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By (user no longer on site) OP 9 weeks ago
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Hi guys
Going through a stressful time at the min
I have met a lady - she has a partner
We have been messaging meeting fucking for 6 months . She is starting to become slightly less keen as she was before.
She always Called unreal and was so keen .
Last few weeks she has become a little distant and feels pressured to talk about us . All I want to know is what we are and what she feels and thinks
She can’t talk about it — gets upset and it’s causing her anxiety
We still speak all the time - but I am
Getting not as interested vibes -
We were fucking every week now it’s been once in 3
It’s horrible as she won’t talk and calls me needy
All I want to know is where I stand
It’s making me feel so upset as I love her
Any kind advice would be very very Welcome x |
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Seems to me like a she's feeling guilty about doing the dirty behind her fellas back and having second thoughts but at the same time do t want to hurt your feelings. You've had your fun, by all means keep having sex if it's both what you want but I'd be asking myself would I want a relationship or something more with someone I knew cheated on the partner with me? Maybe she just wants sex and that's it. Don't make it more complicated for her. |
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"Seems to me like a she's feeling guilty about doing the dirty behind her fellas back and having second thoughts but at the same time do t want to hurt your feelings. You've had your fun, by all means keep having sex if it's both what you want but I'd be asking myself would I want a relationship or something more with someone I knew cheated on the partner with me? Maybe she just wants sex and that's it. Don't make it more complicated for her. "
Good advise
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I agree with most of the other posters. She needs space. Back off, let her breathe and give her time. Life happens and this place should always be second to that. It’s harsh but that’s the way it is unfortunately. |
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I'd try and leave her to it op.
Maybe she's feeling guilty for cheating on her partner, maybe she's moved on and doesn't know how to tell you.
Let her make the next move, can you really trust her if she's going behind another man's back anyway?. |
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She has a partner and she's telling you by deeds rather than words that she's backing away from you.
Actions, as they say, speak louder than words. Listen to what her actions are saying and preserve your dignity and self esteem |
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