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Polite or rude messages
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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However polite or thoughtful a message is, my hackles are up. I'm almost always short (even if not rude) and deliberately use shit grammar.
Sometimes I might feel bad for a moment if I've been too harsh for a particular person, but there is literally nothing to stop someone being civil or friendly over text and then turn into a sexual assaulter/murderer/psychopath/sociopath/cannibal/blah blah blah down the line
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I prefer polite. If someone just says "wanna fuck" they are instantly deleted.
I had a particularly offensive one this week calling me a slag and saying they wanted to sniff off my tits and would give me £100 for it that was their opening message to me and they had only been on the site for 10 mins!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer polite. If someone just says "wanna fuck" they are instantly deleted.
I had a particularly offensive one this week calling me a slag and saying they wanted to sniff off my tits and would give me £100 for it that was their opening message to me and they had only been on the site for 10 mins! "
WOW.
I didn't clock this thread was about receiving messages. Makes surprisingly few odds to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a tough one but I’d suggest just be yourself when sending messages so if you are a polite person send a polite message. And if you are a flithly dirt bag then send a dirty message because we are all different and as such different things float our boats.
Personally if we get a I want to suck your tits message then I reply and delete so my wife doesn’t even read it.
Stay frosty and best of luck on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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talk to people like you would in a pub or any other social situation. Swinging and shagging are different. If people don’t think you are respectful they will look elsewhere. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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"From our experience about 80% are one line, grammatical messes.
10% rude.
10% polite and attention grabbing."
And even with a polite well constructed message it's still quite a rarity to get a response...even a no thanks.. |
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I laways try be polite comment on there pics tell them.bit about my self and read profile first has it can say a lot about a person I try be bit cheeky not two cheeky. But if honest dont get many replays bk x |
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What do you mean by rude? Do you mean rude as in sexual, or rude as in just plain rude? Either way, I don’t want to receive messages like that. If someone’s outright rude (such as calling me a “piece of gash” like one I received) they’re likely to get blocked. If it’s sexual I’ll probably only delete it. But I won’t reply in either case. |
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"talk to people like you would in a pub or any other social situation. Swinging and shagging are different. If people don’t think you are respectful they will look elsewhere. "
I agree with this 
Anything that appears threatening or just vile results in a block |
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I suspect very few ladies on here would appreciate a rude (sexual) message as an opener. This that do will probably say so in their profile.
There's no magic solution to getting a response. Contacting those who might actually be interested and sending a message that shows you have actually read the profile, increases you chance of a response. |
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Hjones is probably right.
I tend to send well constructed, grammatically accurate messages. Always make some reference to something from the profile, at least when possible. Attach 3 or 4 pictures. Offer to send more pictures as I don’t tend to edit the profile much. Still only get an occasional reply. I do appreciate most ladies on this site get inundated, however it doesn’t stop it being a little frustrating  |
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For me .. i like a polite message .. no dick pics ... something that catches my attention .. a dry sense of humor or witticism ...
But everyones different .. i think you can get a hint from peoples profiles as to what they'd respond best to
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