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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I was wondering. What is your biggest worry before meeting a new lover for the first time?

Guys- is it that you’re not going to get it up? Or you’ll shoot too quick?

Ladies- do we even have any worries?

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By *FuckingDelightWoman over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x"

Well I just checked you out and that though most definitely needs to get out of your head. You’re very sexy indeed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Theres always thst worry if they think i look fatter. I try to be true to pics but i hide my belly as its repulsive, even mote so now. I send face pics but I still dread their reaction seeing me in the flesh. I hate first meets x

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By *FuckingDelightWoman over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

Well I just checked you out and that though most definitely needs to get out of your head. You’re very sexy indeed

Ah bless you, it’s the rolls of fat you can’t see I worry about x

I make it very clear I’m wobbly but because I don’t like what I see I find it hard that anyone else would!

As I said, my issues xx

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By *adMerWoman over a year ago

Sandwich

I worry it will all be over in a few minutes, although sometimes that’s a blessing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Theres always thst worry if they think i look fatter. I try to be true to pics but i hide my belly as its repulsive, even mote so now. I send face pics but I still dread their reaction seeing me in the flesh. I hate first meets x "

Just checked you out too. You’re stunning! Change in mindset is required young lady

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I worry she won’t be able to take my massive nob.

Because I have a massive nob.

It’s so very tough having a massive nob.

Please look at my profile because I have a massive nob.

Did I mention my massive nob?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How long have you got op

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By *lue eyed builderMan over a year ago

Gloucester / Cardiff

It’s sad to see so many women commenting saying they are self conscious

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By *ovegames42Man over a year ago

london

"I was wondering. What is your biggest worry before meeting a new lover for the first time?

Guys- is it that you’re not going to get it up? Or you’ll shoot too quick?

Ladies- do we even have any worries?

If we will have anything in common and a good sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I worry she won’t be able to take my massive nob.

Because I have a massive nob.

It’s so very tough having a massive nob.

Please look at my profile because I have a massive nob.

Did I mention my massive nob?"

Sam do you have a massive nob?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

Well I just checked you out and that though most definitely needs to get out of your head. You’re very sexy indeed

Ah bless you, it’s the rolls of fat you can’t see I worry about x

I make it very clear I’m wobbly but because I don’t like what I see I find it hard that anyone else would!

As I said, my issues xx"

All I see are gorgeous boobs so let’s take a guess what a guy sees shall we?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That that will be disgusted by my body and realise I'm a crap shag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I worry she won’t be able to take my massive nob.

Because I have a massive nob.

It’s so very tough having a massive nob.

Please look at my profile because I have a massive nob.

Did I mention my massive nob?

Sam do you have a massive nob?

What makes you think that !

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By *olex99Man over a year ago

Hull

Anyone who says they don't have a worry on a first meet about something probably isn't being honest with themselves

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Don't want to jump on the bandwagon, so to speak, but I'm always scared he hasn't realised exactly how fat I actually am and will run the moment he touches me. Or he won't turn up because he saw me from the door of the pub or coffee shop and just left.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even though i can't see your face in your pics you look good and you've some lovely thighs

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By *FuckingDelightWoman over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

Well I just checked you out and that though most definitely needs to get out of your head. You’re very sexy indeed

Ah bless you, it’s the rolls of fat you can’t see I worry about x

I make it very clear I’m wobbly but because I don’t like what I see I find it hard that anyone else would!

As I said, my issues xx

All I see are gorgeous boobs so let’s take a guess what a guy sees shall we?

Lol, thank you xx

Your pics are exquisite xx

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have no worries. I am just excited.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I worry it will all be over in a few minutes, although sometimes that’s a blessing!

Oh no. Will all these guys on here saying I’m a.... heavy cummer (wtf?)/ repeater/ hour long licker? Surely you don’t need to worry?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Whether he's attracted to me in person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate the first time being naked in front of someone new, past bad experience causes it.

Im a confident guy but that one experience will never leave me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I worry she won’t be able to take my massive nob.

Because I have a massive nob.

It’s so very tough having a massive nob.

Please look at my profile because I have a massive nob.

Did I mention my massive nob?"

Calm down. There, there... the next one will say it I promise...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How long have you got op

You......

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By *ovegames42Man over a year ago

london

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

Well I just checked you out and that though most definitely needs to get out of your head. You’re very sexy indeed

Ah bless you, it’s the rolls of fat you can’t see I worry about x

I make it very clear I’m wobbly but because I don’t like what I see I find it hard that anyone else would!

As I said, my issues xx"

Be happy within yourself and with yourself and not what others think. If people cannot accept you for who you are then their probably not worth worrying about.

“ I know it’s easy said “.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't want to jump on the bandwagon, so to speak, but I'm always scared he hasn't realised exactly how fat I actually am and will run the moment he touches me. Or he won't turn up because he saw me from the door of the pub or coffee shop and just left. "

Joining here has made me realise that more men than I thought prefer a curvy woman. You shouldn’t think that, you’re beautiful. Although I’m body conscious too so I do get it and I take no notice when people say the same to me so don’t know why I’m bothering really

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That that will be disgusted by my body and realise I'm a crap shag "

Wtf? I’ve just checked you out. Nope. Not true. Crap shag? You mean not act like a porn star? Nah........

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Anyone who says they don't have a worry on a first meet about something probably isn't being honest with themselves "

Seriously? I don’t.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I worry she won’t be able to take my massive nob.

Because I have a massive nob.

It’s so very tough having a massive nob.

Please look at my profile because I have a massive nob.

Did I mention my massive nob?"

Do you enjoy disappointing women! I went on search of the the massive nob! No massive nob pictures to be seen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who says they don't have a worry on a first meet about something probably isn't being honest with themselves

Seriously? I don’t."

I don't either. Just excitement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh ffs. You. I can’t believe it. You’re soft and very, very biteable. I’m not even mentioning your boobs

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By *FuckingDelightWoman over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

Well I just checked you out and that though most definitely needs to get out of your head. You’re very sexy indeed

Ah bless you, it’s the rolls of fat you can’t see I worry about x

I make it very clear I’m wobbly but because I don’t like what I see I find it hard that anyone else would!

As I said, my issues xx

Be happy within yourself and with yourself and not what others think. If people cannot accept you for who you are then their probably not worth worrying about.

“ I know it’s easy said “."

Thank you, am working on it - difficult erasing a lifetimes worth of disgust though

Still onwards & upwards x

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It doesn't matter how many times someone says something beautiful and lovely like that, it's the person who confirms your self doubt that is the one we always remember. And that's hard to let go of xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have no worries. I am just excited. "

As are the men I guess. Worried that the sight of you will errrmmm hasten their release

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Oh ffs. You. I can’t believe it. You’re soft and very, very biteable. I’m not even mentioning your boobs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. I know. You’re so right. x

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By *olex99Man over a year ago

Hull

I wish I had the confidence that some people seem to have on here.

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By *igBanMan over a year ago

kidlington

How do women think some guys think about themselves? We aren't all Adonis but even so there are people that like us like that. Same as women. Don't worry, enjoy the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Whether he's attracted to me in person

Oh no don’t you go there.... I bet they’re worried that they won’t sit sit there grinning like a senseless moron.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I hate the first time being naked in front of someone new, past bad experience causes it.

Im a confident guy but that one experience will never leave me"

Let me help you get over that

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I hate the first time being naked in front of someone new, past bad experience causes it.

Im a confident guy but that one experience will never leave me"

Let it go. Bad people should be forgotten. It is sad and cruel that these people can leave such an impact on future meets.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You’re gorgeous. I’ve seen you live remember

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Anyone who says they don't have a worry on a first meet about something probably isn't being honest with themselves

Seriously? I don’t.

I don't either. Just excitement."

Hallelujah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You’re gorgeous. I’ve seen you live remember

Haha seen me live! Likewise sexy lady

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"I was wondering. What is your biggest worry before meeting a new lover for the first time?

Guys- is it that you’re not going to get it up? Or you’ll shoot too quick?

Ladies- do we even have any worries?

If you mean Fab meets? I don’t have them as I get let down so not worth the effort! I prefer clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Let’s line up the admirers then shall we?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x"

Nothing wrong with your curves girl you are just perfect

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By *risky businessMan over a year ago

A Pharaoh Way

Well because I'm not an oil painting the worry is about getting the meet first more than anything but not getting him up would be so embarrassing glad i dont get that worry yet plenty of life left in him still

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I wish I had the confidence that some people seem to have on here."

Well pics in your profile will help women decide whether they want to start chatting to you or not. It’s a first step

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How do women think some guys think about themselves? We aren't all Adonis but even so there are people that like us like that. Same as women. Don't worry, enjoy the moment.

Sound advice young man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always worry about shooting to quick and disapoint x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I hate the first time being naked in front of someone new, past bad experience causes it.

Im a confident guy but that one experience will never leave me

Let it go. Bad people should be forgotten. It is sad and cruel that these people can leave such an impact on future meets.x"

He just needs a whole lot of appreciate lovers

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"I always worry about shooting to quick and disapoint x"

That is a big worry!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ladies need not to worry your all beautiful in your own ways if a man can't get a hard on clearly no connection there so learn from your mistakes and have a social first even if it's fir 2 mins lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I worry she won’t be able to take my massive nob.

Because I have a massive nob.

It’s so very tough having a massive nob.

Please look at my profile because I have a massive nob.

Did I mention my massive nob?

Do you enjoy disappointing women! I went on search of the the massive nob! No massive nob pictures to be seen. "

I wouldn’t say enjoy.

It’s become kinda my purpose in life.

Sam Tender...

Disappointing woman since 1982.

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Let’s line up the admirers then shall we?

At 2 metres apart it'll be a 4 metre line I think!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was wondering. What is your biggest worry before meeting a new lover for the first time?

Guys- is it that you’re not going to get it up? Or you’ll shoot too quick?

Ladies- do we even have any worries?

I have worried about shooting too quick but I think that comes from knowing that sex of any kind is such a rare thing I almost expect to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

that they won't be what I expect. I've never been wrong but you never know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was wondering. What is your biggest worry before meeting a new lover for the first time?

Guys- is it that you’re not going to get it up? Or you’ll shoot too quick?

Ladies- do we even have any worries?

If you mean Fab meets? I don’t have them as I get let down so not worth the effort! I prefer clubs."

I suppose that’s a brilliant alternative for shy folk too? Never been to a regular sex club myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

Nothing wrong with your curves girl you are just perfect

You tell her lovely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So long as they believe me when I say I am like Dawn French circa Vicar of Dibey then I guess that is part of the hurdle crossed. If I can wear a cassock then woo hoo.

Seriously OP the pics we share on here are always the ones we are happy with. Mine are all me I just never show a full body. Because I don't like my full body.

However I would like to think that anyone I would meet would have got to know my personality and that would make them ignore the rolls and the wobbles as they would be thinking about other things.

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

I am exactly the same, whether it’s an organised social, club visit or private meet. I may come across and confident. However, I’m very body conscious and worry that they’ll not be attracted to me...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That he'll be put off by my body

That I'm a shit shag

And my biggest concern is, are you clean. No std.

Or anything that I need to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well because I'm not an oil painting the worry is about getting the meet first more than anything but not getting him up would be so embarrassing glad i dont get that worry yet plenty of life left in him still

Aww cutie alert. It must be hard for blokes...

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I was wondering. What is your biggest worry before meeting a new lover for the first time?

Guys- is it that you’re not going to get it up? Or you’ll shoot too quick?

Ladies- do we even have any worries?

I have worried about shooting too quick but I think that comes from knowing that sex of any kind is such a rare thing I almost expect to.

I find shooting quickly to be flattering. As long as he doesn't shoot and leave.... Round 2 normally lasts longer

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I always worry about shooting to quick and disapoint x"

That must be really bad I reckon. Guys, what’s your advice for this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ladies need not to worry your all beautiful in your own ways if a man can't get a hard on clearly no connection there so learn from your mistakes and have a social first even if it's fir 2 mins lol"

Honestly? Don’t most people on here have at least a two minute social the first time?

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By *iggle 321Man over a year ago

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

Well I just checked you out and that though most definitely needs to get out of your head. You’re very sexy indeed

Ah bless you, it’s the rolls of fat you can’t see I worry about x

I make it very clear I’m wobbly but because I don’t like what I see I find it hard that anyone else would!

As I said, my issues xx"

Some guys are a shallow as a tea spoon, are these really the kind of guys you want to spend any time with! Some of the greatest art painted or sculpted are of full figure curvy ladies. You should be very proud and of your body as its fabulous!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I worry she won’t be able to take my massive nob.

Because I have a massive nob.

It’s so very tough having a massive nob.

Please look at my profile because I have a massive nob.

Did I mention my massive nob?

Do you enjoy disappointing women! I went on search of the the massive nob! No massive nob pictures to be seen.

I wouldn’t say enjoy.

It’s become kinda my purpose in life.

Sam Tender...

Disappointing woman since 1982.

. Is that for your tombstone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plain and simply ‘will she like me?’

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Let’s line up the admirers then shall we?

At 2 metres apart it'll be a 4 metre line I think!

Oh you and me both know that’s not true

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Plain and simply ‘will she like me?’ "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was wondering. What is your biggest worry before meeting a new lover for the first time?

Guys- is it that you’re not going to get it up? Or you’ll shoot too quick?

Ladies- do we even have any worries?

I have worried about shooting too quick but I think that comes from knowing that sex of any kind is such a rare thing I almost expect to.

Awwww. I’m going to start crying soon... not

. But like I’ve said before, I bet this must be a worry for a lot of men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I worry she won’t be able to take my massive nob.

Because I have a massive nob.

It’s so very tough having a massive nob.

Please look at my profile because I have a massive nob.

Did I mention my massive nob?

Do you enjoy disappointing women! I went on search of the the massive nob! No massive nob pictures to be seen.

I wouldn’t say enjoy.

It’s become kinda my purpose in life.

Sam Tender...

Disappointing woman since 1982.

. Is that for your tombstone?"

I’d go to the afterlife a happy man if it was

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"that they won't be what I expect. I've never been wrong but you never know. "

Oh I get this one. Video chat beforehand?

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Plain and simply ‘will she like me?’ "

That is why i do socials first.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That we wont click as much as I would hope. That there will be something lacking for the chemistry to remain in the air. Or some unexpected element popping up which might put us off each other.

Obviously always worried a little about the physical attraction but if there is a mental one.. common sense of humour and something to talk about.. words flowing and body language mirroring.. these quickly fade away.

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Let’s line up the admirers then shall we?

At 2 metres apart it'll be a 4 metre line I think!

Oh you and me both know that’s not true

We need to talk lovely lady!

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By *FuckingDelightWoman over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

Nothing wrong with your curves girl you are just perfect

Why thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So long as they believe me when I say I am like Dawn French circa Vicar of Dibey then I guess that is part of the hurdle crossed. If I can wear a cassock then woo hoo.

Seriously OP the pics we share on here are always the ones we are happy with. Mine are all me I just never show a full body. Because I don't like my full body.

However I would like to think that anyone I would meet would have got to know my personality and that would make them ignore the rolls and the wobbles as they would be thinking about other things. "

I have just looked at your pics and you know what I see? Boobs. Huge, bouncy, jiggling boobs. What will men see and be captivated by? Let’s think now.... and I believe a lot more men like a soft, biteable body than you think. Fuck the media for making women think otherwise

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By *ichaelsmyMan over a year ago

london

I like a good laugh so personality is as important to me as looks are.

I think if a lady is confident and happy then it comes across as just that.

everyone gets nervous though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I am exactly the same, whether it’s an organised social, club visit or private meet. I may come across and confident. However, I’m very body conscious and worry that they’ll not be attracted to me...

Well I’m not sure why having seen your pics. You’re scrumptious

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By *FuckingDelightWoman over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

Well I just checked you out and that though most definitely needs to get out of your head. You’re very sexy indeed

Ah bless you, it’s the rolls of fat you can’t see I worry about x

I make it very clear I’m wobbly but because I don’t like what I see I find it hard that anyone else would!

As I said, my issues xx

Thank you, that is very kind xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Will he fancy me? Im honest with my pics, and messages, but theres always a doubt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No worries, just hope!

Hope that we'll get along, that we're turned on by each other, etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That he'll be put off by my body

That I'm a shit shag

And my biggest concern is, are you clean. No std.

Or anything that I need to worry about. "

Ok so they have to show a cert at the door and go in the shower before you’ll get down to it. That’s doable. Shit shag as a woman? Nah that’s a worry that the man should have. And your body? He’s already seen what he’s getting and is still there so where’s the problem except in your head? Time for a change in mindset

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By *risky businessMan over a year ago

A Pharaoh Way

Aww cutie alert. It must be hard for blokes..."

I'm hoping it's more wrong timing and when club back open I sure il get notice

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

I don't get worried, I get all giddy and excited...meets are fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was wondering. What is your biggest worry before meeting a new lover for the first time?

Guys- is it that you’re not going to get it up? Or you’ll shoot too quick?

Ladies- do we even have any worries?

I have worried about shooting too quick but I think that comes from knowing that sex of any kind is such a rare thing I almost expect to.

I find shooting quickly to be flattering. As long as he doesn't shoot and leave.... Round 2 normally lasts longer

Yeah and if you need a longer break guys make sure you feed us with good conversation or chocolate as we wait...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

Well I just checked you out and that though most definitely needs to get out of your head. You’re very sexy indeed

Ah bless you, it’s the rolls of fat you can’t see I worry about x

I make it very clear I’m wobbly but because I don’t like what I see I find it hard that anyone else would!

As I said, my issues xx

Well said

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

That I have a habit of talking too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Plain and simply ‘will she like me?’ "

Awwww. Cutie alert. Image ruined forever now you’ve shown your sensitive side

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Plain and simply ‘will she like me?’

Ok....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I worry she won’t be able to take my massive nob.

Because I have a massive nob.

It’s so very tough having a massive nob.

Please look at my profile because I have a massive nob.

Did I mention my massive nob?

Do you enjoy disappointing women! I went on search of the the massive nob! No massive nob pictures to be seen.

I wouldn’t say enjoy.

It’s become kinda my purpose in life.

Sam Tender...

Disappointing woman since 1982.

. Is that for your tombstone?

I’d go to the afterlife a happy man if it was

So when’s the sex change planned?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Plain and simply ‘will she like me?’

That is why i do socials first. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A fab meet?

A. Whether she'll turn up.

B. She's not a bloke..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

30 seconds job done ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That we wont click as much as I would hope. That there will be something lacking for the chemistry to remain in the air. Or some unexpected element popping up which might put us off each other.

Oooof, that’s a lot of anxiousness to bring along. Hopefully it all fades away within a few minutes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Let’s line up the admirers then shall we?

At 2 metres apart it'll be a 4 metre line I think!

Oh you and me both know that’s not true

We need to talk lovely lady! "

Any time

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I like a good laugh so personality is as important to me as looks are.

I think if a lady is confident and happy then it comes across as just that.

everyone gets nervous though"

Not everyone sweetie...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Will he fancy me? Im honest with my pics, and messages, but theres always a doubt"

Scrub that thought out of your brain woman. It’s definitely not needed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No worries, just hope!

Hope that we'll get along, that we're turned on by each other, etc. "

That’s a beautiful thought from a beautiful lady

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Plain and simply ‘will she like me?’

That is why i do socials first.

Exactly

But sometimes these socials finish off in the bedroom. Sometimes you just know what you want is sitting there in front of your eyes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That we wont click as much as I would hope. That there will be something lacking for the chemistry to remain in the air. Or some unexpected element popping up which might put us off each other.

Oooof, that’s a lot of anxiousness to bring along. Hopefully it all fades away within a few minutes? "

Like a magic poof

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x"

You are not and never will be repulsive. Only A fool would think that xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't get worried, I get all giddy and excited...meets are fun

My sentiments exactly gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That I have a habit of talking too much. "

And why’s that bad? You mean non stop, 100 mile a minute banter?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That I don't look good naked or they'll think I'm shit in bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A fab meet?

A. Whether she'll turn up.

B. She's not a bloke..

Ok A might be real, I get it but B? Can’t you check via video chat beforehand?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

I always worry i won't insist on safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I worry about everything...but mainly will I look how they think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"30 seconds job done ??"

Is this your worry or past performances?

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

I don't know really from where first start

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By *risky businessMan over a year ago

A Pharaoh Way

"That I don't look good naked or they'll think I'm shit in bed"

For a start you look stunning

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Plain and simply ‘will she like me?’

That is why i do socials first.

Exactly

But sometimes these socials finish off in the bedroom. Sometimes you just know what you want is sitting there in front of your eyes

Only sometimes? Mine always do...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

You are not and never will be repulsive. Only A fool would think that xx"

Good man

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That I don't look good naked or they'll think I'm shit in bed"

I bet they’re thinking exactly the same when they’re looking at the beauty that’s you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So long as they believe me when I say I am like Dawn French circa Vicar of Dibey then I guess that is part of the hurdle crossed. If I can wear a cassock then woo hoo.

Seriously OP the pics we share on here are always the ones we are happy with. Mine are all me I just never show a full body. Because I don't like my full body.

However I would like to think that anyone I would meet would have got to know my personality and that would make them ignore the rolls and the wobbles as they would be thinking about other things.

I think some of it comes down to would they be happy being seen in public with me. If so then more than half the naked element is covered.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A fab meet?

A. Whether she'll turn up.

B. She's not a bloke..

Ok A might be real, I get it but B? Can’t you check via video chat beforehand?"

'Show me your fanny' seems so inappropriate for a video chat..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I always worry i won't insist on safe sex. "

Ah temptation... as long as it’s been discussed beforehand, shouldn’t be a problem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I worry about everything...but mainly will I look how they think.

Hello gorgeous. Welcome back. You’re just crazy. Batshit crazy.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"I always worry i won't insist on safe sex.

Ah temptation... as long as it’s been discussed beforehand, shouldn’t be a problem? "

Ive never discussed it before hand. It's not a sexy subject.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't know really from where first start

At the beginning?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I worry about everything...but mainly will I look how they think.

Hello gorgeous. Welcome back. You’re just crazy. Batshit crazy.

Shhhh dont tell them, they think I'm normal

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Seriously OP the pics we share on here are always the ones we are happy with. Mine are all me I just never show a full body. Because I don't like my full body.

However I would like to think that anyone I would meet would have got to know my personality and that would make them ignore the rolls and the wobbles as they would be thinking about other things.

I think some of it comes down to would they be happy being seen in public with me. If so then more than half the naked element is covered."

That’s a different issue I think. What do you mean seen in public? Pub drink? Shopping in M&S? Anne Summers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A fab meet?

A. Whether she'll turn up.

B. She's not a bloke..

Ok A might be real, I get it but B? Can’t you check via video chat beforehand?

'Show me your fanny' seems so inappropriate for a video chat.."

You need to train your powers of seduction

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I always worry i won't insist on safe sex.

Ah temptation... as long as it’s been discussed beforehand, shouldn’t be a problem?

Ive never discussed it before hand. It's not a sexy subject. "

But an important one if you’re prone to this temptation?

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I worry about everything...but mainly will I look how they think.

Hello gorgeous. Welcome back. You’re just crazy. Batshit crazy.

Shhhh dont tell them, they think I'm normal

I would be concerned that they think I'm many things that I may not be

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I worry about everything...but mainly will I look how they think.

Hello gorgeous. Welcome back. You’re just crazy. Batshit crazy.

Shhhh dont tell them, they think I'm normal

Only the ones that don’t know you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I worry about everything...but mainly will I look how they think.

Hello gorgeous. Welcome back. You’re just crazy. Batshit crazy.

Shhhh dont tell them, they think I'm normal

I would be concerned that they think I'm many things that I may not be

Hello you. The conundrum that’s Sensualtouch15

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By *FuckingDelightWoman over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

You are not and never will be repulsive. Only A fool would think that xx"

Mmmmmmm. Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That I’ll be rumbled for actually being closer to 5” 7 . Damn it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That I’ll be rumbled for actually being closer to 5” 7 . Damn it

That made me smile

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By *iggle 321Man over a year ago

Trust me being six foot five ain't no picnic either as most trousers I wear I look like in expecting a flood or about to do the moonwalk!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where to start...

Firstly that they are who they say they are

Secondly that I won’t be too giddy, giggly and talkative because well, words leave my mouth before my brain engages when I’m nervous!

And thirdly that they will find me attractive when my clothes are off. Yeh, this is the worst one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Trust me being six foot five ain't no picnic either as most trousers I wear I look like in expecting a flood or about to do the moonwalk!

Sounds good to me and Tina lot of other women on here I bet

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

This

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By *ilverminxWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

Fear that if you don’t feel a click, they won’t take no for an answer leading to abuse or worse.

Also, the usual, what if I’ve oversold myself and they don’t feel attracted to me in person.

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By *ourayloversCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x"

I'm the same

Lou x

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Trust me being six foot five ain't no picnic either as most trousers I wear I look like in expecting a flood or about to do the moonwalk!

Sounds good to me and Tina lot of other women on here I bet

Does indeed!

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Dunno if it's nerves about one particular thing, just general pre-match nerves...mixed with a semi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Where to start...

Firstly that they are who they say they are

Secondly that I won’t be too giddy, giggly and talkative because well, words leave my mouth before my brain engages when I’m nervous!

And thirdly that they will find me attractive when my clothes are off. Yeh, this is the worst one

Giddy with laughter is contagious and I bet nobody minds. Your body from your profile pic looks like a genuine human female so let that last one go!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seriously OP the pics we share on here are always the ones we are happy with. Mine are all me I just never show a full body. Because I don't like my full body.

However I would like to think that anyone I would meet would have got to know my personality and that would make them ignore the rolls and the wobbles as they would be thinking about other things.

I think some of it comes down to would they be happy being seen in public with me. If so then more than half the naked element is covered.

That’s a different issue I think. What do you mean seen in public? Pub drink? Shopping in M&S? Anne Summers?

I went on a first date once with a guy from a traditional dating site. I had told him I was big which he said he was cool with. We had got on like a house on fire online. We were due to meet at Embankment tube and walk over the bridge to the Southbank for a drink.

Well it was fair to say that this was his face upon seeing me

although to be fair he was a few inches shorter than he laid claim to. With his rucksack on walking over the river I felt like I had a nephew with me.

Completely disastrous so I guess what I mean is that chat on here is all very well but would a guy be happy to be seen by my side walking from a bar to a hotel. Not worried about what people might think about the woman he was with. I hope that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This

Really? You too? That’s not good. I imagine the guy/lady can’t wait to see what’s under your Mac!

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By *FuckingDelightWoman over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

I'm the same

Lou x"

You look perfect to me xx

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By *uriousscouserWoman over a year ago

Wirral

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x"

This^

I always worry that I'll whip my kit off, they'll take one look and change their mind.

It hasn't happened yet, but the fear is real. I think that's why I prefer ongoing FB arrangements to one-offs; once I've got naked once and they've not recoiled in horror I'm never bothered about getting my kit off in front of that person again, but the first time is always terrifying.

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By *iggle 321Man over a year ago

"Trust me being six foot five ain't no picnic either as most trousers I wear I look like in expecting a flood or about to do the moonwalk!

Sounds good to me and Tina lot of other women on here I bet

Does indeed! "

If I fell over twice I would land in England and yes I have to jump around in the shower to get wet and no I don't have seagulls circling my head! Lol I have heard them all! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fear that if you don’t feel a click, they won’t take no for an answer leading to abuse or worse.

Also, the usual, what if I’ve oversold myself and they don’t feel attracted to me in person. "

The first one can be resolved through contact beforehand surely? And the second one? They’re the lucky ones as you’ve chosen them. Don’t forget that lovely...

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By *ugarrainMan over a year ago

Paisley

If she is attractive....and clean. Once met a lady for a 3-some for the first time and she "browned' her own cream leather sofa during the sesdion?! ????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Dunno if it's nerves about one particular thing, just general pre-match nerves...mixed with a semi. "

Isn’t that called excitement?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A fab meet?

A. Whether she'll turn up.

B. She's not a bloke..

Ok A might be real, I get it but B? Can’t you check via video chat beforehand?

'Show me your fanny' seems so inappropriate for a video chat..

You need to train your powers of seduction

faf?......

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By *amescoupleCouple over a year ago

north walsham

C- mostly the loose areas after losing lots of weight. It’s another reason lingerie is always worn.

M- scars on my torso. Always think someone will be repulsed by them.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

o o OO o o

I hope they are chatty because I’m incredibly shy and chatty people take the pressure off doing small talk.

I hope they smell nice.

I hope they are chilled, relaxed and funny in the way I like my people to be funny..

I hope I find them attractive.

I hope they find me attractive.

I hope there is chemistry.

I hope there is a toilet close by (nervous tummy etc).

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

I'm always pleasantly surprised and very happy when women DO turn out to be bigger than they present themselves online

More curves the better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Seriously OP the pics we share on here are always the ones we are happy with. Mine are all me I just never show a full body. Because I don't like my full body.

However I would like to think that anyone I would meet would have got to know my personality and that would make them ignore the rolls and the wobbles as they would be thinking about other things.

I think some of it comes down to would they be happy being seen in public with me. If so then more than half the naked element is covered.

That’s a different issue I think. What do you mean seen in public? Pub drink? Shopping in M&S? Anne Summers?

Well it was fair to say that this was his face upon seeing me

although to be fair he was a few inches shorter than he laid claim to. With his rucksack on walking over the river I felt like I had a nephew with me.

Oh that’s bad. Not awful but bad. And we live and learn.....

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

"If she is attractive....and clean. Once met a lady for a 3-some for the first time and she "browned' her own cream leather sofa during the sesdion?! ????????"

Oh dear. Not good

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x

This^

I always worry that I'll whip my kit off, they'll take one look and change their mind.

Are you crazy woman? Any man would think he’s in heaven with you allowing him access to your body!

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

OP, what do you worry about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Trust me being six foot five ain't no picnic either as most trousers I wear I look like in expecting a flood or about to do the moonwalk!

Sounds good to me and Tina lot of other women on here I bet

Does indeed!

If I fell over twice I would land in England and yes I have to jump around in the shower to get wet and no I don't have seagulls circling my head! Lol I have heard them all! Thanks

See? Someone appreciates you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If she is attractive....and clean. Once met a lady for a 3-some for the first time and she "browned' her own cream leather sofa during the sesdion?! ????????"

That’s just ewww. Out of curiosity. Did you continue?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A fab meet?

A. Whether she'll turn up.

B. She's not a bloke..

Ok A might be real, I get it but B? Can’t you check via video chat beforehand?

'Show me your fanny' seems so inappropriate for a video chat..

You need to train your powers of seduction

faf?......

Well that’s a start

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I was wondering. What is your biggest worry before meeting a new lover for the first time?

Guys- is it that you’re not going to get it up? Or you’ll shoot too quick?

Ladies- do we even have any worries?

Will she live up to my expectations

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That I’ll be rumbled for actually being closer to 5” 7 . Damn it

That made me smile

Your profile made me smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"C- mostly the loose areas after losing lots of weight. It’s another reason lingerie is always worn.

M- scars on my torso. Always think someone will be repulsed by them. "

Well lingerie is sexy as fuck if you ask me and anyone who is repulsed by scars just isn’t worth getting intimate with at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Dunno if it's nerves about one particular thing, just general pre-match nerves...mixed with a semi. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I hope they are chatty because I’m incredibly shy and chatty people take the pressure off doing small talk.

I hope they smell nice.

I hope they are chilled, relaxed and funny in the way I like my people to be funny..

I hope I find them attractive.

I hope they find me attractive.

I hope there is chemistry.

I hope there is a toilet close by (nervous tummy etc)."

Bloody hell woman that’s a long list! I hope it’s all over within the first five mins?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had sooooooo many.

Will he find me attractive in person? Are my pictures reflective of me? Will he find my voice annoying? Are we going to have the same chemistry in organic conversation that we do in written messages? Is he meeting me for a bet or dare? Is he going to be a serial killer?

I think most people have moments of self doubt at one point or another

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Crikey - you've a lovely figure and really nothing to worry about. Embrace your lovely figure! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm always pleasantly surprised and very happy when women DO turn out to be bigger than they present themselves online

More curves the better. "

Oooh liking you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just hope I'm not gonna fart on my first meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP, what do you worry about? "

I honestly don’t worry about anything. Just curious...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That, despite them knowing I’m not slim, they will find my body repulsive

Probs just me that thinks that though x"

Another lady who has a lovely figure and who should be embracing it! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was wondering. What is your biggest worry before meeting a new lover for the first time?

Guys- is it that you’re not going to get it up? Or you’ll shoot too quick?

Ladies- do we even have any worries?

Will she live up to my expectations"

I get that one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That I’ll be rumbled for actually being closer to 5” 7 . Damn it

That made me smile

Your profile made me smile

Good

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

o o OO o o

"I hope they are chatty because I’m incredibly shy and chatty people take the pressure off doing small talk.

I hope they smell nice.

I hope they are chilled, relaxed and funny in the way I like my people to be funny..

I hope I find them attractive.

I hope they find me attractive.

I hope there is chemistry.

I hope there is a toilet close by (nervous tummy etc).

Bloody hell woman that’s a long list! I hope it’s all over within the first five mins?

Sometimes. But it’s one of the reasons I don’t meet new people that often, makes it less fun and turns it into an ordeal. Second meets onwards etc. are fine.

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