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"You can spend the evening with likeminded couples for a bit of adult conversation and more if you want to. Single males following you around are the worst bits of clubs " Yes some single men can be a pain at times, in our local club the staff have a quite word with them if they are seen doing that | |||
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"We like the variety of equipment we don't have at home and the rooms set up with voyeurism in mind. I personally don't like the lack of effort some people put in, especially in the non dress down bits Old work jumper covered in oil, a I'll fitting football shirt or flip flops with gruffalo feet or even a hi Viz vest (all of which I've seen) do not make me feel sexy "Yes we agree there sould definitely be a dress code to even get in, and a dress down code in the play areas,we once had a man stood over us with a coat zipped right up and the hood up  | |||
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"We like the variety of equipment we don't have at home and the rooms set up with voyeurism in mind. I personally don't like the lack of effort some people put in, especially in the non dress down bits Old work jumper covered in oil, a I'll fitting football shirt or flip flops with gruffalo feet or even a hi Viz vest (all of which I've seen) do not make me feel sexy
Yes we agree there sould definitely be a dress code to even get in, and a dress down code in the play areas,we once had a man stood over us with a coat zipped right up and the hood up "p We had a man walk past me, go straight to hubby and without any other words of intro simply said "can I have a go of your missus", whilst having hands covered in oil, work boots, a dirty sweatshirt and stinking like a month old wheelie bin. Funnily enough I declined  | |||
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"The single guys who slide in when the fella leaves me for 5 minutes, then just slide off again when he returns! " And the uninvited hand that appears | |||
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"What better place is there to sit in your underwear and chat to like minded people We love it. "  | |||
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"We like the variety of equipment we don't have at home and the rooms set up with voyeurism in mind. I personally don't like the lack of effort some people put in, especially in the non dress down bits Old work jumper covered in oil, a I'll fitting football shirt or flip flops with gruffalo feet or even a hi Viz vest (all of which I've seen) do not make me feel sexy
Yes we agree there sould definitely be a dress code to even get in, and a dress down code in the play areas,we once had a man stood over us with a coat zipped right up and the hood up p
We had a man walk past me, go straight to hubby and without any other words of intro simply said "can I have a go of your missus", whilst having hands covered in oil, work boots, a dirty sweatshirt and stinking like a month old wheelie bin.
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"I'm fairly new to the scene and yet to visit a club but some of these stories of men there make me worry about going. As a single guy I'm ashamed at the behaviours." Look at it as if they are doing you a favour. If you are polite, charming, clean, engaging and respectful, have a bit of confidence and banter, you'll stand out in a good way without having to make an inordinate amount of effort. | |||
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"I'm fairly new to the scene and yet to visit a club but some of these stories of men there make me worry about going. As a single guy I'm ashamed at the behaviours. Look at it as if they are doing you a favour. If you are polite, charming, clean, engaging and respectful, have a bit of confidence and banter, you'll stand out in a good way without having to make an inordinate amount of effort. " That's a great way to think about it. Being a respectful guy on fab has worked so far so I'll just be myself at a club too, and ensure I avoid the guys letting us all down | |||
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"I'm fairly new to the scene and yet to visit a club but some of these stories of men there make me worry about going. As a single guy I'm ashamed at the behaviours. Look at it as if they are doing you a favour. If you are polite, charming, clean, engaging and respectful, have a bit of confidence and banter, you'll stand out in a good way without having to make an inordinate amount of effort. " Yes we know some single men who do very well for themselves  | |||
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"We love the whole thing. Great times and conversations at the bar and the plays areas. We prefer open play and actively avoid closed play areas We don’t like those that don’t clean up after themselves. From condoms and wrapper to those that pee everywhere " Yea ots just not one leveling that sort of mess for others to clean up | |||
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"I don't like how they're often too warm. Nor do I like the single guys who haven't gotten anywhere with the single females, then not with the couples, then trying their hands with us Tgirls as if by that stage they just want to empty their balls and we'll be better than nothing." In our local club the TVs seem to get all the attention first | |||
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"The single guys who slide in when the fella leaves me for 5 minutes, then just slide off again when he returns! And the uninvited hand that appears "Oh yeah the wandering hand which has happened on many occasions, still don't know to this day how the fella has kept his calm in clubs at times! | |||
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"The single guys who slide in when the fella leaves me for 5 minutes, then just slide off again when he returns! And the uninvited hand that appears
Oh yeah the wandering hand which has happened on many occasions, still don't know to this day how the fella has kept his calm in clubs at times! "My worst experience was a woman who came up to me out of my eyeline, and proceeded to twist by nipple like she was trying to tune in an old radio. I sharply raised my eyebrow, she nodded and apology and slopped off again. Not a word was spoken. | |||
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"The single guys who slide in when the fella leaves me for 5 minutes, then just slide off again when he returns! And the uninvited hand that appears
Oh yeah the wandering hand which has happened on many occasions, still don't know to this day how the fella has kept his calm in clubs at times!
My worst experience was a woman who came up to me out of my eyeline, and proceeded to twist by nipple like she was trying to tune in an old radio.
I sharply raised my eyebrow, she nodded and apology and slopped off again. Not a word was spoken. "What's wrong with people 😂 | |||
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"The single guys who slide in when the fella leaves me for 5 minutes, then just slide off again when he returns! " Would it be preferable if he stayed when your Mr got back, rather than slinking off? Seems a bit weak-handed of him lol. | |||
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"Zombie wankers sorry guys but stood over us watching while you wank does nothing for us." The wanking dead are hilarious agreed | |||
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"You can spend the evening with likeminded couples for a bit of adult conversation and more if you want to. Single males following you around are the worst bits of clubs " We have only been to 2 different clubs ... one was on a couples and single ladies only night which was great, especially the dark room as it was all couples in there playing but it appeared that some people don't want to clean up their cum cover wipes and just threw them on the floor which was disgusting when the bin was in the other corner so that put us off that club abit The other club was fun, it's bigger cleaner has hottubs and a pool, but the 2 times we have been it was open to all Which i found hard as I hate playing with my wife while single men circle like vultures getting forever closer trying to get a bit of the action, I am OK if they stay a few metres away and watch but it's the constant trying to get a feel that drives me mad I wouldn't mind if it was a man from a couple and his partner was there too to be shared as well or if I or my wife invited them to play but we don't as its not men we like playing with So we do spend alot of time in the couples only room which is fun but could do with a bigger bed in the play area as the MFFFFM we had there last time was a bit tight with us all playing My wife enjoys playing with women I enjoy that too (watching or joining in) but if we play with a couple then we are happy to full swap and enjoy watching each other play Clubs do give you the chance to meet face to face, talk and get a feel for each other before you choose to play and alot of time it's easier that getting winks and messages on here and then wondering if you would get on when you finally meet in person I would recommend to anyone to try a social and then maybe go to a club but you have to be willing to go talk to people... if you just sit there nothing will happen | |||
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"What I like: - That people are actually “in the room” and socialising face to face as opposed to having their heads buried in a screen. All for the no phones policy - Being able to parade around semi naked 😜 What I don’t like: - Resting bitch faces, gosh it wouldn’t kill some folk to smile! - People copping out by saying the place/event is “clicky” yet seeming to make no effort whatsoever to befriend others first " My RBF face is my natural stance what can I say When I smole the mirror fucking cracks every time  | |||
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"What I like: - That people are actually “in the room” and socialising face to face as opposed to having their heads buried in a screen. All for the no phones policy - Being able to parade around semi naked 😜 What I don’t like: - Resting bitch faces, gosh it wouldn’t kill some folk to smile! - People copping out by saying the place/event is “clicky” yet seeming to make no effort whatsoever to befriend others first My RBF face is my natural stance what can I say When I smole the mirror fucking cracks every time "No no no, we don’t want that. Wearing a smile is much better…. IMO | |||
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"What I like: - That people are actually “in the room” and socialising face to face as opposed to having their heads buried in a screen. All for the no phones policy - Being able to parade around semi naked 😜 What I don’t like: - Resting bitch faces, gosh it wouldn’t kill some folk to smile! - People copping out by saying the place/event is “clicky” yet seeming to make no effort whatsoever to befriend others first " Yes the old clicky winge is they didn't pull ,we were once in a club for a friend's birthday there were two new couples in and we asked both of them to join us and gave then a glass of our champagne 🍾, one couple came over the other stopped in the corner and never spoke to anyone all night, the next fay they gave the club a bad review stating the place was clicky | |||
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"You can spend the evening with likeminded couples for a bit of adult conversation and more if you want to. Single males following you around are the worst bits of clubs We have only been to 2 different clubs ... one was on a couples and single ladies only night which was great, especially the dark room as it was all couples in there playing but it appeared that some people don't want to clean up their cum cover wipes and just threw them on the floor which was disgusting when the bin was in the other corner so that put us off that club abit The other club was fun, it's bigger cleaner has hottubs and a pool, but the 2 times we have been it was open to all Which i found hard as I hate playing with my wife while single men circle like vultures getting forever closer trying to get a bit of the action, I am OK if they stay a few metres away and watch but it's the constant trying to get a feel that drives me mad I wouldn't mind if it was a man from a couple and his partner was there too to be shared as well or if I or my wife invited them to play but we don't as its not men we like playing with So we do spend alot of time in the couples only room which is fun but could do with a bigger bed in the play area as the MFFFFM we had there last time was a bit tight with us all playing My wife enjoys playing with women I enjoy that too (watching or joining in) but if we play with a couple then we are happy to full swap and enjoy watching each other play Clubs do give you the chance to meet face to face, talk and get a feel for each other before you choose to play and alot of time it's easier that getting winks and messages on here and then wondering if you would get on when you finally meet in person I would recommend to anyone to try a social and then maybe go to a club but you have to be willing to go talk to people... if you just sit there nothing will happen" Once in a club we were playing together snd on 2 seperate occasions single guys came over sat down and said " do you mind if I have a go" I just politely declined and moved on. Would love to try a couples only night somewhere. | |||
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" Once in a club we were playing together snd on 2 seperate occasions single guys came over sat down and said " do you mind if I have a go" I just politely declined and moved on. Would love to try a couples only night somewhere. " Looking at ignites website they have one coming up on the 8th Nov | |||
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"The single guys who slide in when the fella leaves me for 5 minutes, then just slide off again when he returns! Would it be preferable if he stayed when your Mr got back, rather than slinking off? Seems a bit weak-handed of him lol." They very rarely do stay when he returns, they slide in asking if I'm available to play or ask if thats my fella I'm with, and then they slide away again... It's comical. The ones that do stay don't really speak to the fella anyway, so he just smiles at me and blanks em! | |||
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But I love to play a little game of pide piper...and love the social aspect. | |||
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"What I like: - That people are actually “in the room” and socialising face to face as opposed to having their heads buried in a screen. All for the no phones policy - Being able to parade around semi naked 😜 What I don’t like: - Resting bitch faces, gosh it wouldn’t kill some folk to smile! - People copping out by saying the place/event is “clicky” yet seeming to make no effort whatsoever to befriend others first Yes the old clicky winge is they didn't pull ,we were once in a club for a friend's birthday there were two new couples in and we asked both of them to join us and gave then a glass of our champagne 🍾, one couple came over the other stopped in the corner and never spoke to anyone all night, the next fay they gave the club a bad review stating the place was clicky "The phrase “you can lead a horse to water but, you can make it drink” springs to mind in such situations as the one you just mentioned 🤷🏾♂️ | |||
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"We like the variety of equipment we don't have at home and the rooms set up with voyeurism in mind. I personally don't like the lack of effort some people put in, especially in the non dress down bits Old work jumper covered in oil, a I'll fitting football shirt or flip flops with gruffalo feet or even a hi Viz vest (all of which I've seen) do not make me feel sexy "Our clubs in London have a dress code.....what on earth? Cap d'Agde is even more strict. If you are going to the wet areas, nude or towel or robe. Torture garden won't let you in untell you are in fetish /kink wear..... I dunno, maybe it's a London thing. | |||
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"The single guys who slide in when the fella leaves me for 5 minutes, then just slide off again when he returns! And the uninvited hand that appears
Oh yeah the wandering hand which has happened on many occasions, still don't know to this day how the fella has kept his calm in clubs at times!
My worst experience was a woman who came up to me out of my eyeline, and proceeded to twist by nipple like she was trying to tune in an old radio.
I sharply raised my eyebrow, she nodded and apology and slopped off again. Not a word was spoken. "They get swatted by me if they come anywhere near my body and the men know they are dead. lol! 
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"The single guys who slide in when the fella leaves me for 5 minutes, then just slide off again when he returns! And the uninvited hand that appears
Oh yeah the wandering hand which has happened on many occasions, still don't know to this day how the fella has kept his calm in clubs at times!
My worst experience was a woman who came up to me out of my eyeline, and proceeded to twist by nipple like she was trying to tune in an old radio.
I sharply raised my eyebrow, she nodded and apology and slopped off again. Not a word was spoken. "They get swatted by me if they come anywhere near my body and the men know they are dead. lol!
Resting bitch face helps. | |||
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"The single guys who slide in when the fella leaves me for 5 minutes, then just slide off again when he returns! And the uninvited hand that appears
Oh yeah the wandering hand which has happened on many occasions, still don't know to this day how the fella has kept his calm in clubs at times!
My worst experience was a woman who came up to me out of my eyeline, and proceeded to twist by nipple like she was trying to tune in an old radio.
I sharply raised my eyebrow, she nodded and apology and slopped off again. Not a word was spoken.
They get swatted by me if they come anywhere near my body and the men know they are dead. lol!
Resting bitch face helps."Looking back, I put up with some behaviour in the early days that I wouldn't dream of now. I was overly polite and not very vocal. Much more forthright now | |||
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"Love these phases The wanking dead Zombie wankers Yes you do see alot of these " We not seen a lot of them as we normally only go on a couples night | |||
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For us the good massively outweighs the bad.. we've been to a few clubs we wouldn't visit again but we've also visited some amazing clubs both here and abroad so for us they're still our go to place for fun | |||
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"Seems to be quite a lot of hoops single guys need to jump through at clubs. They kinda seem to be the odd ones out and sort of held to a higher standard than anyone else. True there must be the creeps but the rest seem to be getting tarred with the same brush. Would you all prefer no single guys? About 90% of things said on this about single guys is bad" Absolutely not I've met lots of fun single men at clubs | |||
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"Seems to be quite a lot of hoops single guys need to jump through at clubs. They kinda seem to be the odd ones out and sort of held to a higher standard than anyone else. True there must be the creeps but the rest seem to be getting tarred with the same brush. Would you all prefer no single guys? About 90% of things said on this about single guys is bad" Not at all, we very much enjoy single men in clubs... the behaviour of a small minority makes it tougher for the ones who are respectful and a joy to have there.. In our experience its a small minority and any that are causing a problem can be reported and dealt with by the club so that the single guys there get to enjoy the evening as much as everyone else x | |||
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"Seems to be quite a lot of hoops single guys need to jump through at clubs. They kinda seem to be the odd ones out and sort of held to a higher standard than anyone else. True there must be the creeps but the rest seem to be getting tarred with the same brush. Would you all prefer no single guys? About 90% of things said on this about single guys is bad Not at all, we very much enjoy single men in clubs... the behaviour of a small minority makes it tougher for the ones who are respectful and a joy to have there.. In our experience its a small minority and any that are causing a problem can be reported and dealt with by the club so that the single guys there get to enjoy the evening as much as everyone else x " That's good to hear. Just based my comment on all the bad comments I was reading in this thread. Hardly 1 good thing said about single guys | |||
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"Seems to be quite a lot of hoops single guys need to jump through at clubs. They kinda seem to be the odd ones out and sort of held to a higher standard than anyone else. True there must be the creeps but the rest seem to be getting tarred with the same brush. Would you all prefer no single guys? About 90% of things said on this about single guys is bad Not at all, we very much enjoy single men in clubs... the behaviour of a small minority makes it tougher for the ones who are respectful and a joy to have there.. In our experience its a small minority and any that are causing a problem can be reported and dealt with by the club so that the single guys there get to enjoy the evening as much as everyone else x That's good to hear. Just based my comment on all the bad comments I was reading in this thread. Hardly 1 good thing said about single guys" There's lots of really good single guys too | |||
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"We've had incidents with men behaving inappropriately that are in the club as part of a couple aswell, its defo not just single men. And I've had a lot of fun with single men in clubs over the years... its a few that cause an issue, but we defo want them at clubs x " What would you advise is the best way for a single guy yo approach? | |||
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"Seems to be quite a lot of hoops single guys need to jump through at clubs. They kinda seem to be the odd ones out and sort of held to a higher standard than anyone else. True there must be the creeps but the rest seem to be getting tarred with the same brush. Would you all prefer no single guys? About 90% of things said on this about single guys is bad" We dont thinks they need to jump through hoops,its not a lot to ask to come clean not in work gear,dont follow people about wanking I mean you will hurt yourself if you jump through hoops why wanking 😂🤣😅 | |||
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"We've had incidents with men behaving inappropriately that are in the club as part of a couple aswell, its defo not just single men. And I've had a lot of fun with single men in clubs over the years... its a few that cause an issue, but we defo want them at clubs x What would you advise is the best way for a single guy yo approach? " There's no best way, my advice would be to be yourself, make no assumptions that you'll be invited to play, don't be too pushy and wait for consent.. be clean and well presented... exactly the same advice I'd give a couple of a single lady xx | |||
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"The wanking dead!! You know the ones who just kinda hang about aimlessly at the top of the stairs wanking into a towel don't wanna chat just want to wait to be called...if they ever do
But I love to play a little game of pide piper...and love the social aspect."Pied piper is one of my favourite games, nothing like seeing how many wanking dead you can lead into a cinema room and then disappear. | |||
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"It's a safe space to meet. I love the social side of it, meeting like minded people and making new friends. It helps with body confidence. There is equipment at some that I wouldn't have at home x" It ansoloutly helped with my body confidence too... when I first started going I thought it might be the opposite, but its true x | |||
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"We like the variety of equipment we don't have at home and the rooms set up with voyeurism in mind. I personally don't like the lack of effort some people put in, especially in the non dress down bits Old work jumper covered in oil, a I'll fitting football shirt or flip flops with gruffalo feet or even a hi Viz vest (all of which I've seen) do not make me feel sexy
Yes we agree there sould definitely be a dress code to even get in, and a dress down code in the play areas,we once had a man stood over us with a coat zipped right up and the hood up p
We had a man walk past me, go straight to hubby and without any other words of intro simply said "can I have a go of your missus", whilst having hands covered in oil, work boots, a dirty sweatshirt and stinking like a month old wheelie bin.
Funnily enough I declined "Please PM me the name of this club! It sounds dreadful, but worth a visit just for the spectacle 😂 | |||
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"We love everything about clubs apart from some people urinate in the rooms. One club has reviews saying the rooms smell of urine "We do love clubs but that would definitely put us off going again, We once went to a club and were one of the first people in that night and the toilets were already dirty,needless to say we didn't stay long or go back,we were just thinking the hole place must be dirty if they can't be bothered to clean the toilets 🤢 | |||
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"I do wish people would learn how to spell CLIQUE(Y) It is NOT 'click' or 'clicky' Makes it sound like everyone in the club is sitting around snapping their fingers the whole time." Dose it realy matter if you know what they mean 😂🤣😅 ,some people are dyslexic and this sort of statement puts them off responding to posts as its hard for them to get tbe different spelling right, | |||
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"What an excellent thread, really interesting to read all the comments particularly those talking about the issues with single guys. I've only ever been to a club as part of a couple and I do have some sympathy for the narrow tightrope that the single guys have to walk. If they take the initiative and try to engage with the couples and single females then they're pushy / creepy. If they sit back all quiet and respectful then the chances are they're not going to get involved in any play. The fact is there are far more single guys looking for play than there are couples or single females looking to play with single guys. Having said all that the thing we like least about clubs is the single guys (sorry). It's just that they're not what we're looking for and it is a bit off-putting when we're having fun with each other or another couple and you can sense the "zombies" closing in. No problem if they stay a respectful distance away and watch (we quite like being watched) but not pleasant when it feels like we could be within the "spatter zone" 🤢 On the plus side the thing we really like about clubs is the orgy beds. On a good night we can immerse ourselves in the middle of a sexy environment with people doing all sorts of incredibly exciting sexy things all round. Even if we don't end up playing with anyone else, it's like being in the middle of our very own porn movie... very hot!!! 🔥🔥" | |||
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"We like A decent bar area away from play rooms Large couples/single females only rooms Large dungeon areas, no point putting a spanking bench in a room that you can’t swing a whip ! Don’t like Bare feet walking about the clubs Men in towels/wanking dead People talking loudly in dungeon " Yes the talking thing is realy annoying | |||
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"The single guys who slide in when the fella leaves me for 5 minutes, then just slide off again when he returns! " To be fair had that in a normal bar recently when I went outside for a vape, came back to find a guy ask M her name. He looked up as I got back and scarpered 🤣 | |||
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"Need to stay open longer x" Our local club has B&B rooms and a night porter,so you can stop up (pardon tbe pun)as long as you like | |||
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"Reading these responses absolutely confirms to me why clubs are a definate no for me" Why just dont do the things you can see people dont like,then when others aew doing them you will get all the action 😂🤣😅 | |||
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"Love meeting new people, most people you meet there are really friendly. Great for body confidence! Main dislike is probably the hoards of wanking dead 😂" Agree with this 👍🏻 | |||
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"What annoys you the most in clubs,for us its people who dont clean up after themselves before leaving a play room/area, come on you know others are going to use that room .
On the other hand we do like the mix of people you meet from all walks of life "What don't I like about clubs...closing time. Wait all month to go then it seems all over in a flash. Seriously though the only thing I don't really like is the entitlement of some people. You know the "I've paid my entrance fee I want sex" types. Fortunately that is extremely rare in the clubs I frequent but have experienced it with lady friends in some clubs that aren't as stringent with their single male policy. | |||
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"I’ve never been to one. The idea of it sounds exciting but not sure because of being a single male. Any tips?" Single male in clubs 101 1. Go with NO expectations treat it as a social and see what happens. 2. Be friendly, polite and respectful. Acknowledge both people when talking to couples. 3. See rule #1. | |||
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"Love chatting to new people, especially if its their first club experience. Love the equipment/facilities Love seeing beautiful women in beautiful outfits looking hot. I go to quite afew clubs, alone and with women Dislikes... yes the wanking dead. Every club has them, at least every club i've been too. Its embarrassing. And why at clubs if you have a locker (Ignite springs to mind) do the wanking dead have to put their key on their wanking wrist? Its like jingle bells sometimes ... Jingle Jingle Jingle... " We were once in our local club,and got invited into one of the B&B rooms with a very hot couple,I(mr) had the locker key and put it around my ankle to stop it getting in the way,we ended up staying the reast of the night and all fell asleep,when I woke up the band on the key had cut of the blood flow to my foot and it was blue, I couldn't walk properly for hrs 😂🤣😅 | |||
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"Love the uninhabited atmosphere, freedom of conversation and being ourselves. Hate the assumption and entitled believe that because we're there we'd fuck anything.. When D kissed me passionately pre anything, a guy say to him, "you're here to share her, not kiss her" to which he responded "I'm lucky enough to do both, but with that kinda comment, it's doubtful you'll find out!" Oh and the wanking dead of course.. 😉" We once had a man say to Mrs C(i had gone to the bar at the time)"I have given you the eye twice now why are we not already fucking ? | |||
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"I agree with everything everyone has said. The only thing I would add, I wish there was more daytime clubs. After all, Some of use work nights or need to get up early in the morning. Daytime sex is often better than nighttime sex (in my opinion) I know some clubs do a 12 - 3pm occasionally but I wish that was more common." Thus is why I like gay clubs / saunas. As they all have day time sessions | |||
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"We keep looking at them online. All that neon, the pvc beds & being told at what point we have to undress makes us cringe. We keep asking people about these reservations, but we've yet to be convinced. They just seem to be a bit tacky, like the 80s were, well from the photos they post on their Web pages anyway." We have only come across one club that has a dress down time, must do expect you to dress down to go into play rooms,it can be very off putting for people already playing if fully clothed people are walking about, | |||
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"How do clubs generally work for a first timer? What’s the dress code like for example? " Most clubs are smart casual for men in the bar areas and boxers or towels for play areas,but saying that all clubs have different rules | |||
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"What annoys me most in clubs; Being made to feel like a leper, just because I'm a single guy on my own. The classic welcome of "Single guy? Thanks for your money, it's through there...." is real. The cliques of smug couples. The patch-repaired gaffer-taped judo mats. People queuing to use play rooms. People rattling on the door when you've locked yourselves in to a room. Ignorant club owners who blank you when you ask for a drink from the bar." Sounds like ypu need to look at different clubs | |||
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"What annoys me most in clubs; Being made to feel like a leper, just because I'm a single guy on my own. The classic welcome of "Single guy? Thanks for your money, it's through there...." is real. The cliques of smug couples. The patch-repaired gaffer-taped judo mats. People queuing to use play rooms. People rattling on the door when you've locked yourselves in to a room. Ignorant club owners who blank you when you ask for a drink from the bar. Sounds like you need to look at different clubs "Oh, I've tried a few..... | |||
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"None of the poles actually stay up once you really throw yourself at them. This is very disappointing. There should be a decent selection of pick and mix. Oh and also, you should be easily able to ask for a cup of tea without it being weird. " We often drink tea or coffee at clubs. No drink shaming here. But love the pic n mix suggestion much more appealing than limp pizza or crusty samdwiches | |||
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"Ahh okay thanks for that. Maybe I’m naive but it seems really strange to be walking around in a towel or boxers 😅" We avoid clubs with dress down rules. Although M will often end up dressed down due to our dynamic and I’ll be clothed. | |||
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"Ahh okay thanks for that. Maybe I’m naive but it seems really strange to be walking around in a towel or boxers 😅" What would you like to walk around a sex club in | |||
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"Ahh okay thanks for that. Maybe I’m naive but it seems really strange to be walking around in a towel or boxers 😅" OK.. So this is the breakdown Some clubs let you stay dressed (but almost all allow dress down anyway) but obviously for sauna/swim/hot tub it's usually naked. Other clubs are dress down clubs, so everyone is at the same level, and dressed down, for men that's usually undies/towel for ladies it's sexy stuff. Some are hybrid of the two, with bar area being dress, and anywhere beyond that is dress down. We prefer the dress down, it's easier, more sexy, and less hassle if/when you do decide to play. If your not body confident, then wear swimshorts or baggy undies or whatnot. But at the end of the day everyone is doing the same thing, bodies are natural, and there's always someone that appreciates something others don't. So don't sweat it. | |||
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"We keep looking at them online. All that neon, the pvc beds & being told at what point we have to undress makes us cringe. We keep asking people about these reservations, but we've yet to be convinced. They just seem to be a bit tacky, like the 80s were, well from the photos they post on their Web pages anyway. We have only come across one club that has a dress down time, must do expect you to dress down to go into play rooms,it can be very off putting for people already playing if fully clothed people are walking about, "That's fair, but the first we looked at, near to us, have a dress down code as soon as you leave the locker room. It put us right off at first look. Every one we've looked at since we've thought, what less than satisfactory surprises should we expect there? | |||
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"We keep looking at them online. All that neon, the pvc beds & being told at what point we have to undress makes us cringe. We keep asking people about these reservations, but we've yet to be convinced. They just seem to be a bit tacky, like the 80s were, well from the photos they post on their Web pages anyway. We have only come across one club that has a dress down time, must do expect you to dress down to go into play rooms,it can be very off putting for people already playing if fully clothed people are walking about,
That's fair, but the first we looked at, near to us, have a dress down code as soon as you leave the locker room. It put us right off at first look. Every one we've looked at since we've thought, what less than satisfactory surprises should we expect there?"You are not far from The Attic and there is no dress down policy there. Makes for a good night out. | |||
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"We keep looking at them online. All that neon, the pvc beds & being told at what point we have to undress makes us cringe. " Totally agree ! It’s also weird and feels a bit 1970s, pervy men wandering around in towels & women in bad taste fancy dress. We like purple mamba and (on a good night) attic, you can dress as yourself, have a good time & take your clothes off when you’re having sex. | |||
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"We keep looking at them online. All that neon, the pvc beds & being told at what point we have to undress makes us cringe. Totally agree ! It’s also weird and feels a bit 1970s, pervy men wandering around in towels & women in bad taste fancy dress. We like purple mamba and (on a good night) attic, you can dress as yourself, have a good time & take your clothes off when you’re having sex." To us it feels like the club is trying too hard to get people to have fun by having dress down rules. But that’s us and understand others prefer a dress down policy. I just wish they would have underwear policies for the guys. Have seen too many cartoon Boxer Shorts. I don’t want to see Homers face on your butt | |||
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"I've never been to any so would know. Would love to though....one day " I went to La Chambre in Sheffield, which I believe has now re-opened with a different name? I liked the fact it looks like a pub from the outside, you can just walk in off the street. It was no better or worse than most clubs out there, but did suffer from just allowing as many fee-paying single guys in as possible. But this may have changed. Give it a go! You’re more likely to be underwhelmed when you get inside, clubs really aren’t ‘all that’……😂 | |||
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"I've never been to any so would know. Would love to though....one day I went to La Chambre in Sheffield, which I believe has now re-opened with a different name? I liked the fact it looks like a pub from the outside, you can just walk in off the street. It was no better or worse than most clubs out there, but did suffer from just allowing as many fee-paying single guys in as possible. But this may have changed. Give it a go! You’re more likely to be underwhelmed when you get inside, clubs really aren’t ‘all that’……😂" Never visited as a single guy. Only as a couple but I think you might be right. For single guys it must be massively frustrating. Watching all this sex and not (probably) getting the chance to join in. It’s a very expensive way of watching others fuck. | |||
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"I've never been to any so would know. Would love to though....one day I went to La Chambre in Sheffield, which I believe has now re-opened with a different name? I liked the fact it looks like a pub from the outside, you can just walk in off the street. It was no better or worse than most clubs out there, but did suffer from just allowing as many fee-paying single guys in as possible. But this may have changed. Give it a go! You’re more likely to be underwhelmed when you get inside, clubs really aren’t ‘all that’……😂 Never visited as a single guy. Only as a couple but I think you might be right. For single guys it must be massively frustrating. Watching all this sex and not (probably) getting the chance to join in. It’s a very expensive way of watching others fuck." We know lots of single mean who visit clubs regularly and do very well for themselves, I think its just a case of getting yourself know,lots of couples like to take time,just cos they dont jump on you straight away doesn't mean they aren't talking about you and may approach you the next time they bump into you, in the past we have looked up single men on fab we have seen in a club to arange a social for a later date .we always go to a club with an open mind and never a set plan of what we will do | |||
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"People who judge people Also, I hugely prefer dress down/wet clubs. Pisses me off when the women are expected to wear lingerie and the men walk around like they're in Wetherspoons, whipping their knob out of their jeans when they want to play" Totally agree there is nothing more off putting than men walking about fully clothed in and out of play rooms ,and the drinks are never as cheep as witherspoon 😂🤣😅 | |||
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"I've never been to any so would know. Would love to though....one day I went to La Chambre in Sheffield, which I believe has now re-opened with a different name? I liked the fact it looks like a pub from the outside, you can just walk in off the street. It was no better or worse than most clubs out there, but did suffer from just allowing as many fee-paying single guys in as possible. But this may have changed. Give it a go! You’re more likely to be underwhelmed when you get inside, clubs really aren’t ‘all that’……😂 Never visited as a single guy. Only as a couple but I think you might be right. For single guys it must be massively frustrating. Watching all this sex and not (probably) getting the chance to join in. It’s a very expensive way of watching others fuck. We know lots of single men who visit clubs regularly and do very well for themselves, I think its just a case of getting yourself know,lots of couples like to take time,just cos they don't jump on you straight away doesn't mean they aren't talking about you and may approach you the next time they bump into you, in the past we have looked up single men on fab we have seen in a club to arrange a social for a later date .we always go to a club with an open mind and never a set plan of what we will do " I never have any expectations for a club visit, other than; I might be pleasantly surprised
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"I've never been to any so would know. Would love to though....one day I went to La Chambre in Sheffield, which I believe has now re-opened with a different name? I liked the fact it looks like a pub from the outside, you can just walk in off the street. It was no better or worse than most clubs out there, but did suffer from just allowing as many fee-paying single guys in as possible. But this may have changed. Give it a go! You’re more likely to be underwhelmed when you get inside, clubs really aren’t ‘all that’……😂 Never visited as a single guy. Only as a couple but I think you might be right. For single guys it must be massively frustrating. Watching all this sex and not (probably) getting the chance to join in. It’s a very expensive way of watching others fuck. We know lots of single men who visit clubs regularly and do very well for themselves, I think its just a case of getting yourself know,lots of couples like to take time,just cos they don't jump on you straight away doesn't mean they aren't talking about you and may approach you the next time they bump into you, in the past we have looked up single men on fab we have seen in a club to arrange a social for a later date .we always go to a club with an open mind and never a set plan of what we will do I never have any expectations for a club visit, other than; I might be pleasantly surprised
You only need to meet one person inside, to make your night, and make you want to return. I can honestly say though, I didn't make any contacts through the club scene, out of any of the clubs I went to, and that included the 6 visits I made to Club f lol...."Were they resent visits,we haven't been in ages so carnt say what its like these days,but we have always found it to be a friendly place Were everyone chats to everyone,we have met some lovely single men there over the years and are still in touch with a lot of them | |||
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"I've never been to any so would know. Would love to though....one day I went to La Chambre in Sheffield, which I believe has now re-opened with a different name? I liked the fact it looks like a pub from the outside, you can just walk in off the street. It was no better or worse than most clubs out there, but did suffer from just allowing as many fee-paying single guys in as possible. But this may have changed. Give it a go! You’re more likely to be underwhelmed when you get inside, clubs really aren’t ‘all that’……😂 Never visited as a single guy. Only as a couple but I think you might be right. For single guys it must be massively frustrating. Watching all this sex and not (probably) getting the chance to join in. It’s a very expensive way of watching others fuck. We know lots of single men who visit clubs regularly and do very well for themselves, I think its just a case of getting yourself know,lots of couples like to take time,just cos they don't jump on you straight away doesn't mean they aren't talking about you and may approach you the next time they bump into you, in the past we have looked up single men on fab we have seen in a club to arrange a social for a later date .we always go to a club with an open mind and never a set plan of what we will do I never have any expectations for a club visit, other than; I might be pleasantly surprised
You only need to meet one person inside, to make your night, and make you want to return. I can honestly say though, I didn't make any contacts through the club scene, out of any of the clubs I went to, and that included the 6 visits I made to Club f lol....
Were they resent visits,we haven't been in ages so carnt say what its like these days,but we have always found it to be a friendly place Were everyone chats to everyone,we have met some lovely single men there over the years and are still in touch with a lot of them "I hadn’t been for a few years, but tried one of their newbie events recently, figuring that would be good to be a ‘new face’ in there? Same old really, just less play areas upstairs…. | |||
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"I've never been to any so would know. Would love to though....one day I went to La Chambre in Sheffield, which I believe has now re-opened with a different name? I liked the fact it looks like a pub from the outside, you can just walk in off the street. It was no better or worse than most clubs out there, but did suffer from just allowing as many fee-paying single guys in as possible. But this may have changed. Give it a go! You’re more likely to be underwhelmed when you get inside, clubs really aren’t ‘all that’……😂 Never visited as a single guy. Only as a couple but I think you might be right. For single guys it must be massively frustrating. Watching all this sex and not (probably) getting the chance to join in. It’s a very expensive way of watching others fuck. We know lots of single men who visit clubs regularly and do very well for themselves, I think its just a case of getting yourself know,lots of couples like to take time,just cos they don't jump on you straight away doesn't mean they aren't talking about you and may approach you the next time they bump into you, in the past we have looked up single men on fab we have seen in a club to arrange a social for a later date .we always go to a club with an open mind and never a set plan of what we will do I never have any expectations for a club visit, other than; I might be pleasantly surprised
You only need to meet one person inside, to make your night, and make you want to return. I can honestly say though, I didn't make any contacts through the club scene, out of any of the clubs I went to, and that included the 6 visits I made to Club f lol....
Were they resent visits,we haven't been in ages so carnt say what its like these days,but we have always found it to be a friendly place Were everyone chats to everyone,we have met some lovely single men there over the years and are still in touch with a lot of them
I hadn’t been for a few years, but tried one of their newbie events recently, figuring that would be good to be a ‘new face’ in there? Same old really, just less play areas upstairs…. "What night do uou fo on ,we could only ever go on a Saturday because of work | |||
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"We keep looking at them online. All that neon, the pvc beds & being told at what point we have to undress makes us cringe. We keep asking people about these reservations, but we've yet to be convinced. They just seem to be a bit tacky, like the 80s were, well from the photos they post on their Web pages anyway. We have only come across one club that has a dress down time, must do expect you to dress down to go into play rooms,it can be very off putting for people already playing if fully clothed people are walking about,
That's fair, but the first we looked at, near to us, have a dress down code as soon as you leave the locker room. It put us right off at first look. Every one we've looked at since we've thought, what less than satisfactory surprises should we expect there?
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"I've never been to any so would know. Would love to though....one day I went to La Chambre in Sheffield, which I believe has now re-opened with a different name? I liked the fact it looks like a pub from the outside, you can just walk in off the street. It was no better or worse than most clubs out there, but did suffer from just allowing as many fee-paying single guys in as possible. But this may have changed. Give it a go! You’re more likely to be underwhelmed when you get inside, clubs really aren’t ‘all that’……😂 Never visited as a single guy. Only as a couple but I think you might be right. For single guys it must be massively frustrating. Watching all this sex and not (probably) getting the chance to join in. It’s a very expensive way of watching others fuck." I have been clubbing for nearly 25 years, and have met loads of amazing people; played with lots, not played with others and a lot have become friends. Never had a night where I haven't had a social evening, and I have never joined the throngs of the wanking dead | |||
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"I've never been to any so would know. Would love to though....one day I went to La Chambre in Sheffield, which I believe has now re-opened with a different name? I liked the fact it looks like a pub from the outside, you can just walk in off the street. It was no better or worse than most clubs out there, but did suffer from just allowing as many fee-paying single guys in as possible. But this may have changed. Give it a go! You’re more likely to be underwhelmed when you get inside, clubs really aren’t ‘all that’……😂 Never visited as a single guy. Only as a couple but I think you might be right. For single guys it must be massively frustrating. Watching all this sex and not (probably) getting the chance to join in. It’s a very expensive way of watching others fuck. We know lots of single men who visit clubs regularly and do very well for themselves, I think its just a case of getting yourself know,lots of couples like to take time,just cos they don't jump on you straight away doesn't mean they aren't talking about you and may approach you the next time they bump into you, in the past we have looked up single men on fab we have seen in a club to arrange a social for a later date .we always go to a club with an open mind and never a set plan of what we will do I never have any expectations for a club visit, other than; I might be pleasantly surprised
You only need to meet one person inside, to make your night, and make you want to return. I can honestly say though, I didn't make any contacts through the club scene, out of any of the clubs I went to, and that included the 6 visits I made to Club f lol....
Were they resent visits,we haven't been in ages so carnt say what its like these days,but we have always found it to be a friendly place Were everyone chats to everyone,we have met some lovely single men there over the years and are still in touch with a lot of them
I hadn’t been for a few years, but tried one of their newbie events recently, figuring that would be good to be a ‘new face’ in there? Same old really, just less play areas upstairs….
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"I've never been to any so would know. Would love to though....one day I went to La Chambre in Sheffield, which I believe has now re-opened with a different name? I liked the fact it looks like a pub from the outside, you can just walk in off the street. It was no better or worse than most clubs out there, but did suffer from just allowing as many fee-paying single guys in as possible. But this may have changed. Give it a go! You’re more likely to be underwhelmed when you get inside, clubs really aren’t ‘all that’……😂 Never visited as a single guy. Only as a couple but I think you might be right. For single guys it must be massively frustrating. Watching all this sex and not (probably) getting the chance to join in. It’s a very expensive way of watching others fuck. We know lots of single men who visit clubs regularly and do very well for themselves, I think its just a case of getting yourself know,lots of couples like to take time,just cos they don't jump on you straight away doesn't mean they aren't talking about you and may approach you the next time they bump into you, in the past we have looked up single men on fab we have seen in a club to arrange a social for a later date .we always go to a club with an open mind and never a set plan of what we will do I never have any expectations for a club visit, other than; I might be pleasantly surprised
You only need to meet one person inside, to make your night, and make you want to return. I can honestly say though, I didn't make any contacts through the club scene, out of any of the clubs I went to, and that included the 6 visits I made to Club f lol....
Were they resent visits,we haven't been in ages so carnt say what its like these days,but we have always found it to be a friendly place Were everyone chats to everyone,we have met some lovely single men there over the years and are still in touch with a lot of them
I hadn’t been for a few years, but tried one of their newbie events recently, figuring that would be good to be a ‘new face’ in there? Same old really, just less play areas upstairs….
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"We keep looking at them online. All that neon, the pvc beds & being told at what point we have to undress makes us cringe. We keep asking people about these reservations, but we've yet to be convinced. They just seem to be a bit tacky, like the 80s were, well from the photos they post on their Web pages anyway. We have only come across one club that has a dress down time, must do expect you to dress down to go into play rooms,it can be very off putting for people already playing if fully clothed people are walking about,
That's fair, but the first we looked at, near to us, have a dress down code as soon as you leave the locker room. It put us right off at first look. Every one we've looked at since we've thought, what less than satisfactory surprises should we expect there?
You are not far from The Attic and there is no dress down policy there. Makes for a good night out.
Thanks. Just looked at the gallery online. I think we left all that neon & pink lighting back in the 80s. I guess clubs just aren't for us. It's probably our age & life experience that steers us away from that carnival style atmosphere. It really doesn't make us feel sexy at all. Maybe our first instincts are sometimes right."Not all clubs are full of neon lights and the ones that do have them its not in every room,one club we used a lot didn't have any and another had a few in one room,they use them to brighten a room with no windows | |||
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"We keep looking at them online. All that neon, the pvc beds & being told at what point we have to undress makes us cringe. We keep asking people about these reservations, but we've yet to be convinced. They just seem to be a bit tacky, like the 80s were, well from the photos they post on their Web pages anyway. We have only come across one club that has a dress down time, must do expect you to dress down to go into play rooms,it can be very off putting for people already playing if fully clothed people are walking about,
That's fair, but the first we looked at, near to us, have a dress down code as soon as you leave the locker room. It put us right off at first look. Every one we've looked at since we've thought, what less than satisfactory surprises should we expect there?
You are not far from The Attic and there is no dress down policy there. Makes for a good night out.
Thanks. Just looked at the gallery online. I think we left all that neon & pink lighting back in the 80s. I guess clubs just aren't for us. It's probably our age & life experience that steers us away from that carnival style atmosphere. It really doesn't make us feel sexy at all. Maybe our first instincts are sometimes right.
Not all clubs are full of neon lights and the ones that do have them its not in every room,one club we used a lot didn't have any and another had a few in one room,they use them to brighten a room with no windows "If only swingers did pubs & bars rather than clubs, we'd have a look. I'm thinking kind of a group social atmosphere, relaxed, background music, no need to dress down in the main areas. Options to use side rooms that don't have pvc judo mats, the option to stay & play in the main area if that's your thing, no wanking dead allowed, couples only. Well, back in the real world, it's not there, at least nowhere near us. I can dream. Happy clubbing to those who enjoy what's there now though. | |||
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"We keep looking at them online. All that neon, the pvc beds & being told at what point we have to undress makes us cringe. We keep asking people about these reservations, but we've yet to be convinced. They just seem to be a bit tacky, like the 80s were, well from the photos they post on their Web pages anyway. We have only come across one club that has a dress down time, must do expect you to dress down to go into play rooms,it can be very off putting for people already playing if fully clothed people are walking about,
That's fair, but the first we looked at, near to us, have a dress down code as soon as you leave the locker room. It put us right off at first look. Every one we've looked at since we've thought, what less than satisfactory surprises should we expect there?
You are not far from The Attic and there is no dress down policy there. Makes for a good night out.
Thanks. Just looked at the gallery online. I think we left all that neon & pink lighting back in the 80s. I guess clubs just aren't for us. It's probably our age & life experience that steers us away from that carnival style atmosphere. It really doesn't make us feel sexy at all. Maybe our first instincts are sometimes right.
Not all clubs are full of neon lights and the ones that do have them its not in every room,one club we used a lot didn't have any and another had a few in one room,they use them to brighten a room with no windows
If only swingers did pubs & bars rather than clubs, we'd have a look. I'm thinking kind of a group social atmosphere, relaxed, background music, no need to dress down in the main areas. Options to use side rooms that don't have pvc judo mats, the option to stay & play in the main area if that's your thing, no wanking dead allowed, couples only.
Well, back in the real world, it's not there, at least nowhere near us. I can dream. Happy clubbing to those who enjoy what's there now though."Well you have just almost described our local club lol | |||
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things i dont like... being followed around (not just the guys had couples follow around).... | |||
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"We keep looking at them online. All that neon, the pvc beds & being told at what point we have to undress makes us cringe. We keep asking people about these reservations, but we've yet to be convinced. They just seem to be a bit tacky, like the 80s were, well from the photos they post on their Web pages anyway. We have only come across one club that has a dress down time, must do expect you to dress down to go into play rooms,it can be very off putting for people already playing if fully clothed people are walking about,
That's fair, but the first we looked at, near to us, have a dress down code as soon as you leave the locker room. It put us right off at first look. Every one we've looked at since we've thought, what less than satisfactory surprises should we expect there?
You are not far from The Attic and there is no dress down policy there. Makes for a good night out.
Thanks. Just looked at the gallery online. I think we left all that neon & pink lighting back in the 80s. I guess clubs just aren't for us. It's probably our age & life experience that steers us away from that carnival style atmosphere. It really doesn't make us feel sexy at all. Maybe our first instincts are sometimes right.
Not all clubs are full of neon lights and the ones that do have them its not in every room,one club we used a lot didn't have any and another had a few in one room,they use them to brighten a room with no windows
If only swingers did pubs & bars rather than clubs, we'd have a look. I'm thinking kind of a group social atmosphere, relaxed, background music, no need to dress down in the main areas. Options to use side rooms that don't have pvc judo mats, the option to stay & play in the main area if that's your thing, no wanking dead allowed, couples only.
Well, back in the real world, it's not there, at least nowhere near us. I can dream. Happy clubbing to those who enjoy what's there now though.
Well you have just almost described our local club lol "Clearly teesside has much to offer that those of us further south can be envious of. Maybe we should book a hotel. Think of yourselves as fortunate that you're nowhere near Manchester. The clubs here look absolutely awful. We're quite envious. Jealous even. X | |||
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"We keep looking at them online. All that neon, the pvc beds & being told at what point we have to undress makes us cringe. We keep asking people about these reservations, but we've yet to be convinced. They just seem to be a bit tacky, like the 80s were, well from the photos they post on their Web pages anyway. We have only come across one club that has a dress down time, must do expect you to dress down to go into play rooms,it can be very off putting for people already playing if fully clothed people are walking about,
That's fair, but the first we looked at, near to us, have a dress down code as soon as you leave the locker room. It put us right off at first look. Every one we've looked at since we've thought, what less than satisfactory surprises should we expect there?
You are not far from The Attic and there is no dress down policy there. Makes for a good night out.
Thanks. Just looked at the gallery online. I think we left all that neon & pink lighting back in the 80s. I guess clubs just aren't for us. It's probably our age & life experience that steers us away from that carnival style atmosphere. It really doesn't make us feel sexy at all. Maybe our first instincts are sometimes right.
Not all clubs are full of neon lights and the ones that do have them its not in every room,one club we used a lot didn't have any and another had a few in one room,they use them to brighten a room with no windows
If only swingers did pubs & bars rather than clubs, we'd have a look. I'm thinking kind of a group social atmosphere, relaxed, background music, no need to dress down in the main areas. Options to use side rooms that don't have pvc judo mats, the option to stay & play in the main area if that's your thing, no wanking dead allowed, couples only.
Well, back in the real world, it's not there, at least nowhere near us. I can dream. Happy clubbing to those who enjoy what's there now though.
Well you have just almost described our local club lol
Clearly teesside has much to offer that those of us further south can be envious of. Maybe we should book a hotel. Think of yourselves as fortunate that you're nowhere near Manchester. The clubs here look absolutely awful. We're quite envious. Jealous even. X"Lol if you looked at the fab page for our local club you wouldn't want to go, | |||
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"Also hate a finger buffet at clubs. The first time I saw one in a club, I witnessed a gent who had been wandering around with his hand under his towel walk over and start picking at the buffet looking for something he fancied. Wouldn't touch one if you paid me" Oooohhhhhh... me too! Double dipping lol Vix x | |||
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"What annoys you the most in clubs,for us its people who dont clean up after themselves before leaving a play room/area, come on you know others are going to use that room .
On the other hand we do like the mix of people you meet from all walks of life "Ues not the sort of place ypu want to be eating a finger buffet lol | |||
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"The leather body swing. Glass floors. "Ow.what club has glass floors,not seen that | |||
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"The leather body swing. Glass floors.
Ow.what club has glass floors,not seen that "Chams Darlaston has some glass ceiling/floor on the back stairs looking down into play rooms | |||
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"We like the variety of equipment we don't have at home and the rooms set up with voyeurism in mind. I personally don't like the lack of effort some people put in, especially in the non dress down bits Old work jumper covered in oil, a I'll fitting football shirt or flip flops with gruffalo feet or even a hi Viz vest (all of which I've seen) do not make me feel sexy "where on earth did you see that?? So I don't go there! I personally never frequent clubs that are not towel on straight away! | |||
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"We were in a room Sunday evening at Chameleons Mrs F giving Mr B a birthday blow job with a bottle of Fizz. Anyway 2 blokes were at the entrance of the room talking about Football, people dying and children. Mrs F politely asked, no told, them to go talk somewhere else as they were killing the mood. Why do people insist on doing this. That's one of our pet hates amongst many others "my biggest pissmeoff scene there a few at our local 4/5 sit talking shit about ppl or commintate whats going on, we have stopped play n moved and the look on faces when we do. last dress down time sat on a sofa waiting see if anyone takes the fancy , fella asks mrs can i sit down (3seater) we were chatting about sumit then the mrs slaps away a hand on her nylons he was running hand up n down her thigh saying how he loved nylon.he did say sorry to offend but awkward few mins before he fuckd off. | |||
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"We love clubs. But our pets hates would be why oh why can't some people clear up after themselves. Every club we've been to has bins. People go in a room/space and then just chuck the used condom on the floor. Why? Second pet hate would be people chatting about mundane things outside a room. It is off putting; a bit of a passion killer." One of the benefits of being half deaf, can't hear that sorta thing | |||
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"We like the variety of equipment we don't have at home and the rooms set up with voyeurism in mind. I personally don't like the lack of effort some people put in, especially in the non dress down bits Old work jumper covered in oil, a I'll fitting football shirt or flip flops with gruffalo feet or even a hi Viz vest (all of which I've seen) do not make me feel sexy
Yes we agree there sould definitely be a dress code to even get in, and a dress down code in the play areas,we once had a man stood over us with a coat zipped right up and the hood up p
We had a man walk past me, go straight to hubby and without any other words of intro simply said "can I have a go of your missus", whilst having hands covered in oil, work boots, a dirty sweatshirt and stinking like a month old wheelie bin.
Funnily enough I declined "I'm so sorry. I've told Paul on many occasions if he attends a club alone he must remember to say "hello, I'm Paul " before anything else. | |||
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"Our biggest pet hate is the people who say a clubs is cliquey,if you go to your local pub do you speak to the people you know first or strangers, why would a club be any different,it would be considered rude if you ignored people you know never mind people you have had sex with in the past 😂🤣😅" This. There are bound to be people that know each other. | |||
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"I don't like Porn or music playing when you are sitting in the social area. I do like a relaxed and sociable atmosphere brought on by the complementary buffet and welcoming staff. " same | |||
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