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WMFC - White man's fan Club
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this "
Am I allowed to join |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What are the criteria for joining? I mean surely white guys aren't particularly hard to find in the UK? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are the criteria for joining? I mean surely white guys aren't particularly hard to find in the UK?"
I agree a bit of a floored concept most clubs are mainly full of white guys in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are the criteria for joining? I mean surely white guys aren't particularly hard to find in the UK?
I agree a bit of a floored concept most clubs are mainly full of white guys in my experience."
and frightfully non pc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes but ive been chatting to a few girls and they want it ....im sure there are some with just love white guys ....and there is a bmfc ...so why not a wmfc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes golden u can come ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most my mates are white might feel left out if I can't get in lol But the truth is I wouldn't go to a Bmfc as its called just like I don't go to main stream clubs that are mainly for black people ! Was born and bread in the UK so I want to socialise with people I've grown or meet on my travels as long as I get on with them whatever racial background they might be from . Just the way my parents brought me up and what I think is the right way but can see why a white person would be pissed of because if it was a wmfc it would be reported on the NEWS AT TEN  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out |
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"Yes but ive been chatting to a few girls and they want it ....im sure there are some with just love white guys ....and there is a bmfc ...so why not a wmfc "
There is no reason in the world why you cannot have one/set one up, if we can have BMFC's or BBW "clubs" or under 30 events then go for it.
Some will get their knickers in a twist over discrimination and cry about PC without realising the irony (of promoting one set of discrimination but not another).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out "
I wouldnt have a problem with it but the blackmans fan clubs would not deny a white guy attending so it would not be a good idea to stop a guy coming in as he is not white. Also when you say white did you mean to include italian german spanish?? Or uk british white?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thats what i thought |
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"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out I wouldnt have a problem with it but the blackmans fan clubs would not deny a white guy attending so it would not be a good idea to stop a guy coming in as he is not white. Also when you say white did you mean to include italian german spanish?? Or uk british white?"
Do BMFC's have rules on what region of the world the man has to be from to be included ? ;o
odd world we live in.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I mean whole just need a fed back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I might start up an AMFC....yep. asian man's fan club  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol |
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Id quite like a Welsh washed up ex rugby playing man living in England fan club
WWUERPMLIE fan club has a ring to it I think!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol ......funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out I wouldnt have a problem with it but the blackmans fan clubs would not deny a white guy attending so it would not be a good idea to stop a guy coming in as he is not white. Also when you say white did you mean to include italian german spanish?? Or uk british white?
Do BMFC's have rules on what region of the world the man has to be from to be included ? ;o
odd world we live in.
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good question I think it covers black African and carribean as there is not really any other black category and in this country its a minority, including mixed race? That's confusing as my dads nan was half chinese. How about a fuk a human if you fancy fan club??? just a thought. |
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good question I think it covers black African and carribean as there is not really any other black category and in this country its a minority, including mixed race? That's confusing as my dads nan was half chinese. How about a fuk a human if you fancy fan club??? just a thought. "
Well there are as many different "types" of African black men as there are European white males, a north African man is quite different to a West African and indeed different to a South African, hell even tribe to tribe there are some differences in appearance, just as much if not more so than the variations in white men across Europe and the world.
I'm all for people being able to screw what they want, but I hope you're just as prevalent on the BMFC threads with this attitude as on other threads
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol yes its just ive heard about the bmfc and the friends i know that go are into black guys .......but then i have other friends who are into white guys ......and they are from all mixed races ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes i know about african tribes ....etc ...
As my background is that
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"Yes i know about african tribes ....etc ...
As my background is that
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Sorry that was aimed at the poster I quoted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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good question I think it covers black African and carribean as there is not really any other black category and in this country its a minority, including mixed race? That's confusing as my dads nan was half chinese. How about a fuk a human if you fancy fan club??? just a thought.
Well there are as many different "types" of African black men as there are European white males, a north African man is quite different to a West African and indeed different to a South African, hell even tribe to tribe there are some differences in appearance, just as much if not more so than the variations in white men across Europe and the world.
I'm all for people being able to screw what they want, but I hope you're just as prevalent on the BMFC threads with this attitude as on other threads
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most definatly am as I dont like the idea of someone wanting to fuk me because im black and d is white. We are much more than just a colour. We just live and let live keep it simple and was expressing an opinion on the topic. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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";-)"
your all beautiful by the way lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know that .. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has a preference and I believe its there own business so hey more groups more new ppl to meet. ...equals more fun for all
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I'm one of the ladies that spoke to onlysweetashoney tonight and think this is a good idea but it seems that discrimination is being bought into this, why? I personally prefer English white guys or afro Caribbean guys, it's a personal preference but can't understand why your all up in arms when it comes to the subject of white guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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End of day if folk want white mans or black mans social so be it as long as we are all.open about it.
All this pc shite has gone too far for example the mobo awards for black musicians i do not care one way or the other but if it was proposed similar for white musicians there would be uproar.
All i want is equality for all. |
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Forgive me, but it isn't about being PC. I fear many miss the point about minority things being highlighted.
Because media (and privilege) is and always has been predominantly male, straight and white.
I'm not going into an argument, but that is "easy mode" through most of life. This is why race issues, feminism (non radical) gender equality and identification (especially for trans, two spirits and everything inbetween) are such hot button topics right now and focus on "positive discrimination". In the UK, there wouldn't be the need for a WMFC, because that's the norm. (No need to give me false equivalence, i know some of you live in areas with a higher multi race mix).
Its kinda like saying Male Rights Activists should be taken seriously, in an overly patriachal society. Yeah.....no. That's already the unbalanced status quo.
Anyway, WMFCs exist in places in the world where whatever you class as white aren't common in those societies. Some in Far East Asia. And some African countries too. |
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"Forgive me, but it isn't about being PC. I fear many miss the point about minority things being highlighted.
Because media (and privilege) is and always has been predominantly male, straight and white.
I'm not going into an argument, but that is "easy mode" through most of life. This is why race issues, feminism (non radical) gender equality and identification (especially for trans, two spirits and everything inbetween) are such hot button topics right now and focus on "positive discrimination". In the UK, there wouldn't be the need for a WMFC, because that's the norm. (No need to give me false equivalence, i know some of you live in areas with a higher multi race mix).
Its kinda like saying Male Rights Activists should be taken seriously, in an overly patriachal society. Yeah.....no. That's already the unbalanced status quo.
Anyway, WMFCs exist in places in the world where whatever you class as white aren't common in those societies. Some in Far East Asia. And some African countries too. "
Absolutely bang on my friend and much more eloquently explained than I could have hoped |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol i would of like to have heard the discussion when the bmfc first started up...if this whats to go by |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want Eskimo blind dwarf fan club |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you babe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dont we all ...when i was talking to a few girlfriends last night ....we was sayin that there must be some black girls or of other skin colour ..that want to meet fit white guys but in a social theme ...it wasnt to put the black guys down at all or to rub peoples nose its all a bit of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wmfc is pretty much going to any club night which is not BMFC as any night we have attended Silk has been pretty much the only black guy in attendance so don't think there would be as much call for it. I would never go to a normal club night looking for a black guy as I know over 90% of the men there would be white.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forgive me, but it isn't about being PC. I fear many miss the point about minority things being highlighted.
Because media (and privilege) is and always has been predominantly male, straight and white.
I'm not going into an argument, but that is "easy mode" through most of life. This is why race issues, feminism (non radical) gender equality and identification (especially for trans, two spirits and everything inbetween) are such hot button topics right now and focus on "positive discrimination". In the UK, there wouldn't be the need for a WMFC, because that's the norm. (No need to give me false equivalence, i know some of you live in areas with a higher multi race mix).
Its kinda like saying Male Rights Activists should be taken seriously, in an overly patriachal society. Yeah.....no. That's already the unbalanced status quo.
Anyway, WMFCs exist in places in the world where whatever you class as white aren't common in those societies. Some in Far East Asia. And some African countries too. "
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"I might start up an AMFC....yep. asian man's fan club "
haha! Going by feedback in other forum topics There'd be no women or couples at an Asian Man's Fan Club! Haha!
But each to their own, happy swinging, one love! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See well i can put i go to soul events arranged by people from south london and 90% are black that attend....
so u cant put that down
Its nothing to do with colour its people preferences ... |
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*sigh* I think you missed my point. Nevermind. Good luck with your idea. |
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Anyway, WMFCs exist in places in the world where whatever you class as white aren't common in those societies. Some in Far East Asia. And some African countries too. "
Having travelled the world and lived all over I have never seen anything like this anywhere im afraid.
The idea behind positive discrimination is a good one, but its not something thats universally applied country to country. It only ever seems to apply to certain demographics in certain countries.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have not missed ur point ...i just will not go down that road .. |
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Anyway, WMFCs exist in places in the world where whatever you class as white aren't common in those societies. Some in Far East Asia. And some African countries too.
Having travelled the world and lived all over I have never seen anything like this anywhere im afraid.
The idea behind positive discrimination is a good one, but its not something thats universally applied country to country. It only ever seems to apply to certain demographics in certain countries.
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It exists, i'm from an African country and can confirm that it is a thing. |
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It exists, i'm from an African country and can confirm that it is a thing. "
I have lived in Nigeria, Kenya, Zimbabwe, Swaziland and SA and have never seen anything like that, heard of anything like it, or know anyone thats ever mentioned it, as half of my family is also south african it might have cropped up once or twice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this surely just about personal choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See well i can put i go to soul events arranged by people from south london and 90% are black that attend....
so u cant put that down
Its nothing to do with colour its people preferences ..."
You have completely missed the point.... We are talking about swinging clubs/socials being almost always 90% white unless themes towards BMFC |
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It exists, i'm from an African country and can confirm that it is a thing.
I have lived in Nigeria, Kenya, Zimbabwe, Swaziland and SA and have never seen anything like that, heard of anything like it, or know anyone thats ever mentioned it, as half of my family is also south african it might have cropped up once or twice.
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I'm Nigerian. It was a thing we knew about growing up. Anyway, my point wasn't to initiate sabre rattling. The very idea of WMFC is mostly absurd based on the reasons set out in my initial post in this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only way a wmfc would work would to be, of and for, bi men.
The number of women attending would be single figures and the number of single men would be at least 10 times that. Also where do the couples fit in?
As has been said already. Most nights in a club is full of white men. Why try starting a fan club for something already rolling every night? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How about HTBGC
Heavily tattoed bi guys club ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what we have found in the swinging world is there is no bigotry, you lot are the most accepting bunch of people on the planet.
everyone seems really chilled in our experience. when we are in clubs people can go "we are into this..." and everyone goes nice one, and everyone just gets on with it......
so if you want black, white, straight, bi, tv/ts, whatever go luck to you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes but must are in a couples thing |
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I dunno what clubs you guys are going to but the ones I go to are full of a mix of all races, to say they are overflowing with white guys seems a little odd, maybe there is a better balance in the SE but all races and creeds attend the nights we do.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Most not must
It is all about swinging but some had to go down that root ..... I could tell u about where my father comes from ..but its not about that ...its findin an easy ground |
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I'm Nigerian. It was a thing we knew about growing up. Anyway, my point wasn't to initiate sabre rattling. The very idea of WMFC is mostly absurd based on the reasons set out in my initial post in this thread."
Are we talking in a swinging context, or a general one because there is next to no "swining" in Africa on the whole I don't even think there any any organised clubs so if anything is happening its all private meets at houses.
Nothing to do with saber rattling here but if you claim as a key counter point there is the same sort of positive discrimination for white guys in other countries, when clearly thats just not true someone's going to call you on it.
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I'm Nigerian. It was a thing we knew about growing up. Anyway, my point wasn't to initiate sabre rattling. The very idea of WMFC is mostly absurd based on the reasons set out in my initial post in this thread.
Are we talking in a swinging context, or a general one because there is next to no "swining" in Africa on the whole I don't even think there any any organised clubs so if anything is happening its all private meets at houses.
Nothing to do with saber rattling here but if you claim as a key counter point there is the same sort of positive discrimination for white guys in other countries, when clearly thats just not true someone's going to call you on it.
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Swinging in Africa is subdued, and rarely visible, but that doesn't mean it doesn't/ didn't exist. Like i said, i was aware of it on a local level, the sort of thing that was spoken of in hushed tones. It was/ is a thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm Nigerian. It was a thing we knew about growing up. Anyway, my point wasn't to initiate sabre rattling. The very idea of WMFC is mostly absurd based on the reasons set out in my initial post in this thread.
Are we talking in a swinging context, or a general one because there is next to no "swining" in Africa on the whole I don't even think there any any organised clubs so if anything is happening its all private meets at houses.
Nothing to do with saber rattling here but if you claim as a key counter point there is the same sort of positive discrimination for white guys in other countries, when clearly thats just not true someone's going to call you on it.
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Ive been reading the comments and just think if it works for you go for it. Set up whatever clubs groups you want we always have a choice of what to be part of it or not. Your all basing your views on your own personal experiences so you wont find a common ground. Just a good example of how we are all different! |
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Swinging in Africa is subdued, and rarely visible, but that doesn't mean it doesn't/ didn't exist. Like i said, i was aware of it on a local level, the sort of thing that was spoken of in hushed tones. It was/ is a thing."
and these hushed toned conversations spoke of organised white mens fan club events ? oooh ok, I guess were just going to have to disagree with this because I just don't believe it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So what about all them beautiful black women like myself ...that like white men and i know they are out there ....its a choice but i feel u are taking this to a completely different level ....i was brought up to never judge a book by its cover and that was with a(beautiful white women)..which i do ...but i wont bring my fathers background or the colour of my skin ......this is swinging .......so lets all enjoy ourselves |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree |
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"So what about all them beautiful black women like myself ...that like white men and i know they are out there ....its a choice but i feel u are taking this to a completely different level ....i was brought up to never judge a book by its cover and that was with a(beautiful white women)..which i do ...but i wont bring my fathers background or the colour of my skin ......this is swinging .......so lets all enjoy ourselves "
I'm not sure if this is directed at me, but I am all for your event infact more power to you on it, I think you have every right to have any preference and organise any event you wish.
My posts are clearly responding to blackshadows..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you finally someone who sees reason |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes i know _lackcherry ...i am as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why must we have any colour fan club, why can't individual choice prevail?
Cannot believe the current trend by some these days towards looking for racism in every nook and cranny of life, even in swinging clubs. It’s getting to be like the McCarthy communist witch hunts in the USA years ago – ‘right-on’ liberals trying to prove how anti-racist they are and trying to out-liberal their fellow liberals finding ‘racism’ on the flimsiest of evidence.
Some of the posters here appear to contort themselves into all shapes trying to show everyone how much more enlightened they are they exhibit cringingly sycophantic inverse racism which, if I were black, Asian or whatever, I think I might feel rather patronised.
Racism is a higher form of tribalism (like the football team you support, whether you are from Wales, England Ireland or Scotland, and all the rest) and tribalism has been around since the dawn of time – it is an inherent natural trait that is in all humans, not just the monopoly of white people.
Can’t we all just accept people for what they are, human beings whatever their colour or race. If people have chosen to live in our country, however, I do take issue with them insisting their culture must somehow trump mine because an aspect of my culture is offensive to them. FFS people of all races are now sitting in our Parliament, many have been elevated to the nobility, many have dedicated TV programmes/channels, more and more representation in mainstream media, our athletics, many sports and football teams are well over-represented in proportional terms with ethnic minority groups – so why all the self-flagellation over imagined racism and constant scrutiny of everything said/written for the smallest hint of the dreaded racism? I really do find it hard to think of any other country in the world so tolerant, so accepting and where opportunity really is equal for anyone of any colour/race with ambition. Islam adherents apparently make up only a tiny proportion of the UK population but they look at how much of the national agenda they set!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have to say that by definition if we accept BMFC parties then WMFC parties are just as acceptable ( whether successful or not )
Its all about choice and personal preference so by definition we must all accept that some themed nights are for us others arent it does not make them wrong or doomed to failure |
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"Yes i know _lackcherry ...i am as well "
forums are not a great medium for a discussion odd as it seems |
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Swinging in Africa is subdued, and rarely visible, but that doesn't mean it doesn't/ didn't exist. Like i said, i was aware of it on a local level, the sort of thing that was spoken of in hushed tones. It was/ is a thing.
and these hushed toned conversations spoke of organised white mens fan club events ? oooh ok, I guess were just going to have to disagree with this because I just don't believe it.
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Organised fan clubs. Obviously not. A group of like minded "housewives" that held appreciation for rich, white, oil corporation execs either based in, or visiting the country/ state? Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Im startin to agree with u .... Blackcherry .....its people's choices .... |
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"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out "
How about a BWFC then I nearly went to a recent bmfc meeting in sunburn until I read warning to white guys.... you're in for a quiet night if you come along!
I thought maybe there would be a few black ladies there as well. Apparently not.
If there were a BWFC I'd join immediately!
Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this "
Back to the original question lol I say if theres a need for it fill it id be interested to see how it goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im startin to agree with u .... Blackcherry .....its people's choices ...."
Well just to put the cat amongst the pigeons....as it were. I'm a black lady ....and I don't go to BMFC...is there a club for me?..lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol thanks .... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well ur bi so yes as in sure there be women there who would be as well |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Am I really going to be the first to ask....
Will white women be allowed to come along?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol like that one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if there is a need then Id love to go to a WMFC night as I would it would attract some hot black chicks who dig white guys - these situations have some of the hottest I've ever had especially since I like big butts and I cannot lie just like sir mix a lot!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if there is a need then Id love to go to a WMFC night as I would it would attract some hot black chicks who dig white guys - these situations have some of the hottest I've ever had especially since I like big butts and I cannot lie just like sir mix a lot! "
love it haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Plus it will attract bi fems as well
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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago
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"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out
How about a BWFC then I nearly went to a recent bmfc meeting in sunburn until I read warning to white guys.... you're in for a quiet night if you come along!
I thought maybe there would be a few black ladies there as well. Apparently not.
If there were a BWFC I'd join immediately!
Lol
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Us too mr dee would love a bwfc he would feel like he's died and gone to heaven xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes "
Yeah, what you saying sexy, you wanna link up sometime??
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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago
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We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.
These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.
Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.
How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.
These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.
Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.
How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't. "
Do you think bbw and t-girl events should be banned to??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol bwfc sounds good ...lol ....i like it ....just need to see how many more would be interested .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.
These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.
Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.
How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't. "
mike for pm lol !!!
Guys remember that anyone can attend any clubs. The blackman fan clubs would not turn white males or females away. Im not bi but would not be excluded from a bi night its just a theme not entrance criteria. |
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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago
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"We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.
These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.
Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.
How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't.
Do you think bbw and t-girl events should be banned to??? "
If they made people feel that they can't attend on that night as they wouldn't be welcomed then yes. We have attended clubs on a bbw night and not been told sorry your not large enough no-one will want to play with you. Neither of the demographic's you have mentioned discriminate based on race, largeness and transgenderness isn't race specific...
If a normal night club banned gay people - saying that they couldn't come in as they have there own night clubs - it would probably be shut down or fined as its illegal. Clubs should be open to all and not make anyone feel they can't attend. |
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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago
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"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out
How about a BWFC then I nearly went to a recent bmfc meeting in sunburn until I read warning to white guys.... you're in for a quiet night if you come along!
I thought maybe there would be a few black ladies there as well. Apparently not.
If there were a BWFC I'd join immediately!
Lol
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Have seen these warnings before and in reply to requests in forums from white guys wanting to attend... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well i think it will work ...i know some groups that do, do what u said ... But im lookin at it for what some people want ..that adore black women and white girls and the women want decent white guys to play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.
These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.
Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.
How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't.
Do you think bbw and t-girl events should be banned to???
If they made people feel that they can't attend on that night as they wouldn't be welcomed then yes. We have attended clubs on a bbw night and not been told sorry your not large enough no-one will want to play with you. Neither of the demographic's you have mentioned discriminate based on race, largeness and transgenderness isn't race specific...
If a normal night club banned gay people - saying that they couldn't come in as they have there own night clubs - it would probably be shut down or fined as its illegal. Clubs should be open to all and not make anyone feel they can't attend. "
I've been to bbw nights and never had a problem, and I was a size 10!!
I think clubs do what they can.
Is it perfect no, but nothing ever will be.
I am single and I do not attend couples nights. Does that mean I should head off and open a club for singles only? No.
I simply accept it is what it is and it works for the majority.
The number of single women on this scene is small. The number of real single women attending clubs is lower still.
Trying to start something that requires single women to decide only to play with white men & get them to actually attend.... good luck with that.
As I said before every club has that most nights. |
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"We think BMFC events should be banned and that the proposed WMFC events should not be set up.
These events just make one person or another feel discriminated against.
Clubs/socials should pro-actively increase memberships and attendance of minorities without dedicating whole nights to them and basically prohibiting others attending.
How exactly they do that we haven't a clue, but every night everyone should feel welcome. If you approach someone and your their type then they will play, if your not they won't.
Do you think bbw and t-girl events should be banned to???
If they made people feel that they can't attend on that night as they wouldn't be welcomed then yes. We have attended clubs on a bbw night and not been told sorry your not large enough no-one will want to play with you. Neither of the demographic's you have mentioned discriminate based on race, largeness and transgenderness isn't race specific...
If a normal night club banned gay people - saying that they couldn't come in as they have there own night clubs - it would probably be shut down or fined as its illegal. Clubs should be open to all and not make anyone feel they can't attend. "
I think you will find that white people are in attendance at BMFC events and welcomed its just that a white man shouldn't expect to play anymore then a straight man in gay club would expect to pull. No one is unwelcome to either place just know what to expect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you
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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago
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"I think you will find that white people are in attendance at BMFC events and welcomed its just that a white man shouldn't expect to play anymore then a straight man in gay club would expect to pull. No one is unwelcome to either place just know what to expect."
I think you'll find single guys would be more then welcome in a gay bar. Lesbian bar less so, which is the comparison that you were probably looking for. But basically in a nut shell they can go but aren't really wanted or welcome... In other words they are being discluded/discriminated based on race...
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"I think you will find that white people are in attendance at BMFC events and welcomed its just that a white man shouldn't expect to play anymore then a straight man in gay club would expect to pull. No one is unwelcome to either place just know what to expect.
I think you'll find single guys would be more then welcome in a gay bar. Lesbian bar less so, which is the comparison that you were probably looking for. But basically in a nut shell they can go but aren't really wanted or welcome... In other words they are being discluded/discriminated based on race...
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I'm saying everyone is welcome in either of these places you just adjust your expectations accordingly. If I went to a bbw night I would not be turned away or unwelcome but based on my size 8/10 I wouldn't expect the men/women in attendance to really fancy/play with me. the same goes if a single white guy goes to a BMFC event he would be welcomed on a social level but couldn't really expect any of the women there to play with him. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Most my mates are white might feel left out if I can't get in lol But the truth is I wouldn't go to a Bmfc as its called just like I don't go to main stream clubs that are mainly for black people ! Was born and bread in the UK so I want to socialise with people I've grown or meet on my travels as long as I get on with them whatever racial background they might be from . Just the way my parents brought me up and what I think is the right way but can see why a white person would be pissed of because if it was a wmfc it would be reported on the NEWS AT TEN "
you can't say stuff like that... I get called a hater for having the same view.....
you'll have "the community" in your sights now.......
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By *wo4moreCouple
over a year ago
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"I think you will find that white people are in attendance at BMFC events and welcomed its just that a white man shouldn't expect to play anymore then a straight man in gay club would expect to pull. No one is unwelcome to either place just know what to expect.
I think you'll find single guys would be more then welcome in a gay bar. Lesbian bar less so, which is the comparison that you were probably looking for. But basically in a nut shell they can go but aren't really wanted or welcome... In other words they are being discluded/discriminated based on race...
I'm saying everyone is welcome in either of these places you just adjust your expectations accordingly. If I went to a bbw night I would not be turned away or unwelcome but based on my size 8/10 I wouldn't expect the men/women in attendance to really fancy/play with me. the same goes if a single white guy goes to a BMFC event he would be welcomed on a social level but couldn't really expect any of the women there to play with him. "
The bbw may want to play with smaller women, whereas white males are told no one will be interested... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well they would be at mine ... Its not a bmfc its a wnfc or bwfc |
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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago
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What's the problem with your idea? If you want to give it a go crack on. My suggestion would be that you investigate things first and maybe research the BMFC idea. I have previously read misconceptions about the events.
I've attended with white mates before and they enjoyed the vibe and played as well. It is welcoming to all really. I think the benefit is for the women, who probably like OP and her contacts have a preference for what may hard to find! I love the mix of all colours, the music and the relaxed feel. Should you be able to entice the women of different races to your event it would be great for all concerned. Remember accompanying the women who are engaging with the men are husbands, partners and buddies. These people also add to the experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not into black men. Not racist, I meet all cultures through my jobs. WMFC sounds interesting but I bet it wouldn't be in my area lol. Anyway, Ive never been to any club, but am toying with the idea of Paradise Spa in Bournemouth. I know, not a club but a suggestion today from a new friend. Off thread I know, sorry,  but am a little nervous. Ive checked it out.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hun u be ok its always the first step into a club that gets u ....i still get like it |
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over a year ago
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This thread baffles me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes i know thats what im looking at .....and i want more single males as well |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I think the thing that doesn't always get noticed in BMFC type threads is that not all black guys like the BMFC "gimmick"..... and that it probably turns off as many as like it...
some people use it to their advantage, but it is a double edged sword and they are normally the first people to play the race card.......
some shy away from it, and some are me vocal than others (yep me... lol)
i'd always like to think of myself as an individual based on my own merits rather than the colour of my skin...
judge me on the things I can control!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know a lot of white guys that love the music as well as the women ...just like the bmfc ...... Its getting the right balance i might go to one of the bmfc ...
I know eurekas have one this friday ....couple of my friends love the bmfc but do say there should be one for wmfc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this "
Sounds good can I join lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wouldnt do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do we get a members badge and stickers? Lol! Great idea! There's clubs for everything else! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you will find that white people are in attendance at BMFC events and welcomed its just that a white man shouldn't expect to play anymore then a straight man in gay club would expect to pull. No one is unwelcome to either place just know what to expect.
I think you'll find single guys would be more then welcome in a gay bar. Lesbian bar less so, which is the comparison that you were probably looking for. But basically in a nut shell they can go but aren't really wanted or welcome... In other words they are being discluded/discriminated based on race...
I'm saying everyone is welcome in either of these places you just adjust your expectations accordingly. If I went to a bbw night I would not be turned away or unwelcome but based on my size 8/10 I wouldn't expect the men/women in attendance to really fancy/play with me. the same goes if a single white guy goes to a BMFC event he would be welcomed on a social level but couldn't really expect any of the women there to play with him.
The bbw may want to play with smaller women, whereas white males are told no one will be interested..."
How do you know that is said or that a bbw would play with a smaller woman I'm guessing that the odds on that are the same as a white man playing at a BMFC event. If there is a call for it which there quite obviously is the same as other themes nights how can you shoot someone down for their preference. We would not attend a bi night as Silk is not bisexual i wouldn't say that night was discriminating against straight people I just know to attend on a different night for fun.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol im still looking into it but i can see it being stickers first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No reason not to have a wmfc but they would need to be aware of what would be expected of them .
BMFC are exactly what they say they are .... The guys are there to give the girls exactly what they want , and invariably do .
All shapes , sizes and ages and with equal enthusiasm .
Fair play to them and the girls as the nights are well attended and enjoyed by all .
Would an exclusive White guy night be the same ?
I don't know as horny porny nights which are mainly White guys with a few black guys, seem to be more about the girls trying to get to the black guys !
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mmmmmm im thinking .. . Lol |
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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago
Here, There & Everywhere |
"How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this "
I feel so sorry that your initial question has been hijacked and i wish you luck with your venture
Feel free to email me if you want to ask me any questions about how i set up the BMFC but trust me, you could be on the start of a very rocky road
I am happy to let everyone here know the history of the BMFC, why i set it up and how i set it up but i doubt the majority of people here will be interested ...
But i can assure you that over 8 years ago (when i organised the first BMFC party) there were very few (if any) Black Guys in the swingers clubs that i attended
Thats why i set up the BMFC!!
And 8 years on i have over 15000 members,
Organise 7 parties each month - in 7 different venues across the UK,
And have an average of 600 guests attend the parties every month
No one is forced to attend a BMFC - its all about that magic word - PREFERENCE
And by the way, these days, its the venues that contact ME to host parties, not vice versa ...
And for the record, i have NEVER refused admission to ANYONE based on the colour of their skin (but i HAVE refused admission for other reasons, being too d*unk, unsuitably dressed, not being on the guest list)
I feel it is important to make non Black guys aware that the ladies who attend our parties do so because they are predominantly attracted to Black Guys, so they may not get much attention
I do that as my main concern is that guests get value for money and that they manage their expectations
It would be totally wrong for me to accept non Black Guys to a BMFC party without making them aware of the ladies preference, as they may possibly feel duped if they did not 'lucky' on the night!!
I am totally aware that the BMFC is not for everyone but my intentions are not and never have been to exclude ANYONE from attending
BMFC parties are well attended, sociable events where the dance-floor is always rammed, the social areas are always buzzing and the play rooms are usually busy!!
If anyone has any BMFC related questions, PLEASE feel free to contact me and i will happily discuss either in private or on here
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ive met u before at eurekas ...i be willing to met up with you ...to have a chat |
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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago
Here, There & Everywhere |
"Ive met u before at eurekas ...i be willing to met up with you ...to have a chat "
Feel free to contact me to arrange |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Will do .....hun ...... |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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I do agree with complex mister though, most clubs are predominately white anyhow.
Best of luck though if you decide to set one up x |
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"Hun u be ok its always the first step into a club that gets u ....i still get like it "
Thank you. Just realised I named the place in Bournemouth . Total accident on my part sorry. Im thinking if I don't go soon, I wont go at all, bonus that ive been asked to go with a nice guy who is going to be patient with me, judging by what he said. |
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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago
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"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out "
Not all woman are white at the BMFC quite a lot of black girls too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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U should try eurekas if u can drive ....excellent place to go to and its relaxing as well open all day and evening |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well im in talks with the director of bmfc..we see .... |
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over a year ago
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"Wmfc is pretty much going to any club night which is not BMFC as any night we have attended Silk has been pretty much the only black guy in attendance so don't think there would be as much call for it. I would never go to a normal club night looking for a black guy as I know over 90% of the men there would be white.
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"How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this
I feel so sorry that your initial question has been hijacked and i wish you luck with your venture
Feel free to email me if you want to ask me any questions about how i set up the BMFC but trust me, you could be on the start of a very rocky road
I am happy to let everyone here know the history of the BMFC, why i set it up and how i set it up but i doubt the majority of people here will be interested ...
But i can assure you that over 8 years ago (when i organised the first BMFC party) there were very few (if any) Black Guys in the swingers clubs that i attended
Thats why i set up the BMFC!!
And 8 years on i have over 15000 members,
Organise 7 parties each month - in 7 different venues across the UK,
And have an average of 600 guests attend the parties every month
No one is forced to attend a BMFC - its all about that magic word - PREFERENCE
And by the way, these days, its the venues that contact ME to host parties, not vice versa ...
And for the record, i have NEVER refused admission to ANYONE based on the colour of their skin (but i HAVE refused admission for other reasons, being too d*unk, unsuitably dressed, not being on the guest list)
I feel it is important to make non Black guys aware that the ladies who attend our parties do so because they are predominantly attracted to Black Guys, so they may not get much attention
I do that as my main concern is that guests get value for money and that they manage their expectations
It would be totally wrong for me to accept non Black Guys to a BMFC party without making them aware of the ladies preference, as they may possibly feel duped if they did not 'lucky' on the night!!
I am totally aware that the BMFC is not for everyone but my intentions are not and never have been to exclude ANYONE from attending
BMFC parties are well attended, sociable events where the dance-floor is always rammed, the social areas are always buzzing and the play rooms are usually busy!!
If anyone has any BMFC related questions, PLEASE feel free to contact me and i will happily discuss either in private or on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would it be easier to set up a nwwfc. There are plenty of white guys who adore black and mixed race women and you would get to take your pick.
I understand some peoples comments about clubs crammed with white guys already, which is why I think it makes more sense to try tempting non white women into clubs knowing that the men and couples would be there to adore them.
Just my humble opinion!
I would join a bwfc or nwwfc if they existed, and put my name in for wmfc too. Anything that gets people closer to the people they desire is a good thing surely. Any suggestion of racism is silly though, black guys can be fans of white guys too! Why would a club turn them away.
Sweetashoney, I am surprised you find it a challenge to pull guys, white or otherwise! Plenty of white women ask for white males to jog on, have you and your friends tried the same? |
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"I think the thing that doesn't always get noticed in BMFC type threads is that not all black guys like the BMFC "gimmick"..... and that it probably turns off as many as like it...
some people use it to their advantage, but it is a double edged sword and they are normally the first people to play the race card.......
some shy away from it, and some are me vocal than others (yep me... lol)
i'd always like to think of myself as an individual based on my own merits rather than the colour of my skin...
judge me on the things I can control!!!
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good post if were going to all get on and live happily alongside one another these barriers shouldnt be put up to prove that were not all actually the same. Its the same as the afro carribean/african tag at what point does someone become a british bloke/girl that happens to have black skin. Imo we,ll never move on as far as racism goes aslong as a big deal about a persons skin colour is made an if you accept people are gonna promote liking someone based purely on skin colour bmfc/wmfc then your gonna have people not liking you for the same reasons. I think what im trying to say is skin colour shouldnt be used to help decide whether you like or dislike someone at all it should be irrellevent. |
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"Lol true but i just want to get a fed back ....i know women who go to bmfc they are white ....im black but it just finding out I wouldnt have a problem with it but the blackmans fan clubs would not deny a white guy attending so it would not be a good idea to stop a guy coming in as he is not white. Also when you say white did you mean to include italian german spanish?? Or uk british white?
Do BMFC's have rules on what region of the world the man has to be from to be included ? ;o
odd world we live in.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No we want the white guys thats the problem .....lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree with u ...everyone has a choice |
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"Most my mates are white might feel left out if I can't get in lol But the truth is I wouldn't go to a Bmfc as its called just like I don't go to main stream clubs that are mainly for black people ! Was born and bread in the UK so I want to socialise with people I've grown or meet on my travels as long as I get on with them whatever racial background they might be from . Just the way my parents brought me up and what I think is the right way but can see why a white person would be pissed of because if it was a wmfc it would be reported on the NEWS AT TEN "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My mother brought me up the same this
Is about people choice and preferences ... And havin a good time along the way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its not about racism so please can we stop bringing this up ....its about again peoples choices and preferences and having a good time along the way |
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"I think the thing that doesn't always get noticed in BMFC type threads is that not all black guys like the BMFC "gimmick"..... and that it probably turns off as many as like it...
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I think it does get noticed a fair bit but as the lady who created the BMFC has said after 8 years she has over 15000 members and Organises 7 parties each month all across the UK with an average of 600 guests every month.
It's a bloody good job some guys are put off or she'd never cope! |
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"I think what im trying to say is skin colour shouldnt be used to help decide whether you like or dislike someone at all it should be irrellevent. "
Its a long thread so I may have missed it but has anyone said on here that they dislike someone because of their skin colour?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please make this happen :P it's not racist, not in the slightest- as said before its about preference! Oh and that I would love to get in OP's pants |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol |
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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can we just say sod to colour and just have a NMFC - Nice Mans Fan Club!
skin is just a colour, surely it is the person etc that matters? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There is not really a need for a club night filled with white men. However, there is clearly a need for a club night where white men can meet non-white women. I'm sure there is a big market for it. I don't think its really comparable to the BMFC. What is needed is a night where only black women and only white guys would attend. A black and white lovers night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is needed is a night where only black women and only white guys would attend. A black and white lovers night."
So, a black woman couldn't actually bring her black partner to this club night of yours?
Maybe you should give this a few more seconds thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can JT be the president of it |
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over a year ago
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"What is needed is a night where only black women and only white guys would attend. A black and white lovers night.
So, a black woman couldn't actually bring her black partner to this club night of yours?
Maybe you should give this a few more seconds thought."
She could take her partner anwhere she likes. But I guess the idea is that this night is for black women and white men who want to meet each other. I don't see what is wrong with people with similar interests getting together, do you? |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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Swinging is about exploring your tastes and preferences - if peole with common preferences want to create a group that enables them do that.. so be it!
It doesn't matter if it celebrates "black", "bbw", "couples", "shed lovers", "pvc, leather and lycra", "tattoo fans" or whatever.. so absolutely no reason why a "group that celebrates white men" cannot exist.
The key is not to put down an opposing group but rather to celebrate the preference - I know groups that celebrate the "body beautifuls" (ie, no women over size 14) - their choice.
Its not about discrimination.. or else I'd have taken issue with all those "couples only - no single male!" groups! |
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We would be totally up for going, as I am really into white men (I am black)
We don't go to BMFC as there is nothing for either of us there. We went to a similar event run by someone else once, and people were actually really rude to us, and Alex, being the chatty guy he is, was friendly as per normal, and the women looked at him as if to say 'what the fuck are you doing here...' as it happens we went to see the club owner about something unrelated.
Personally I think it would be great if there was an ethnic womens fan club, be interesting to see who wanted to go to that.... hopefully lots of pretty white girls, and good looking guys, as both would be fine with me. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"We would be totally up for going, as I am really into white men (I am black)
We don't go to BMFC as there is nothing for either of us there. We went to a similar event run by someone else once, and people were actually really rude to us, and Alex, being the chatty guy he is, was friendly as per normal, and the women looked at him as if to say 'what the fuck are you doing here...' as it happens we went to see the club owner about something unrelated.
Personally I think it would be great if there was an ethnic womens fan club, be interesting to see who wanted to go to that.... hopefully lots of pretty white girls, and good looking guys, as both would be fine with me."
I'm all for Latino Women if there are enough of that community on the scene (I can't help it.. love the way they move on the dance floor |
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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago
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"Swinging is about exploring your tastes and preferences - if peole with common preferences want to create a group that enables them do that.. so be it!
It doesn't matter if it celebrates "black", "bbw", "couples", "shed lovers", "pvc, leather and lycra", "tattoo fans" or whatever.. so absolutely no reason why a "group that celebrates white men" cannot exist.
The key is not to put down an opposing group but rather to celebrate the preference - I know groups that celebrate the "body beautifuls" (ie, no women over size 14) - their choice.
Its not about discrimination.. or else I'd have taken issue with all those "couples only - no single male!" groups! "
top post mate and so true its all bout preference and nothing else and we would defo love a bwfc up north somewhere please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thats what i thought |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol thats what i am doing .... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is not really a need for a club night filled with white men. However, there is clearly a need for a club night where white men can meet non-white women. I'm sure there is a big market for it. I don't think its really comparable to the BMFC. What is needed is a night where only black women and only white guys would attend. A black and white lovers night."
This is what i want to do ....i did say this
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We would be totally up for going, as I am really into white men (I am black)
We don't go to BMFC as there is nothing for either of us there. We went to a similar event run by someone else once, and people were actually really rude to us, and Alex, being the chatty guy he is, was friendly as per normal, and the women looked at him as if to say 'what the fuck are you doing here...' as it happens we went to see the club owner about something unrelated.
Personally I think it would be great if there was an ethnic womens fan club, be interesting to see who wanted to go to that.... hopefully lots of pretty white girls, and good looking guys, as both would be fine with me."
Thats what i thought been thinkin about it for awhile now ..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Swinging is about exploring your tastes and preferences - if peole with common preferences want to create a group that enables them do that.. so be it!
It doesn't matter if it celebrates "black", "bbw", "couples", "shed lovers", "pvc, leather and lycra", "tattoo fans" or whatever.. so absolutely no reason why a "group that celebrates white men" cannot exist.
The key is not to put down an opposing group but rather to celebrate the preference - I know groups that celebrate the "body beautifuls" (ie, no women over size 14) - their choice.
Its not about discrimination.. or else I'd have taken issue with all those "couples only - no single male!" groups!
top post mate and so true its all bout preference and nothing else and we would defo love a bwfc up north somewhere please "
Ok lets see how it kicks off ... |
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"Swinging is about exploring your tastes and preferences - if peole with common preferences want to create a group that enables them do that.. so be it!
It doesn't matter if it celebrates "black", "bbw", "couples", "shed lovers", "pvc, leather and lycra", "tattoo fans" or whatever.. so absolutely no reason why a "group that celebrates white men" cannot exist.
The key is not to put down an opposing group but rather to celebrate the preference - I know groups that celebrate the "body beautifuls" (ie, no women over size 14) - their choice.
Its not about discrimination.. or else I'd have taken issue with all those "couples only - no single male!" groups!
top post mate and so true its all bout preference and nothing else and we would defo love a bwfc up north somewhere please
Ok lets see how it kicks off ... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this "
What about a real man fan club, women looking for rugged guys with stubble and chest hair! We dont all smell funny! |
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"what we have found in the swinging world is there is no bigotry, you lot are the most accepting bunch of people on the planet.
everyone seems really chilled in our experience. when we are in clubs people can go "we are into this..." and everyone goes nice one, and everyone just gets on with
so if you want black, white, straight, bi, tv/ts, whatever go luck to you "
here here we are human beings and we should treat others as we expect to be treated ourselves |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"How do people feel about a white mans fan club social starting up..... lets see how many women want this
What about a real man fan club, women looking for rugged guys with stubble and chest hair! We dont all smell funny!"
What? you mean lumberjack build complete with mountain hair and dungarees? |
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We are seriously considering running an Ethnic Women's fanclub... open to anyone, men or women, who are fans of women of differing ethnicities.
You know how we are when we putting our mind to something. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"We are seriously considering running an Ethnic Women's fanclub... open to anyone, men or women, who are fans of women of differing ethnicities.
You know how we are when we putting our mind to something."
Just be sure you don't get backlash from any women who may not be ethnic feeling discriminated against - there's always one |
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But they wouldn't be, persumably they would like to go if they like ethnic women, which alot of bi girls do... same reason white girls go to BMFC. |
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"But they wouldn't be, persumably they would like to go if they like ethnic women, which alot of bi girls do... same reason white girls go to BMFC. "
Hold on there, I go to interracial parties to play with black men not other women and Im bi....... Im sure most of the women that attend this type of party will agree with me. that they attend interracial parties like EWS and BMFC to meet "Black men" would be a bit upset if what was in the tin didn't match the label
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But they wouldn't be, persumably they would like to go if they like ethnic women, which alot of bi girls do... same reason white girls go to BMFC.
Hold on there, I go to interracial parties to play with black men not other women and Im bi....... Im sure most of the women that attend this type of party will agree with me. that they attend interracial parties like EWS and BMFC to meet "Black men" would be a bit upset if what was in the tin didn't match the label
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Thats why i want a group where black women who like to play with white guys
And i bet there are lots that would love it im now getting feedback from here and other sites and meet a few couples that are interested ......
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"But they wouldn't be, persumably they would like to go if they like ethnic women, which alot of bi girls do... same reason white girls go to BMFC.
Hold on there, I go to interracial parties to play with black men not other women and Im bi....... Im sure most of the women that attend this type of party will agree with me. that they attend interracial parties like EWS and BMFC to meet "Black men" would be a bit upset if what was in the tin didn't match the label
Thats why i want to start a group where black women who like to play with white guys
And i bet there are lots that would love it im now getting feedback from here and other sites and meet a few couples that are interested ......
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And i will be doing a social in one of the clubs ......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What is needed is a night where only black women and only white guys would attend. A black and white lovers night.
So, a black woman couldn't actually bring her black partner to this club night of yours?
Maybe you should give this a few more seconds thought.
She could take her partner anwhere she likes. But I guess the idea is that this night is for black women and white men who want to meet each other. I don't see what is wrong with people with similar interests getting together, do you? "
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"We are seriously considering running an Ethnic Women's fanclub... open to anyone, men or women, who are fans of women of differing ethnicities.
You know how we are when we putting our mind to something."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually, everyone has an ethnic origin |
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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago
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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago
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good question I think it covers black African and carribean as there is not really any other black category and in this country its a minority, including mixed race? That's confusing as my dads nan was half chinese. How about a fuk a human if you fancy fan club??? just a thought.
Well there are as many different "types" of African black men as there are European white males, a north African man is quite different to a West African and indeed different to a South African, hell even tribe to tribe there are some differences in appearance, just as much if not more so than the variations in white men across Europe and the world.
I'm all for people being able to screw what they want, but I hope you're just as prevalent on the BMFC threads with this attitude as on other threads
most definatly am as I dont like the idea of someone wanting to fuk me because im black and d is white. We are much more than just a colour. We just live and let live keep it simple and was expressing an opinion on the topic."
Just looked at your thread history and can't find any BMFC threads that you've posted on. Mmmmm..... |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"But they wouldn't be, persumably they would like to go if they like ethnic women, which alot of bi girls do... same reason white girls go to BMFC.
Hold on there, I go to interracial parties to play with black men not other women and Im bi....... Im sure most of the women that attend this type of party will agree with me. that they attend interracial parties like EWS and BMFC to meet "Black men" would be a bit upset if what was in the tin didn't match the label
Thats why i want to start a group where black women who like to play with white guys
And i bet there are lots that would love it im now getting feedback from here and other sites and meet a few couples that are interested ......
And i will be doing a social in one of the clubs ......
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Just so I understand, is it more of a WMFC, where its women (black or otherwise) seeking white men, or is it BWFC (men, preferably white, seeking black women)?
Or is it white men seeking black women? Some might say "whats the difference", I'm asking purely which preference is being celebrated as it adds to how the social/party will be advertised (which can be very different ways depending). |
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