who don't open our legs for everyone that asks, who care too much about our safety and prefer to meet in a club and who want to chat first to establish connection instead of jumping in head first. "
Can't believe you wouldn't jump at the chance to meet in a truck outside of club hours? 🤔😂 |
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Nah, of course it's not the OP that's the problem here, it's all us "frigid" women who don't open our legs for everyone that asks, who care too much about our safety and prefer to meet in a club and who want to chat first to establish connection instead of jumping in head first.
Can't believe you wouldn't jump at the chance to meet in a truck outside of club hours? 🤔😂"
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Nah, of course it's not the OP that's the problem here, it's all us "frigid" women who don't open our legs for everyone that asks, who care too much about our safety and prefer to meet in a club and who want to chat first to establish connection instead of jumping in head first.
Can't believe you wouldn't jump at the chance to meet in a truck outside of club hours? 🤔😂
My hips are not what they used to be "
And as we all know, hips don't lie.
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"To be honest you are coming across as very argumentative and stubborn.
People have taken time to give you help and advice but you aren't listening.
If you've been on here for two years and not met anyone maybe YOU need to change?
Or maybe fab is not the right place for you? Best stick to tinder if you've had so much success on there?"
I understand you mate but i can t go to clubs is simple...my job is shit anytime when i am free clubs are close...just try to meet somebody to show i am real and i can be trust after will see and i will have a recomandation from them or she ,this is the start is very hard...and i don t see somethink safe i prefer to make friends and meet many times maybe maybe clubs can be ok same but i prefer more private ....don t think i not meet somebody but i really want to start a live in gabswinger same i like this site i see many couple here enjoy the life and freedome but you know the start is hard ,usually i meet many people in italia ,spain ...there dosen t exist rules like verifcation on fabswinger...is more simple,i am lorry driver and my job is ugly many hours work and clubs are close elwhen i am free ,but i am free many time usually i got time to meet peopld but clubs are close...well i am sure is a lot stupid people who are dabgerous for people but they are prefer meet people like them in exchange me ,i am open for social anithink i post here in forum for social anithink ,nobody say nothink ....what can i do mate scared people in this country and i think people don t have fun so much ,from where i coming. I do every 2 3 days usualky i am horny guy 😅 |
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"To be honest you are coming across as very argumentative and stubborn.
People have taken time to give you help and advice but you aren't listening.
If you've been on here for two years and not met anyone maybe YOU need to change?
Or maybe fab is not the right place for you? Best stick to tinder if you've had so much success on there?
Nah, of course it's not the OP that's the problem here, it's all us "frigid" women who don't open our legs for everyone that asks, who care too much about our safety and prefer to meet in a club and who want to chat first to establish connection instead of jumping in head first. "
You already make me the most dangerous man from the planet ,omg i am human ,good person and very very social ,i post here in forum for social and nobody answer ,i am in a country where i try to make new friends ,conection....very humble,i work pay taxes and is not necesary to meet somebdoy to open the legs straight away...before is social and if is chemistry and the atraction can happen anithink if is posible ,why i should to go only for clubs if i want to meet somebdoy why the clubs are so important,do you know what before take a diner social,you only meet people at clubs but you actually you open the legs straight away at club ,you say you don t want to open the legs straight away but you actually do this at club without meet him before ,acutally you acuse me for somethink what you do it actually 😉,you know better what is for you ,anyway your legs will be open anyway but is important for who you open and how you open, |
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"Get yourself to a club or an organised social and get yourself a verification. Simple!"
What you say if i invite you and your partner for a dinner or a drink i pay anythink for you and your partner and after don t need to happen nothink no sex nothink and after you will make a impresion for me (bad or good)and if you want you can give me a verification if i deserve but you on exchage you send me to club ,you know club in spain is only for prostit.te ,real life for swinger is private !!! I prefere to have a swinger life in spain itali is clubs only for prostit..te ,i don t judge here maybe they are build diferent and people have diferent ,but you will pick up from a club and fuck in other room striaght away in exchange know me before have a chat or anithink like that ,is just my opinio ,don t judge me like wear but a swinger life i think deserves somethink more is not only about sex i think is somethink more there you know is just my opinion ,the problem is people meet shit people and after they are scare to meet good people what actually they deserve to meet |
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I only meet verified guys.
Go to a club and talk to people and get verified.
It’s safer and I prefer knowing he has attended clubs before.
I don’t do socials and don’t want socials. So the must be verified first. |
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"I only meet verified guys.
Go to a club and talk to people and get verified.
It’s safer and I prefer knowing he has attended clubs before.
I don’t do socials and don’t want socials. So the must be verified first. "
Gues what ??i was to club jaydee ,in midle of the day i done a delivery with my lorry there now 2 years ago a pallet with stone ,that guy show me the club all room ,it crazy and nice there ,but my job is crazy i am lorry driver and when i am free clubs are close ...so anyway if i not go to clubs in this country is imposible to meet somebody !!!! But thanks for advice... appreciate you are so nice ❤️ |
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"I only meet verified guys.
Go to a club and talk to people and get verified.
It’s safer and I prefer knowing he has attended clubs before.
I don’t do socials and don’t want socials. So the must be verified first.
Gues what ??i was to club jaydee ,in midle of the day i done a delivery with my lorry there now 2 years ago a pallet with stone ,that guy show me the club all room ,it crazy and nice there ,but my job is crazy i am lorry driver and when i am free clubs are close ...so anyway if i not go to clubs in this country is imposible to meet somebody !!!! But thanks for advice... appreciate you are so nice ❤️"
I’m sure you can arrange 1 club event if you wanted too lol. No one works 24 hours a day. Lots are open mid week during the days too.
Even if the staff or host verified you, at least people would know you’re legit.
Clubs aren’t for everyone, so each to their own. |
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By *t8880Couple 13 weeks ago
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Go to a club and have a chat with people. That’s how we got verified although it was a long time ago and we lost some verifications as the people must not be on here anymore. They are from a long time ago as we have only just come back on here. |
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"To be honest you are coming across as very argumentative and stubborn.
People have taken time to give you help and advice but you aren't listening.
If you've been on here for two years and not met anyone maybe YOU need to change?
Or maybe fab is not the right place for you? Best stick to tinder if you've had so much success on there?
Nah, of course it's not the OP that's the problem here, it's all us "frigid" women who don't open our legs for everyone that asks, who care too much about our safety and prefer to meet in a club and who want to chat first to establish connection instead of jumping in head first.
You already make me the most dangerous man from the planet ,omg i am human ,good person and very very social ,i post here in forum for social and nobody answer ,i am in a country where i try to make new friends ,conection....very humble,i work pay taxes and is not necesary to meet somebdoy to open the legs straight away...before is social and if is chemistry and the atraction can happen anithink if is posible ,why i should to go only for clubs if i want to meet somebdoy why the clubs are so important,do you know what before take a diner social,you only meet people at clubs but you actually you open the legs straight away at club ,you say you don t want to open the legs straight away but you actually do this at club without meet him before ,acutally you acuse me for somethink what you do it actually 😉,you know better what is for you ,anyway your legs will be open anyway but is important for who you open and how you open,"
OP, that wasn't personally aimed at just you. But anyone can say they're a good person. I'm sure Wayne Couzens, from the latest very well broadcasted case of a woman being murdered, was presenting himself as a "good guy", police officer and so on. Yet the woman still lost her life.
I'm not saying you are anything like it, but us women do need to be careful. |
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"Why nobody don t want to meet with people without verification ?how you can start if you don t have any chance?"
Might we suggest that your profile is the problem and the verifications is an excuse??  |
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By *CExeCouple 13 weeks ago
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Chels had a meet with a guy off here recently who was unverified. An absolute gentleman who went above and beyond to prove he was genuine and not a weirdo. Communication and respect are essential. |
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"Why nobody don t want to meet with people without verification ?how you can start if you don t have any chance?
Might we suggest that your profile is the problem and the verifications is an excuse?? "
My profile ???you think to much i am more simple .... |
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"Chels had a meet with a guy off here recently who was unverified. An absolute gentleman who went above and beyond to prove he was genuine and not a weirdo. Communication and respect are essential. "
You see not was hard...you give him maybe a verification now for him is more easy ,important is to be at least same to the other meetings like was with you |
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"Also, if you're so busy with your job, how are you expecting to make time to meet someone? "
Because when i am free clubs are close and most of them are very far from me ,and we lorry driver every day we have only 9 or 11 free between shifts ,but again i am just tired to explain what the h.ell is so important the club like i say i invite you to a dinner i pay everythink i don t need to do sex with you ,you go home i pay for your taxi ,after you will realise if mi am good person and not a "criminal" if you want you can give me a verification if not no worrys ,omg i don t know what the hell i am discussing this kind off...to be honest for me look like i am middle ages ,so i am sorry again this look so patetic , for you people the clubs are the best 👌 keep going ,thank you for your suport and your advice next month i take the tiket back in prezent !! |
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"Also, if you're so busy with your job, how are you expecting to make time to meet someone?
Because when i am free clubs are close and most of them are very far from me ,and we lorry driver every day we have only 9 or 11 free between shifts ,but again i am just tired to explain what the h.ell is so important the club like i say i invite you to a dinner i pay everythink i don t need to do sex with you ,you go home i pay for your taxi ,after you will realise if mi am good person and not a "criminal" if you want you can give me a verification if not no worrys ,omg i don t know what the hell i am discussing this kind off...to be honest for me look like i am middle ages ,so i am sorry again this look so patetic , for you people the clubs are the best 👌 keep going ,thank you for your suport and your advice next month i take the tiket back in prezent !!"
You seem to keep ranting about offering to take people out and pay for things.
Many people don’t do socials. I don’t, at all.
A verification from a club shows you’ve made the effort to attend and are half serious about it in a swinging environment.
What you offer to pay for is irrelevant and slightly desperate imo.
Clubs aren’t for everyone. And we’re not saying you have to go to clubs all the time. It’s just an easy way to get verified, which was what your first question was about. |
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"Also, if you're so busy with your job, how are you expecting to make time to meet someone?
Because when i am free clubs are close and most of them are very far from me ,and we lorry driver every day we have only 9 or 11 free between shifts ,but again i am just tired to explain what the h.ell is so important the club like i say i invite you to a dinner i pay everythink i don t need to do sex with you ,you go home i pay for your taxi ,after you will realise if mi am good person and not a "criminal" if you want you can give me a verification if not no worrys ,omg i don t know what the hell i am discussing this kind off...to be honest for me look like i am middle ages ,so i am sorry again this look so patetic , for you people the clubs are the best 👌 keep going ,thank you for your suport and your advice next month i take the tiket back in prezent !!
You seem to keep ranting about offering to take people out and pay for things.
Many people don’t do socials. I don’t, at all.
A verification from a club shows you’ve made the effort to attend and are half serious about it in a swinging environment.
What you offer to pay for is irrelevant and slightly desperate imo.
Clubs aren’t for everyone. And we’re not saying you have to go to clubs all the time. It’s just an easy way to get verified, which was what your first question was about. "
Well you don t want social other want social many couple told me they don t meet without social and i am not desperate for sex for this i say we can do social and no sex ....i don t know look like here i am in middle ages ,just ome to monaco ,spain to see how people have fun and talk ...never have this experience 😅i fell like in middle ages ,but don t worry i just try to make new friends and be normal like i am always |
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"Why nobody don t want to meet with people without verification ?how you can start if you don t have any chance?
Might we suggest that your profile is the problem and the verifications is an excuse??
My profile ???you think to much i am more simple ...."
I think that we can simply rest our case! With your profile together with your forum responses, there is no way that we would meet you!!!!! |
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"Why nobody don t want to meet with people without verification ?how you can start if you don t have any chance?
Might we suggest that your profile is the problem and the verifications is an excuse??
My profile ???you think to much i am more simple ....
I think that we can simply rest our case! With your profile together with your forum responses, there is no way that we would meet you!!!!! "
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I didn't pick that out first time!! But yes, that certainly won't help OP's case. He's had lots of advice and just keeps coming back to the same thing.
OP - when people say social, they don't mean a social with them. They mean an organised social. Pubs and venues run these for people to meet others and to get verifications. Lots will go on to meet up privately after these social events. As many have already said, clubs are not just open in the evenings, they do open daytime's too.
Having verifications is not a rule (as you put) it's a personal preference. It's ok you saying you'll turn up and you're a nice person - but do you think those that don't turn up, say they're not going to?? That's why many people request verifications.
As for your comment about women "opening their legs", could you be any more crude??!! It doesn't show a great appreciation of women. That along with the prosti**** comment is not going to get you a meet. Yes, women have sex in clubs, but that does not mean they'll open their legs for everyone who asks!!!
I'd seriously take a look at your attitude first, before trying to arrange anything else. |
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"I didn't pick that out first time!! But yes, that certainly won't help OP's case. He's had lots of advice and just keeps coming back to the same thing.
OP - when people say social, they don't mean a social with them. They mean an organised social. Pubs and venues run these for people to meet others and to get verifications. Lots will go on to meet up privately after these social events. As many have already said, clubs are not just open in the evenings, they do open daytime's too.
Having verifications is not a rule (as you put) it's a personal preference. It's ok you saying you'll turn up and you're a nice person - but do you think those that don't turn up, say they're not going to?? That's why many people request verifications.
As for your comment about women "opening their legs", could you be any more crude??!! It doesn't show a great appreciation of women. That along with the prosti**** comment is not going to get you a meet. Yes, women have sex in clubs, but that does not mean they'll open their legs for everyone who asks!!!
I'd seriously take a look at your attitude first, before trying to arrange anything else."
I repet i am good with clubs i want to go but not time for me...and is very far for me ,and open legs i not say nothing about open legs easy .... but i hear a lot cases from club people got infected with a lot deaseas becaus they have meet people there withot know very good and a lot bi couple without be on prep and not take care to be honest i try to to avoid this kind of situation and i try to stay safe ,i wish normaly to meet somebody here and after going to club togheeter there or meeting there with people who i know are safe and have fun there that is more safe ,more secure and and happy to respect all boundaries from everyone ,and anytime when i try to speak with somebody but only from this app !!!i repet only from this app they say sorry you need verification .... for sake how can i have verification if you don t give a chance to have a verification and everybody say about clubs ,i know it a lot people who are not going to club ,and trust me i know who i am and what kind of person i am i am sure i will not disappoint think is to many scared here ,i meet people (women couple) on tinder ,threesome app and i ask them and they don t use this app, but i like this up thes up is about complex and i want to dedicate more here |
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"I don't think saying clubs are for pstitutes is helping your case OP"
In europe is only clubs for prosti..te ,i not say nothink about clubs from here...i say this is diferent ..but clubs are dagengrous if you not take protection |
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"I didn't pick that out first time!! But yes, that certainly won't help OP's case. He's had lots of advice and just keeps coming back to the same thing.
OP - when people say social, they don't mean a social with them. They mean an organised social. Pubs and venues run these for people to meet others and to get verifications. Lots will go on to meet up privately after these social events. As many have already said, clubs are not just open in the evenings, they do open daytime's too.
Having verifications is not a rule (as you put) it's a personal preference. It's ok you saying you'll turn up and you're a nice person - but do you think those that don't turn up, say they're not going to?? That's why many people request verifications.
As for your comment about women "opening their legs", could you be any more crude??!! It doesn't show a great appreciation of women. That along with the prosti**** comment is not going to get you a meet. Yes, women have sex in clubs, but that does not mean they'll open their legs for everyone who asks!!!
I'd seriously take a look at your attitude first, before trying to arrange anything else."
About 8 singke guy person write me in private about this post and they told me about this app is 95% single men here and only 5% couples and single women and this is why is hard to meet people here ,all 8 guys told this site is waste of time for single men because we are to many here so now i found the problem 😅 and ,and one more think now i found in settings how to put stop for gay people because i receive i think around 150 messages per day to meet gay but not single one from a women or couple ,keep goind like that and in 10 years all will be gay here ,i don t have nothink with them and with bi ,i meet couples bi but i play straight for his lady ,i usually respect everibody i have friends gay and bi and nothink with like. Isay i meet couple bi (for cockhold or threesome for she) but the problem from here on this site i solved !!! Have a safe day and happy dear couple |
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"It’s not hard to get a verification, you can go to a local social, go to a club, meet and talk to people.
We’d never meet people direct from here who were not verified "
I post in forum a discussion if somebody is doing social around basildon or tilbury ,but nobody say nothink and i know if i go to a club i can make easy verification,but for me is a bit dificult i don t have car and everitime when i finish my job club is close and to pick up train for that ...take a lot time...but anyway i found what is the problem with this site ,95% is single men here and only 5% is couple+single women ,we are to many here single men ,a lot single guys write me ib private about this situation they have same problem ,,but i meet people in tinder and threesome app ,is total diferent apps ,but i wish to meet here because i like this app look more interactive and nice but the problem here is we are to many ,thank very much for your coment!!! |
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I was a single guy on here for a long time and had loads of meets and I’m nothing special to look at but I made the effort to get verified, build contacts and went out of my way to meet people.
As a couple we meet single guys and respond to people that make the effort. In fairness I don’t think it should be easy to get meets |
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"I was a single guy on here for a long time and had loads of meets and I’m nothing special to look at but I made the effort to get verified, build contacts and went out of my way to meet people.
As a couple we meet single guys and respond to people that make the effort. In fairness I don’t think it should be easy to get meets"
I try my best trust me here ,think is i don t miss the meets ,because i meet in other side of this app this is i want to build here more because this app is more interactive ,my dream is have a big house to make private party here and safe for everybody who want to join ,and for that need a start here usually we do it in spain ,monaco before italy ,but people are to cold here on this app think here is people who keep the discret and privacy but on tinder it to many crazy people there and they don t keep the conection for fun |
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I repet i am good with clubs i want to go but not time for me...and is very far for me
*If you don't have time for clubs or organised socials (which are in most towns) how will you have time to meet people?
i hear a lot cases from club people got infected with a lot deaseas becaus they have meet people there withot know very good and a lot bi couple without be on prep and not take care
*Not sure who you've heard this from, but people do play safe in clubs. It's a personal choice at the end of the day, but a lot of clubs give out condoms and most people use them. I don't really understand what you're saying about prep? I'm on prep and I still take care of my sexual health. I use condoms and I test monthly. You don't stay clean just because you sleep with people you know 🙄
i repet only from this app they say sorry you need verification .... for sake how can i have verification if you don t give a chance to have a verification and everybody say about clubs
* I repeat it's a personal choice and people are allowed to only meet those with verifications. You've been told by various people how to get verifications, not just by going to clubs. ORGANISED SOCIALS!!!!
to many scared here
* People aren't scared, they just don't want to waste their time.
i meet people (women couple) on tinder ,threesome app and i ask them and they don t use this app, but i like this up thes up is about complex and i want to dedicate more here
* If you want to dedicate more time here, dedicate it to getting some verifications.
Everyone has answered and you've taken none of the advice. You're a lost cause. |
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"I repet i am good with clubs i want to go but not time for me...and is very far for me
*If you don't have time for clubs or organised socials (which are in most towns) how will you have time to meet people?
I ask on forum i have a post there if somebody doing social in basildon or tilbury ,you can checkon forum i post now 6 months ago and nobody say nothink ,maybe you know ?and about clubs i will try my best and trust me ,but i have meets 😅😅 but not from here....
i hear a lot cases from club people got infected with a lot deaseas becaus they have meet people there withot know very good and a lot bi couple without be on prep and not take care
*Not sure who you've heard this from, but people do play safe in clubs. It's a personal choice at the end of the day, but a lot of clubs give out condoms and most people use them. I don't really understand what you're saying about prep? I'm on prep and I still take care of my sexual health. I use condoms and I test monthly. You don't stay clean just because you sleep with people you know 🙄
i repet only from this app they say sorry you need verification .... for sake how can i have verification if you don t give a chance to have a verification and everybody say about clubs
* I repeat it's a personal choice and people are allowed to only meet those with verifications. You've been told by various people how to get verifications, not just by going to clubs. ORGANISED SOCIALS!!!!
to many scared here
* People aren't scared, they just don't want to waste their time.
i meet people (women couple) on tinder ,threesome app and i ask them and they don t use this app, but i like this up thes up is about complex and i want to dedicate more here
* If you want to dedicate more time here, dedicate it to getting some verifications.
Everyone has answered and you've taken none of the advice. You're a lost cause."
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"I repet i am good with clubs i want to go but not time for me...and is very far for me
*If you don't have time for clubs or organised socials (which are in most towns) how will you have time to meet people?
i hear a lot cases from club people got infected with a lot deaseas becaus they have meet people there withot know very good and a lot bi couple without be on prep and not take care
*Not sure who you've heard this from, but people do play safe in clubs. It's a personal choice at the end of the day, but a lot of clubs give out condoms and most people use them. I don't really understand what you're saying about prep? I'm on prep and I still take care of my sexual health. I use condoms and I test monthly. You don't stay clean just because you sleep with people you know 🙄
i repet only from this app they say sorry you need verification .... for sake how can i have verification if you don t give a chance to have a verification and everybody say about clubs
* I repeat it's a personal choice and people are allowed to only meet those with verifications. You've been told by various people how to get verifications, not just by going to clubs. ORGANISED SOCIALS!!!!
to many scared here
* People aren't scared, they just don't want to waste their time.
i meet people (women couple) on tinder ,threesome app and i ask them and they don t use this app, but i like this up thes up is about complex and i want to dedicate more here
* If you want to dedicate more time here, dedicate it to getting some verifications.
Everyone has answered and you've taken none of the advice. You're a lost cause."
I ask on forum i have a post there if somebody doing social in basildon or tilbury ,you can checkon forum i post now 6 months ago and nobody say nothink ,maybe you know ?and about clubs i will try my best and trust me ,but i have meets 😅😅 but not from here....,all give me advice but nobody help for real ,is simple to say go to club,but yes and yes i understand thank you very much i will go and i done deli ery in jaydee same i was in midle of the dsy one time and no was nobody there only the owner but yes i will go i will find a solution |
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Honestly mate you are coming across as incredibly argumentative. I can tell that English is not your first language but your comments and tone are bordering on being aggressive.
Based on everything you've posted on this thread I doubt that anyone will ever want to meet you. |
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"I repet i am good with clubs i want to go but not time for me...and is very far for me
*If you don't have time for clubs or organised socials (which are in most towns) how will you have time to meet people?
i hear a lot cases from club people got infected with a lot deaseas becaus they have meet people there withot know very good and a lot bi couple without be on prep and not take care
*Not sure who you've heard this from, but people do play safe in clubs. It's a personal choice at the end of the day, but a lot of clubs give out condoms and most people use them. I don't really understand what you're saying about prep? I'm on prep and I still take care of my sexual health. I use condoms and I test monthly. You don't stay clean just because you sleep with people you know 🙄
i repet only from this app they say sorry you need verification .... for sake how can i have verification if you don t give a chance to have a verification and everybody say about clubs
* I repeat it's a personal choice and people are allowed to only meet those with verifications. You've been told by various people how to get verifications, not just by going to clubs. ORGANISED SOCIALS!!!!
to many scared here
* People aren't scared, they just don't want to waste their time.
i meet people (women couple) on tinder ,threesome app and i ask them and they don t use this app, but i like this up thes up is about complex and i want to dedicate more here
* If you want to dedicate more time here, dedicate it to getting some verifications.
Everyone has answered and you've taken none of the advice. You're a lost cause."
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"Honestly mate you are coming across as incredibly argumentative. I can tell that English is not your first language but your comments and tone are bordering on being aggressive.
Based on everything you've posted on this thread I doubt that anyone will ever want to meet you. "
I don t want to look like that ,but thanks for everithink ,anyway i found what is the problem with this site anyway many single guys write me on private to many about boundaries, 2 if them told me when they was a couple meet many people after breack up nothink ,95% is only single men here and only 5% is couple and women,so now i understand what is the situation,so i don t want to upset nobody here was a simple question because they is the only site where is dificult to meet somebody for single guys but like i say now i understand what is about to many single men and very less women here,is not about anythink more ,so now i understand and i don t need to meet nobody my intention was to make new friends |
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U r missing the point of a lot of these reply’s that r trying to help you, you say u don’t have time for clubs but lots are open days and evenings and some spa clubs are great for meeting, chatting to people and helping to get verified even just as a decent person which goes a long way on a site with so many single guys and a lot of time wasters.
We personally prefer our meets in clubs as I find it to be a safe space and then may do private meets once we have met previously if time permits.
Maybe rethink ur messaging too as ur message to us was “hit” Im guessing it’s a typo but it’s def not gonna get a reply amongst the amount we receive as it does not stand out in the slightest, I’ve only noticed u messaged from clicking on ur profile from here and it’s not impressive or engaging.
Take some advise from here and get yourself to an organised social or a club.
We know so many great single guys from the scene it just takes a little effort on your behalf.
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If your confident ( not cocky )
Start going to a club ,get your face known ,if your after couples dynamics make sure you chat to them both not just the woman,,
Don't expect your going to play ,chat away with manners and respect and the rest will happen naturally, but dont force yourself on them ,that's a big no no,,,
After a couple of visits you'll get use to the vibe ,
Just a bit of advice for you
I do well on hear and the club
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"If your confident ( not cocky )
Start going to a club ,get your face known ,if your after couples dynamics make sure you chat to them both not just the woman,,
Don't expect your going to play ,chat away with manners and respect and the rest will happen naturally, but dont force yourself on them ,that's a big no no,,,
After a couple of visits you'll get use to the vibe ,
Just a bit of advice for you
I do well on hear and the club
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"U r missing the point of a lot of these reply’s that r trying to help you, you say u don’t have time for clubs but lots are open days and evenings and some spa clubs are great for meeting, chatting to people and helping to get verified even just as a decent person which goes a long way on a site with so many single guys and a lot of time wasters.
We personally prefer our meets in clubs as I find it to be a safe space and then may do private meets once we have met previously if time permits.
Maybe rethink ur messaging too as ur message to us was “hit” Im guessing it’s a typo but it’s def not gonna get a reply amongst the amount we receive as it does not stand out in the slightest, I’ve only noticed u messaged from clicking on ur profile from here and it’s not impressive or engaging.
Take some advise from here and get yourself to an organised social or a club.
We know so many great single guys from the scene it just takes a little effort on your behalf.
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I post here on forum about any social in tilbury or basildon ,and zero response ,you can check please ,and about clubs i will go when i will buy a car because is a bit far for me the clubs ....but i hope i will go in one day trust me after 13 hour work ,pick up the train go to club take 2 3 hours only one way is huge time....but i hope in one day i will go ...but on this site if you don t go to club nobody will meet you first time strange starter i see many people here have fun not in club ....but i understand i will try my best 👌 |
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"If your confident ( not cocky )
Start going to a club ,get your face known ,if your after couples dynamics make sure you chat to them both not just the woman,,
Don't expect your going to play ,chat away with manners and respect and the rest will happen naturally, but dont force yourself on them ,that's a big no no,,,
After a couple of visits you'll get use to the vibe ,
Just a bit of advice for you
I do well on hear and the club
( chameleons))
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One more think why i receive every day 50 60 messages from gay or bi guys poeple ,before when i open the account i receive almost 200 messeger from gay people per day but not any single one from a couple or a lady???now i know how to stop from settings ,to be honest not so much experience with this site ,i am very simple man usually i prefer reality not to write in descreption like i am the perfect men choose the words to impress people ,i like when people know me for real see me face to face,and i know the club is the best option but this is my situation to be honest i hate my job,usually from where i coming we don t have this rulls with clubs...we have meets anywhere but i understand in England is diferent lifestile ,i think all people from here have meets in clubs |
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"Unverified fabbers need to start life on cam to generate verifications"
I done it my friend and only meen there is watching to me and they want to give me verification but i prefer women 😅 trust me i receive almost 60 70 msg from men gay or bisex per day ,i don t block them from settings because i know is some couple bisex( mf) and is profile only men and sharing his wife and maybe i am invited by them ,trust me i try a lot here ,but i have fun on tinder ,threesome app there is a lot fun for single guys this site i think is more for gay people for what i am see ,anyway a lot single guys write me about this problem here is 95% single men and only 5%couple and single women and gay ,so is very hard to meet here only ,if you check on forum is hundred post from single men like me ,maybe the chance are bigger if i will go to clubs but clubs are far from where i live and no have so much time...fun sex and pleasure not mean only clubs a lot people are doing home same with discreation sefe and good vibe ,this is what i am looking is not excluded clubs but very hard for me to go there . |
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