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It’s been a week now ...struggling
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Ok am I to impatient ?
came on this site for obvious reasons and finding it difficult to even get an email back,never mind meeting someone!
I’ve now lowered my expectations to just looking to chat to folk but even that’s difficult , am I doing something wrong?
I’ve been keeping it local, which I thought would be easier for meeting but m
People shut the door when they find out you might be close by.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok am I to impateent ?
came on this site for obvious reasons and finding it difficult to even get an email back,never mind meeting someone!
I’ve now lowered my expectations to just looking to chat to folk but even that’s difficult , am I doing something wrong?
I’ve been keeping it local, which I thought would be easier for meeting but m
People shut the door when they find out you might be close by.
Help a newbie"
impatence effects lots of people dont worry your little head  |
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"Ok am I to impatient ?
came on this site for obvious reasons and finding it difficult to even get an email back,never mind meeting someone!
I’ve now lowered my expectations to just looking to chat to folk but even that’s difficult , am I doing something wrong?
I’ve been keeping it local, which I thought would be easier for meeting but m
People shut the door when they find out you might be close by.
Help a newbie"
A week?????????
It takes some blokes 6 months to get a social coffee, let alone swapping spit.....
Patience, perseverance, politeness, positivity, careful selection and no petulance.
Thems the formulas...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok am I to impatient ?
came on this site for obvious reasons and finding it difficult to even get an email back,never mind meeting someone!
I’ve now lowered my expectations to just looking to chat to folk but even that’s difficult , am I doing something wrong?
I’ve been keeping it local, which I thought would be easier for meeting but m
People shut the door when they find out you might be close by.
Help a newbie"
What a needy chap your picture is very off putting maybe why |
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A week?
Yes, you are being far too impatient OP.
What you need to realise is there are far more single men on fab than single ladies and couples. In my area the ratio is at least 10-1, depending on your age group and it can be much higher. Imagine the people of fab to be similar to the crowd at a football match, only instead of watching a match all the fellas are hoping the handful of ladies there will decide they want to fuck him and not one of the thousands of others.
What are you doing OP to stand out from the crowd? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow one week and you expected to be knee deep in Pussy..welcome to the swinging world and Fab..your dreams will soon be shattered into many little pieces I'm afraid... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others said, a week for a single guy on Fab is nothing. At least you have a profile that, in my opinion, reads very well and makes you stand out. Your profile picture is not doing you any favours though. I can see that you were trying to go for funny/catchy, but balancing a toy frog on your cock as a profile pic- not many people's cup of tea. Keep it for friends only. But do use the frog for other, more teasing shots. Maybe wear a shirt and get it to sit on your shoulder?
Patience, OP, and good luck. |
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"Yep, single men can go weeks without mail back, plus having a dick pic profile picture does not help
Exactly this x "
Plus as others have said, with it being a week, you are impatient.. if you're impatient, try going to a bar/club.. hedge your bets there
only a suggestion.. |
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Singing with the choir here - definitely impatient; cock pic probably not helping; go to a club instead for better chances. Also adding a verse of roaden your search - I don't like chatting to anyone nearby and wouldn't swap face pics, nevermind meet. I don't need an uncomfortable moment running in to someone in tesco
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ok guys
thanks for keeping it positive,
i,ll take it all on board....
i thought the pic was just a bit different
but now realise its still a cock pic, doesnt matter how you dress it up.
on the positive side again ive got 2 emails so will follow this up.
thanks for taking the time to keep a newbie right  |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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What are you doing OP to stand out from the crowd?
Balancing a toy frog on his cock !
You know what they say? You gotta meet alot of frogs"
Is somebody croaking on about something perchance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should have been knee deep in clunge after a whole week.
To be fair, I had 2 meets in my first week. Socials, but I'm still calling it a fucking win. "
I'd call that a mega fucking win. |
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over a year ago
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What are you doing OP to stand out from the crowd?
Balancing a toy frog on his cock !
You know what they say? You gotta meet alot of frogs
Is somebody croaking on about something perchance?"
That comment was toadily uncalled for. |
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"Should have been knee deep in clunge after a whole week.
To be fair, I had 2 meets in my first week. Socials, but I'm still calling it a fucking win.
I'd call that a mega fucking win."
I am.
I made myself a little crown and evreefin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patience is the key, a week is no time at all, I visit Perth a lot and do notice there's a lot of socials in the Dundee area, get involved there is my advice |
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You might want to explain why you cannot accom, most will assume you are married.
If you are, be honest about it, yes, some won't play with attached guys, but at least if it's out there people can make their own choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lmao I've been on here a year and not met.
Plenty of offers from couples but I'm picky when it comes to couples. A few from single females but nothing has ever materialised. The people I get on with the most end up living the other side of the country! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely listen to the advice of the ladies. I had a blank profile for several weeks before a female friend and member of the site advised me which pics to use and such on Monday night. Have managed to get an invite to a party for this Saturday within 2 days and 3 emails! Lucky or what! They do know what they're talking about. |
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"Singing with the choir here - definitely impatient; cock pic probably not helping; go to a club instead for better chances. Also adding a verse of roaden your search - I don't like chatting to anyone nearby and wouldn't swap face pics, nevermind meet. I don't need an uncomfortable moment running in to someone in tesco
V x"
V, I bet if I met you in Tesco's you would be at the cucumber stall with a huge smile on your face x |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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OP, there's some advice for newbies on my profile should you wish to use it. By the way, I like the frog, it shows you have a sense of humour, but probably best not to have it as your profile picture. X |
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"It does seem a steep hill to climb being a single guy on this site , we are all on here for the same thing aren’t we? "
Would you fuck someone you weren't physically attracted to?
Genuinly interested in your answer.  |
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"Ok am I to impatient ?
came on this site for obvious reasons and finding it difficult to even get an email back,never mind meeting someone!
I’ve now lowered my expectations to just looking to chat to folk but even that’s difficult , am I doing something wrong?
I’ve been keeping it local, which I thought would be easier for meeting but m
People shut the door when they find out you might be close by.
Help a newbie"
I think most look at the site and think wohoo .
There’s no rights or wrongs on here and reading your profile and the picture I get
Married and can’t do anything more with my spare time on here and you maybe thought once profile was complete just sit back and watch the offers flood in .., in reality and over time if your still on here like a lot of people they realise that they have to open up the search parameters and hope for a little luck
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over a year ago
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"It does seem a steep hill to climb being a single guy on this site , we are all on here for the same thing aren’t we ?
Yes and we are all allowed to choose who we meet. "
I completely agree with you and not trying to say anything but it’s just a struggle for us as single guys jthere is to many of us to choose from that’s all |
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over a year ago
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"It does seem a steep hill to climb being a single guy on this site , we are all on here for the same thing aren’t we ?
And?"
I’m sorry if my post has offended u and I completely grew with your answers pick and choose how you like that’s not how I meant this post to come across I was just stating it’ seems harder for single guys on this site.
And nobody should have to go with anyone they wasn’t attracted to |
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Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back! |
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"Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back!"
At least try to say this in your own words. It keeps coming up on the forums. And yes, you are absolutely right. We are all ugly and all-round horrible.
If not Fabicide, this is a prime example of Fab self-harming.
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"It does seem a steep hill to climb being a single guy on this site , we are all on here for the same thing aren’t we ?
And?
I’m sorry if my post has offended u and I completely grew with your answers pick and choose how you like that’s not how I meant this post to come across I was just stating it’ seems harder for single guys on this site.
And nobody should have to go with anyone they wasn’t attracted to "
It did not offend me. I just wondered what bearing being "here for the same thing" has on anything, and on what exactly. |
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"So should I put up more pics ?
With or without the frog?
To be fair the frog has caused most of the interest love it or hate it, it has got people making conversation..... so can’t be all bad"
Whilst I'm not your target demographic the frog pic made me smile. It's a bit different from the usual cock pics.
Not sure I'd have it as an avatar pic, bit then again some of mine have been ludicrous.
As i'm not out there actively looking for meets my choice of avatar and profile biog are less important than yours.
Have a look at some of the "successful" guys profiles and pics, see what they look like and take inspiration from them.
Make your profile stand out for the right reasons.
Good luck and have a blast.
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"So should I put up more pics ?
With or without the frog?
To be fair the frog has caused most of the interest love it or hate it, it has got people making conversation..... so can’t be all bad"
OP if you read back the thread you will see many people advising you that just one pic of your cock won't attract the ladies and couples. It is different to the usual standard of cock pic but gives us no idea of what you look like.
Contrary to the opinion of a lot of men on fab it takes far more than just seeing a cock for us ladies to want to jump on it! |
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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago
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I've been here years and don't get messages from anyone even when I do sent them out... As a single bloke your bottom of the food chain on here. So don't expect anything, cos when you don't get anywhere you won't be disappointed. |
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"It does seem a steep hill to climb being a single guy on this site , we are all on here for the same thing aren’t we ? "
Yeah, but I want to make sure I'm respected and I'm likely to enjoy myself too. And that I'll be safe. |
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"Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back!"
I'm so ugly, I dont leave the house |
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"So should I put up more pics ?
With or without the frog?
To be fair the frog has caused most of the interest love it or hate it, it has got people making conversation..... so can’t be all bad"
Haha quality its got people making conversation!! Up here it’s called taking the piss !!!!!!! |
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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago
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"Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back!"
I wouldn't mind but most of what you say here is true.. |
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"Ffs, sometimes I have to wait a week for MrT to fuck me, never mind a stranger from the net
Lower your expectations, and when you’ve done that lower them a bit more!
Sassy "
Haha don’t pull any punches there , but op probably has taken something positive from you  |
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"Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back!
I'm so ugly, I dont leave the house"
Me too!!..its a terrible dilemma!!..damn that God type person for hitting me with the ugly stick!!  |
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"Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back!"
Ah fuck, is this why MrT hasn’t shagged me?? Am I just a mediocre, fat munter and I didn’t realise it??
It’s like an epiphany! |
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"Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back!"
Lol love it ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back!
Ah fuck, is this why MrT hasn’t shagged me?? Am I just a mediocre, fat munter and I didn’t realise it??
It’s like an epiphany!"
You know your worth |
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"Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back!
Ah fuck, is this why MrT hasn’t shagged me?? Am I just a mediocre, fat munter and I didn’t realise it??
It’s like an epiphany!
You know your worth "
Aye, about 20p going by the pp |
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"Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back!
Ah fuck, is this why MrT hasn’t shagged me?? Am I just a mediocre, fat munter and I didn’t realise it??
It’s like an epiphany!
You know your worth
Aye, about 20p going by the pp "
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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"Ok am I to impatient ?
came on this site for obvious reasons and finding it difficult to even get an email back,never mind meeting someone!
I’ve now lowered my expectations to just looking to chat to folk but even that’s difficult , am I doing something wrong?
I’ve been keeping it local, which I thought would be easier for meeting but m
People shut the door when they find out you might be close by.
Help a newbie"
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"Ok am I to impatient ?
came on this site for obvious reasons and finding it difficult to even get an email back,never mind meeting someone!
I’ve now lowered my expectations to just looking to chat to folk but even that’s difficult , am I doing something wrong?
I’ve been keeping it local, which I thought would be easier for meeting but m
People shut the door when they find out you might be close by.
Help a newbie"
Mate you can go years before you get a hello |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A week?
Yes, you are being far too impatient OP.
What you need to realise is there are far more single men on fab than single ladies and couples. In my area the ratio is at least 10-1, depending on your age group and it can be much higher. Imagine the people of fab to be similar to the crowd at a football match, only instead of watching a match all the fellas are hoping the handful of ladies there will decide they want to fuck him and not one of the thousands of others.
What are you doing OP to stand out from the crowd? "
Get one of em to stand on another's head
Climb up and stand on his
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok am I to impatient ?
came on this site for obvious reasons and finding it difficult to even get an email back,never mind meeting someone!
I’ve now lowered my expectations to just looking to chat to folk but even that’s difficult , am I doing something wrong?
I’ve been keeping it local, which I thought would be easier for meeting but m
People shut the door when they find out you might be close by.
Help a newbie"
Newbie as well, the way I see it has a longer game. I'm in this for the lifestyle, even if I met someone, they would have to be in this as well. I'm happy just to get myself a bit noticed on the site and hopefully get chatting to some people. Great if they where local as well. In the spring time I'm going to a club and meet more people there. I want to get the social gratification as well as the sexual. Plus the more I read, the more I learn how to develop my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate it takes a while before you can get a meet. Like you when I discovered this site I thought it would be simple to chat and meet people. And like you I had a dick pic.
It takes a while sometimes, unless you look like Brad pit with a BBC. Take on-board what the ladies on this site have said or even pick one from this thread to help you design your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, single men can go weeks without mail back, plus having a dick pic profile picture does not help"
Takes a while dont give up and have a variety of pics not dick pic by the toilet |
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"Mate it takes a while before you can get a meet. Like you when I discovered this site I thought it would be simple to chat and meet people. And like you I had a dick pic.
It takes a while sometimes, unless you look like Brad pit with a BBC. Take on-board what the ladies on this site have said or even pick one from this thread to help you design your profile. "
Imagined Brad Pitt with a...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It isn't instashag.... far too deluded and impatient.
Some ppl are on for years without anything other than a social "
My point exactly my thinking. I'm in this for the social aspect as well as finding like minded adults, maybe something happens, if not then such is life. Go other things in my life as well which are more important then taking this too seriously, suppose to be fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mate it takes a while before you can get a meet. Like you when I discovered this site I thought it would be simple to chat and meet people. And like you I had a dick pic.
It takes a while sometimes, unless you look like Brad pit with a BBC. Take on-board what the ladies on this site have said or even pick one from this thread to help you design your profile. "
Now I have the image of Brad Pit with a BBC, too scared to sleep.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mate it takes a while before you can get a meet. Like you when I discovered this site I thought it would be simple to chat and meet people. And like you I had a dick pic.
It takes a while sometimes, unless you look like Brad pit with a BBC. Take on-board what the ladies on this site have said or even pick one from this thread to help you design your profile.
Now I have the image of Brad Pit with a BBC, too scared to sleep. "
Let's help with that image!!!
Just think of him in the character of war machine with bbc.
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By *jl1972Man
over a year ago
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Mmm, a whole week and nothing? You should really be swamped with offers by now, especially with the effort you put into your cock pic. Have you got your filters set right? There have probably been hundreds of women trying to leave you a message by now. When I first joined I was getting so much I had to have a break after a few days. |
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"Mate it takes a while before you can get a meet. Like you when I discovered this site I thought it would be simple to chat and meet people. And like you I had a dick pic.
It takes a while sometimes, unless you look like Brad pit with a BBC. Take on-board what the ladies on this site have said or even pick one from this thread to help you design your profile. "
I don't look like Brad Pitt and I don't have a BBC.
I also have crap pics and not the best profile in the world.
And yet....... |
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Don't know what your doing wrong cos I can't even keep up with my inbox.... It's like, dammn woman give a rest, a man needs to refuel you know.
Must be a geography thing cos there's loads of mucky women in Barnsley... Good strong women too. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Been here 6wks and not had a message or a meet
Not sure why
Came here for fun but seems I am just not anyone's type "
Plenty of tips for profile advice on my profile, feel free to use them and good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been of and on this site for over 5 years now yes it can be frustrating at times but I have met a few nice ladies on here which I would of never had met.
Especially if you are a man you have to be patient ladies on here do get loads of messages a day so it can be hard to stand out of the crowd. This site is free and if you did want pay it's only £5 nothing much really. Here are a few tips for a man
1 get a profile pic
2 get photo verified
3 get verified if lucky enough
4 if they don't reply to your message don't bother them that just buts people of
5 don't have too many dick pics
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"I have been of and on this site for over 5 years now yes it can be frustrating at times but I have met a few nice ladies on here which I would of never had met.
Especially if you are a man you have to be patient ladies on here do get loads of messages a day so it can be hard to stand out of the crowd. This site is free and if you did want pay it's only £5 nothing much really. Here are a few tips for a man
1 get a profile pic
2 get photo verified
3 get verified if lucky enough
4 if they don't reply to your message don't bother them that just buts people of
5 don't have too many dick pics
Hope this helps "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's plenty of advice on my profile for newbies and no meets, feel free to use it if anyone wants to. "
Wow that is amazing and helpful to point newbies in the right direction. Years back I used to use my profile to share ideas and edit it often.
You have a cool profile. Enjoyed reading it |
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By *exeiraMan
over a year ago
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"Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back!
I wouldn't mind but most of what you say here is true.."
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Mate - most of the women on here and those in couples too are just not particularly attractive anyway! You’d never even give them a look walking past them on the street, but on here where most of the men are just being men, it gives them a false sense of self-importance, where they delusionally believe they’re sexy and desirable! Unless we’re attractive with a decent cock - it rarely happens! We’d all love the model types to mail us back!
I wouldn't mind but most of what you say here is true..
LOL"
Yes, amusing. I've been told that there are much better looking women than me on here when I don't even have a face pic up or have sent one lmao. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Statistics & probability. Couple that with other factors... A single straight guy on here needs to either have the charm (even that doesn't work) or be one fucking good looking dude (still got to fight against all the other good looking dudes)
In short. We are (not) fucked. Haha |
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"Statistics & probability. Couple that with other factors... A single straight guy on here needs to either have the charm (even that doesn't work) or be one fucking good looking dude (still got to fight against all the other good looking dudes)
In short. We are (not) fucked. Haha"
I'm a single straight guy.
Can be shy and apprehensive.
Not got a lot of natural charm and definitely not great looking.
I do OK though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Statistics & probability. Couple that with other factors... A single straight guy on here needs to either have the charm (even that doesn't work) or be one fucking good looking dude (still got to fight against all the other good looking dudes)
In short. We are (not) fucked. Haha
I'm a single straight guy.
Can be shy and apprehensive.
Not got a lot of natural charm and definitely not great looking.
I do OK though."
Nice one I am new to this sort of thing so I am still learning as I go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A week is the equivelant to a second on here haha been 4 months for us and like 0 interest it will be slow steady fast slow nothing etc ride the wave haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, be prepared for people to chat to you and tell you to keep in touch......then next time you attempt to message them they totally ignore you. That also happens a lot. |
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Yep. We wouldn’t reply when you’re only pic is a cock. Seriously - there’s hundreds of thousands on here and for many women that’s not what they’re looking for. Sure some are looking simply for the biggest elephant trunk they can find but for a lot of women we have to like more to engage and we can’t get that from a single cock pick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also, be prepared for people to chat to you and tell you to keep in touch......then next time you attempt to message them they totally ignore you. That also happens a lot."
Obvs not keeping em int pal ? |
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As had already been said, a week or even a month or year is nothing. I was originally on here for over 4 yrs with a profile and met probably 6 people, one of which is now a permanent play friend. This was out of possibly a couple of hundred politely worded messages to matching profiles. Most don't bother replying or simply don't have the time to, esp single women snowed under with hundreds of offers. It does take time !!! |
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"Still haven't found what we've been looking for and we've been Here over 2 years lol
Suck it up buttercup, Rome wasn't built in a day
I'm sure you will at some point. "
We wait in hope lol won't hold breath we might suffocate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mmm cup of tea now that sounds like a plan,op find a club to go to or a social don't go expecting sex just to get your face out there ,if you build it it will come |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
Okehampton |
Don’t despair
Lots of couples on here claim to be swingers and not had any meets or even photo verified and been on over a year...Guess they are struggling too...
Give it a while, all good things come to those that wait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember back in the summer of 69 op
My one and only message
The gorgeous yellow box appearing
I nearly peaked in my panties
*you've been banned temporarily from the forums for............. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
OP.
By today, you've only been on here 2 weeks!
Two weeks????? What did you expect?????
This isn't Instant Shag! Welcome to FAB!
It takes time to get yourself started, more likely months rather than the few days in which you were anticipating.
You have to stand out from the rest of the many guys, all seeking the same thing.
NOT by having a cock pic with a toy frog perched on it! Put that away and replace it with a Face and Torso pic at least
One aspect is you don't accommodate but don't say why! That is off-putting to some people unless they know why not.
Your profile needs working on. What's with the 'dashes and squiggle" designs mixed in with the text? Just have paragraph breaks.
The profile is littered with spelling and punctuation errors, even written in small case lettering for the majority of it all.
To some people, that is off-putting, as overall, they could view it as a lack of effort and they move on.
That's important. Put in the effort, try getting to Clubs, get onto the Forums to collectively getting yourself noticed! You have to SELL yourself.
It takes patience, perseverance and even more patience to succeed. It does work.
Good Luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow one week and you expected to be knee deep in Pussy..welcome to the swinging world and Fab..your dreams will soon be shattered into many little pieces I'm afraid...
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Why..... just.... Why? |
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