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"We agree x do like a single guy or two "
...as do we. Please single guys, dress to impress, smell good, smile, talk to us and don’t just assume you are guaranteed a shag. If all of this sounds like you, then happy days, please!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm thinking of going to start clubs but I was wandering in you're experience how are single guys viewed and also is it best to arrive with other people or not? Much appreciate you're help if you can  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately quite often there are too many single guys and their behaviour can be most off putting! "
men misbehave no more than single women ? and some couples aint saints either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately quite often there are too many single guys and their behaviour can be most off putting!
men misbehave no more than single women ? and some couples aint saints either"
Well the ladies don't tend to follow you around wanking  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Unfortunately quite often there are too many single guys and their behaviour can be most off putting!
men misbehave no more than single women ? and some couples aint saints either"
Yeah but they are higher up in the hierarchy and get cut a lot more slack. |
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"Unfortunately quite often there are too many single guys and their behaviour can be most off putting! "
I agree, most of the times I have been to clubs there have been the zombies getting far too close to a couple without any invitation. Spoiling it I should imagine for the couple and me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately quite often there are too many single guys and their behaviour can be most off putting!
men misbehave no more than single women ? and some couples aint saints either
Well the ladies don't tend to follow you around wanking "
no they just pester thinking they can do as they like whiles being pissed as a wet fart  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"clubs do not work without single guys, can't get enough, pity most of them stand around and don't interact if they did they would enjoy the fun much more xx"
Problem is that a lot of guys who to go clubs, couldn't pull in a brothel.
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
In London I feel it’s a catch 22 situation we have two clubs Le Boudoir and OP4F which require you to apply for membership and then be accepted.On
one side it’s good because if a couple have a problem with a single guy and the management are made aware then they can cancel his membership the other side if there were no membership procedures then potentially you could get a load of idiots turning up after having a few drinks expecting to have sex with the ladies just because they are swingers which is what sometimes happens at Rios spa. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"We always like mixed sex nights at clubs much more erotic than couples only nights providing the males are well behaved and respectful.
And actually talk "
Couples can talk to men though too if they're interested. It can be intimating approaching couples, especially when the guys nickname is tank. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well here's my take on it.
If they didnt have couples only nights the single men would be spread over a couple of nights.
Currently you need to book in advance to get in most clubs that limits the type of person
If a club has lots of blokes it allows more choice and the less desirable guys soon realise/learn to up their game or be alone,its called self regulation. I cant be bothered with the application process for some clubs and I'm sure other single guys are the same. As a couple you can just turn up at most clubs.
Often the couples night is saturday the busiest night of the week hold couples night on friday and saturday would still be the busiest night.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"clubs do not work without single guys, can't get enough, pity most of them stand around and don't interact if they did they would enjoy the fun much more xx"
Indeed, the revenue they bring in helps. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
So few clubs will allow single men on a Saturday, and those that do require pre-booking. Then there's the cost, which while understood is a factor.
The reality is that I'm better off going as a couple with a single female, as and when I can persuade one. |
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
Filthy Desires Upon Trent |
We too like to play with Single Guys in Clubs. However, please don’t be a Letch. Please smell good. Please come talk to us with reasonable conversation. And finally. Please don’t come to Clubs dressed in Jogging Bottoms and a dirty pullover with half a Kebab down the front as basically, ITS NOT SEXY.
Phew. That just came out  xx |
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As a couple surely our preferences matter, we like to play in open areas without groups of men standing over us hence couples nights our preference. Not all clubs have couples nights, surely its up to oneself to choose what club & night feels comfortable to your needs. |
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"So few clubs will allow single men on a Saturday, and those that do require pre-booking. Then there's the cost, which while understood is a factor.
The reality is that I'm better off going as a couple with a single female, as and when I can persuade one."
Or have a pre-arranged meet with a lady inside  |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
West Devon |
Really difficult one to answer....
It all boils down to individuals...if you are a couple and only want to meet other couples, then don’t go on a club when single guys are allowed, or straight away you will find something to moan about. Or go to Clubs that have couples only areas.
Clubs should reduce their fees for single guys.
How can they realistically impose on how many guys are allowed in, if they have no idea how many Couples will be going on any given night, or greedy girl / MILF events?
Guys try not to hunt in packs, it is very off putting following a female every time she goes to the loo, believing she is off to the playrooms.
If you see a couple or a woman you like, smile, or strike up a conversation in the social area before hand. Most couples will give you a sign inviting you to join in.
If you like watching do it from a discreet distance, not 6” from the woman’s face cock in hand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with the OP, it would be nice to see more of the right kind of single man at clubs. It doesn’t take much to stand out from the wanking zombies, at least two posts above have mentioned the basics. For me nights with single men in the mix have a more lively vibe than couples only nights.
Posted about exactly this topic a couple of weeks ago - we need more civilised fabbers in clubs to outcompete the ignorant key rattlers. I don’t think the key rattlers are on Fab generally, which is why they think the women in clubs are free prostitutes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bit tricky for single guys
Often it seems like being punished for being single
When all is really being offered is to bring some fun like everyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've thinking about going to a club but I have some worries about rules, how it works or how to interact, because the last think I want is to disturb a couple when they are having a good time.
But probably the best is just be natural, don't expect much and try to meet people as normal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've thinking about going to a club but I have some worries about rules, how it works or how to interact, because the last think I want is to disturb a couple when they are having a good time.
But probably the best is just be natural, don't expect much and try to meet people as normal"
Talk to people in the bar area BEFORE they are playing and make it clear you’re enjoying the chat, don’t exchange three words then ask ‘Do you want to play?’. If you bump into people in the playrooms and you like the look of them just ask if they’re looking for a man to join them. Don’t stalk them without asking. If they are playing and you watch from a respectful distance (for the socially challenged that is NOT with your cock dangling over her face) they will catch your eye if they want you to join in. As you say, it’s common sense really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lowering entry prices for men might help this....
You've obviously never looked at BMFC admission prices
One of our parties is just £20 for Single Guys "
Ok that’s much cheaper than most places |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lowering entry prices for men might help this....
You've obviously never looked at BMFC admission prices
One of our parties is just £20 for Single Guys "
I can verify that this lady is right, her nights are top quality and offer great playing potential for both single guys and the couples/single ladies that appreciate them.
Personally I like the lack of quality single guys at most clubs, less competition |
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"Go to Chams! Be enough there x
Yep never a shortage there, like previously said 90 passed through the door last Friday!"
We are the same single guys have every other day apart from Saturdays at the clubs we use an that's why we only go on Saturdays
We prefer to just be around other couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are the same single guys have every other day apart from Saturdays at the clubs we use an that's why we only go on Saturdays
We prefer to just be around other couples "
Conversely couples can go every night. I am experienced as a couple too and never had trouble with single guys. Its easy to say no thanks.
Most clubs have couple only rooms or lockable rooms.
Its the clubs which are at fault if single guys were always allowed it would self regulate (survival of fittest/natural selection). |
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"Agree with the OP, it would be nice to see more of the right kind of single man at clubs. It doesn’t take much to stand out from the wanking zombies, at least two posts above have mentioned the basics. For me nights with single men in the mix have a more lively vibe than couples only nights.
Posted about exactly this topic a couple of weeks ago - we need more civilised fabbers in clubs to outcompete the ignorant key rattlers. I don’t think the key rattlers are on Fab generally, which is why they think the women in clubs are free prostitutes."
I’m looking forward to seeing the view from a couple’s side of the fence soon, and interested if I’m more noticeable as part of a couple, than a lowly single male........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m looking forward to seeing the view from a couple’s side of the fence soon, and interested if I’m more noticeable as part of a couple, than a lowly single male........"
Listen to the song by train...everybody calls me sir.
Must have been written about swingers clubs.
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I do agree that the arrangement most clubs have of being "couples only" Saturday nights and a free for all Friday nights does exclude those that can only make one of those nights each weekend.
Who would like to see a club try "couples only" weekends and whole weekends that allow single guys in as a more accommodating way to split it? |
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I’m looking forward to seeing the view from a couple’s side of the fence soon, and interested if I’m more noticeable as part of a couple, than a lowly single male........
Listen to the song by train...everybody calls me sir.
Must have been written about swingers clubs.
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Good shout my man! |
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Im a single guy, and there have been a couple of nights where it feels like there are a lot of us. I hate looking and feeling like a lurker so will usually avoid the play areas if its getting a bit 'single maley'. I guess the onus is on the club to manage its guest list, and hope they dont get many no-shows. |
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Unfortunately our experience with single guys hasn’t been great. Too often the ratio seems to be out of whack and it’s really off putting to be surrounded by a bunch of uninvited single guys wanking within touching distance. Even worse when you tell them
to go & they don’t. I wouldn’t mind if there were well policed singles areas within clubs, so you have the option to get away if it gets too much or to go and play with one (or a few) of them.
So yes, after a couple of such experiences, we do like the option of going to a couples only night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am looking a doing some clubs after Xmas at some point,am not the type to follow and badger any ladies or couples,I would normally wait to see if I get any interest etc but going on my own would find difficult so might try and hook up first with someone as I imagine it would be easier,but hey am a total novice with clubs,anyway have a good Xmas everyone. |
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"I've thinking about going to a club but I have some worries about rules, how it works or how to interact, because the last think I want is to disturb a couple when they are having a good time.
But probably the best is just be natural, don't expect much and try to meet people as normal
Talk to people in the bar area BEFORE they are playing and make it clear you’re enjoying the chat, don’t exchange three words then ask ‘Do you want to play?’. If you bump into people in the playrooms and you like the look of them just ask if they’re looking for a man to join them. Don’t stalk them without asking. If they are playing and you watch from a respectful distance (for the socially challenged that is NOT with your cock dangling over her face) they will catch your eye if they want you to join in. As you say, it’s common sense really."
We could not have put it better ourselves, except to add unfortunately common sense is not that common! When the nights go as you have expressed they can be epic for all involved. We have had many horny nights with great single guys in clubs that follow your simple advice......... plus find increasing numbers of guys that follow it.
More guys, especially on a Saturday would get us in the clubs more often ???? |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I've thinking about going to a club but I have some worries about rules, how it works or how to interact, because the last think I want is to disturb a couple when they are having a good time.
But probably the best is just be natural, don't expect much and try to meet people as normal
Talk to people in the bar area BEFORE they are playing and make it clear you’re enjoying the chat, don’t exchange three words then ask ‘Do you want to play?’. If you bump into people in the playrooms and you like the look of them just ask if they’re looking for a man to join them. Don’t stalk them without asking. If they are playing and you watch from a respectful distance (for the socially challenged that is NOT with your cock dangling over her face) they will catch your eye if they want you to join in. As you say, it’s common sense really.
We could not have put it better ourselves, except to add unfortunately common sense is not that common! When the nights go as you have expressed they can be epic for all involved. We have had many horny nights with great single guys in clubs that follow your simple advice......... plus find increasing numbers of guys that follow it.
More guys, especially on a Saturday would get us in the clubs more often ????"
It's like Goodfellas though.
Friday is for the gumars and Saturday is for the wife. |
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"Lowering entry prices for men might help this...."
very true how many times can u afford to go to a club each week at 30 to forty quid a pop ..once every two weeks maybe even with a membership..its still a lot ...id love to be able to go at least twice a week .
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