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By *aagirl OP   Woman 19 weeks ago

Laois, Carlow, Kildare

So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

I think majority of people know that if someone has a lot of verifications, its from attending and arranging socials or parties. And i suspect that the abuse you are getting is from someone thats getting rejected.

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By *og-ManMan 19 weeks ago

somewhere

99% of my verifications are just social verifications

There's no correct number to have or to show

Its your profile

Show what you want and fuck the begrudgers

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago


"99% of my verifications are just social verifications

There's no correct number to have or to show

Its your profile

Show what you want and fuck the begrudgers "

I think the begrudgers want a fuck

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By *hortandsoftMan 19 weeks ago

kilkenny

That's a bit crazy, getting abuse for sleeping with people on a swinging site.....I think maybe he got a bit pissed you wouldn't ride him! Verifications don't need to be explained....unless it's to your husband or wife but definitely not to some stranger in my opinion.

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By *D24Couple 19 weeks ago

Dublin


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Morning! We're a year on the site now and at the start, I'll put my hand up and say I had thoughts about people with lots of veries. Now, having gone to events, meeting lots of people who also attend events, meeting event organisers and understanding how it all works, I couldn't care less how many you have, or what type they are (social or play).

It seems very hypocritical for a fabber to make comments or judgments about another fabber, perhaps being here is not for them.

People will always have opinions, let them on with them.

Ride on Gaagirl

N x

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By *ungry CatCouple 19 weeks ago

Belfast


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Absolutely not!

Personally I'm really grateful when people show their true face to me before I meet them!

I don't argue, don't try to explain... if he can't read or comprehend what he's reading - he's the problem. Only thing that needs done is put a note on his profile and block.

Missus

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By *he Naked TradesmanMan 19 weeks ago

allover


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?

I think majority of people know that if someone has a lot of verifications, its from attending and arranging socials or parties. And i suspect that the abuse you are getting is from someone thats getting rejected. "

I agree 100% theirs a lot on here that think its a giving , there head explodes on rejection!!

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple 19 weeks ago

Cork


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Wtaf some people are just plain ignorant what you do on here is totally your own business, some people on here were clearly dragged up with no manners or have a sickening judgemental attitude. We've spoken in the past find you a ray of sunshine and someone who loves and enjoys life.

Verification process on here we find a bit weird to such a degree we take no notice of it as you don't get a reflection of people on. Is a guideline I dunno id put it the veri mean different to everyone and to explain them could confuse people. As the phrase goes "if your explaining your lossing"

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By *acDeMan 19 weeks ago

Castledermot


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Majority realise that, fuck the begrudgers, live how you want to and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

I’m always amazed by this site. Why is what you do. What you post or who you meet anyone else’s fucking business? Mrs

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By *onnachakeaneMan 19 weeks ago

Dundrum


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Take no notice…. A cohort of Solo Ms frustrated and can’t get anywhere trying to pull you down, they’re jealous!

Personally I like reading the Veris as it gives a good sense of the person and you’ll quickly see its various chats/coffees etc

You’re good craic and Fabs needs more of that! Block and move on, life’s too short. Keep her lit and double down!! 🔥

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By *tmostakiss1Man 19 weeks ago

B

Who am I to judge anyone? If someone wants to fuck the whole site, good luck to them!

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By *aisyandTrigCouple 19 weeks ago

Cork

Bitches be trippin!!! He clearly can’t get a ride and attacking you makes his small man syndrome a little bit bigger.

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By *exyScientistsCouple 19 weeks ago

Castlebar


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Or you get asked if you actually fuck anyone or just meet for socials.

I don't think anyone should feel that they have to hide their verifications and so many on Fab seem to be just as judgy as the "real world" so you keep doing you and living your best fab life 😘

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By *iamo69Man 19 weeks ago

kilkenny, Waterford , Tipperary,southeast

Get abuse block and report them

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Wait... youre not a virgin!?!

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

Theres always going to be opinions there like arseholes there every where fuck em

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By *ealitybitesMan 19 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't have any play veries and wouldn't display them if I did because it's nobody's fucking business (pun intended)

I was told once that I had a lot of verifications for a man who didn't go to parties or had only been to a few socials.

Anyone trying to start a conversation with me about verifications won't be compatible anyway so it's no big loss.

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By *imbob100Man 19 weeks ago

carrick/boyle

Good for you

Enjoy the good times

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By *ommy leeMan 19 weeks ago

galway

Just ignore

Their stuck in their own minds like prisoners

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By *eelight69Couple 19 weeks ago

donegal border

We had our verification summary hidden because we were embarrassed that we had so many veris in such a short space of time but now we have it shown because we have nothing to be embarrassed about, whether all of them are social or all of them are riding thats the point of the site, we're only here for a short time so I hope I die riding while typing a really good veri 😂😂😂

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By *traight sligoguy67Man 19 weeks ago

sligo

Sounds like jealousy

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By *r.AnonymousMan 19 weeks ago

Tipperary , Cork

When people can’t take no for an answer, but but you have lots of verifications why not meet me 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

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By *r.AnonymousMan 19 weeks ago

Tipperary , Cork


"Sounds like jealousy "

More like idiocy than jealous tbh

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By *tmostakiss1Man 19 weeks ago

B


"We had our verification summary hidden because we were embarrassed that we had so many veris in such a short space of time but now we have it shown because we have nothing to be embarrassed about, whether all of them are social or all of them are riding thats the point of the site, we're only here for a short time so I hope I die riding while typing a really good veri 😂😂😂"

Death during riding, one way to go out lol

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By *nothershitusernameCouple 19 weeks ago

belfast

Meet and fuck whomever you want too. It’s your choice.

No matter what you do on here ppl will judge you.

Enjoy your time here and have fun!

Forget about the clique, the judgy twats, the power couples and the rest!

Go have fun😎

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

No definitely not I think it's good to show your verification it show your true status and I feel its safer for ppl especially with what's on offer on fab and of course not all verification are play meets some are social but personally ppl should mind there own business I rather show my verification I had ppl say iam not meeting you because u have to many verification so they rather meet ppl with none mmh

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By *uicytitsssWoman 19 weeks ago

G

Block and move on

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By *ipstick KissesWoman 19 weeks ago

Newry


"Block and move on "

🙌

Explain naaaaaaathin

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By *ednuts101Man 19 weeks ago

Finglas

Do whatever you want...why care about a random Internet opinion?..if you are happy in your own skin why care?? You are here for yourself

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By *appyharry595Man 19 weeks ago

Midlands

Verifications reflect participation and safety, not just sex.

Abuse around it is insecurity, and it’s no wonder women find the site toxic.

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By *leasurer77Man 19 weeks ago

Athlone


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Unfortunately you've met at least one person too few.

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By *anther81Man 19 weeks ago

Drogheda

Never understand anybody on a swinging website judging somebody for how many people they meet.

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By *arry1974Man 19 weeks ago

Louth


"Never understand anybody on a swinging website judging somebody for how many people they meet. "

I was just thinking the same thing. Mind boggles

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By *ipp2025Man 19 weeks ago

thurles


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

First of all who passed this remark, a lady or a man?

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By *escrean100Man 19 weeks ago

North Co Dublin

I would pay no attention to that remark - it’s clear from reading your verifications that you attend plenty of socials and parties - plus, it’s nobody else’s business!

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By *enitMan 19 weeks ago

Galway


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Fuck em

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By *eedy1Man 19 weeks ago

Larne

Badly worded that Surely don't fuck the ****

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By *haddyMan 19 weeks ago

Galway

I still don't understand how it is anyone's business who a grown up adult, that has a life of her own and pays her bills, fucks and doesn't fuck. It is absolutely no one's business if you decided to fuck the entire country. Use the block button for anyone that decides to be the judge and jury of ya life

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By *eedy1Man 19 weeks ago

Larne

You are good at that hc

Got blocked for little when inexperienced with fab

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By *eedy1Man 19 weeks ago

Larne

You are good at that hc

Got blocked for little when inexperienced with fab

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By *ilMsStickyWoman 19 weeks ago

Galway

This place really amazes me more everyday. For one the amount of people allergic to social events is scary. They are a safezone for women. Anyone not willing to attend any socials is better off out of my view. Socials is where I gathered my veris's and they are not a count list of playmates but rather great friends I've made along this journey.

OP you keep doing what you do. Afterall it's your profile and life to run how you see fit.

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By *andomGuy200Man 19 weeks ago

Can't Say??

For you, maybe not the other person

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By *andomGuy200Man 19 weeks ago

Can't Say??

Sounds like, You fucked all those guys & you won't fuck me. This is a platform where like minded ADULTS can explore there sexuality, judge no one is my view. Fellas like that ruin it for the rest

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By *andomGuy200Man 19 weeks ago

Can't Say??


"For you, maybe not the other person "

Death by riding, I mean

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By *adylaceWoman 19 weeks ago

Waterford City

You cant win with verifications here. As someone said earlier. They either assume you have shagged everyone you've met (which is perfectly fine and your own business if you have) or they complain that you're a timewaster that only meets socially. You are best ignoring people that feel the need to give out about anything on your profile. You are here for your fun not anybody else's. xx

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By *ilversinMan 19 weeks ago

Waterford


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

How can people think like this?

Sorry you have to listen to that kind of abuse GAAgirl. 🫶

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By *andomGuy200Man 19 weeks ago

Can't Say??

I don't even have 1. Anyone on here interested in a coffee & a chat & vouch for my sanity

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By *razy-CplCouple 19 weeks ago

Cork

We are on here 10 plus years so have gathered quiet a few veris over the years , most are from socials and parties that we attended, a few we have hosted , but we still had to hide the summary due to people thinking we were riding everyone we met

Pity there wasnt an option when leaving a veri , there was a tick section for socials or other , it would devide the veris up then

Mrs crazy

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By *D24Couple 19 weeks ago

Dublin


"We had our verification summary hidden because we were embarrassed that we had so many veris in such a short space of time but now we have it shown because we have nothing to be embarrassed about, whether all of them are social or all of them are riding thats the point of the site, we're only here for a short time so I hope I die riding while typing a really good veri 😂😂😂"

die riding typing a veri, the ultimate Le petit mort

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By *adylaceWoman 19 weeks ago

Waterford City


"We had our verification summary hidden because we were embarrassed that we had so many veris in such a short space of time but now we have it shown because we have nothing to be embarrassed about, whether all of them are social or all of them are riding thats the point of the site, we're only here for a short time so I hope I die riding while typing a really good veri 😂😂😂"

Love this.

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By *otownkid1967Man 19 weeks ago

Portlaoise


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Live your own life as you wish. Everyone uses fab for what suits themselves. Block the begrudge and move on.

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By *andomGuy200Man 19 weeks ago

Can't Say??


"I don't even have 1. Anyone on here interested in a coffee & a chat & vouch for my sanity"

I'm good craic & it's on me.

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By *enny100Man 19 weeks ago

City

Don’t explain yourself to anyone . Feck that

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By *indenMan 19 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Sounds like a they problem as opposed to a you problem, I wouldn’t worry about it…..

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By *hebull1Man 19 weeks ago

drogheda

They are only jealous

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

I think it was Anthony Hopkins who said - it's none of my business what people say of me and think of me, his sentiments are appropriate for fab and life in general.

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By *rinibooWoman 19 weeks ago

clare

I got abuse for not wanting to ride someone I met for coffee he presumed I would . I look at veris as a safety thing as a single . That is others have met them they must be ok

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

I literally had same conversation with someone..... I feel verification are important to get a feeler of who you may be meeting. Im sorry but its a crazy world out there.

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

You can tell if someone is attending events and that's fair enough but if someone has a new verification every two or three days its a no for me. It gives the impression you're sleeping with everyone and anyone whether you are or not

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By *esSir78Man 19 weeks ago

cork

You cant win either way.. No veris or too many veris... We here for a good time not along time ...Enjoy and take no notice of the begrudgers..

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By *eard and BoobsCouple 19 weeks ago

Portstewart

Sounds like they are jealous of you knowing what you want a you should just block and ignore them

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By *ean154Man 19 weeks ago

City.


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

I agree with previous comment, very high number of verifications is due to meets.

Id rather meet someone with a high number of verifications that played safe and tested regularly than an unsafe sporadic played

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By *rishcouple12Couple 19 weeks ago

Cork County

You do you

As long as everything is safe and consensual, it doesn't matter

We only show verifications from social organizers

Who we meet either socially or for play we keep private (when we first joined we did display play meets , only for the people we played with to get messages from other users asking how it went , so that put an end to that)

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By *elfastDMan 19 weeks ago

belfast

Aaahh ffs Gaagirl, here’s me patiently waiting hoping I’d get my turn eventually

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By *rishmanabroadMan 19 weeks ago

Dublin Belfast

It took me a long time to work out that there are people in life who, for whatever reason, are motivated to take others down. If it wasn’t this it would be something else as the intent is there. It is an unfortunate reality of existence but one we occasionally have to deal with in one way or another. It helps me to remember this is all about them and their own discontent and issues. While this doesn’t excuse the behaviour, it gives it context.

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

Personally, after been coming and going for 5 years now. I have come to know that people with loads of verifications get them at socials,saying that...no matter where you get your veris,nobody has the right to throw abuse at anyone, no matter what the reason is,if you don't like something...grow up and move the f on...ffs...by the way...busy looking for verifications this time round...hahaha!!!... any takers...hahaha!!!

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By *iggtommy2000Man 19 weeks ago

Gorey

This bugs me immensely. Why message someone if you already saw something you don't like?

My profile says very clearly that I dont meet single men, yet almost daily I get "straight" men asking if I want to meet them immediately for gay sex. Ive tried being polite but most of them get super offended when I say no. Being open to meeting a couple apparently means I want to suck off every random idiot with zero pics and zero verifications. Block hammer is getting worn down to a nub, but they never stop

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By *wing and a missCouple 19 weeks ago

somewhere

Even if someone was riding the whole site (obviously you're not) imagine complaining about someone's body count on a website, for swingers. Beyond belief

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By *obbie 99Man 19 weeks ago

Tullamore

Tell them to f@ck off and mind his own business regarding who you meet!!

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By *ocbrownMan 19 weeks ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

Has happened to me too.

Think people just use it as an excuse

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By *att.RMan 19 weeks ago

limerick

Absolutely ridiculous, receiving abuse from someone with entitlement issues. People are here to have fun, not judgement passed. Those of us who aren't lucky enough to be invited to meet, socially, or in a play capacity have no right to sulk, or disrespect another, just because we do not spark their interest. Yep, idiots do walk freely amongst us daily. Continue to enjoy, and ignore those as you see fit

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By *irty MurtyMan 19 weeks ago

my place


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Ah Jaysus I verified ya and never got the ride #gutted

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

Quality over quantity, that annoys me. I'll take quality in quantity.

Fuck anyone saying your fucking too many people, be safe, be secure and be happy.

Begrudgers that are probably butthurt you didn't want to fuck them .

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By *uest56789Man 19 weeks ago

dublin


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Wouldn’t mind meeting someone that has fucked the whole site that would be epic !! I am sure the ones abusing you for the verifications wish they had as much success themselves. Enjoy yourself & happy fabbing

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By *DGF20Man 19 weeks ago

Dublin

What a little sad low life individuals exist on here, it's mad. Show them a middle finger and block.

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By *rCupidMan 19 weeks ago

Monaghan Cavan

Pass no remarks and give them no oxygen GG.

You are one of the sweetest, soundest and genuine people on Fab and have no call to answer to or explain absolutely anything to anybody.

To the person who said this stuff to GaaGirl, if you are reading this, please note that you are pathetic & you should consider leaving Fab.

GG aside from this, any NFL predictions for the weekend? It’s great to have it back 🏐

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By *eturning MGMan 19 weeks ago

Mayo, Roscommon, Galway, Leitrim, Sligo....West Of Ireland

Nobodys business but yours. No need to explain yourself to anyone let alone some stranger on here.

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By *espond2004Man 19 weeks ago

Travel with work

Don’t let it bother you too much, the people taking crap are most likely not people you’d want to associate with socially or otherwise. Keep

Doing you thing 😉

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By *adger BrocMan 19 weeks ago

North Cork

There is absolutely no excuse for abuse.

I am slow to encourage use of the block button but if there is abuse involved it is the only option.

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By *eddybear37Man 19 weeks ago

longford

I got a message once saying my verifications must have been from prostituts as who wud go near me but as most know im a social butterfly and alot are from socials and coffees and yes I agree a verification is a good reflection of the person especially if them idiots bother to read them i don’t care what ppl think I just ignore the begrudging ppl

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By *ing PaddyMan 19 weeks ago

South County Dublin


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Tell them to grow up and feck off then block them. You do your own thing.

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By *amson4DelilahCouple 19 weeks ago

ballina

Fuck the begruders.. Verifications are a double edge sword. I only generally show people I play with , or someone new that wants to build up verification. I Often find people verifying people as a way to "mark their territory" or cock block someone... As for judgement on how many is too many & seingers judging swingers...PEOPLE ARE CUNTS ..LOL

I WAS TOLD BY ANOTHER SWINGER THAT I WAS SEX OBSESSED & SHOULD SEEK PERFESHIONAL HELP.....AHHHH... HELLO... THATS WHY IM FUCKING SWINGING...DOH

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple 19 weeks ago

Westmeath The West.


"Fuck the begruders.. Verifications are a double edge sword. I only generally show people I play with , or someone new that wants to build up verification. I Often find people verifying people as a way to "mark their territory" or cock block someone... As for judgement on how many is too many & seingers judging swingers...PEOPLE ARE CUNTS ..LOL

I WAS TOLD BY ANOTHER SWINGER THAT I WAS SEX OBSESSED & SHOULD SEEK PERFESHIONAL HELP.....AHHHH... HELLO... THATS WHY IM FUCKING SWINGING...DOH"

FAB Therapy!! 😂

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By *amson4DelilahCouple 19 weeks ago

ballina


"Fuck the begruders.. Verifications are a double edge sword. I only generally show people I play with , or someone new that wants to build up verification. I Often find people verifying people as a way to "mark their territory" or cock block someone... As for judgement on how many is too many & seingers judging swingers...PEOPLE ARE CUNTS ..LOL

I WAS TOLD BY ANOTHER SWINGER THAT I WAS SEX OBSESSED & SHOULD SEEK PERFESHIONAL HELP.....AHHHH... HELLO... THATS WHY IM FUCKING SWINGING...DOH

FAB Therapy!! 😂"

I know... imagine being a swinger & enjoying sex..lots & lots of sex....Guilty as charged

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By *astvictorianMan 19 weeks ago

Carlow

It's usually insecure people who need verifications to boost their own feelings ...if I want to sit down and read some fiction one evening ...I'll read Fabswingers verifications .

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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago

You dont have to explain yourself to anyone regarding verifications or people you've fucked.

You got to ask yourself if someone passes comment on anything got to do with you, then what gives them that right?

I don't even consider their position, they get a clear "Fuck off" from me.

I've never seen the difference concerning a woman who has 1 veri or 1,000. Same with actual body count.

What you do and who you are are two distinct things. I respect both.

What kills me is that you get these guys who are for a strong, independent woman, then they meet one and lose their shit.

They're all morons.

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By *ittle red riding hoodxxWoman 19 weeks ago

Limerick, Tipp, could find me anywhere x

Its just so unnecessary when someone thinks they have the right to comment on what you do or what you have done. everyone has a right to their opinion of you. It is really sad when a person voices their opinion when it has nothing to do with them, wouldn't you agree? xx

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By *r_tallerMan 18 weeks ago

Dublin

You're a great person, you definitely do not deserve to be abused in any shape or form.

That's my opinion and I know we any going to f@@@.

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By *amson4DelilahCouple 18 weeks ago

ballina


"You dont have to explain yourself to anyone regarding verifications or people you've fucked.

You got to ask yourself if someone passes comment on anything got to do with you, then what gives them that right?

I don't even consider their position, they get a clear "Fuck off" from me.

I've never seen the difference concerning a woman who has 1 veri or 1,000. Same with actual body count.

What you do and who you are are two distinct things. I respect both.

What kills me is that you get these guys who are for a strong, independent woman, then they meet one and lose their shit.

They're all morons.

"

Really like this comment 👌

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By *izzKathrynWoman 18 weeks ago

Drogheda

I met a guy for a coffee social last year under help a fabber out. He wanted sex I didn't, so a week later he decides to message me that a woman here doesn't like me and her profile name. As I had loads of veris fucking everyone on the site she wouldn't meet him as he met me. I replied saying opinions are like arseholes everyone has one. Let people think what they want!

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By *otownkid1967Man 18 weeks ago

Portlaoise


"I met a guy for a coffee social last year under help a fabber out. He wanted sex I didn't, so a week later he decides to message me that a woman here doesn't like me and her profile name. As I had loads of veris fucking everyone on the site she wouldn't meet him as he met me. I replied saying opinions are like arseholes everyone has one. Let people think what they want!"

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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago

I think most people will have their own individual opinions on every topic. Some enjoy multiple partners, others not so much.

Neither of the above defines a person , as we all know , fab isn't the place for sexual judgement. It's a place to be liberated, open and free.

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By *inkyDragonMan 18 weeks ago

Castleknock

In fairness, verifications mean little to nothing. There’s people who join and three minutes later are verified three times coz they put on their status ‘was here before, verify me if you remember me’. It’s bollox. I wouldn’t be worried about what any person thinks about you. You can’t be everything to everyone. If someone has 100 verifications, any fuckwit that considers that as you’ve fucked 100 people, is probably not the sort of person you would want to have a coffee with, let alone a play date anyway.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man 18 weeks ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

I’m using this thread to block wimen who aren’t here to fuck the whole

I can’t be wasting time with prudes…

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By *on Draper2.0Man 18 weeks ago

Maynooth


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Why does it bother you enough to post about it here? If someone dislikes how you live your life enough to be abusive or rude to you, just block them. You live your life as you see fit as long as you don't hurt people in the process. You can fuck as many people as you want and nobody has the right to audit your choices.

If they have the wrong idea about you, that's on them for not checking the facts with you. Either way, it's your life not theirs.

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By *enerationfornicationMan 18 weeks ago

In a place not far from...


"So following a lovely conversation this morning where I was told I meet too many people

Despite hiding my number of verifications im still getting abuse for them where apparently it's clear I fuck all my meets which I unfortunately don't

People who attend and host parties and have a high number of verifications should there be a fab introduction note to explain verifications don't equal rides to avoid this abuse from people?"

Perhaps the person thinking it, is really the one with the problem. It goes back to the age old saga, a man with many conquests is a stud, a lady with equally as much is a slut.

It's a societal issue which has not changed and is being compounded.

People are always qucik to judge and its wrong. I wouldn't waste time letting it bother you, if your happy in who you are, that what matters

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By *s24fun...Couple 18 weeks ago

Trim

I've met you twice and yet haven't fucked you.

So you do show restraint!

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By *astelloWoman 18 weeks ago

Far far away

People judge.. unfortunately it's human nature. And whether it's you haven't enough veris or too many...

As many have commented above.. fuck the begrudgers...

A ignorant messenger is just that ignorant. No need to justify anything.

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By *aagirl OP   Woman 18 weeks ago

Laois, Carlow, Kildare

Guys thanks so much for all the input next time its straight block I suppose it was the fact I was being forced to say yes I did sleep with them all or I was a liar but by I actually hadnt, im stubborn I hate being told something is black when its white or even grey, but lessons learned don't engage just block and keep enjoying myself

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By *og-ManMan 18 weeks ago

somewhere

So GAA Girl .....doesn't mean you had the whole team then

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By *thwonderMan 18 weeks ago

nearby

Not one person on FAB or outside need to explain themselves or their sexual or non sexual activities. (Not getting into people in a relationship and this is hidden)

Especially on here a community to meet people with similar likes, serious red flags if someone questions who or how many meets you get.

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By *ub 8 biMan 18 weeks ago

Dublin 8

Look if you need more rides so that you can match your verification count, I'm sure there are plenty on here willing to help you.

You do look quite shaggable

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By *lder1Man 18 weeks ago

Glanmire

The idiots that throw comments around about people do not understand Fab Life and probably should get blocked by everyone that way they don’t have the benefit of what great experiences Fab brings

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