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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We’re hoping to try Club F soon...
S is apprehensive about showing her face close to home...is it acceptable for masks to be worn...
Have a little experience of clubs and don’t know how this would go down (ahem)
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I've never been to club f so can't comment on it.
However I wouldn't worry too much about seeing people you know at a club. Lots of people don't visit a club close to home because they worry about being recognized so it is probably more likely you would bump into them further away.
Even if you do see someone you know it's not a big deal. We all value our privacy so it is unlikely you would have people making trouble for you - after all they would be admitting they were there too.
I've bumped into my sister and her husband at clubs and also my uncle and his wife. If it happens we just choose to play in private lockable rooms instead of open areas to save anyone any embarrassment. |
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"We go Clubf & unless it’s a fancy dress party people wouldn’t wear masks & you’d probably feel strange doing it, it’s all relaxed there x
Lou "
This. It's a friendly club and of course you could be there just for a chill and look around if anyone recognises you. You would probably feel awkward and want to take them off after a few minutes once you have got over the initial nerves and relaxed a bit. Bear in mind that others may feel awkward about interacting with you if you did and you may not get the best experience out if it. If someone knows you, they are there for the same thing and the swingers' code of discretion always applies. Would a mask really disguise you from someone you know? Go with the flow and enjoy. Good luck! |
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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago
Here, There & Everywhere |
"We’re hoping to try Club F soon...
S is apprehensive about showing her face close to home...is it acceptable for masks to be worn...
Have a little experience of clubs and don’t know how this would go down (ahem)
D"
Last year, a very nervous couple asked me this question as they wanted to attend one of our London venues, and i gave them my honest advice
"If guests wish to wear masks at a non masquerade party, they may, but they will probably attract a lot of attention for all the wrong reasons"
They attended the party - and both wore very ornate masks - however it was so obvious that everyone was staring at them, loads even came to me asking 'are they famous/"
Guests didn't approach them as they gave off the impression that they wanted to be segregated
They also caused confusion amongst some guests who then wondered if they had missed the announcement that it was a Masquerade Party!
Everyone will totally appreciate that you are apprehensive about attending and seeing someone who knows you
Its the biggest concern for most newbies, but rest assured you are in VERY SAFE hands when you go to Club F
Their team will tale care of you and ensure you are comfortable and the other guests will welcome you with open arms
Remember, everyone is there for the same reason - they are all adults who choose an alternative lifestyle
Go to the club, take your masks, but hopefully you will soon realise that there's no need for them
Then once you have put them safely in your locker you can relax, chat, meet new friends and soak up the atmosphere |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I might start going to clubs in a balaclava so no one knows who I am."
tried that.... my hands were a giveaway... and the accent.....
wearing it in the hottub was just a bit too weird.... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"We’re hoping to try Club F soon...
S is apprehensive about showing her face close to home...is it acceptable for masks to be worn...
Have a little experience of clubs and don’t know how this would go down (ahem)
D"
as the people above have said, it would probably attract more attention than temper it down.......
I always said that if you meet people you know in clubs it will go one of two ways...
1) you'll all just laugh it off... and giggle that you have something in common
2) they will be as terrified as you.... for about 5 minutes, then when you all realise you are all adults... you'll all laugh it off.....
besides club f is big enough that if you don't want to encounter certain people in positions you don't want to see them in, there are many other places in the club to have ya fun.....
you'll be fine, people will say hello, and after about 5 minutes you'll wonder what all the fuss is about..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I might start going to clubs in a balaclava so no one knows who I am.
tried that.... my hands were a giveaway... and the accent.....
wearing it in the hottub was just a bit too weird.... "
It would have been fine if you had used a snorkel as well ... |
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