Frameworks… some love em, some hate em. I tend to love them…
A recent very useful discovery of mine was erotic blueprints… These are a like personality types except they refer to one’s sexual individual preferences/style. There are five. Energetic (gets off on anticipation, with a leaning to spiritual practices); sensual (loves playing with all the senses, touch, taste, smell etc… ); sexual (just loves to jump in and fuck); kinky (gets off on things they see as taboo); and shapeshifter (moves around and can be any and all). You can be a mix but generally the idea is you have one primary blueprint.
What was super helpful in discovering this was the idea of ‘erotic bridges’: when someone comes from a perspective that’s different to yours it can lead to misunderstandings and perceived incompatibility however with erotic bridges you find a way of making it work and satisfying each other.
I imagine they’ll be a lot of sexual types on Fab but for those that don’t fit into this type and struggled in some way, the good news is there’s a million ways you can make it work!
I get that many will have intuited all this and/or know it already. But for those who don’t and want to learn… I can’t recommend it enough as a framework…
You can search for these easily on Google. Book is Your Blueprint for Pleasure by Jaiya.
Happy reading!
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